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Doris Steiner Obituary

Doris Gladys Steiner, 79, was born in St. Louis, Mo., to Gladys and William Loehr, and died Sunday, Nov. 13, 2011, at home surrounded by her husband, children and grandchildren. She had a long and courageous battle with Scleroderma for 35 years while maintaining a zest for life that was an inspiration to all who knew her. She never stopped enjoying life to the fullest. Doris married Dick Steiner on June 26, 1954, in Chicago, Ill. She graduated from Chicago Teachers College in June 1954. After briefly teaching in the Chicago Public School System, she retired to spend her time as a stay at home mom to raise her five children. She always said that was the most important job. Doris and Dick moved to the San Fernando Valley in 1956 and to the Central Coast in 1991 after having spent 27 years in Northridge, Calif. Doris sold office equipment for Chaparral Business Machines in the early 1990s and was a top sales person. She was an avid bridge player and a member of many party and duplicate bridge groups. If anyone needed help with the bidding protocol they would always seek help from Doris.  She also liked to play poker and pinochle with her relatives and friends. She was an accomplished painter and enjoyed giving her paintings to her friends and family and enjoyed passing on her painting talents to her grandchildren. She liked to travel with Dick and the two traveled extensively throughout North America, Europe, South Africa, Asia and Australia and New Zealand. She was very successful on many TV game shows such as "Let''s Make a Deal and Truth or Consequences." On "Dealer''s Choice" she stated her occupation as "race car driver." With obvious dismay to the emcee, she explained that she drove her children to school every day. She was a world class shopper who could always find the best bargains and spent much time shopping at the LA Mart in Los Angeles with her friends. Doris was an excellent cook and baker. One of her most successful items was the Chocolate Easter eggs she made for all her children and grandchildren.  One of Dick''s father''s quotes was "Nobody can prepare a meal faster than Doris."  She made sure no one was ever hungry or went without dessert. She had a knack for making everyone she met feel comfortable in their conversations. She also was a very loyal friend. You could always count on Doris to do the right thing in all her relationships. Doris is survived by her husband, Dick; five children Susan of Laguna Niguel, Calif., Thomas of Quartz Hill, Calif., Mary (Bill) of Danville, Calif., Linda (Brian) of San Jose, Calif., and Donald (Rose) of Newport Beach, Calif.; 10 grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. Viewing will be from 5 to 6:30 p.m., with a vigil and the recitation of the rosary at 6:30 p.m., Thursday, Nov. 17, 2011, at Reis Family Mortuary, 991 Nipomo in San Luis Obispo. A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Friday, Nov. 18, 2011, at the Old Mission in San Luis Obispo, with burial at Los Osos Valley Memorial Park in Los Osos.  In lieu of flowers, have a Mass celebrated for Doris at your own church or through the Seraphic Mass Association, (877) 737-9050, http://www.seraphicmass.org/cards_info.asp; or send a donation to the Scleroderma Foundation, Attn: Donations, 300 Rosewood Dr., Ste. 105, Danvers, MA 01923, (800) 722-4673. 

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Nov. 16, 2011.

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Martin Orozco

November 17, 2011

I have known Doris since I was 6 years old, being Don's best friend since that time. She was an incredible mother, kind, loving, energetic, funny and a great cook. She always gave great advice and although, I was not her biological son, she treated me like her own. She will be missed by us all, but never, ever forgotten.

Cathy Sell

November 17, 2011

Doris & I were girlhood friends in Chicago. She was an only chid and I was from a family of 7 kids. We spent a lot of time together! Her mother took us to many places, once to Brookfirld Zoo , a journey on public transportation. For a short time she moved to Texas and we corresponded by mail. She educated me about segregration. She returned to Chicago andwe went to High School together.

November 16, 2011

Don-
I vividly remember the long walk I took with your mom on their property in SLO when you invited Cassie and me to drive up with you for Thanksgiving 18 years ago. I have no idea why it was just the two of us but I distinctly remember walking up and down the rolling hills doing more listening that talking, which as you know is not a common occurrence. If I remember correctly she may have actually been selling office equipment at the time because she was giving me all kinds of sales advice (something I desperately needed, considering I hadn't sold very much at The Optimus Group at that point! J). She had so much energy and zip in her step, which was required because it seemed like we had walked halfway to Santa Barbara before turning back to come home. Hopefully this is the way you and your family are able to remember you mother—full of life, energetic, engaging.

Good luck tomorrow from Cassie and me on what will surely be a difficult day for your entire family and friends who will be with you.

November 16, 2011

Doris was a sensationl individual. She was friendly, intelligent, caring, kind, clever,
fun-loving, outgoing. She always had a smile. One could only love and admire Doris for her charismatic personality. She was friend to all. God is enjoying playing bridge with Doris and guaranteed to have the best cards. We all loved Doris. We will all miss her so much.

Douglas Hewitson

November 16, 2011

An amazingly warm, energetic and engaging woman who along with Dick has left a lasting impression on me for over 40 years. Thankfully she also left a wonderful legacy for us all with her children and grandchildren. Rest in Peace...

Anne McGlynn

November 16, 2011

I met Doris through bridge. Both she and her husband, Dick, brought humor and smarts to the table but both of them brought a lot more than that. Down-to-earth Doris was always a delight to be around. I loved the banter between Dick and Doris when they had differing views on how a hand should be played but mostly I appreciated being in the company of two people who had been together for a long time and were so natural with each other. Families like the Steiners are in short supply these days. Thankfully Doris will live on through her children, grand children and great grandchildren. She accomplished much while she was here amongst us. May she rest in peace.

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