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Michelle
December 5, 2024
It´s been 15 years. How can that be? It feels like just yesterday. I am Gabrielle´s bff, Laotong. I was with her during her pregnancy and birth and life of Julian. And my beloved Adrian.
The morning of June 29, 2009 changed my life forever. I was mad at Gabrielle that she was playing a seriously mean joke. There was NO WAY this could´ve happened. No way. Then I realized no mother would ever joke about something like that. I don´t remember driving up to Santa Fe after that phone call. I should not have been driving.
The profound grief my most precious best friend was palpable and destroyed me inside. I knew what she was going to suffer and there was nothing I could do about it.
Adrian-my sweet, sweet boy. He was 14 when he lost his big brother. God the pain was unbelievable.
I still reel from it, to this day, as I know all who were close to the families of the children killed do.
The lives of Julian, Kate, Alyssa, and Rose were not in vain. They did what they were put here for, which is love. Pure love.
This will always haunt me. Julian was a remarkable soul, from birth.
I pray that we all have learned something from this, yet I haven´t figured that out yet.
I will never forget that amazing kid.
This is the first time I´ve seen this page.
May 10, 2010
Julian,
I though today and I miss you so much, you were my first friend at Santa Fe high and you were the nicest person to me even when other people weren't. I love you and I miss you. And I feel SO greatful that I saw you the day you passed away because you impacted my life that day with what you told me. I love you Julian and I will see you someday <3
December 14, 2009
Gabrielle,
I don't know if you will remember us, but this is Nancy and Lane Cox. Julian and Lane went to Bandelier together and Lane spent the night at your house. I didn't realize that this was the Julian we knew until I saw you on TV. We are both so sad about your loss. May God be with you and your family.
Nancy and Lane Cox
tawny trujillo
July 22, 2009
we miss u Julian...you always use to make us laugh in class...u were so funny brother ...we love u yr in our hearts forever...
Bresdin O'Malley
July 22, 2009
I love you Gabrielle and Adrian. You will always be my family. We will get through this together. I love you Julian.
Love: Bresdin O'Malley
Maresha Shelton
July 20, 2009
Ms.Gabrielle,Adrian and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was torn as was many people in Staunton who knew Julian or just have heard. Julian was a great and funny person and will never be replaced or forgotten! Be strong Martinez Family for one day you meet wit him again... For now rest in peace Julian for you are in a better place. We love you.
~Love Maresha
*A Staunton Friend*
Maggie McCathern
July 14, 2009
My girls, Kallie and JulliAnn Johnson, along with their friend Ashley Boserman were sadden to hear that Julian was called to Heaven so soon. I know ALL of Staunton young teens who knew Julian was in mouning. We take comfort in knowing that he is with the Lord and look forward to seeing him in Heaven.
I cannot imagine the pain his family is going through. No words can comfort you in this time of sorrow but know, I lift this family up to the Lord so He may comfort you during this time.
God Bless you all,
Maggie
July 10, 2009
Gabrielle-In times like these, words cannot express my heartfelt sympathy. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.
Nicole (Orr) Zolnoski
Former classmate at BFMS
A family friend
July 8, 2009
Julian,
I didn't know you but I know your dad Geraldo and brother Enrique. The news of what happened to you and your friends hit hard every where and we are so saddened that you were taken at such a very young age. You were such of a handsom young man you looked just like your dad. Rest in peace sweet boy. You have obviously left a great impression on earth.
Irene Grimes
July 8, 2009
Gabrielle and Adrian we love you and wish we could be there with you at this time. Julian always said he wanted to change the world and even though he did not get the chance to he changed the world of all the people who was lucky enough to know him. He made my kids want to be and do better. You as a mother made me want the same. Each night I say a prayer for you and Adrian. Sending all our love to you at this horrible time.
Anita Sandoval
July 8, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss may prayers be with all of your family. Julian was a great friend to me and may he rest in peace he will always be loved and missed
Tina Morris
July 7, 2009
I was so sorry to hear about Julian's untimely death. I taught Julian at Shelburne in 8th grade. He was a wonderful, creative, and outgoing young man. I have lots of memories of having him in class. Gabrielle and Adrian you are in my prayers. Julian will be greatly missed.
Casilda Baca
July 7, 2009
I didn't know your son but I offer my deepest condolence. I lost my grandson Bobby Gurule January of this year at the age of 19. My prayers are with you.
Grimes/Vest Family
July 6, 2009
To Gabrielle, Adrian and all the rest of the family--our prayers have been with you since we heard of your loss. Julian was loved by all who knew him. He lived in Staunton a short time, but boy did he leave a mark! We were blessed to have known him. We will continue to pray for your family.
Dickie Bell
July 6, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Heather Horner Cooper
July 5, 2009
Gabrielle and Adrian - I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies. Julian was a creative and caring young man. What a joy to have known him. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
AJ and Cody Buchanan
July 4, 2009
Gabrielle - Our sincerest condolences on the loss of your beautiful son Julian. It was easy to see what a wonderful young man he was. We are here for you always and are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim and Barbara Hollis
July 4, 2009
Julian was our dear step-grandson. Though we saw him only a few times, we were very impressed with his love of family, good manners, and zest for life. This tragedy has had a big impact on us even though we are so far away.
Gabrielle and Adrian, our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you.
Natasha Gurule
July 3, 2009
I am sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you. Julian was a wonderful person he will be missed greatly and will always be in our hearts. I love you Julian
Kaitlyn Nolff
July 3, 2009
I miss you Julian ,you were an amazing friend and I will be waiting for you to come back forever, I Love you. I know that some day I will get to see you again. my heart goes out to Gabrielle and Adrian and the rest of the family and friends.
A Friend
July 3, 2009
I'm so sorry for your loss Gabrielle. My heart breaks for you and your family. May your boy rest in peace.
An Old Friend
July 3, 2009
Gabbie, my most heartfelt condolences and all of my love. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Alicia Martinez
July 3, 2009
We love you Julian! Me and my family have know Julian since he was a baby. Julian, his brother Adrian and his mom Gabrielle have been like family. Julian was a special child and will forever be remembered. We love you Gabrielle, and Adrian. May Julian rest in peace and fly with the angels.
Love Always
Alicia Martinez and
Martinez Family
Anne Padilla
July 3, 2009
Julian - sleep well, beautiful prince! The world misses you. Gabrielle and Adrian, my heart is with you ... Much love from Anniebell
Children's Choice
July 3, 2009
We love you Julian... from your Children's Choice family in Albuquerque
Linda Riffe
July 3, 2009
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. May memories of him sustain you now and always.
Linda
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