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Donna Contreras
November 12, 2024
21 years now son! I think of you often and miss you so much! I know you are at peace and are in the best company with your brother, aunt Ree and Pops. Keep sending us your signs son. . We love it!
Love you forever,
Mom
Mom
November 12, 2023
Son,
Your mother is getting old and blind it´s been 20 years not 30!
Still ditsy as ever!
Love you,
Mom
Mom
November 12, 2023
Dearest Son,
We think of you often and miss you like crazy! Since your passing 30 years ago you are again reunited with so many of your loved ones! I know you are dancing in the heavens and taking care of Pops! Thank you on for all the memories! You are on in a million and you´ll always be my baby!
Love, Mom
V
November 11, 2023
20 years and it still feels like yesterday. So much time has passed that I sometimes wonder what life would have been like, no matter how many years go by just know that you are often thought of, missed and loved so very much
Donna (Mom)
November 12, 2022
My dearest Geeg,
It's been 19 years now and so much has happened since you've been gone. You now have your big brother and Uncle
Joey with you in the heavens. Celebrate their new life with you and also Lexi is with you now. I will always feel comfort knowing I will see and be with you again.
Keep sending the bees son!
Watch over us all and take care of Aunt Ree!
I love you son,
Mom
Mom
July 24, 2022
My dearest Geeg,
Oh how I miss you! Had a dream about you and had to come and visit you! I know you aren't alone anymore. You have your brother and sister with you. Aunt Ree is still watching over all of you in the heavens. Bless her heart.
I love you son!!
Barbara Melendrez
November 12, 2021
You are always in my heart Mijo, Love you so much.
The Torchia Family
November 12, 2021
May God keep you close. Forever in our hearts. You are missed
Donna Contreras
November 12, 2021
My dear Son,
You have been gone 18 years now. A life time for you. We went to take flowers yesterday and listened to some mariachi music. It was beautiful! It was their grandma´s birthday. They played the mayanaitas. It was your birthday as when you entered heaven. Passed through the pearly gates. I think of you all the time and say my `good morning´s´ as I pass the cemetery. Life changes so much but will never
Change the love I have for you.
Pops needs you to watch over him right now. Leave your little signs son so we are comforted and know things will be fine.
Sending you all my love,
Mom.
Barbara Melendrez
November 12, 2020
Justin was full of life and had a loving and happy heart, he loved to make everyone around him laugh. I miss him so much and think of him all the time, and now we have lost his older brother Ralph (Hokey). Good night mejo, Love you always Nana Melendrez
My boys- Ralph and Justin
Donna Contreras
November 12, 2020
My dearest Justin,
We went to the cemetery yesterday and had a great visit yesterday. The weather was great. Your Nana and Pops, Uncle Ruben, Aunt Anna, Artie, Dave and lil JJ Mike were all there. Their were two couples in the area visitng a loved one and one of the men was singing in Spanish. It was beautiful. He sang two songs. Very touching.
I know you are with your big brother in the heavens. Catching up on the last 17 years. Where does the time go? We tragically lost your brother 2 months ago and I'm struggling. I know this is all part of the grieving process but it's extememly difficult. I do find comfort in knowing your all together now. Your sister Adrianna and Hokey are with you. Take care of each other in the heavens and please continue to send us your little signs that you are still with us. We need them. Holidays will be hard I know but we have to be grateful for the blessings we still have. Lil Justin Michael is 9 now and so full of life. He is such a good boy and is now talking about his daddy. And the songs they'd sing together and the fun times they shared. Please take care of each other up there and pave the way for your mama. Artie was saying he will have to bury me alone which is very sad. He said I had Hokey to bury your dad and now he's got no siblings. I feel for him but he will be okay. Although being strong is admired it isn't easy. We all have feelings. We all have our moments of reflection and sadnesses.
Until we meet again son, know that I love you and can't wait to hug you once more,
Love,
Mom
V N
September 11, 2020
Justin I miss you and I love you
Nana and Pops Melendrez
November 13, 2019
Hi, Justin,sure miss you meijo, I think of you and Ree all the time,sixteen, years, long years have gone by since you left us, and Ree eight long years. The holidays are almost here, Pops and I have been blessed so much with a wonderful life and blessed with a wonderful family and also
blessed with a beautiful great grand daughter
baby girl, Alyson, JR and Nikole baby, Aunt Debbie,
first grand child. Meijo we miss you so much and Love you with all our hearts.
Artie
November 13, 2019
I miss you, J. I hope you're taking care of dad up there. Give him and Aunt Ree a hug for me. I love you.
November 12, 2019
Well son, it's been 16 years now and our lives will never be the same. Their will always be a void in our hearts. Holidays are hard. Grateful for all the memories but sad at the same time. Can't wait until I get to hug you again and see your awesome smile.
Love you ton son,
Mom
Julie Ruan
November 12, 2019
Thinking of you always, Justin!
Donna Contreras
January 16, 2019
My dearest Justin Ryan,
I'm pretty sure you and your father have been reunited. He is with you now son and the two of you can catch up on the last 15 years. Thank you for looking out after your brothers. They still need you son (especially right now). They need all your little signs letting them know it's all going to be alright. Your brothers spent endless hours with your father in his last hours. They stood by his side while he gave his last breath.
Your brothers find comfort in reminising of all the good times we all had together. All the laughter, St. Frances days and the awesome baseball player you were. The lunches your dad used to take you every Friday to school. Your brothers used to always have you ask dad if their was something you guys wanted to have to somewhere to go. They knew that the answer would always be "Yes" if you asked. You were always dads baby and the both of you had so much love for each other. As of now your namesake Justin Michael (Hokey's baby) is the only grandson to carry the Martinez name. Their maybe others in the future (I can only hope and pray). Thank you for all the memories son. We cherish them all and when we are all together we remember many more. Your great sence of humor and your beautiful smile will remain in our hearts forever.
I love you,
Mom
August 6, 2018
Happy belated birthday son,
I think of you often and wonder how life would be if we still had you here with us. Would you be married, have children, have a good job (maybe Pepsi), have a home? Most importantly, I know you'd be happy. Never stop leaving us your little signs son. We see them at the most appropriate times. When we need to smile and reminisce. I will meet you in the heavens and we can catch up son. I can hug you and won't have to ever let go. You surely left many fond memories for everyone who knew you. And for that we will forever be grateful.
Love you tons son,
Mom
V NS
August 4, 2018
Happy heavenly Birthday Justin, you are often thought of, very much missed and forever loved!
Barbara Melendrez
September 27, 2016
Grandson Justin, It's been 13 years ago next month that we lost you that horrible day. There is not a day that I don't think of you and miss you so much, I so miss your smile and how you would make us all laugh. You and your Aunt Ree always made everyone laugh and have a good time. I feel at peace knowing you are with Our Lord God. I know one day I will see you and Sherri again and we can laugh and kidd around again, most of all I can hug you and Sherri once again. I will say good night son, Love you with all my heart always. Love Nana
Barbara Melendrez
March 19, 2016
My beloved grandson Justin, Its been to n long since I last wrote you, but you are always in my thoughts and in my heart. I miss you and Sherri so much it hurts. I find peace knowing you are with Our Lord and God. For the most part the family is doing well. I'll say good night for now. Love you with all my heart, nana
Dave
December 24, 2014
Death is not just for the old.
Sometimes the young die too.
You were only in your teens
When angels came for you.
It's very hard to understand
Why you died so young.
You had so much to live for
And was loved by everyone.
But we know God has a purpose
And a plan for each of us.
We know He loves His children,
And in Him we put all trust.
Although our hearts are broken,
We know you're in His care.
Your memory will remain alive
Until we join you there.
Merry Christmas J. Give Aunt Ree a Big Hug for us. Know that not a day goes by that we dont think of the both of you. Gatherings and Holidays will never be the same without you 2 but we are Grateful for one another.
Art
October 2, 2014
J,
Every time I write in your guest book, it never gets published. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but we'll give it another shot. I don't know where time has gone. It's come and gone so quickly that it scares me to think that I have wasted so much of it. But I know now more than ever that it is not something to take for granted. I have done so much in the past year that I am so grateful for, and thank you for the extra push to get out, to live, to see and do things that I used to let myself be held back from. You and Aunt Ree remind me daily to live without fear. It has been an eye-opening year, and I don't plan to stop experiencing life any time soon. I love you and miss you every day, and thank God for the blessing of opening my eyes every morning. Hope this gets published ::fingers crossed::
August 10, 2014
Justin Ryan,
When thinking of the past it brings tears, when thinking of today it brings a thought of a future in the pain, in thinking of tomorrow it brings a hope of one day holding you again, hearing your laughter, seeing your amazing smile and a hope that only God can give to someone who's heart aches and longs for someone who left this place for a better tomorrow. You are missed, loved and longed for our Sweet, Sweet Justin Ryan ....
