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Tom Copeland Obituary

Tom Copeland

April 28, 1944 - August 22, 2024

San Luis Obispo, California - An architect of his community, a titan of his industry, and patriarch of a loving family, Thomas "Tom" Monroe Copeland passed away on August 22nd, 2024. He was 80 years old.

Born on April 28th, 1944, Tom came from humble beginnings in Oakland, California, where his early years were spent alongside his brother, Jim, and his parents, Jack and Thelma Copeland. The Copeland family soon relocated to the Central Coast and planted the roots of what would become a long legacy of business, community development, philanthropy, and family.

Just shy of Tom's fifteenth birthday, his father suddenly passed away. He and his older brother quickly stepped up in his absence to help their mother run the family business, Copeland's Fine Shoes. Tom worked shifts throughout high school, supporting his family while also playing receiver for San Luis Obispo High School's football team, which delivered the town's second-ever CIF Southern Section title in 1960. These early experiences helped Tom develop the work ethic and community-based ethos that would drive a life of dedication to those around him.

Tom graduated from San Luis Obispo High School in 1962 and went on to attend Coalinga College and San Jose State before returning to the Central Coast to continue in the family business. Through a lifelong partnership with his brother and the early guiding light of their mother, Tom transformed a small family-run shoe store into Copeland Sports, a sporting goods chain spanning over 50 locations in four different states. Avid skiers will also fondly remember their famous Monster Ski Sales up and down California as Copeland's Sports became a staple for all types of athletes across the West Coast.

In 1976, Tom welcomed his only biological son, John Thomas Copeland, into the world and began the most cherished part of his life: creating family. Ten years later, he met the love of his life, Pamela Joye Taylor, aka his "Pammy." The two took on the ever-challenging task of raising a blended family: John, and Pam's two sons, Jonathan and Michael. Together, they would all enjoy years of travel, art, food, sports, and music.

As his family grew and his business interests expanded, Tom returned his focus to the community he lived in and loved. Copeland's Sports eventually became Copeland's Properties. In 2001, Tom and Jim sold their sporting goods business to focus solely on real estate development, spearheading projects that would forever change downtown San Luis Obispo.

Together, the two brothers built San Luis Obispo's Downtown Center, Chinatown, and Court Street and were early investors in projects like Hotel San Luis Obispo, solidifying downtown SLO as the county's economic and cultural epicenter. Meanwhile, his preservation of historic buildings always reflected a loyalty to the town that helped raise him and his children.

Eventually, entrepreneurship turned to philanthropy as Tom and his wife Pam had the privilege of receding from the daily wheeling and dealing of business and instead focused on family, hobbies, and building up the SLO community he loved for future generations.

After years of personal success, Tom significantly contributed to many organizations and philanthropies. Alongside his wife, Pam, Tom donated to Cal Poly University, which he always believed would be the core of San Luis Obispo's sustained economic growth. Tom also believed in the importance of not-for-profit community healthcare to help ensure quality healthcare access for future generations. As such, he and Pam worked alongside Jim and Sandy Copeland to support the Central Coast's only non-profit hospital, French Hospital. Together, they were founding sponsors of French Hospital's Copeland, Forbes & Rossi Cardiac Care Center, Hearst Cancer Resource Center, and Copeland Health and Education Pavilion. Tom and Pam also supported many beloved community organizations like the Women's Shelter of SLO/Stand Strong and were early benefactors of the San Luis Obispo Children's Museum, which his grandkids appreciate to this day.

Throughout his life, Tom also relished the freedom to pursue his personal passions, such as flying planes and playing golf with friends and family. In 1998, he found a convenient intersection of the two in Lake Tahoe's Lahontan community, where for years, he would fly himself and his loved ones to escape among the pine trees and ski slopes of the Sierra Nevadas. Back home, Cal Poly fans could often find Tom at basketball or baseball games, while members of the San Luis Obispo Country Club could find him teaching his grandkids how to putt, rolling dice with the boys, or sipping a glass of Pinot Noir with Pammy.

Most of all, Tom was the patriarch of a close-knit family that stretched from SLO to NYC. He never missed an opportunity to bring a folding chair to his grandkids' baseball or soccer games, nor did he ever pass on a chance to see his son John's art exhibitions, no matter where they were in the world. He mentored his kids across many of their business ventures and ardently supported their ability to chase their passions and create their own families.

Tom was preceded in death by his father (Jack Copeland), mother (Thelma Roselip), stepfather (Bernard Roselip), and brother (Jim Copeland).

He is survived by his wife (Pam Copeland), son (John Copeland), two stepsons (Jono Hicks and Michael Hicks), two daughters-in-law (Stephanie Hicks and Becky Hicks), six beloved and doted on grandchildren (Ollie, August, Charli, Jackson, Reese, and Sunny), sister-in-law (Sandy Copeland) and her three children and their families, brother-in-law and sister-in-law (Michael and Sandy Morris) and their children and families, plus countless friends and business partners, all of whom will forever cherish the time they had with him.

Throughout his life, Tom always chose to care without being asked and was a fierce protector of his family and his community. But that never stopped him from being the fun, light-hearted Grandpa who always managed to win the pool or card game yet still let you keep the bet. He will be remembered for always helping without judgment, supporting without condition, and living without regret.

