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Ann Fletcher Obituary

Ann Fletcher
February 23, 2023
Morro Bay, California -
Shirley Ann Fletcher was born in 1950 in Sacramento, California. As a young girl, she won many awards in gymnastics competitions throughout California. She was fascinated with ancient Egypt, so she studied many books about the topic. Ann also memorized the name and appearance of every breed of dogs recognized by the AKC. She enjoyed tap dancing and performed on a popular TV show for children and at Sacramento area venues.
When she was 12, her father taught her how to drive the family car. A year later, she evaded park rangers while driving her parents throughout Death Valley National Park. Her father bought a quarter-midget race car so she could drive it on dirt roads. The family took many road trips throughout the US, exploring many National Parks and visiting relatives.
In high school, Ann continued competing in gymnastics and was a cheerleader. In summer months, she camped and water skied on lakes throughout northern California. Later in life, the last time she skied was on the Colorado River in the desert at night, under a full moon, as wild burros watched her from the riverbank.
There were few career options for girls in the 1960s, so Ann concentrated on secretarial and accounting skills in high school so she could support herself. At 17, she was hired by the largest Ford dealership in northern California, and she moved out of her parent's home soon afterwards. Five years later, she was asked to be the dealership's first female salesperson, and the owners of a super-modified race car wanted to sponsor her to be the first female driver at Sacramento's Capitol Raceway. Ann turned down both offers and bought a one-way ticket to Hawaii instead. Within a week after arriving in Lahaina on the island of Maui, she found two jobs and a roommate. They rented a fully-furnished condo on the beach for just $350 per month.
After leaving Lahaina, she moved to Santa Barbara and worked for Powell Skateboards. A few years later, she left Santa Barbara to travel the southwestern states with a friend in a VW pop-top camper van. Ann also experienced living on a 50' fishing vessel in Sausalito and exploring the San Francisco Bay.
In 1981, Ann moved to San Luis Obispo County and was hired to be the Administrative Assistant to the Fire Chief of Morro Bay Fire Dept. To entertain children, she created a Sparky the Fire Dog costume and rode along with Smokey the Bear on antique fire trucks in many parades. She also audited an Emergency Medical Technician course to expand her life skills. After leaving MBFD, she was the supervisor of the Records Division at San Luis Obispo Police Department. At the age of 52, Ann retired after working as a Human Resources Specialist with the SLO County Office of Education. She also volunteered for nine years at the SLO Performing Arts Center.
Ann purchased a fixer-upper home in Atascadero before she retired. Throughout her life, her father taught her construction and maintenance skills, and she enjoyed working on projects such as ripping out wall-to-wall carpeting and baseboards, painting, landscaping, and building fences. For six months, she worked on her elderly father's home and land in the Sierra Nevada foothills so he could sell his property and move to Morro Bay.
At the age of 56, Ann was diagnosed with cancer. The day after completing her year-long treatments, she and her dog, Gypsy, took a month-long road trip throughout Oregon in her RV. After returning from her trip, she started the Atascadero Fun Club to provide activities for SLO County seniors with help from the Atascadero Recreation Dept. and other volunteers. She also started pickleball activities at the Atascadero Community Center.
In 2016, Ann had emergency surgery to remove a malignant brain tumor. Following surgery, she had physical therapy and endured several difficult radiation treatments. Because of her inner-strength and perseverance, and with the loving support from her friends, she was back on the courts playing pickleball just seven months following her surgery. In 2019, following a second surgery to remove another brain tumor, she told her doctors she wanted to stop her cancer treatments, and she was placed on Hospice with the prognosis she would have only about two months to live. She could no longer drive, so she sold her Templeton home, donated her possessions to a local non-profit for a fundraiser, and moved into a senior residential facility.
Ann was determined to move forward and enjoy her life and to be productive despite her prognosis and the difficulties and challenges she faced. She compiled a 200-page book on her family history for the State Historical Society of Missouri. Ann dispersed her collection of over 150 original photographs from the late 1800s to early 1900s throughout the US and Canada after various historical societies requested the photos for their archives, and she donated over 50 photographs to the US Library of Congress so they could be preserved.
In 2020, Ann resumed writing a book of short stories based on some of the events in her life and self-published her book. She also wrote articles for Hospice organizations and cancer support groups to help and inspire others who faced health challenges. In 2021, she became an advocate to improve a variety of services for seniors by working with State and local agencies and organizations.
Ann peacefully transitioned from her physical presence into Spirit on February 23, 2023, in Morro Bay, California. Ann was grateful for the kindness and love she received from her special family members Dennis, Carmen, and Andrea; her extended family of wonderful friends; and her end-of-life Doula, Karen. To honor her wishes, no memorial service will be held. Memorial donations can be made to HospiceSLO.org; WoodsHumaneSociety.org; or DogsForBetterLives.org.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Mar. 19, 2023.

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Denise

March 18, 2024

I´m so glad that fate had Annie and I cross paths that day at Atascadero Lake back in 2019 (or was it 2018?). Annie was such a special, kind and caring person who I´m blessed to have known, to have spent time with her, shared stories of our lives, have a signed copy of her self-published book, as well as another page she shared to help others who might find themselves on hospice.

The photo is from a therapy dog visit with Annie and others where she was living at the time (unfortunately, I lost the photo that included Annie´s face in it). We managed to continue visits even through covid. Annie provided fresh water for the local deer at the residence where this photo was taken, and we were all watching the deer as they were getting closer and closer to us.

Judy Densmore (Anderson)

March 12, 2024

Shirley and I go way back as young teenagers in Sacramento. We were best friends. We stayed at each other´s houses, went on family vacations together, proms with our boyfriends, pegged out jeans the same (they didn´t manufacture Skinny Jeans back then so we made them ourselves), stood up for each other at our weddings. My heart is broken that she is gone; yet, I was so fortunate to have her in my life.
I will never forget you my dear
friend! Judy Densmore.

Dionne

June 1, 2023

Annie, You were always the kind of woman I wanted to be: Sure of herself, taking no guff from anyone but doing so in a firm and reasonable way, tempered with decency. You were funny, and always had a mischievous twinkle in your eye. Your love of animals was unparalleled, as was your love of good Blues music. I'm glad you are going on road trips again with the General and Gypsy. Happy voyages!

Naomi

May 16, 2023

I love you Sweet Annie, our paths will definitely cross again someday. You were the beautiful light that gave me so much encouragement and courage to "live my best life!" I will miss our endless laughter together, forever. You always had the right words at the right time. You were a true Warrior Woman and ever SO brave! "Till we meet again my sweet Friend..."
Love You Forever,
Your next door Garden Girl

Tammy

April 12, 2023

Annie was a wonderful person and friend! I loved every moment I spent with her. Her courage in moving forward with her life was so amazing after finding out she had cancer. She would refer to it as little bunnies that kept popping up. I do miss her...

Rita

April 2, 2023

A treasure to have had an opportunity to know this amazing woman briefly during the last years of her life.

John

March 31, 2023

A truly brave ,courageous ,and remarkable woman.Dedicated to making seniors life better. She is surely to be reunited with her beloved father "the general". Her laughter and sound of her voice was a joy to be a part of. Thanks for making the
Central Coast and the world a better place

Chris Dexter

March 22, 2023

Ann was an incredible woman, so talented, so smart, so loving, so giving of her time and talents. She always had a sweet disposition about her. We will all miss her.

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