August 6, 2014
Dearest Grandson, Happy Birthday Justin, 29 years old. Time goes by so fast and we think of you always and miss you every minute of everyday meijo. We go to the cemetery to visit you and Aunt Ree, because we feel closer to you there and reflect your life with us.It's hard to believe but it has been three years that we lost Sherri and almost eleven years since your passing, to me it is like yesterday that we lost you and Aunt Ree. Justin your little nephew Justin Michal is three years old now and a lot like you in things he does and looks like you, he makes us laugh all the time. W ell meijo I'll close for now with all our love and Gods Blessing Always Love Always, Nana and Pops Melendrez
Dave
August 5, 2014
I wish you were here today
even for just a little while
so I could say Happy Birthday "son"
and see your beautiful smile.
The only gifts today will be
the gifts you left behind;
The laughter, joy and happiness...
precious memories...the best kind.
Today I'll do my very best
to try and find a happy place...
struggling to hide my heavy heart
and the tears on my face.
I'll sit quietly and look at your picture
thinking of you with love;
hoping you're doing ok
in Heaven up above.
May the angels hold you close and
sing you a happy song...
and I'll be sending wishes to you
today and all year long.
Happy Birthday J.
Kathy
November 14, 2013
It's been so very long, it was yesterday,it was today and it will be tomorrow. Until we meet again in the place we call HOME!
November 13, 2013
To my dearest Justin,
Son it seems like yesterday (10 years ago) that we lost you in the most tragic thing I have ever endured in my life. And as I think about it their has been so many things that have happened in between. I am so sorry that you never got the chance to meet your nieces and nephew. It's amazing how God works! He has blessed us with these children and one of which was born on your birthday and carries your name. I kind of think he's going to be just like you. We go each day with the assurance that some day we will be together again. Only in the heavens where their is no pain, suffering or sorrow. We go through life jumping the hurdles as they come. With God behind us we can conquer all. Please continue to be with us spiritually. We need you :) We will love you forever.
Love,
Mom
D C
November 12, 2013
Someone is missing from our dinner table,
from our bedroom and our home.
Someone is missing from holiday celebrations,
family vacations and everywhere in between.
Someone is missing from our lives,
Our littlest one is gone.
He will not have birthday parties, graduations, or celebrations.
We will miss him throughout eternity
and our family will never be complete.
Someone is missing, yet we go on.
Our lives are touched by him.
Changed forever by his brief existence.
His memory we keep alive.
He lives only in our hearts and minds,
We were blessed by his short life.
Our love for him forever strong.
Even though...someone will always be...MISSING.
Julie Baker
November 12, 2013
Justin, it's been years since I've written on here. I miss you and I can't believe it's already been 10 years since you were tragically taken from us all. I pray that your Family is all doing well and that you're watching over them everyday. Thank you for giving me such funny High School memories to look back on. Your memory lives within us all and continues to Bless us all, Thank you Justin!
Barbara Melendrez
January 24, 2013
My wonderful grandson Justin,
Pops and I are pretty settled in at our new place. It feels so good to be close to all the family. The kids come over after school sometimes and it just takes a minute to go to your moms and it just takes a minute to come back home after we leave their house. Justin we all miss you and Aunt Ree so much and think about you all the time. In the last two weeks the number ll-ll came up all the time and I new it was you saying Hi and I found pennies (heads up.)The kids miss Aunt Ree so much and are always remembering her and you.Meijo I never thought a person could go on living with so much pain in their heart after losing a daughter and a grandson in their life, but God made us so strong and promised we would be together again one day, so my wonderful grandson this and Gods' Love is what I hang on to each and every day. I'll say good night for now, Love you so much.
Love, Nana and Pops
Kathy
November 14, 2012
Justin Ryan,as we sat last week while Grace was here we knew in our hearts someone was missing. We gathered ourselves took some flowers, we cried we laughed. We looked at old pictures. There was one concesses that was nine years has not eased the pain. As we trust in knowing we will see you again, it does not fill the void that is here now. Our hearts are still broken, there is always someone missing on this journey we call life. I pray for your Mom everyday, if I feel this way I can't imagine how she must feel ... So we continue on until our meeting day comes! You are loved and missed everyday!
In His Luv
Barbara Melendrez
November 13, 2012
Dearest Beloved Grandson Justine Ryan,
Some days it seems like it was just yesterday in my heart that we lost you that terrible day nine years ago. But in our everyday life and hearts you are still here with each and everyone of us making us laugh with your crazy actions and pranks. I so clearly remenber the day you were born and I was standing at the nursery window and the nurse would go by and move your little leg to make you move a little, little did she know what a pistal and tease you would become in your life, only to have you taken away from us to much to soon. Well meijo Nana will say so long for now, Keep making Aunt Ree laughing, until we meet again we will continue missing you both and loving you with all our hearts.
Love you always, Nana and Pops Melendrez, Alta Loma, CA
November 13, 2012
If I only had five minutes,
the morning you passed away,
I'd give you one last hug so tight and see your great big smile.
I'd tell you that I don't think I could live without you,
not even for awhile.
I'd kiss your cheek and take your hand and tell you it's okay to go
And tell you that I'll miss you,
more than you'll ever know.
But you were gone so quickly,
One last car ride you'd take.
Before you even knew it,
you were standing at heavens gate.
Now God has called upon you,
It's time to get your wings.
To leave this life behind you,
And enjoy all of heavens beautiful things.
So wait for me in heaven ,
Don't let me come alone.
The day the angels come for me,
Please be there to bring me home.
November 13, 2012
Dearest son,
Nine long years now and oh how we miss you. Never a day that passes that we don't all think of you and all your humor. Our family will never be the same without you. Thank God you left a legacy of memories for us. The silly things you used to do to entertain us all. Your little name sake Justin Michael is so full of life and keeps us all going. He is busy little guy with lots of personality. We are all @ peace knowing you are in the heavens with your Aunt Ree. We talk about the two of you all the time. If we could only turn the clock back. So many "what if's". Well in ending now son I want you to continue sending all the little signs to us as a reminder that your still with us in spirit. We love you and miss always.
Mom
V NS
November 11, 2012
Just wanted to say I miss you and I love you!!
November 11, 2011
wow 8yrs already and it still feels like just yesterday you were here i miss you j but i know your up there shining down on us its weird cause i came to work today and some guy that always wears cool shoes happen to be wearing some nike hi tops and they were yellow and black call me crazy but i take that as a sign and reminder that your still around i love you
November 11, 2011
To My Dear Son Justin,
Son, it's been 8 long years now since your passing and "oh how I miss you so much". Your funny sense of humor and your huge (love the dimples) smiles are a constant reminder that your in a far better place. It's still very hard to understand but I also know that God has a plan for each and everyone of us. Our new addition to the family Justin Michael (born on your birthday) is the most beautiful baby! He already seems to have some of your characteristics! Wow, at 3 months old! Amazing. Son, please send your second family (the Puente family-especially Kathy) a little sign today letting her know that your okay. They often feel so much sorrow. They also reflect on all the good memories of you. We cried together at work yesterday and talked about you and the little chats Mike would have with you. Mike was a strong influence in your life. Great role model. Life always has twists and turns and we definately know we're not alone in losing a child. God be with you and protect you and Aunt Ree always. The two of you will remain in our hearts til the day we join you in heaven. One last thing before closing: the other day Drugh was writing on her little tablet and wrote that she loves "Jack like a Fat Kid Loves Cake". I wonder where she got that? Even your little phrases still live on son. :)
I love you both with all my heart. Until we meet again son.
Lots of love,
Mom
October 21, 2011
Hi love I had a dream about you yesterday and now today I get visited by bees that just a sign to me that your still here I miss and love you justin
August 24, 2011
I miss and love you justin
Donna Contreras
July 28, 2011
Hello Son,
Well I'm sure you know by now that your Aunt Ree has joined you in heaven. Our hearts ache so much. The sorrow in our homes is undescribable. She was the cool aunt that you could all talk to about anything. Now all that is gone. We are left with many fond memories and the children she left behind. We are going to do our best to raise her kids just the way she would have wanted us to. Nan and Pops are so very sad and lonely. That was their baby. She was their keeper in the high desert. No more late phone calls or text messages. Well the only comfort I find is that you are both together now. Not a worry in the world and pain free! God know the plan and we should never question him. He knows what's best for us even if we don't. We are still waiting for baby Justin to come. He is in no hurry. Poor momma is really hot right now but is being as patient as she can. It's going to be hard to go see him after he's born because he will be born in the same hospital that Aunt Ree passed away in. But like they say God takes one away and two are born. We just found out that Aunt Ree's friend Lori is having a baby too. So we pray that they are all okay.
Gotta run for now son. Please watch over all of us for we need all the help we can get.
