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Jeff Smailes Obituary

Jeff Smailes Jeff Smailes passed away Sunday June 7, 2015, after a brief illness. He was 51 years old. Jeff was a man who was full of life, a man who brought people together, a man who never met a stranger, a man who was outrageous and fun. Jeff enjoyed life to the fullest. He would never turn down a round of golf or a White Russian. His sense of humor was second to none. He was always the life of the party. Jeff was the youngest of seven children, the last boy after five sisters and a brother. Being raised in a large family seemed to have taught him how to become a patient, kind and sensitive person. Many people consider Jeff their best friend. Life will never be the same without Jeff, everyone who knew him will miss him terribly. We miss you already "Smiles!" A quote by Hunter S. Thompson sums up Jeff's approach to life perfectly: "Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!" Please join his friends and family for a Celebration of Jeff's Life on Friday, June 19, from 3:00 to 8:00pm at the San Luis Obispo Elks Lodge. Sign his guestbook at sanluisobispo.com/obituaries

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Jun. 14, 2015.

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Cliff Overton

June 19, 2015

Jeff, so siad to hear you left us so soon! i want to thank you for your friendship, which began back in 1976 when i first moved to Simi Valley, so many fun and crazy times, memories that can never be forgotten. RIP my friend.

Joanna

June 18, 2015

Just makes me sad inside. If I needed a smile I knew who to call. Always the laugh... plus cough when he meant it! Definitely had a knack for finding the coolest pad and making it original. The world loses a fun loving and caring man. I will never forget you my friend. Thank you for always being you and just letting everyone else be us. Hugs and a heavy good bye old friend.

Dave Myers

June 16, 2015

Jeff, you are one of a kind. Never met anyone like you and loved every minute of being with you!
Many, many great memories my friend!
Dave Myers

leah minnala

June 16, 2015

Smailes!! I love and miss you deeply. I still hear your voice sayin to me..wazzz up! I smile everytime i hear it in my head. I definitely miss chipping golf balls from one house to another on peach n osos. Your always on mind and u were the big older brother i never had. Always in my heart. Love you

June 15, 2015

Jeff, you always lifted me up for a hug when we got to see each other! Miss your stories...always enjoyed hearing the latest. Rest in peace big little brother.

Leah & David Villa

June 15, 2015

Lighting a candle for ya, Jeff! It was fun to know you! We will always treasure your sweet beach picture postcard!

Jacque Murphy

June 15, 2015

Jeffrey I can't imagine my life without you in it. When we were kids it was you and I against the world. We had so many good times that I will remember forever. I love you baby brother!

June 15, 2015

Jeff, thanks for all the fun, laughter and the happy times we shared. you meant so much to so many. God bless xx Lisa

Bill Smailes

June 14, 2015

Miss you baby brother. Mom and Dad can look after you now. Rest in peace with no worries or problems.

Ann Myers

June 14, 2015

Jeff you were a part of my family for many many years. You will be greatly missed, no one will ever take your place. You will be in my heart for ever. You are in great company, we miss you and wish you were still here with us. See you later!

June 14, 2015

We all miss you baby brother! You were always good company! Love, Mary

Jeanette Paolucci

June 14, 2015

You were my best friend, I loved you so much!

Smailes, a wonderful man taken way too early!

zerviah clapp

June 14, 2015

My friend, my confidant with a world of love in his heart for me and whomever touched his life, I miss you, your witty, "would I lie to you, I can't make these things up", he's say, always in my heart.

Jeanette Paolucci

June 14, 2015

I loved you so much Jeff! I am going to miss the hell out of you!!

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