Search by Name

Search by Name

Joseph "Joe" Lavender

1939 - 2020

BORN

1939

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Brown-Pennington-Atkins Funeral Home & Crematory - Hartsville

306 West Home Avenue

Hartsville, South Carolina

Joseph Lavender Obituary

Joseph "Joe"

Lavender

Graveside funeral services for Joseph "Joe" Maxcy Lavender, 81, were held at 1:00 pm on Sunday; October 11, 2020 at Magnolia Cemetery in Hartsville, directed by Brown-Pennington-Atkins Funeral Home.

Mr. Lavender died Friday, October 9, 2020. He was born March 27, 1939, in New Zion, South Carolina, the son of Velma Faye Floyd and William Maxcy Lavender.

He came to Hartsville in November 1968 as a tax preparer with H&R Block. His first job with H&R Block was more than half a century ago in Sumter. Over the years, he worked his way up from tax preparer to district manager to a successful franchise owner. At one time he owned as many as 20 franchises. In recent years, Mr. Lavender started cutting back, but retained five franchises, including the H&R Block franchise in Hartsville, Darlington, Bishopville, Lake City, and Hemingway.

He was in the mini-storage business and at one time owned more than 700 mini-storage units. He also was a licensed real estate broker and appraiser, both commercial and residential.

In 1963, he started racing cars. During his career, mostly on dirt tracks, he dominated many of the tracks he ran on, winning more than 400 races. He also enjoyed watching his sons on the racetrack. He was also owner and promoter of Hartsville-Darlington Speedway, Sumter Speedway; and Florence I95 Speedway.

His greatest love was his family.

He is survived by his five children, Joey (Vickie) Lavender of Florence, Linda (Mike) Harrington of New Zion, Katherine (Tommy Nolan) Grainger of Hartsville, Jody (Tara) Lavender of Murrells Inlet and Jo Ann (Ryan) Richardson of Columbia; seven grandchildren, Michael (Lauren) Harrington of Anderson, Daniel (Becky) Harrington of Florence, Heather (Matt) Arvidson of Florence, Emily Lavender of Florence, Taylor Lavender and Chase Lavender of Murrells Inlet, and Walker Richardson of Columbia; and two great-grandchildren, Katie Arvidson and Lexi Arvidson of Florence; a brother, Dr. Abraham Lavender of Miami Beach, Florida; a sister, Marge McFaddin of Eatonton, Georgia.

Pallbearers are Michael Harrington, Daniel Harrington, Matt Arvidson, Jamey Jordan, Greg McElveen, and Scott Grainger.

Memorials may be made to First Baptist Church of Hartsville, 104 E. Home Ave., Hartsville, S.C. 29550 or Darlington County Humane Society, 1705 Adoption Way, Darlington, SC 29532.

The family would like to extend a special thanks to Dr. T. James "Jimmy" Bell and Jamey Jordan for all their assistance throughout the years.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by SCNow from Oct. 11 to Oct. 14, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Lavender

Sponsored by Brown-Pennington-Atkins Funeral Home & Crematory - Hartsville.

Not sure what to say?





1 Entry

Rocky Meekins

October 15, 2020

Sorry for your loss Joey

Showing 1 - 1 of 1 results

Make a Donation
in Joseph Lavender's name

Memorial Events
for Joseph Lavender

Oct

11

Graveside service

1:00 p.m.

Magnolia Cemetery

Hartsville, SC

Funeral services provided by:

Brown-Pennington-Atkins Funeral Home & Crematory - Hartsville

306 West Home Avenue, Hartsville, SC 29550

How to support Joseph's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Joseph Lavender's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more