Love you with all my heart,
Mom
Barbara Melendrez
July 25, 2011
July 25, 2011
My Dearest Grandson Justin,
Where do I begin this letter that I'm writing with a heart that is beyond broken. Justin I know that Aunt Ree is with you in the presence of our Lord God and his beloved son Christ Jesus, but the hurt in our hearts is just so great and painful at her loss from us. Jay, Nana has to go now because I can't see to write anymore for my tears get in the way and my heart is filled with to much pain and sadness. Nana and Pops think of you every single day of our lives. Take good care of Aunt Ree until we are all together again one day. With all our Love, Nana and Pops
Christy Aguayo
July 21, 2011
Our Brother from Another Mother, man, time goes so fast...everyone is here still we still talk about you everytime we are together as a family, It's just as hard today as it was yesterday and all the days before that...Still don't like it when the phone rings after dark makes me sick, Michael is coming home soon, Robert has another son, we call him Baby and he is huge, Sugar is going to Jr. High next month and Sam is a beast, everytime he sees anything Incredible Hulk he whispers your name, Grace is in NY! shes doing okay never the same since you left though, none of us are...tomorrow we will see all your beautiful family, I wish it was under better circumstances though, but it sure will feel so good to see all their faces...and hug them...man we miss you so much...Serg is here cutting his hair and still getting movies! Amilys kids are hilarious! Drew is outta control and Jeremy is a cuddly lil teddy bear...She got married! hahahaa! Well tell Buh and Papa I said Hi and I love them, take care of eachother :) love you lots & tots...
June 12, 2011
Hello Son,
It's been really hard lately and I still have really bad days when I think of you constantly. We laid to rest a baby last week and it reminded me of when I lost your sister. She is with you now and I'm sure you are watching over her. Only God knows why and he has a plan for each one of us. I hear songs that remind me of you or we see a car like yours (your brother was driving down the freeway the other day and saw a car just like yours right next to him) and we smile and know that it's another reminder of you and your happy days. We had a baby shower for your new nephew that is due 3 days after your birthday. He will be named after you :) Justin Michael. We can hardly wait. He is our gift from God and will be your name sake. I'm sure your niece will be a little jealous for a little bit but she'll get over it. I love that she knows who you are and often sees pictures of you and says "that's Uncle "J". She is going to be six years old already. Big girl and is way to smart for her age.
Adam and Drugh are still playing ball. It's good for them and keeps them really busy. They both made the "all stars" and are also on traveling teams. Aunt Ree can hardly keep up. They are also growing fast. Nan and Pops are still keeping young with all the events Drugh and Adam keep them going to. Pops assisted with coaching both their teams again this year. Pops needs to take care of himself and eat healthy. Doctor says so. He is our "Iron Horse" so I'm sure he will be okay after changing his eating habits. Ryan also played t-ball/coach pitch this past season and did a great job! He has a little trouble focusing but he will get better every year. He is going to play soccer next. We can't wait to see him run around and use up all that energy he has :)
Well son I just wanted to write you with the lastest and to let you know that we think about you every day and miss you so much.
Love you lots,
Mom
June 3, 2011
Hi Justin Ryan,
You were the topic of discussion at our house yesterday. Just can't believe it has been so long already. I know Grandma Buh and Papa are there with you walking with Jesus .... I can only imagine what it will be like when I stand in His presence. Our ultimate goal is to stand before Him, yet we are so sad when someone goes home. I realized that I'm only sad for myself but so happy for you and Buh and Papa that you are experiencing the joy and peace that only Jesus can give .... Miss you sooooo much, but we will be there with you one day!
In His Luv
Kathy
Mother of a Soldier
vanessa
June 1, 2011
wow its been so long since i've left a message but i think about you and talk to you often i can't believe how many years its been already it seems like just yesterday we were in middle school. i remember you asking me to the valentines dance and i said yes and then you tell me you got in trouble in class and got a detention for it and you couldn't go after i had already got my ticket oh how i was so sad and mad at you for that but then you made it up to me by giving me the cutest statue of 2 little bears and a big red heart in the middle i have it put away in a safe place and hold our memories so close to my heart i miss and love you so much justin
Barbara Melendrez
November 23, 2010
Meijo Justin Ryan
It is November 24th and Thankgiving is around the corner and again we will have to celebrate another holiday without you and as always we can only have your memories and remembering how much you loved to laugh and carry on with giving all of us so much to remember you by now. Your mom was recalling the day we all went to the market and what you so enjoyed doing to nana's hot loft of bread, smashed and leveled it flat, ohhh, nana was not happy! You almost got a block of yellow cheese across your head, but we were laughing so hard and your mom was so concerned about the wrapper coming off the cheese and it getting dirty. We also were remember when Pops would not give you the ball and you told him - give me the ball Old Man!! These are just but a few of all the things we remember when we get to missing you so very much my wonderful grandson.
It has been real cold up here in the desert and your Pops does not take off his jacket and ball cop in the whole day. We all went to the cementery on the day you were taken away from us and left us all with a big bleeding hole in our hearts and tears in our eyes many many tears.Meijo Justin, nana will close for now and say good night and will continue to live with you always in my heart and thoughts until I see you again in your world of peace, joy, love and continuous happiness in the presence of our Lord God and his loving son Christ Jesus.
Loving you always,
Nana and Pops Melendrez
Kathy Puente
October 14, 2010
Justin Ryan,
I'm sitting here listening to a song called Messiah! There is a hope inside of me, from my Savior that we will meet again.
Christy Aguayo
October 13, 2010
Hey Justin Ryan,
I had a dream that I forgot you, and it's really bothering me....so I just want you to know I didn't. :)
Miss you lots....
August 19, 2010
To My Dearest Son Justin,
I have to share this story with you although you probably already know about my experience yesterday. One of your aunts went to see a psychic! Oh my God! She asked who Justin was, she knew you were 18 years old. Said you loved me very much and were happy with family now. Said you knew you weren't going to live a long life. And also said you were a good kid! It's amazing! How could she know all of that! Makes one wonder. I know we don't believe in those things but how coincidental is this? Her message made us cry but happy inside to hear that you are happy. Your step father sent me a text as he was leaving for work that talked about God and that he knew I was going through a rough time right now but that he was going to bless me in a way that only he could. Telling me to keep the FAITH...That the love of God was like the ocean, that you can see its beginning, but not its end! Wow, I would have never imagined that I would ever get a message like this.
Just wanted you to know that we ALL think about you daily and you will forever live in our hearts!
Love you lots,
Mom
August 14, 2010
My dearest "Geeg"
Soooo sorry I haven't written in what seems like forever, I just recently got the internet back...
We all had a really nice visit with you on your birthday...we always do!
Your mama's birthday party was a blast! Your mama so deserved the celebration that we had...did I tell u that I miss you so very, very much? Thank you so much for all the lil' signs you give us to let us know that your thinking of us as much as we're thinking of you...always.
I know you know all the mess that's happened...Justin, I so thank God everyday for family & friends. Only God knows where we'd bee today & only God knows how so very much I appreciate & how grateful I am for them.
Well, "J", I'll bee thinking, missing, & loving you always. Please continue sending your lil' signs to let us know that you're thinking of us too.
Always in my heart,your Aunt DeeDee :D
aunt ree orozco
August 5, 2010
MMmm Helloooo,
Haha! J thats how nana answers the phone.We tease her about it. well J i know you know how we are doing i talk to you all through the day everyday. some good some bad some i know you want to smack sense into them. but like george says "let them learn". your brother is head coach for bubz football team. alot of the mothers are asking mrs nunez "where did you find him, we like him" thats one thing that makes your brother feel good besides riding his quad. and are archie just amazes us with all his accomplishments. so darn smart. He does volunteer work that he loves. T n Jr are going through some hurdes that where thrown there way, but with all are help we will get them through this. My rennie is offered a new position at work, n i think shes going to take it.Shes has alot of modevation that she gets from her dad. which her dad has just passed his state license to be an ulimited radiologist crt,arrt. Yah! and yodi my lil mojadito is entertaining! he starts kinder on the aug.9th can you believe it J? i wish he would have gotten to know you Kause i know that you n him would get into good ones. he would be your new conquest!Nana n pops are doing fine we gotta watch out for pops on the road these days. Ever since he turned 27. and yo momma! shes having a big party for her 50th b-day. please come and join us! ill be lookin out for you! i saw your dad at the cemetary yesterday. we had cake and sang happy birthday to you. we pulled out the chairs and we all sat under the trees talking. aunt ana was there with her scruffy. did you see us sing to you sat. i put you and jr on bubz cake.well i'd love to keep writing to you but i must go on back to my reality life,blah,blah,blah! one thing i do know for sure is that are lives have never been the same. i miss you "J" 4ever!
always Aunt Ree
August 4, 2010
Good morning son,
Today would have been your 25th birthday. It was 25 years ago today that I brought you into this world never knowing that you would be tragically taken from me at such a young age. A mother should never have to experience this nightmare. I will never get over loosing you. I know that you still leave all of us little signs that your still watching over us and you do it at the most appropriate times. Thank you. We really need your prayers from heaven on Monday. God knows how difficult it will be. We just celebrated Adam and Jr's birthdays on Sat. Lots of food and fun. I had lunch with your second mom (Kathy) last week for her birthday. We chatted a little bit about you. Imagine that! We miss you. Well my 50th birthday will be soon and it will be an emotional day for me. I wish that I could have you here with me but I know that spiritually you are. You will always be in my heart. Selfish me. In closing son, I want to wish you a good day and know that you are missed dearly.
Love you with all my heart,
Mom
August 4, 2010
Happy 25th birthday son! We love you :)
Mom
Artie Martinez
October 21, 2009
Hey J!