Tom's loved ones and the entire Central Coast community would not be the same without his dedication to his business, community, friends, and family. He was a visionary who saw the bigger picture but always remembered the small details. And while many people will remember Mr. Copeland for the name plastered on storefronts and charity plaques, those most impacted by his legacy of life and love will remember him simply as Tom, Tommy, Dad, and Grandpa. He will be sorely missed.

There will be a private celebration of life held for Tom.

Donations honoring Tom Copeland can be made to:

1. Cal Poly SLO Elija J. McCoy African-American Engineering Scholarship: Please send checks payable to the California Community Foundation, memo: McCoy Scholarship Fund, at 221 S. Figueroa St., Suite 400, Los Angeles, CA 90012.

2. Friends of Downtown SLO: Downtown SLO 1135 Chorro Street San Luis Obispo CA 93401 or https://downtownslo.com/donate.

3. Hearst Cancer Research Center: Please send checks payable to French Hospital Medical Center, memo: Hearst Cancer Research, 1911 Johnson Ave., San Luis Obispo, CA, 93401.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune from Aug. 26 to Aug. 27, 2024.

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Steve Leider

February 14, 2025

He was a great guy!

No one of consequence

September 28, 2024

Downtown was a joy back then. Never met but saw the results of his hard work and love for his community. Sorry to his family, friends and the town of SLO. You lost a good one

Gaye McNeill

September 23, 2024

Thank you Tom and family for helping make San Luis Obispo my final stop in this life. Wish it could stay the way it was when I first starting exploring back in 1970... but this is still such a pleasure,to be a local in Shell Beach and enjoying "driving into town for Thursday night Farmers Market,Cigar Factory , Ethel Reds
THE EYE etc memories for a lifetime. Gaye McNeill

Robert W. Sletten

September 6, 2024

Tommy was my roommate at San Jose State. We had great times playing pranks on one another. Always smiling and laughing when he got the best of me. I never thought Tommy was going to make it in business when he sold his old 356 porsche cabriolet for 400 dollars. Boy, was I wrong!!!! RIP my friend. You were the BEST!! Prayers and positive thoughts going to Pam and the family! Respectfully, Bob and Adie Sletten San Jose, Ca!

Brenda Conn

September 1, 2024

Dear Pam,

Tim and I have fond memories of the time Tim worked at Cornerstone Realty with Pam particularly the Christmas party Tom and Pam hosted for the group.

Please know that fond memories of both you and Tom are shared with many.

Tim and Brenda Conn
Alicante, Spain

Nancy Jackson

August 30, 2024

Pam, We are so sorry for your loss. What a kind and caring man Tom was. I am so thankful for the friends and memories that we shared together. May you always cherish the memories you shared with Tom and your family. Love, Nancy and Michael Jackson

Jeny McCullough

August 30, 2024

Rest in peace Tom. I am a good friend of Pam´s from years ago. I am so thankful destiny brought Tom into Pam´s life. They had a beautiful life together with their blended families. Their love and respect for each other was paramount. The world has lost someone who added positivity and

Debbie Duggan

August 29, 2024

I worked for Tom when he opened his small clothing and shoe store in Madonna Plaza in the 70´s. He was always so nice and respectful even to a young Cal Poly student . And then I had the pleasure to cater for Pamand Tom. What a great couple they are. I´m sending heartfelt sympathy to Pam and family.

BJ Osborne

August 27, 2024

May all the beauty life has to offer find its way to your heart today.
All my love to Pam and his family.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Kat & Bill Tuculet

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Kathy Smith

August 27, 2024

Such a fitting remembrance. As a SLO City Council member in the 1990s and 2010, I was honored to cross paths with Tom & Jim as they put their Copeland magic to work on the Downtown Center, SLO Hotel, Chinatown and Court Street. Tom always had time to share his joy and dreams involving our special historic SLO Downtown. He and Pam shared so much and kept investing via non-profit healthcare and human services. We were blessed.

Paula Elaine Aranaz

August 27, 2024

Sending my prayers for your family. Love you Pam

Sharon Richey Foster

August 27, 2024

I worked for the Copeland´s from about 1979-1988, starting at Copeland´s Clothes, the warehouse and then the office. I believe they only had a few sporting goods stores when I started. Tom was wonderful to work for as well as his brother Jim and mom Thelma. I have good memories of my time there. My condolences to his wife and family. Peace to all.

Sharon Richey Foster

Hugh McGinley

August 27, 2024

Rest easy Tom. Thank you for all your hard work . You will be missed.

Charley Senn

August 26, 2024

Words can´t describe what Tom did and was. Always a smile and always contributing to benefit others. A humble genius with a whimsical smile. Never used the words I or me. One of those few people we get to meet and admire. Love you Tom.
Tom

Haupt Dean

August 26, 2024

He did so much & asked for so little, he will definitely be missed by our community & friends

Barbara-Jo Osborne

August 26, 2024

I am blessed to have briefly known Tom. Such a strong character with a wise and caring heart. An admirable man.

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Carol and Neil thom

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