Ben M. Bynes

Ben Bynes, beloved member of our community, father, firefighter, fisherman, farmer and friend, passed away on February 21, 2023 at the age of 53. Ben was born in San Francisco, son of Katherine McCleary and Joseph Bynes Jr. and grandson of Jessie Mae and Joseph Bynes Sr. of Swainsboro, GA, and Blanche and John McCleary of Baltimore, MD. Ben lived in Berkeley until he was 3 and then moved with his mom to Palo Alto, where he loved playing sports, listening to reggae music and raising hamsters. There his two step-sisters, Michelle and Cheyenne, joined the family. Ben graduated from the John Woolman Quaker Boarding School in Nevada City, CA, where he was part of a large and loving community of friends with whom he remained connected throughout his life. The summer after high school graduation, Ben spent the summer in Auroville, in the south of India, living and working with other Woolman friends. He went on to study at the University of California Santa Cruz, where he double-majored in Biology and Environmental Studies and graduated in 1992. Ben, nicknamed Ben-Zone by his teammates, was a proud member of the 1991 UCSC Ultimate Frisbee National Championship team. In 1996, after working for a year as a schoolteacher in Richmond, CA, Ben joined the Santa Cruz City Fire Department and worked there until he retired in 2020. Ben loved being a firefighter and being of service to others. In his 24 years with SCFD, Ben's contributions to the community included not only his long tenure as an engineer but also as a paramedic, rescue swimmer, and PWC and Fireboat operator.Before Ben joined the Fire Department, his daughter Chloe was born. In 1998 he married Santa Cruz PD Officer Wendy Ramm, and together they had two children, Bennett and Bella. Ben was a passionate father. He loved his children as babies, youngsters, teenagers, and young adults. Ben's greatest adventures were with his kids. They enjoyed surfing, camping, fishing, snorkeling, traveling and planting blueberry bushes and trees in Georgia. For the short time he was in his grandchildren Averitt and Vivienne's lives, Ben was a thoroughly delighted grandpa. Drawn to his Georgia roots, in 2009 Ben bought 91-acres of open farmland near his Uncles Hubert and Lavern. Ben visited Georgia frequently and after retirement spent half his time on his land farming, producing blueberries that he shared with local jam makers, planting 120 pomegranate trees, and raising specialty South Poll cattle. Last summer he created Open Heart Farms LLC and was looking forward to growing his farming operations as a community resource.In 2014 Ben met his partner Elizabeth Patterson, with whom he shared his life and love of community, family, close friends, the ocean and the earth. They traveled together all over California, the Pacific Northwest, Hawaii and to his other home in Georgia. Ben was a big, warm, funny, deep man, beautiful inside and out. He loved surfing, music, fishing, telling stories, cooking, making bread, sharing the food he made, growing trees, bushes and grass, his dogs, cows and chickens, and people anywhere and everywhere he went. Nobody cared more for others and their overall well-being than Benny. No matter who you were, Ben would provide you with a well-deserved nickname and, more importantly, give you his undivided attention and all the heartfelt love and support you never knew you needed. We will all miss his big laugh, big hugs and big spirit!Ben is survived by his beloved partner, Liz Patterson, mother Katherine, step-dad Daniel Wenger, his other mothers Susan and Nancy, children Chloe Kersten (Justin), Bennett Bynes, and Bella Mae Bynes, grandchildren Averitt and Vivienne Kersten, siblings Joey, Valerie, Pamela, Robyn, Michelle, Cheyenne, Sheila, Ezra, Michael, and Jeremy, a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, his firefighter family and numerous friends wherever he went. A celebration of Ben's life will take place at Twin Lakes Church, Friday, March 24, at 2 pm. As Ben would say, "Everybody's welcome!".