Well, let's see where do I start?! I'm at work right now(You know the job I actually like). I cannot stand my other job, but I have to pay the bills right?! Anyway, your niece so cute! She says the funniest things! Like when Dave told her that his doctor said he can't have donuts, and she responded with "Umm.. You should get a new doctor." The kids hilarious! Bubba is the king of the field! That kid is on fire this year in football! Doo-Bee just turned 9, and I can't believe how fast they grow up. It seems like just yesterday she was yelling that she "not your buns!" at you! My Button man is so cool! He does this dance that is absolutely hilarious! And Ezzy, I wish I knew she was alright. I couldn't tell you how many times I wish I could take that little girl and make her my own. I know I'm really limtied as to what I can say, but I know you can hear me when I talk to you. If I could request your help with anything, it would be guidance. I feel as if so many of us have lost our way, and need for you to speak to our hearts to find our place in this world again. I never dreamed that one person's passing could affect people so dramatically, but you were just that great of a person.Like I previously stated I can't stand my job, but I do enjoy my volunteer work! I feel at home there. I wish I spoke spanish so I could get an actual paying position there, but I guess I'll have to invest in some Rosetta Stone or something. Oh & if at all possible, could you make more hours in the day? I feel like I never have enough time, no matter how late I stay up or early I wake up I always feel as if I should've done more. I miss you, J. Especially when I hear a laugh that sounds like yours, or I see something or hear something that I think you would've thought was funny. Please continue to watch over us. Keep us safe, and help us to make wise choices. I know you watch over mom especially, because I don't know how she could do all she does without some extra help. When times are tough, and I don't how I'm going to make it that month, I don't worry so much because I know you'll help me out somehow.I love you, J, and I think about you everyday of my life. Talk to you soon(time for me to close...yay!)!
Love you,
Artie
September 24, 2009
To my dearest son Justin,
It's been a while now but I feel I need to write to you. Your grandma Buh is with you now in the heavens. I know that you will take good care of her. She was always so special to you. Remember all the rides she used to give you in her Falcon? You were so proud. She always treated you like her own. Now you are together. It's amazing how time flies. We will all be with you eventually. Please watch over the entire family. They all need you especially now in their time of sorrow. May their strength in the almighty Lord keep them strong and able to live one day at a time.
Love you with all my heart,
Mom
christy aguayo
September 23, 2009
hey Justin,
Uhhhh...well, Buh is with you...you guys take care of eachother...she loves you...and is probably soooo happy to see you. Squeeze her tight...
love you and miss you...
Christy
August 4, 2009
Well Justin Ryan ....
Happy Birthday Kid !!!! Boy you and Grace are getting up there huh! I know it seems weird but I talk to you as though you were still here. I have to, to keep my sanity. We celebrated my birthday last week and you know what it still isn't the same without you here. The kids were all making fun of me cause next year I'll be 50... You always stuck up for me when they would get started ... there's no one to do that! Mejo, hearts still hurt, lives will never be the same, but one thing will never change you are loved more today than ever before! We will continue to tell your stories at all our family gatherings and keep you with us what ever lifes journey has for us ...
Donna for you my heart aches and my prayers are with you!
Psalm 46:1 "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble."
D C
August 4, 2009
''Happy Birthday'' means much more
Than just have a happy day.
These words mean alot of things
I never got to say.
It means I love you everyday
and thank you for all you did and still do...
And that we will always be proud of you and
What you accomplished in such a short time.
But most of all, I guess it means
That we are thinking of you,
Your happiness, your smile and your laughter.
Happy Birthday J, Happy 24th
God how we miss you
Love Always, Dave…
August 4, 2009
TO MY GEEG, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY GEE-GEE! PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR NOT WRITING IN LIKE FOREVER. I'VE TRIED A FEW TIMES BUT IT WOULD NEVER GO THRU. ANYWAYS, I MISS YOU SO, SO MUCH "J". YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I MISS YOU. AS HARD AS ITS BEEN, LIFE GOES ON BUT WE NEVER HEAL. THE PAIN OF LOOSING YOU IS ALWAYS AND WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. TIME PASSES BUT IT STILL FEELS LIKE YESTERDAY THAT OUR WORST NIGHTMARE HAPPENED TO OUR FAMILY. CAN YOU BEE-LIEVE THAT I STILL MEET PEOPLE THAT KNEW OR KNEW OF YOU? YOU TOUCHED MORE LIVES THEN YOU'LL EVER KNOW! I MISS TALKING WITH YOU. I DON'T KNOW IF IT WAS JUST ME BUT IT SEEMED LIKE I'D BRING OUT THE SERIOUS SIDE OF YOU. I COULD TALK TO YOU ABOUT SERIOUS STUFF. SOME PEOPLE MAY NOT BEE-LIEVE IT BUT YOU DID HAVE A SERIOUS AND SINCERE SIDE TO YOU. YOU WHERE IN SOME WAYS MATURE BEE-YOND YOUR YEARS. SO NOW I GO TO THE CEMETARY OR WHILE I'M ALONE IN MY CAR AND TALK WITH YOU, I KNOW YOUR LISTENING TO ME. I KNOW YOU KNOW MY PAIN AND THAT I'M NOT PERFECT. I THINK IN YOUR EYES YOU BEE-LIEVED I WAS. I TRY, BUT I'M HUMAN, GEEG. I'M SO SORRY IF I'VE DISAPPOINTED YOU. BUT I KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THE MESS THAT I'M GOING THRU. SO I PRAY. SATURDAY WAS A BLAST!!! IT WAS BUBZ' 10TH BIRTHDAY PARTY! CAN YOU BEE-LIEVE THAT LIL' PUNK IS 10 YEARS OLD ALREADY?! YOUR UNCLE RENE FELL ASLEEP AND JOSE, LALO AND TERESA WERE MESSIN' WITH HIM. I THINK YOU COME OUT IN THEM WITH SOME OF THE STUFF THAT THEY DO! BEE-LIEVE ME GEEG, ONE WAY OR ANOTHER, YOUR ALWAYS WITH US! THERE ARE EVEN TIMES WHEN I THINK YOU COME OUT IN J.R.WITH SOME OF THE THINGS THAT HE SAYS AND DOES! MY FRIENDS, THAT KNEW YOU, AND I SHARE STORIES ABOUT YOU AND ROLL WITH LAUGHTER! WE HAVE THE BEST TIME REMEMBERING AND SHARING STORIES ABOUT YOU AND YOUR SHANANIGANS! GOOD TIMES! WELL, "J", I PROMISE TO WRITE TO YOU SOONER NEXT TIME. I'LL KEEP TALKING BEE-KAUSE I KNOW YOU'LL ALWAYS LISTEN AND NOT JUDGE ME! I LOVE YOU AND WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU! I PRAY THAT ONE DAY I'LL BE WITH YOU AGAIN! THANK YOU FOR YOUR LIL' SIGNS AND FOR WATCHING OVER US. MAY GOD BLESS, MEJO. YOUR AUNT DEE-DEE!
August 3, 2009
To my dearest Justin,
Hi son, I know it's been a while since I've written to you. Tomorrow would have been your 24th birthday! Wow, how time flies. I think of you everyday and sometimes many times a day. I continue to thank you for watching over us and letting us know that you are still with us spiritually. This past Sat. we celebrated Adam's 10th birthday. We were surrounded by "bees". They didn't sting any of us but buzzed around us all day. Adam is a friendly kid. He makes friends everywhere he goes. He was watching a man fish and soon after that he had his own pole and was fishing right along side this new friend he just made. Both Adam and Drugh played baseball and softball this past season and Popeye was coach to both of their teams. Wow, he didn't realize what he was in for. He still loves the sport and loves those two little one's a lot. He would be the first base coach at all Adam's games and give the boys the same spiel every game. Then while coaching Drugh's team he'd refer to the girls as "ladies". It was very cool to watch.
Nana and I were talking about you yesterday and she was saying that you would probably be married with a couple of kids by now. I guess we'll never know. We just know for sure that you'd still be teasing all the little kids.
We can still see your huge smile and hear you laugh. We are going to the cemetary @ 1:00 tomorrow to take you flowers and release your balloons. Nana is going to make your favorite dish so that we can all enjoy it.
I still have the DVD of when you were in Christina's Quincera. I'd play it but I think it would still be to painful. It's amazing how many lives you've touched.
We love and miss you dearly.
Mom
Christy Aguayo
June 3, 2009
Hieeee,
Bet you never thought you would be on the internet! Weird HUH? I just really thought about that right now...it just sunk in. Man...you not being here makes things so much harder. Where are we supposed to get our laughs???? You could always make the worst case scenario a complete laughfest. Our brother is leaving again and once again our lives will freeze and everyone elses will keep going...we have to try hard to just deal with you and him and everything will be okay, it has to be. It would just be a lil easier if you could help us out with some laughs!!!!! We were just telling stories about how you got kicked out of the park and we laughed until we cried.We miss you.We love you.
