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James Stellmach Obituary

HAMPTON - James Anthony Stellmach, 70, died early Sunday, November 5, 2017 in the comfort of family at his Hampton home after a long battle with cancer. He was born March 25, 1947 in Philadelphia, Pa., son of Joseph John and Regina M. (McDonald) Stellmach and moved with his family to Hampton, N.H., in 1959, where he met his future wife, Candice Crapo.

Jim graduated from Winnacunnet High School in 1965, where he played many sports, and was Captain of the football team. He attended Southern Illinois University and Moorhead State College in Minnesota.

Jim was a Vietnam War Veteran, having joined the US Marine Corps in 1966. He served part of a two-year tour of duty in combat where he was wounded in action in March 1967 for which he was awarded the Purple Heart. He was eventually sent to Portsmouth, NH Naval Hospital to recover, and upon his release was transferred to Quantico, Va., where he rose to the rank of LCpl with the Military Police Unit. Jim and Candy married in Virginia in 1968 and they returned to Hampton upon his discharge that year.

As a veteran, he immediately found employment with the Coca-Cola USA Company, headquartered in Atlanta, Ga., and was transferred from Hampton to many areas in upstate N.Y. - New Paltz, Syracuse, and Albany - where he held a number of field sales and national account assignments within the Fountain Sales Dept. In 1979 he was transferred to corporate headquarters and became Director, New Business Development. In 1983 he was appointed Vice President and Director of Marketing.

After 17 successful years with Coke, Jim formed his own beverage consulting firm, J. Stellmach & Associates, which he continued for decades. In 1995 he also formed Amstell, Inc. to develop and patent a flavored skim milk product for wider beverage appeal. He purchased a UHT packaging plant in New Bedford, Mass., where he produced his own label "Smart Milk", which is now available in flavors as a brand of Hood Milk.

Jim was fortunate to work with many wonderful clients who made him feel like family, especially one national client, Arizona Beverages, with whom he worked for decades until most recently. It was hard to keep him off the road when he should have been retired, away from the business associates he grew to love. Jim would find a challenge in every conversation, perhaps a convert to his politics or simply that day's purpose. He will be missed.

Jim and Candy have four children: James and wife Rebecca (Hicks) Stellmach of Marietta, Ga., and their children Joseph and Kate; Michael and his wife Nedda (Farro) Stellmach and their children Farah and Michael of Boca Raton, Fla.; Andrea Stellmach and her two daughters Ashley Bowden and Alexandra Bowden of Hampton, N.H..; and Stephen J. Stellmach of Portsmouth, N.H. Two great grandsons are Carter James Birmbas and Brayden G. Morrill. He is survived by six siblings: Joseph Stellmach of Hampton, John and wife Gail (Staples) Stellmach of Waterbury, Conn., Jerome Stellmach of Hampton Falls, N.H., Jeff and Denyse (Collins) Stellmach of the Charleston, S.C. area, sister Jean (Regina) and her husband Kevin O'Brien of North Falmouth, Mass., and sister Julie Deforge of Norwood, Mass. Many nieces and nephews will miss their funny uncle.

SERVICES: Private services for the family will be arranged in the near future. Donations may be made in his name to the Rockingham Visiting Nurses Association-Hospice who were most helpful in keeping Jim comfortable at home as he wished.

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Published by Seacoastonline.com from Nov. 7 to Nov. 10, 2017.

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November 11, 2017

Dear Candy and family,

We are truly sorry for your loss. Jim's passing is indeed a loss to all his Philadelphia cousins; both on the McDonald side and the Stellmach side. While we were geographically disadvantaged in the limited time we spend together we hold fond memories of the good times and laughs we did share with Jim. He is the quintessential example for his family, his friends and all who knew him, of what it means to be a self-made man'. I believe the best tribute one could pay to Jim is to say he truly was his father's son; a couple of leathernecks cut from the same leatherJimmy we loved you

John & Margie McDonald, Philadelphia Cousins

Leo Morrissette

November 10, 2017

Jim was a great friend. We had good times on the football field. Candy sorry for your loss

Sharon Schroeder

November 10, 2017

Dutchie and the Stellmach family we are so sorry for the loss of Jimmy.
We hold in our hearts wonderful memories of playing and growing up together.
God bless Jimmy.
The Spellacy girls....Sharon, Cici, Sue and Peggy.

November 9, 2017

Dear Dutchie and family.There are no words to describe how I felt reading Jim's obituary. I had no idea he was battling the cruel"C" as Lillian Russell described the disease we now can talk about. I consider him one of my best buddies and one of the brightest, interesting, most funny gentleman I have ever known, You two shared a wonderful life with never dull moment.Could not have been happier when you came home and settled where you always belonged. I will miss my long talks with Jim and pray you will all derive comfort from all the wonderful memories. God bless!

Bill Lally

November 9, 2017

Very sorry to hear this news. My deepest sympathy Candy.

Arthur Brady

November 9, 2017

Jim and I had so many great times at WHS.as a fellow Marine I say Semper Fidelis my for ever friend.

Jim & Christmas Elves, 2011

Cheryl Lassiter

November 8, 2017

Godspeed, Jim Stellmach.

Ralph Fatello

November 8, 2017

Jim was a good man. I'll miss talking with him at the Wall. We shared quite a few stories about our time in the Marine Corps and Vietnam.
Semper Fi Jim
I'll see you on the other side.

Greg Pickering

November 8, 2017

Many good memories of high school life 50 years ago. Candy, so sorry for your loss. Jim's was a life well lived.

November 8, 2017

Candy and Stellmach family
Sam and I are so sad and sorry to hear of Jims passing. He was someone we always thought of with fondness and awe, he was an inspiration to all who knew him. Words fail to express our sympathy. Rest n peace Jim.
Sam and Donna Cresta

November 8, 2017

Candy, Jim was one of my favorite people. He was funny, intelligent, warm, passionate about politics, and an all around great guy. I always looked forward to those Friday afternoon visits at the museum. Chet and I are so sorry. We will miss him.

Jim as Luigi in Marelli's Market in Hampton

Karen Raynes

November 7, 2017

Candy and family
I will always remember Jim smiling and happy dressed as Luigi at Marelli's helping bring cheer during the Hampton Christmas Parade. He was a good man and friend. Karen Raynes

Leland Brennan

November 7, 2017

I only knew Jimmy for about 3 years in high school and college. He was an outstanding athlete and made an impression with both his skills and his unbelievable personality. I spent the year of 1966 closely with him and being a junior and he a freshman he fit in with all my friends who were seniors and juniors. Jimmy had the ability to fit in any situation with little effort.
When Jimmy was wounded in Vietnam I was devistated and came to see him and his family. Little did I know that I would follow one year later
I reconnect with Jim a couple months when I heard he was sick and was able to visit him two times before he passed. All I can say is I deeply regret NOT connecting with him earlier, he was a wonder very intelligent loving man and I will miss him greatly. Sorry I didn't connect with you sooner but you will be on my list right after I see my folks when I join you.
Your friend
Leland R Brennan Jr

Joe Cathcart

November 7, 2017

God bless Dutchie and family at this difficult time. Love and prayers, cousin Joe Cathcart and family

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