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Joseph Hammer Obituary

On Monday, November 13, Joseph Alan Hammer passed away after a brief illness. Joe was born in Chamberlin, South Dakota to George and Lyla Hammer. They moved to Oregon, and then Ontario, California. After graduating from Long Beach State with a Masters in Education, he taught in Germany with the Armed Services where he met Mary, his wife of 58 years. Following their marriage and after finishing their teaching service in 1965, they moved to California to make a home in the San Lorenzo Valley, their favorite place in the world. They adopted two children, Eric and Lisa, and Joe began teaching at Aptos Junior High. There he stayed a beloved member of the faculty for 35 years, developing lifelong relationships with so many of the students and staff.Among other interests, Joe was an avid duck hunter, camper, and environmentalist, served in the Air Force National Guard, and was an integral part of the San Lorenzo Valley Community for over 55 years. Joe was a Catholic who never missed mass and someone who loved to learn about others' religions and influences. Although he could be very stern and gruff, he was also a little rascal who loved to tell and hear a good (or bad) joke. He will be sorely missed by so many people. Joe is survived by his wife, Mary, his children, Eric and Lisa, and his grandchildren, Ruby, Charlie, and Nicole. There will be a mass for Joe at St. John's Catholic Church in Felton on Saturday, November 25 at 10 a.m. followed by a casual get-together on Sunday, November 26 at 1 p.m. at Joe and Mary's house to celebrate Joe's life. If you knew Joe, please come by and share some stories. In lieu of flowers or gifts, please consider donating to Mountain Community Resources, a non-profit organization near and dear to his heart.

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Published by Santa Cruz Sentinel on Nov. 19, 2023.

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Kim

December 29, 2023

Super Compassionate man. I'm sure he got that from his close relationship with Jesus.

Jon & Bette Zbasnik

November 23, 2023

Dear Mary & family. We met the Hammers through Mary & her love of cycling & other dear friends as a result. We had many years of RV camping with them, some very memorable. Joe was a master at driving & maneuvering the 5th wheel (getting it into the space at their house was something to watch!
Most memorable however was our long bike trip in France. Joe was the designated driver for the 7 of us cyclists; stopping at the local boulongerie for lunch supplies, chatting with the clerks (in spite of not speaking much French); the van was a welcome site at opportune times; maneuvering through narrow streets & tight predicaments in villages. What a memorable trip. Joe was a force not to be missed; opinionated, fun, interesting & a loving man. There will be a gap in our lives, not to be filled. We are proud to have met & befriended you & Mary. Love, Jon & Bette

kim okrant

November 19, 2023

Dear Hammer family.
I am very sad to hear of Joes passing, you have my deepest condolences.
I moved back to Calif. in 1977 with a newborn daughter , from Germany. Because of an obscure immigration law she could not become a US citizen by birth. I had to bring her to the US and raise her here, she had to speak English as a first language. Joe translated her foreign birth certificate and travel papers so I could start the process of her becoming a naturalized citizen of the US. With Joe´s help I started the process in 1977 and she was naturalized a couple of years later.
I could not have done it without his help. I appreciated his kindness.
I am so very sorry for your loss....
Love, kim okrant

Michael & Marianne Booth

November 18, 2023

Joe was with his wife Mary were critical to the foundation of Mountain Community Resources. From the first time we met them almost 40 yrs ago they were welcoming and so generous. His love was completely fulfilled by his wife Mary. They were dedicated to their Catholic faith, the people of the San Lorenzo Valley, and anyone in need. We will miss Joe at the 4pm mass at St John´s!

Debbie Metoyer

November 16, 2023

Dear Mary and family, so very sorry for your loss as Joe was one very special man. We´re so thankful to have shared friendship with this kind soul and will miss him in our midst. Heartfelt condolences, Rod & Debbie Metoyer

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