Barbara Melendrez
February 6, 2009
Hi Justin Ryan,
Grandma got some good news today, I had a test on Dec. 11th and I just got the results today. My heart is gonna keep on ticking, thanks to the good Lord and a lot of wonderful prayers that he answered and I know you are my special angel looking out for all of us.
We are going to go pick up our Sadie girl tomorrow, but we may run into some rain, not to much I hope. We really got a good soaking today that we needed up here in the desert. We don't get to much rain up here, so it was real nice to get so much that was running down the streets.
Well Meijo it's midnight I think I'll call it a day. With all our Love in the name of God and Christ Jesus.
Our Love alway and forever.
Nana and Pops Melendrez
Barbara Melendrez
February 2, 2009
Dearest Beloved Grandson Justin,
It's been a long time since grandma wrote you-I'm I so wish I could be everything for everyone and always be there for everyone who needs me. "J", Nana is getting old and tired and as I grow older so does my body start to give out and fail me sometimes. We are going to watch Adam and Drugh play basketball every Saturday and it's fun. The village really trys to come see them, but these next few Saturday games start at 8:00 a.m., so it gets hard for everyone to come up the hill. Your mom gets up here every Saturday for the games. The kids are also going to play baseball and Bubba has tryouts on the 7th of February. I so remember when we use to go see you play baseball and still laugh when we talk about the time you pitched the ball and it hit the umpire and the ball got stuck in his mask--only you my Justin.
We got so much snow this winter, about 3 feet or so. We could not go any where for 3 days. but it was one of the most beautiful experiences of my life. In the almost 15 years we have lived up here in the High Desert we never had this much snow.
I'll say goodnight for now and say how much Pops and I miss and love you alway with all our hearts In
gods named.
Love alway and always,
Nane and Pops Melendrez
Mom
November 12, 2008
Good morning Son,
Yesterday was the 5th anniversary date of your passing into heaven. We all got together like we do each year and laughed at all the silly things you used to do. We all went to the cemetery and managed to fit all your beautiful flower arrangements in your cups. You had the most beautiful bouquet with a cross (red, white and blue) from your second family "the Puente's". Rennetta left you a huge jaw breaker! Just like the one's you used to eat when you were a kid. You know one of those dinosaur one's. It took you weeks to finish one of those. But you truely enjoyed every bit of it. It's amazing how many stories we still share and all the things we thought we knew and are just finding out about. Like your Aunt Ree says it's a wound that gets bandaided and then at the end of the year the bandaid is lifted and the wound is as deep as it ever was and just as painful. We are all lucky to have each other in hard times and with the strength God gives us we can go on to the next day. Keep sending your little signs it really keeps us going.
Love you lots,
Mom
christy aguayo
November 11, 2008
Hey Justin,
Whata ya say?Whata ya do?Whata ya know????? Well we are all still here, sometimes by a string but we are here...went and saw you this morning, my brain went numb...Serg said "hope nobody gets in your way today you don't look so swell." We all went and even Sugar and Sam, it was quiet. The weather was nice and clear just like that day we took you there but the sun wasn't as hot. You are missing Jeremy even he went to see you. He likes Elmo!!! He has Spongebob teeth!! HMMMM. It's just not the same, it's not right and it's not fair. But whata ya do? I want you to know this isn't the only day we think of you, you are with us everyday and on the holidays which are on the way. We played the imagine if Justin was here game, while we visited you... we all laughed and then cried and then left cause it hurt. Dad wore his shirt, I walked in with mine on and he said "I should wear mine, but don't know if it fits." So he went and got it out it fit. We were hoping it did so you wouldn't look chinese!!!!!! Dad said "imagine poor mijo would look chinese!!!!!" Ham wore hers too. Hope you like your patriotic flowers. I pictured you saluting dad and making fun of Michaels PTSD!!!! Ha Ha! We just miss you, thats all. Love Ya brother from another mother.
Nana & Popeye's 50th.
D Contreras
September 30, 2008
My Dearest “J”,
Thank you for your help these last 2 days. It is Amazing how you know exactly when to show up. Whether it be signs or in the form of a Bee walking the hallways at home. Although we get very emotional on the other hand we are very grateful. Whenever I am busy outside whether it be yard work or a project there is always a bee buzzing around and I feel it’s you looking over us and trying to help as you used to in the past. That meant so much to me, never having to ask for help. Sometimes my pride conflicts with my stubbornness in asking but none the less I appreciate all you always did for me and your mom. I guess my only regret is that you never got to see our new home, well not physically but in spirit I see you all the time and that and your Mother’s love for all of us is what really makes it a Home for all of us.
Continue looking out for each and every one of us. “Go Hawks” #54
Love Always, Dave Contreras.
Kathy
September 18, 2008
Good Morning Kid,
Sitting here thinking about you, nothing new! Missing you, as everyone does. You brought so much laughter to our family it is so noticably missed! Your presence in a crowd, your smile in a room and the sense of life you shared with everyone you met is undoubtably missed by those who new and loved you! I know for us it is........We still have our moments of laughter and tears. You gave us so much, we hold tight to all those memories and talk about them often. I love when Robert gets going, of coarse he has many many stories to tell. Although some of the stories he tells you would undoubtedly be sitting at the "Dining Room Table"....LOL! I hope you know it was always in love!!!!!! We love you just as we do our own and we have broken hearts as though you were....I would never begin to say I hurt as much as your Mom but it is a pain that can't be describe a love that can't be explained for a child that came into our lives many years ago and stole our hearts, a child that loved, laughed and cried with us and is imbedded in our hearts forever....
You are loved, missed and held dear to us every day!
In His Luv
Kathy
See you on the other side one day!
August 4, 2008
Happy 23rd Birthday Son!
We all went to the cemetery today with beautiful roses and balloons to celebrate your birthday! We sat and laughed, talked and remembered the good old days when you were around. We talked about the days where you would go to aunt Debadee's house and JR and you would make donuts. You would drink pickle juice just to be crazy but your donuts were GREAT! We talked about how you and Kenneth would go home for lunch and make biscuits. Oh how you loved to eat your pancakes with no syrup and your toast plain. Never any butter, margarine or mayo. It's been almost five years now that you've been gone and we still have a hard time letting go. This past weekend we went to Laughlin to celebrate your aunt Anna's 50th birthday and can you believe that Jose and Rennetta got married! Wow! We had the best time. Hokey was the best man and I was Rennie's maid of honor. It was very private but beautiful! She looked so pretty. Jose looked handsome with his red shirt and black tie. We ate wedding cake in Art's room and toasted to their happiness. It was so nice. Very simple but very nice. Your niece Sadie got to join us for dinner that night. She is really something. We just know that if you were around physically right now you would be teasing her so much. She gets in her little moods and makes the funniest faces. We just know that she wouldn't be in that kind of mood very long with you teasing her. Your brother Artie always has a special gift for her each time he sees her. She is kind of spoiled. She is her grammy's ditto. She looks a lot like her grammy and even acts like her at times too. Hokey can't get very far without her saying "hey, where's my daddy". She is very observant. She loves to go outside and garden with her grandpa Dave. She will assist him with anything he is doing. She was in the front yard with her Cinderella dress on doing cement work with all the cement tools. The neighbors think she is so cute.
It was so nice to see the Puente girls today while we were visiting you. You will remain in their hearts until the day we all meet up again in heaven. They love you so much! You were a huge part of their lives and they miss you dearly.
Adam is playing tackle football again this season and Drugh is now a cheerleader! Boy oh boy. You'd really get a kick out of Drugh. I'm sure you would tease her just the way you used to tease her. And she would still tell you that's she's not your buns! Remember, me not you buns! She's pretty excited about it. Adam is still nicknamed "Dash". That kid is so fast! It's amazing. He's a busy little guy. He just had his 9th birthday on July 31st and finallly got the gift of his dreams. A Wii. He was so happy he fell on the floor pretending that he had passed out! He slept with it in the car until they got home so he could play. He's been playing tennis and bowling. Having the time of his life. As you can see it's still "baby, baby, baby". All of them not just Adam anymore.
Gotta run for now son. I will write back soon.
I love you with all my heart.
Mom
Christy Aguayo
June 28, 2008
Hieeee,
It's me, well, what to say where to start. Ian is here and he is weird! he is right down your ally. He is a DJ, go white boy! go white boy! Andrea is great she is Ians little mother. Sugar is doing good she is getting tall. She will be venturing into 3rd grade and Sam into 4th. Can you believe it????? They still know who you are and where you are and that you are an angel. Time can be such a blessing but such heartbreaker at the same time, it is like a double edge sword. I try not to think about the things that you miss, and think about the glorious place you are now. But as human nature has it, it, sometimes doesn't matter and we all just want you here. I drove down the old block and I'm glad we all left it had to be that way. It would have never worked without you. For a long time I thought it would be nice to still be there, but even Sergio said it wouldn't work. I just got back from NY! Michael is doing ok, he misses everyone. Grace and Amily are good. Jeremy is perfect!!! They are both just puttin along. Now a days we all just take one day at a time and try not to plan too far ahead. Buh and Papa just had there 50th. Just like Popeye and Nana. Pretty cool huh? Sometimes I still just sit back and think what the heck happened what the H-E- bouble toothpicks is really going on how did this happen. It is still a mind numbing thought. Like right now I start seeing spots!!!!! HA HA HA! Anyway I just wanted to say HIEEEEEEE and share some of my heart with you. Even on here it is hard to say bye, but I can't write forever. So see ya around, or see ya later! Love Ya ! brother from another mother.
