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Robert Helkowsky Obituary

YORK, Maine - Robert J. Helkowsky Sr., of York, Maine, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 3, 2018 at home, surrounded and prayed for by family, and today he stands precious in the sight of the Lord (Psalm 116:15). Born in Connellsville, Pennsylvania, on May 14, 1936, to the late Victor and Mildred Helkowsky.

Robert graduated from Scottdale High School and then served a short period in the U. S. Army until August 1955 when he entered the U. S. Air Force, where he was trained in Logistics and would go on to serve his country honorably for the next thirty years, retiring in 1984 as a Chief Master Sergeant. He retired once more after managing several Cumberland Farms locations.

It was during his first assignment at Loring AFB, Maine; in February 1961, that he married the love of his life, the former Ina M. Rossignol in Van Buren. Bob was an incredible father, husband, grandfather and friend to all. He was passionate about football; especially when watching his Steelers play. He loved snowmobiling, hunting and fishing, and spending many weekends camping with his family while living in Alaska for 11 years. He liked being outside, doing gardening and home improvements; working with wood, and was always there to help friends with home projects or whatever else they needed him for.

He was extremely loving and proud of his three children, Leslie Gipson and her husband Lucky, of Wasilla, Alaska; Robert Helkowsky Jr. and his wife Amy of Berwick, and Neil Helkowsky and his girlfriend Karen Cote, of South Berwick. He is survived by his wife and best friend of over 57 years, Ina; his sister, Joan Fiedor and niece, Jeannine Fiedor, of Mt. Pleasant, Pennsylvania, and grandchildren, Josh Gipson (Taryl Cordova); Jamie Gipson (Alex Delanuez); Zach Blanchette; Katrina Blanchette; as well as his many loving friends.

While serving his country, Bob completed classes through both the University of Alaska and the University of Maryland and still found time to volunteer his time throughout his military career and into retirement with the Boy Scouts, Eielson Youth Center, Toys for Tots, Pease Greeters, serving as VFW Post 6977 Commander, and donating gallons of blood to the American Red Cross.

SERVICES: The family will receive friends on Friday, March 9, from 6-8 p.m., at the JS. Pelkey Funeral Services, 125 Old Post Rd., in Kittery. A celebration of life service will be held at 11 a.m., Saturday, March 10 at St. Christopher's Church, 4 Barrel Lane, York. Immediately following, a final salute to signify gratitude for his service will be rendered by the Military Honor Guard at the church entrance; and then please join the family at a small reception in the fellowship hall downstairs. Bob was a veteran of the Vietnam War and will be laid to rest with honors at the Southern Maine Veterans Cemetery in Springvale.

A special thank you to the Beacon Hospice in Pease for their loving care and support of our dad. Memorials in Bob's name may be made to Beacon Hospice at 25 New Hampshire Avenue, suite 272, Portsmouth, NH 03801, in lieu of flowers.

Care for the Helkowsky family has been entrusted to the JS Pelkey Funeral Home. Online condolences may be made by visiting www.jspelkeyfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Seacoastonline.com from Mar. 6 to Mar. 9, 2018.

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Mona Mongeon

February 28, 2019

It is hard to believe it that it will make a yr that he left this world ,he was a very good man,his family was his world ,I know he is still looking over his them god got a very good angel

Omerine Pettit

March 10, 2018

My sincere condolence to You Ina and your family. So sorry to hear of your loss. God bless you and I know he will be there to help you threw this sad time. Love. Cousin Omerine Pettit

Jeff and Linda Martin

March 8, 2018

so sorry for your loss. will always remember him and family living next door to us. may god bless you at this time.

Thomas & Janice Fisher

March 8, 2018

Bob rest in peace my friend. You were a great friend that helped others in time of need. We will always remember you until we meet again. God Bless

Mona Mongeon

March 8, 2018

My Deepest sympathy to his family,Bob was a wonderful man,His Childred were lucky to have such a wonderful father ,May u Rest In Peace Bob

March 8, 2018

With Deepest Sympathy! Jim & Jackie Duplessis, Van Buren , Me.

Doris Joaquin

March 8, 2018

With sympathy of your loss to you, Ina and your family. Know that God is with you today and always. I never met Bob that I know of, but I feel as if I did through Facebook posting. God bless.

Darlene Goodwin

March 7, 2018

Bob was a wonderful neighbor. Always friendly and thinking of others. You will be greatly missed. See you in paradise!❤

Anne Marie Baltoumas

March 7, 2018

Bob it has been an honor knowing you and enjoying Friday night dinners with you and Ina at the VFW and Karaoke with Paul. We will miss your serenades to Ina. You will be missed by us all. You have a wonderful loving family Bob. You can be proud. RIP Bob. You are home now with Jesus. .

Cindy Wilson

March 7, 2018

37 years of wonderful friendship...you will be missed my dear....love you and may God be with you...love Cindy and Joe..

Mary Naehring

March 7, 2018

My deepest sympathy Ina, and to your family. Bob was a lucky man with such a loving family. May he rest in eternal peace. May our Lord continue to comfort and bless your family.

Cathie Lovett

March 7, 2018

So sorry for your loss Ina and your entire family! I only met Bob a few times at NECU events but know how much love and admiration you had for each other! May he Rest In Peace and you find courage knowing that you will be together again!

March 7, 2018

Bob you were a beloved friend for many years. I have many memories of you and Ina which I treasure. I will always remember when you did not want to answer a question you would say "excuse me!" I will see you in heaven later Bob

Donald St Pierre

March 6, 2018

May you rest in Peace, Bob A true military Chief,and VFW Commander. From your Senior Vice Don.

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