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Jesse Clapp Obituary
Always full of energy and fun, Jesse was a natural athlete who loved the outdoors and excelled in whatever sport interested him, whether it was surfing, golf, camping and hiking, or his favorites, baseball and running. A hugely passionate fan as well, Jesse closely followed the Los Angeles Angels of Anaheim and the Boston Red Sox.
Nicknamed Yoshi by his Japanese grandmother, Jesse was also an ardent buff of World War II history, reading books and watching TV shows about it. Cooking was also one of his loves and he was quite the budding chef. Whatever it was he chose to do, he worked hard at it and went at things with passion and heart. Most importantly, he was a loyal friend and loving son, brother, and uncle. Jesse will be missed by all, but most of all, by his identical twin brother with whom he shared an unbreakable bond.
Jesse is survived by his twin brother Cameron, his parents, Berny (Mother) and Bill (Stepfather) Crane and Donnie (Father) and Vickie (Stepmother) Clapp; his siblings Dillon Clapp, Rosanna Clapp, Camille Clapp-Page; stepsiblings Cadin Crane, Chase Crane, Kenny Muskat, Donny Muskat, Ashley Muskat; half-brother Gabriel Williams; niece Pepper Page; and nephews Ozzy Page and Chili Williams.
A memorial service will be held 4 PM Tuesday, Jan. 8, 2008 at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 2600 Ramona Road in Atascadero. For more information, please call Vickie Clapp at (805) 813-3818. Flowers are welcomed and also, in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to either or both of the following: the Wounded Warrior Project at: www.wounded warriorproject.org or the Challenged Athletes Foundation at: www.challengedathletes.org .
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Memories and Condolences
for Jesse Clapp
Chrissie Clapp
January 23, 2008
While I never met Don's kids, I am saddened to hear the news of the loss of one of the athletic Clapp family. I hope your family will continue to find peace in giving to others and find solace in each other strengthened by the prayers and thoughts going out to you.
Lisa Clapp-DeFonte
January 20, 2008
Dear Clapp Family-We just met Donnie in March for the first time-
Heard the word thru the family grapevine-Just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you all of the the strength to get through your trauma.
With much love and prayer,
Atlee Clapp,
Lisa Clapp-DeFonte,
Robert, Kerry, Michael and Laura DeFonte.
Amber Shelton
January 14, 2008
Cameron and family, as you go on everyday remember the smile Jesse always had, never a dull moment. He lived his life for his family and friends and through everything him and Camerons bond grew with each waking day..He is loved by many and we will all miss him dearly...May god be with you and your family and may many hands touch you during this time of pain..But always remember he wouldn't want to see your your eyes of sorrow but eyes of rejoice for him.. He loved You Cameron and your bond will always be..Love you good friend!!
Sirena Ellsworth
January 13, 2008
I have known Jesse and his family since early 1990. I am grieved to hear of Jesse's passing from this mortal existence. My prayers are with Donnie, Bernie and their families. Cameron, please know that your brother may be gone from your view, but he is just beyond the veil, where he awaits the return of all of you, to be reunited, together forever, as a family. May your sorrow be lightened and your grief turned over to "HIM" who loves you most.
In humble love and prayers....Sirena (Shahan) Ellsworth
Lori Hall
January 11, 2008
I met Jesse and Cameron at the Horace Grant Basketball Camp this past Summer. I was the camp photographer and have posted a favorite photo of Jesse, Horace & Cameron on this site. My thoughts are with the family and I am sorry for your loss.
Jesse & Cameron with Horace Grant at the HG Basketball Camp, June 2007
January 11, 2008
Jennifer Rushlow
January 10, 2008
Jesse I Love You!! I’m so broken I’m going to miss you more then words can express! You were a grate friend/boyfriend and I will always cherish the time we had together!! But I know your in a better place now and you’ll be the best guardian angel for all of us! I love you so much and rest in peace Love! ….. To Cameron and the rest of the family we all love you so and are here to ketch your tears!!! Pleas every one keep them all in your prayers!………………….. Goodbye my friend I LOVE YOU!!
Mary Leighton
January 9, 2008
For Cameron: you and your family are in our thoughts, we love you..love your heart and passion..even though I never met your brother Jesse I feel as though we did by meeting you and hearing your stories at camp! Because he was your twin he had to have been so special. Words can not change anything BUT we LOVE you!
From Mary and the Camp No Limits Family
January 9, 2008
Dearest Bill and Berny,
We are so sorry for the loss of Jesse. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You hold a special place in our lives, and it breaks our heart that you have to go through this difficult time. We love you,
Isabella, Monette, and Andre Avaregan
Andrea Lecca
January 9, 2008
Voglio esprimere le mie condoglianze stando vicino a Cameron e alla sua famiglia. Anche in Italia Jesse era ben voluto. Mi ha addolorato moltissimo la notizia, Andrea.
Brian Howell
January 9, 2008
To the Clapp family, I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you all. God bless Jesse...
Hayes Murray
January 8, 2008
Jesse will be dearly missed. He deeply touched and inspired everyone that knew him. Jesse was a great friend.
Joanie & Todd, Hillary & Dustin Virgil
January 8, 2008
Jesse - the memorial service was a fitting tribute - but you know that since you were there. You are so well-loved; the way you filled the room today was amazing.... Cameron's words struck a cord; when he said you will continue living on through him - each person who heard that knows it's true. You will be missed by everyone whose lives you touched. May we all learn the lessons you had to teach, Jesse Clapp. God speed, right winds, love, and all blessings.