Artie
June 26, 2008
Hey Dude! I'm just sitting here with mom, & we're getting ready for Sadie's Birthday Party on Saturday! She's a whole 3 years old now!! & she acts like she's 15! That little girl has way too much sass for a 3 year old! & she's just a little spoiled! Guess what you bought her?! A Dora the Explorer talking doll house! That'll keep her occupied for a few days! We love having her here, man! She has so much character! We took her to Disneyland a couple of weeks ago. Please tell me why she freaked out when we would get on rides and when we went to see Mickey?! She would just start crying, & then she told Cinderella that we weren't feeding her! She's crazy, man! Nana & Pops took the kids to Utah to go see the caves that we saw when we were little. The kids came back so excited! They had such a good time & they keep saying" & guess what else?!... & Guess what else?!" They're hilarious! & my little button man has half an eyebrow because he freaks out at the barber! poor button man! I haven't seen my Ezzy in a while, but I know that you're trying to keep her safe where she's at. I miss my Ezzy. So the kids are great, but... I need to you to work on some stuff, dude! I don't know when everything got so messed up, but we need some guiding lights down here. I wish that I could express to you everything that I am feeling, but I'm censored. So I will just ask that you please keep an extra close watch over all of us, & keep us on the right path. Help us to appreciate the life that we have been granted, and realize that it could all end in a second. Yesterday, I heard a story about 2 girls that were in an accident on they're way to a dance competition, and the 18 year old driver, just out of high school, was killed. When I hear things like this, it doesn't matter whether I knew the person or not, I have back flashes of the night I found out you were gone. I start to reflect on everything that I felt, & feel for the family that has to endure those same emotions now. You wish you could tell them you are sorry for their loss, but know that it's the last thing they want to hear. No amount of apologies could bring their daughter back. It breaks my heart to hear that someone so young is gone. They had their whole life ahead of them. Now it's over, and they never saw it coming. I guess God's mission for them was completed, but it doesn't keep us down here from asking, "WHY HIM/HER?!" I miss you, J! Everyday I have to smile at something you would do or say because it makes my day better. I hope you continue to keep us all safe & healthy, and I know we'll be speaking soon. I love you, J!
May 13, 2008
Hi Son,
I know it's been a while now but I have tried numerous times now and have not been successful. Well Nana and Popeye's big day has come and gone now. 50 years wow! We had a great time! We displayed your picture on the altar and also at the reception. You were with us in spirit. Your Aunt Anna and Uncle Ruben hired a photographer and he made the best video. We all got very emotional while watching the video. We all cried together. Your second parents the Puente's were there which made it more special. Unfortunately neither of your nieces were able to participate in this special event. Your step father hired mariachi's for the after party at the house. They were so GOOD! Oh my God! Nana and Pops LOVED them! It was all worth it. Sadie points at your picture and says "who's that". She now knows that you are Uncle "J". She says that's daddy's friend. I tell her it's his friend and also his brother. She's so cute. Please know that we think of you each and every day and wonder how many kids you would have and what you would name them. I know son that we will be together again some day.
I love you.
Mom
Kathy Puente
April 28, 2008
Good Morning Justin,
Last night as I layed in bed everytime I closed my eyes I could see your face.....It made me smile, but yet at the same time it made my heart hurt.Time just seems to be slipping away.....It has been so long since I've heard your voice or felt the strength of your hugs! The longing to hear you laugh, the smell of you when you get close.........Your jokes in an akward moment......You can never truely understand what someone means in your life until they are no longer a part of you everyday as you were....Yesterday Robert started telling stories about you and the things you guys use to do, such as crank calling people in the middle of the night! It went on for about an hour then a silence came over the room and people disbursed :( Reality always seems to have a way of sneaking back in some how.....Well Justin I guess you can see that time does not heal all wounds, this one is here for a lifetime..........But I know one thing I will see you again and I will smell you again and feel the strength of your hugs, but most of all the smile you will have standing there in heaven greating us all as we come to join you in all your glory!
You are loved much and missed more than can be known!!!!!
In His Luv
Nana Barbara & Pops Melendrez
April 7, 2008
My Dearest Meijo Justin,
Well Meijo, Nana and Pops made it-again. The wedding was so beautiful and wonderful and everyone had a great time. It was so good to see many of our good friends and all the relatives. The ceremony at the church was very special to Nana and Pops because that is the church we got married in 50 years ago ,everyone looked so wonderful and the babies did a great job. Our little Ryan made it up to the alter with his bottle looking for his mommy and daddy(Nenie and Jose) he got away from his grandma Eduvina,aunt Angelica and uncle Lalo and went right up to the alter while father
Tom was performing the ceremony-that was really funny. That was the only little mishap and the rain that ruined the back yard decorations at your moms house. Artie, Marco, Dave and Hokey worked all Friday evening and Sat. morning setting up. But we still had a great time enjoying the Mariachies (that Dave arranged for all to enjoy) Justin, we had a great photo slide show that Aunt Anna had her photograper make up and one that Tee made for us of our life. There were many tears shed when your picturers part of the slide were shown, so Meijo you were there with us in many ways, but we so much missed being able to hug and hold you and see you wonderful smile and laugh with you. Pops and Nana would do it all again in a minute just to be able to enjoy everyone together and having a great time. Many thanks to the family for helping put this great wedding together.
The Lord God blessed and was with all of us as you were meijo. I'll say good night and Love you very much , always.
We love you with all our hearts,
Nana and Pops,
Mom
January 7, 2008
Hi Son,
Well it's Jan. 2008 and the holidays were tough once again. We all miss you and still talk about you every chance we get. It was a long year with lots of ups and downs. On a positive note we got to see your nieces just before Christmas and they got to meet each other and they played so well together. It's amazing. Kids are so innocent they have no fear they love everyone they meet. The girls had fun playing here at the house. Running, jumping and laughing with their cousins Adam, Drugh and of course, baby Ryan. Ezzy was pretty excited with the new table and chairs she got and wanted to sit and chat with everyone that would come by and Sadie on the other hand got a new cash register and wanted to distribute all her money & share all the groceries in her basket. I love to see them and play with them. It amazes me to see how much they grow with every passing day. Guess who came by to see me? Michael Puente. Oh my God! He's matured so much that I can hardly believe it's the same young boy who used to run around and chase all you guys around the neighborhood on Fourth St. He's a hero these days and still manages to be a good husband and father to his three children. He's made his momma a proud mom. Her eyes light up every time he gets to come and visit. Well we only have a couple of months until Nana and Popeye renew their vows once again after 50 years. Wow! What an accomplishment. That doesn't happen very often any longer. People just don't make it that far for whatever reason. Hopefully this year will bring all of us good health and happiness. We will always miss you son. That beautiful smile with that big dimple in your cheek. Your laugh and sense of humor will always be remembered. We will be going to Texas soon to visit Steve, Cookie and the family. Remember how she used to call you Justin Timberlake.. that was to funny. How ironic it is that both Cookie and Steve have lost teenage sons. We all have that in common and can talk about it and can relate to all the similarities that we have and feel. It gives me some sense of togetherness I guess you could say because I know that I am not alone and that others have grieved just as much as I did and still do.
Gotta run for now.
God Bless You Son.
Love you much,
Mom
Kathy Puente
November 11, 2007
Well Kid,
It has happened four years have gone by......
It is crazy it feels like it was yesterday.......
Yet seems like you have been gone forever......
I know that doesn't seem to make any sense but those who love you know.......
It's 1:00 am and I can't sleep thinking too much wondering too much........Crying too much.....
Asking God to strengthen me this day........Seeking the peace only God can give me.......
Trusting on His word that we will meet again.....
With all the love I have I miss you!
In His Luv
Kathy Puente
November 2, 2007
Justin Ryan,
I don't even know what to say my emotions just seem to be out of control right now......I can't seem to collect my thoughts to a place where they would make any sense.
Time seems to fly by then there are moments when time just seems to stand still and the pain is just so real and sometimes seems so unbearable. And then I think of your Mom and my heart just collapses........her pain, I can't even put into words. Even when she smiles her eyes have that neverending emptiness that no one else will ever understand.
So we get up every day and ask God to get us through this one more day......not thinking of tomarrow.
Trusting that God has a greater plan beyond anything we can understand. Without that hope tommarow would never be possible. So as we continue this journey I pray God strengthens those who have to endure life without you beside them........
I Love You !
