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1955
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2018
Raymond Bobby Obituary
Santa Cruz County
Our beloved Ray left us suddenly and unexpectedly on Saturday, October 27, 2018. He was a wonderful partner and father. Born April 20, 1955 in Torrance, California, the son of Martha and Larry Bobby, Ray grew up a gifted artist and sportsman. There really wasn't any sport he didn't do well, but for a long time his favorites were golf, surfing and skiing. His passion took him first to Encinitas and Carlsbad for surfing and then to Lake Tahoe for skiing and cycling. He managed sports shops and then stepped out on his own to be a sales rep for many reputable sports brands. In 1989 Ray moved to Santa Cruz, married, started his family, and with help from a good friend, learned the trade of marble and tile installation. Ray was a true craftsman. His creative talents and his precise nature made every kitchen and bathroom a work of art. Ray's other hobbies and pursuits included a love of live music, painting, gardening, tennis, photography and being in the outdoors. He was known for his quick wit and wicked sense of humor. Everybody loved Ray's laugh. Other adjectives and descriptive words from his partner, Carol, and his children, Evan and Ava, are as follows: adventurous, patient, true, gentle soul, warm-hearted, young-spirited, proud father, loyal, honest, kind, generous, caring and attentive. He will be sorely missed. He is survived by his children, Evan and Ava Bobby, his partner, Carol Skuletich, and his two brothers, Randy and Ron Bobby. There will be a remembrance gathering on Sunday, November 11, 2018 from 1-4 pm at Aptos Village Park. In lieu of flowers, we are confident that Ray would have preferred a donation to Save Our Shores.
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Brian O'Hara
December 5, 2020
Ray and I wandered through life in the 70s of north san diego county
at the beach and relaxing in a vapor of smoke influenced each other minimally, but maybe eternally
lived together on old county road on the north shore of lake tahoe
went on a wild adventures to mammoth mountain and other fluffy spots in the early 80s
later re-connected in the late 80s
went different ways after
always in my heart
Donna Gill Keli'ikuli
April 28, 2020
Heartbroken to hear he is gone. My last time seeing him was a couple of years after high school. He pulled up next to me at a light on Normandy and like 166th street or whatever it is. His car windows rolled down he called my name and I turned to see his beautiful smile and his sun bleached hair down to his waist blowing in the air. And the signal changed and he and that big pink tank of a car he was driving turned left and that was it. I would never see his face again after that. I had no idea where he went but I found him living in Watsonville. We had a long chat and he told me about his life. He was the sweetest soul with an unforgettable face and laugh. Everyone loved this guy. He was just sweet and kind and mellow always. I will miss you my friend. I am sorry I didn't get to visit with you one last time while I was In capitola in September 2018. There aren't many like him. He was unique in every way.
Marie
January 23, 2019
A lover of life and laughter- thank you for sharing a bit of that with me. After not seeing you for several years, It was cool seeing you in the summer and catching up - share a story or two with my bro : )
David McGoveran
November 13, 2018
This summer Ray and I became close friends, enjoying lots of music and meals together. Viva Cilantro's Ray! Your good company will be sorely missed. The first new brother I've found in many years. I hope Evan - who came with Ray to my house in Boulder Creek - will contact me.
November 12, 2018
glad i had so much time to spend with you in leucadia on NEPTUNE avenue in the seventies. North reef Phoebe street and all of the fun we had. missed you for a long time. much aloha Ray.
love,
kahuna bob and family
MaryLou Petez
November 11, 2018
I am sorry sorry to here that Ray Ray had passed. My heart goes out to his family and to Carol. He was a kind, sweet and wonderful man. It is hard to lose such a good soul from this world . He will definitely be missed by all.
With Sincere Condolences to the family, Marilu Perez
Peter Oberg
November 10, 2018
So very shocked and saddened by the passing of brother Ray. We spent so many, many days surfing together, and musing about and deeply enjoying life. His laugh and smile were contagious, and his warmth, kindness, and brotherhood will never be forgotten. Ray was one of the highlights of my life in those days, and I will never forget him. My deep sympathies go to his family. Much love and safe passage my friend.
November 5, 2018
Such a shock Ray...so sad. I will always remember you as a gentle soul and such a gifted artist. My love to your family, you will be greatly missed.
Love Debra
tony yvanovich
November 1, 2018
Wow Ray - I'm so blown away that you are gone. Condolences to your family and friends. I always enjoyed playing you on the challenge courts at Seascape on Saturdays and Sundays. You were always in such great shape. Off you go to heaven. So long buddy. Love Tony
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