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THOMAS DAVID FORD Thomas David Ford, a long-time resident of Santa Fe, passed away quietly in his sleep on March 22, 2020 following a long illness. Born on a ranch in Brownwood, Texas on March 8, 1932, Tommy, as he was known in his younger days, was stricken with polio at the age of ten but recovered and was graduated from Caldwell High School in central Texas in 1950. He then attended the University of Texas in Austin to pursue a law degree. He married Shirley Ann Thrasher in 1955. Together, they moved to San Marcos, Texas where Tom served as Public Relations Director for the Gary Job Corps which opened in 1965. During his time in San Marcos he also held the position of Director of the Chamber of Commerce. A life-long liberal democrat and supporter of the NAACP and the ACLU. He later also served as the Director for the Seguin Boys Club before ultimately moving to Santa Fe to head Chaparral Realty as its owner and managing broker. Ford was first drawn to Santa Fe in the early 1960's with his wife and family to spend time with his mother, Mildred Ruth Floyd Bibo in the summers. He continued to operate his real estate business in the Santa Fe area until 2010 when he and his second wife, Janice Olsen Ford, retired. With a passion for history, and a wicked sense of humor he charmed most who met him. He credited his bout with polio as a boy for his candid and observational nature and his deep sense of duty and compassion. Ford is survived by his loving wife of 35 years, Janice; his children and their spouses, Tom Ford and his husband Richard Buckley; Jennifer Ford Davis and her husband Christopher Davis of Los Angeles; his grandchildren, Tomas Ford Diaz, Miranda Ford Diaz, Alex Ford Davis, Alexander John Buckley Ford, and many other friends and relatives.

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Published by Santa Fe New Mexican from Mar. 25 to Mar. 27, 2020.

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Kaye and Russell Cooper-Mead

April 19, 2020

My husband and I are broken-hearted at Tom's passing. We met him and Janice four years ago and became good friends over many meals and conversations at their home.

He was funny, roguish and whip-snap smart with a special love and supreme knowledge of history. A tender hearted man with a perpetual twinkle in his eye, he loved to say things to see how you would react. He was truly fascinated by other people and wanted to know what made them tick. Given his upbringing, he especially loved that I was a Midwestern farm girl.

Tom accomplished much but he was most proud of his children and grandchildren. Our heartfelt condolences go out to his loving family.

He was a true original in every sense of that word and while there will never be another like him, we can close our eyes and hear his wonderful laugh and smooth Texas drawl. And now, that will have to be enough. Rest in peace Tom. With much love,

Mary Pfeffer

April 4, 2020

Dear Janice,
So sorry for your loss. Stephen and I so enjoyed bumping into Tom out and about. Always made me smile and loved to catch up on old times and family. My heart hurt when we heard the news.
Mary Jo and Stephen Pfeffer

PETER KOMIS

March 27, 2020

Tom and his beloved mother Ruth Bibo owned a dress shop downtown in the mid 1980's. They rented from my parents. Tom was always very kind and was his mom Ruth. Tom's son would visit us in the restaurant below and have coffee or a sandwich. Then he moved to New York to become a designer. The rest of course is history in this circle of life. Janice, Tom, Jennifer, and family--our deepest condolences go out to you. May Tom's memory be eternal.

Laura Murray

March 26, 2020

Tom was a fantastic neighbour and friend to Holt & Mildred. He will be missed. And yes he had a wicked sense of humour.

Stephen Flance

March 26, 2020

You were indeed a thoughtful and liberal voice in our community. Thank you, Tom.
I will miss you.

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