In His Love
October 28, 2007
Dearest Son,
Oh my God! I had a Justin moment this morning. I went to Stater Brothers to pick up some stuff to take to Nana and Popeyes house today and I saw a handsome young man that looked just like you. My heart dropped and then I heard him speak. He spoke just like you as well. I wanted to touch him and hold him. I had to gain my composure and use some self control. I immediately started to cry and thought I need to get out of here. I hurried along and at the register I once again ran into him. He poked his head out of the isle and looked at me and turned right around and went back. I guess I'm having a harder time right now because your 4th year anniversary of your passing is coming up soon. I just want you to know how much we love and miss you. I can only imagine how great you would be with your nieces right now. You would be teasing them and loving them all at once. I know we're not the only ones who miss you. Thank God for the Puente's who keep your memory alive in their home. I know they struggle with dealing with your passing just like the rest of us.
I better go for now but I'll write back soon.
Love you with all my heart,
Mom
Nana and Pop's(Shorty and Barbara Melendrez
October 24, 2007
Dearest Grandson Justin Ryan,
The family is getting ready for Nana and Pop's 50th Wedding anniversary celebration next March. There is just one very sad thing about this celebration you will not be with us to make use laugh and give the babies a bit of a hard time, but know this my Justin, you are always in our hearts and thoughts and I know your spirit will be there with us all.
Justin, you would be so proud of Adam, he is playing on the Jr Micro Jr All American Football team and is doing a great job. We are all enjoying the football games on Saturdays. We just got his pictures and he really looks like a big boy now. Our Drugh is real proud of her reading in school and works real hard at it.They are not babies any more but I think to the family they will always be the babies. Meijo Justin, I have to say bye for now. Love you very much, Love also from Pop's
Christy Aguayo
October 16, 2007
Justin,
Well I am supposed to be studying for my new job BUT you are on my mind and I can't shake it so what better way to deal than say what is going on in my brain. I was watching the kids play outside yesterday afternooon and they made a friend a couple doors down, which they are very excited about. He is Russian and stands on his head. Sugar thinks he is brilliant. Oh and she was hoping you had a good birthday in heaven. I can still see you and hear you coming up the street with no shirt, no shoes and crack showing with your duck tail hanging into the middle of your back. HOKEYYYYY, HOKEYYYY mom said come home right now.!!!!!! I just wish my kids were as lucky and as blessed as us to have friends like you guys to share childhood memories with. No one else has that memory of seeing you in such a pure way as I do. Even when times are hard as they are in life with your brothers or mine, we had to let you go to heaven we had to send Michael off to war and we had to watch Robert put his very best friend to rest, carrying you in his hands, a literal death grip that will make his hands sore forever. The memories are so important. They are all so life changing. Your are the first one to cross the finish line, and you will be there to welcome us all with open arms. That is a big order to fill. It is hard to admit because we all want you here but the Lord is smart. Because of our longing to see you we draw nearer to him to ease the pain. I think your an angel to our families. Well I better go now. I am feeling better. Time to move on for the day. We love you (BFAM) Christy.
August 17, 2007
To My Dearest Son Justin,
Well here I go again. I wrote to you and it wasn't published so we'll try this again. I'm another year older now and the whole family went up to Laughlin for your birthday to see Sadie and we weren't allowed once again. I'm sure you were up there laughing your head off at our disasterous weekend. First of all David got a ticket on the way up there, I had a few to many spirits and had to leave the buffet sicker than a dog. They kicked the "G"s out of their rooms because of a mistake they made when Nana made the reservations. Boy oh boy you should have seen Nana go! The lady still has it. She isn't done yet. She wrote the corporate office when she got home. I took you balloons and flowers before I left and they were watering so I tried to place the balloons and flowers on you without getting caught by the sprinkler and guess what? It got me and popped two of your balloons. I know son, it was the thought right?
Life could definitely be much better but their is always hope. I think about you and pray for you each and every day. I know that when I pass you'll be waiting for me with open arms and I can hold you once again. If I think really hard enough I can still hold you in my arms and laugh at all the silly things that used to be funny to us.
Nana and Popeye will be married 50 years in March and they are going to have a church ceremony and a little reception. What a great accomplishment for them. We will all feel your presence on that day and the funny little remarks you would be making.
Adam is playing tackle football now and is having fun. He was a little confused at first because he didn't understand why one of his coaches was "very angry". He couldn't understand why they had to yell all the time. He'll get used to it if he continues to play sports. This is just the beginning. Baby Ryan is picking up some funny phrases these days. He has learned how to speak in french..... I'm sure you know what I mean. He's so cute. Artie calls him buttons. He has a couple of cowlicks in the back of his head that look like buttons. Funny Archie.
I think I've said enough for today but I will write soon.
I love you dearly.
Mom
Jacqueline Audet
August 4, 2007
hey Justin!!!! HAPPY 22nd BIRTHDAY!!!! i miss you so much and thank you for watchin over me. love you J...
love,
me
ARTIE
July 26, 2007
My Dearest J,
Where do I begin? I guess I should start by saying thank you! For every day that passes that I know you are watching over me & the family. I'm at work right now(story of my life) & I have been thinking about you so much lately! I miss you so much! Especially around this time of year! you would've been 22 in a week & i still ask to this day, "Why did you have to go so soon?" I get so angry somedays that I don't want to get out of bed because I know I'm going to be in a BAD mood & I just don't feel like dealing with stupid people. The family has been under so much stress with the whole Sadie thing. But it's all over now, & we will get to see her on a regular basis now, and we couldn't be more grateful. Our nieces are so beautiful! The Sadie Bear is out of control! She lip-sings & dances!... & is so bossy! She got that from you!!... & the Ezz has so much character! She makes the cutest faces & the funniest noizes! Just like her Uncle J! & everytime I look at them I only wish they could have known you! but I will do my best to make sure that they know everything about you & know you're face when they see you in pictures! In my previous relationships, I have encountered some parents that take their children for granted! Parents that disown their child for being different; or parents that don't care enough to know their children's where abouts. & I wonder, "What would That parent do if tomorrow their child was dead?" what if they couldn't see their child anymore? or hold them? or talk to them? & that's when I truly understand selfishness. What I wouldn't do to see you again? To tell you that I love you because I don't think I said it enough? To be able to hold you again because I resisted your hugs so often? To be able to laugh with you again instead of arguing?Or just to be able to smell the scent of Curve Cologne on your shirt again before you walk out the door? So I'll leave it at this & I'll say it again because I cannot stress it enough.... I MISS YOU! I MISS YOU! i MISS YOU! & MY lOVE FOR YOU IS ENDLESS & WIHTOUT BOUNDRIES! I'M SURE WE'LL TALK AGAIN SOON!
LUV YOU ALWAYS,
YOUR BIG BROTHER,
ARTIE
Barbara Melendrez
June 10, 2007
Hi Meijo Justin Ryan, Yesterday as I was getting ready to go to your Aunt Tina's 50th birthday party, I heard one of your favorite songs and Nana could not stop crying from missing you and knowing you would not be a her party and all the little dinners we have as a family. Justin this family has such a void in our hearts that only talking and remembering all the crazy things you said and did bring our hearts back to making each day possible to go on without you. And the presences of the Lord with us gives us hope to see you and hold you in our arms once again one day. Meijo so much is happening in our family lately. Our family has been blessed with Izabella, our third great grandchild and her mommy Sonia. She is so beautiful and loving, makes little faces and is talking a lot and she makes her daddy's check marks with her eyebrows. Nana has to say bye for now. With you always in our hearts and in our thoughts. Love, Nana and Pops Melendrez
Kathy Puente
June 8, 2007
Justin Ryan,
Well kid Michael made it home safe. Mike and I were able to be there when he got home and it felt so good to hold him. Then I thought of your Mom and felt guilty. That is something I am sure she wishes she could do. Sometimes when I look in her eyes you can see the pain deep inside. My heart breaks for her daily. It just shows you are so imbedded in our hearts that no matter what we do you are there. No matter how much time passes your absense affects our thoughts and actions. The only thing that gives any comfort is knowing we will one day get to see your Mom hold you in her arms again. You are loved and missed beyond any understanding.......
In His Luv
Jacqueline Audet
June 6, 2007
Hey Justin!!!!
Sorry its been so long since ive been on here, ive been very busy with school and moving and all that fun stuff...anyways, i just wanted to say that i miss you so much, more and more everyday. i thought it would get a little easier every year that passes by, but it doesnt, i still miss you as much as i ever have. im glad to see that the guest book is still up---thank you to whoever keeps it goin!!!!!!!! anyways, i love you and i miss you so much....!
May 2, 2007
Hi Son,
Well, we finally got to see Sadie yesterday! She is so adorable. She has a great sense of humor. Always laughing and dancing. Wait until Uncle Artie sees her dance. He is going to sign her up for dance classes on the spot! Baby Ezabella is so cute. She has the rosiest red cheeks and is so full of life. Aunt Ree is doing better now and has a lot of follow up appointments to attend. Thank you for giving Nana and Popeye the strength and health to help with Drugh and Adam. Drugh is the clean up hitter on her t-ball team. She is always up to bat last so she hits the ball and runs all the way home. I hope they keep her as the clean up hitter because she never stops running. Really funny to watch. Your Aunt Dee Dee got bit by a bee yesterday. It flew into the car and she couldn't find it until it bit her on the neck. I hope that wasn't your sign son. It maybe because JR got his drivers license and your Aunt Dee Dee is a little nervous over it. Maybe it's your way of telling her to chill. We think of you each and every day and until the day I pass I will continue to think of you and miss you.
