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Charma Pipersky
August 30, 2025
Flannery and Martin,
Your words (and that photo) captured the essence of a most wise and kind man. Sandra´s passing left a hole in my heart, and now I will miss Gary tremendously. My love to you both. Charma
Gail Murray
August 26, 2025
Flannery and Martin,
I was very lucky to work with Gary at the Commission for the Blind for 12 years. He was a great "boss", co-worker, and certainly very smart and wise. I still quote one of my favorite words of advice he gave me before I headed off to a Federal meeting in Dallas: "Um-hum them, and to the maximum extent possible, do the minimum." He sure knew how to handle some of the demands of our agency's "federal partners". Another famous quote of his at a staff meeting was, "that's one steer I am not going to wrestle to the ground." Whenever I applied for a new job at another State agency, he always gave me a terrific reference. He will be greatly missed and the State was lucky to have him as an employee. I share his and your mother's gardening and weed pulling efforts. After 22 years of living "up the hill" from him, I have nearly eradicated the tumble weeds on our property. You have all my sympathy. I will plant more marigolds in his memory. And keep pulling weeds!
Aleyda Mckiernan
August 24, 2025
Querida Flanery:
Mi sentido pésame por la pérdida de tu muy querido papá.
Ojalá sus recuerdos te ayuden a manejar un dolor tan grande.
Te pienso y te quiero mucho.
Abrazos,
Aleyda G Mckiernan
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