Julia Perez
January 8, 2008
Jesse~
Though we didn't hang out much in school, I remember you and Cameron from junior high. Time has gone by so fast since then, and I hope you lived each day to the fullest. My heart goes out to you and your family; I'll never forget you.
Melinda & Chad Patton
January 8, 2008
Dear Cameron & Family,
As you share this time of sorrow as a family, may you draw strength from one another. Chad and I were so saddened to hear about Jesse. I personally remember you boys being so energetic and so full of life back in the day and life of Pismo Heights. The loss of a child/brother is so difficult and we know that pain from our loss son/brother, and we are here for you. Please know our thoughts & prayers are with you. Remember when someone you love becomes a memory the memory becomes a treasure you cherish forever. Jesse, you will be greatly missed!
Marina Mikkelsen
January 8, 2008
Jesse, you were my first love. I am heartbroken to hear the news. I give my condolences to Cameron and the family, you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Goodbye Jesse, I will never forget you. I love you and miss you.
Sharon Rhine
January 8, 2008
Jesse you are in our hearts especially with fond memories of your talent on the baseball field. You were then and will always be a "Star" to us.
Love
Bud, Sharon, Amanda, Scott Rhine
Bob Tedone
January 8, 2008
I was so sad when I read Jesse's obituary. He and Cameron were students of mine. Both young men were great kids that I enjoyed a lot. Jesse will be missed by me and all of us at San Gabriel School.
Megan Doty
January 8, 2008
The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:
He leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul:
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for His name' sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil: For thou art with me;
Thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies;
Thou annointest my head with oil; My cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the House of the Lord forever. The 23rd Psalm.
Jesse, you were always full of energy, happiness, and love. You blessed everyone who you ever met. Rest In Peace, for you are one of God's new Angels now. Cammy, and family, I am so sorry. My prayers are with you all.
Mario Estrada, Jr
January 7, 2008
I only knew Jessie for a short time after they moved in next door and we became neighbors. Wish we could have played another round of horseshoes.
Monte and Collette Pendleton
January 7, 2008
Dear Bill , Berny and Families, We were so saddened to hear about Jesse.The loss of a child is so difficult. No bond is stronger than that of a parent and child. Our hearts go out to all of you today and in the days ahead. May your memeories of Jesse bring you great comfort.Please accept our deepest sympathy and prayers. We hated to see you leave and have missed all of you. Love to you all, Monte and Collette Pendleton Arroyo Grande, Ca.
Mcsweeney Family
January 7, 2008
I only met you a few times Jessie, but I got a sense that you were an old spirit, like an warrior or a guide. Now you must continue on and find your own path. You must watch over and guide those who miss you .
TYLER ALLEN
January 7, 2008
JESSE AKA YOSH
YOU WERE ALWAYS POSITIVE AND HAPPY, ALWAYS A GOOD HOMIE. I AM SO GLAD THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY MOVED ON THE HILL AND WE ALL BECAME SO CLOSE OF FRIENDS. WHETHER WE WERE HITTING GOLF BALLS INTO THE CANYON, KICKING IT ON THE TRAMPOLINE, OR SHOOTIN POOL IN THE GARAGE WE ALWAYS HAD A BLAST. NEVER WAS THERE A DULL MOMENT HANGING OUT WITH YOU AND ALL YOUR BROTHERS. WE HAD A BLAST AT THE JEDI MIND TRICKS CONCERT, THANKS FOR GETTING ME THAT TICKET THAT I JUST RECENTLY PAID YOU BACK FOR. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART YOSH, YOUR DEFINITLY A BROTHER TO ME AND ALL OUR FRINEDS YOU BE MISSED GREATLY BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN
RIP YOSH
LOVE TYLER "BT" ALLEN
GHS
Kristen Knox
January 7, 2008
Words cannot express my sorrow for your family. I met Cameron a few years ago and was so amazed by his story and his attitude on life. Jesse was always a big part of his story.
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve your dear brother and memorialize his life.
Best regards,
Kristen Knox - Otto Bock
Mason Eddy
January 7, 2008
Love to my bro, you were such a good guy and we had such good times together. I wish we would have kept in touch more. You will truelly be missed man. I love you and will miss you.
January 7, 2008
Your Family has been through a lot over that last few years. I hope that they can find the same strengh you gave them now that you are gone.
S G
January 6, 2008
You will be greatly missed Jess
ed does
January 6, 2008
"when I must leave you for a little while, please do not grieve and shed wild tears and hug your sorrow to you through the years. But start out bravely with a gallant smile; and for my sake and in my name live on and do all things the same; feed not your loneliness on dmpty days, but fill each waking hour in useful ways, reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer and I in turn will comforty you and hold you near; and never never be afraid to die, for I am waiting for you on the other side."
Jenny Noakes
January 6, 2008
Jesse was loved by many, and holds a place in many peoples hearts, expecially mine. He always could put a smile on someone's face, and could always make them laugh even if they were having a bad day. i love you jesse...and we all miss you. <3
Dalette Rushlow
January 6, 2008
Jesse,You will be so missed.Everytime I saw you,you were full of smiles and big hugs.You are now in the arms of the angels...God speed....You will always be in the hearts of those that loved you.....Dalette Rushlow
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