We love you dearly.
Mom
April 4, 2007
Hi
Son,
Where do I begin? We have been through a lot lately. We almost lost
your Aunt Ree almost two weeks ago. She had to have emergency surgery
and is still very ill. She isn't out of the woods yet but I know that
with your guidance she will be okay. Thank you for guiding the hands
that saved her life. Those babies need their momma and we love her
dearly. We haven't seen Sadie since Christmas and hope to see her soon.
We have a court hearing soon and hope to see her soon after that. She
is talking like a parrot now. Repeating everything she hears. Good and
bad. You have a new niece and her name is Ezabella. We are going to
meet her soon and welcome her to our loving family. Another surprise
girl! Adam is playing little league now and is a blast to watch. He is
playing 4 different positions and he so reminds me of you when you used
to play. He pitched on Monday and was so fun to watch. He is a natural.
Drugh will begin t-ball soon and will be just as fun to watch. Please
help us through these tough times to come and continue giving us all
your little signs. We love you.
Mom
Kathy
March 29, 2007
Dearest Justin,
I am sitting here listening to your song "Who You'ld Be Today"
I often wonder what would be different in life if you were still here? I know God has a plan and this is His divine will. But when times get tough I can't help but wonder. As I did my bible study this morning it talked about being thankful for where God has me today knowing He is in control, in all things giving thanks. Rejoicing always, praying without ceasing.........
Yet, I still wonder. I am thankful that you were a part of my life, so that is the joy I have found in all this.........I have memories no one can take away, that is how I can still be thankful. These things make my faith grow stronger knowing that God's Word is the truth.
Well Luv, I miss you more today, but not more than tomarrow......
Nadine Audet
February 13, 2007
Hi Justin!
It has been such a long time since you've been gone, and it still seems like yesterday we were all eating at that awesome mexican restaurant off Garey, or when we TP-d mary's house with our undercover masks. HA, I always had such a great time with you. Whenever we hung out, it seemed like nothing else mattered, and that all our worries were gone. I still have the picture of you and me after your graduation, its sitting on-top of my tv watching over me.
You were such an inspiration to everyone you knew, and I wish that I could have gotten one last hug, because you gave the greatist hugs ever. I always thought you should've been on those crest toothpaste commercials because your teeh were so white, and you were always smiling so big. I know your having fun up there, telling all your famous jokes. I actually lost another friend last year in a car accident, Lauren Davidson, so if you see her, tell her I miss her. And tell my Aunt Renee hi too! I don't know if you remember Brandon Seiglar?...but if you do, he just passed away.
Not a day goes by that you don't run through my mind. One of these days we'll meet again, and you better bet your butt that Ill be waiting for that hug. Love and miss you always!
Kathy Puente
February 8, 2007
Well Justin Ryan,
Mike are going to a new church it is called Calvary Christian Fellowship.....
You would like the people there bunch of funny guys. It is just starting out you remember Chad well he is a pastor now. Him and Brian are still friends and are doing this together. They have asked Mike and I to give a helping hand getting it started we are very excited. Chad is married now with 2 kids. Crazy! Praying God gives us a new focus.
Miss you as much today as any day before, well maybe even more!
I will always love you as though you were still here.......
In His Luv
Kathy
christy aguayo
January 30, 2007
Hey,
Well not much excitment has been going on around here, I don't know if that is bad or good. We all miss you terribly. Katie is riding horses now, yep sugar is a real english riding gal. It is a big horse his name is Lasso or Mr. Fabulous 16.1 hands. You would be proud but the way you are you wouldn't like the smell, I don't mind it, it makes her happy. The kids talk about you all the time. Sugar comes up with some off the wall stuff. Andrea AKA caca face as Rob calls her they are a real pair. She is beautiful, lisp, tooth gap and all. You would just adore her she is a real rough neck. This still is not real, is it?? I guess so, Your 4th brother is still gone, and like you is missed. Isn't life funny? Sergio is still getting his movies but still no one to trade with. Mike and Kathy are still here, crazies!! We could really go for a laugh right now all of us. We miss you and love you and think of you daily, all of us. Brother from another Mother.
Donna
January 3, 2007
Dearest Son,
Well another Christmas and New Years has come and gone and it still
hurts just like it was yesterday. We all get together here at the house
just like the old times but it will never be the same. Stube comes by and
visits with us and it feels good that he still remembers us and the
good times he had with you.
Your niece Sadie was in heaven with all her Christmas gifts. She really
loved her new Elmo from your Aunt Debadee and her family. Her favorite
is Dora. She calls her "Dora, Dora".
Her vocabulary is excellent. She can say anything you tell her to. That
could be dangerous, but she is so full of energy and life and still
looks so much like our family. Drugh and Adam got scooters this year
for Christmas and they are always out and about on their scooters. They are getting so big. Adam's nickname is "Bubba" and Drugh's is "Take Charge Marge". Imagine that. Baby Ryan was such a good boy for New Years that he had the whole room laughing uncontrolably. He dances in
place moving his hands and feet at the same time and making these funny
faces. He loved all the attention and danced all the more. He walked
over to your curio and just stood there looking inside. We know that
you were talking to him because he was as quiet and good as can be. He
actually slept in front of it while the rest of the kids played
Pictionary. Aunt Ree is still a cheater. It didn't help her because she still lost. But they had a good
time. Popeye just turned a big "70" and Nana made your favorite tacos.
I remember you used to tell me how my tacos were good but never as
goodas Nanas. I know they aren't son but we all still eat them. Your
headstone was decorated really pretty. Your uncle Rene even made you and your sister a Chirstmas tree. Yes, your Uncle Rene. They were beautiful! I couldn't believe he made them. Hidden talents that we
never knew he had.
Rennie and your buddy "Jose" are planning to get married in October.
They are going to get married at St. Frances of Rome Church because of
the link the church had with you. You went to school there and it was
the last place they saw you. Lots of planning but I'm sure it will go
well.
Know that their isn't a day that passes that we don't think of you and pray that you are watching over us. Well David and I are off to Texas to visit Cookie, Steve and the kids who resently moved out there to
start a new life in Texas. It will be cold but I'm sure we'll have a
good time. Wish us luck son.
We love you dearly and will be with you when we reach the other side.
Love,
Mom
Kathy Puente
November 16, 2006
Justin Ryan,
Well kid.........
As I read peoples hearts in this memory book I see that hurting hearts will never heal. It seems as though our hearts have been hurting forever....Three years have passed and there is no healing in site, which I would guess will never come to those who loved you most. Quiet moments are hard, emotions can comsume you in seconds. You are thought of daily in our hearts and missed more today than yesterday. As we struggle to get through this day and try not to think of how we will get through tomarrow, we ask of God, sustain us til the day he brings us home and all together again.
D Contreras
November 15, 2006
Here is what I tried sending you on your last Birthday, for whatever reasons it was not posted.
It seems like only yesterday when your smile graced this world.
It seems like only yesterday when your laughter sang out loud.
It seems like only yesterday that you were there to wipe away the sadness when we needed it most.
It seems like only yesterday, because it was.
It was yesterday, it is today, as well as it will be tomorrow.
You are with us each and every day, in everything we do.
You are the smile on all our faces and the tear that runs down our cheeks when life hasn't been fair.
The lord took you home almost three years ago , but you have never left us.
You were then, as you are now, this family's Heart and Soul.
We will always cherish the time we did have with you.
Continue looking out for all of us, each and every one.
Happy Birthday J,
Feliz 21,
Love Always,Dave.
November 14, 2006
To my dearest son Justin,
Well it's been three long years since your passing and so much has happened since then and yet sometimes it feels like just yesterday you were here with us laughing and joking around being your usual self. We all went to visit on Saturday and had good converstion with your second family (the Puente's). Words cannot describe the emptiness in our hearts when we speak of you. I think we'll carry that until the day we meet again. We continue to see your little signs and realize that your still with us spiritually. Your namesake Ryan is a year old today. Wow, on your sisters birthday. You know that she would have been 24 years old today. How time flies. Please bless us all in the coming days for we all need your blessings. We love and miss you dearly.
Mom
Debbie Gonzales
November 13, 2006
My Dearest Geeg,
Saturday was the third Nov. 11th since you've been gone and the emotions continue to come in waves. They may be just a little further apart but just as painful. No matter where I go, occationally people will see your picture on my heart necklace that I wear eveyday and ask about you or the kids at school will see your name tattoed on my ankle and ask who you were. I am proud to say that you were my nephew and what a wonderful person you were. I tell them that you were the life, the spark of our family and how deeply I miss you. Another family gathering has come and gone without your physical prescence. I know you were there with us spiritually. Next week will be yet another gathering without you. We will be thankful for the short time we had you in our lives and for the countless memories you left for us. Thank you for gracing my life and for making me feel like your "special aunt." Thank you for being the Lords extra eyes to watch over us. I love you "J", and miss you every minute of my life. God Bless you always, mijo.
Your Aunt DeeDee
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