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George L. Grader

1928 - 2016

George L. Grader obituary, 1928-2016, Seattle, WA

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1928

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2016

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George Grader Obituary

George Lee Grader

George passed away on July 19, 2016 at the age of 88, leaving his loving wife and best friend of 40 years, Kathy; daughters Jennifer and Julieanne; grandson Cameron; son-in-law Gary; stepdaughter Stacie, her husband Greg, and their children Alexandra, Anthony and Cole; sister Virginia; numerous nephews and nieces; and treasured friends from all walks of life. Born January 24, 1928, in Coalgate, Oklahoma, the youngest of nine children born to Henry Phillip and Elizabeth McGraw Grader, he was left fatherless at the age of five days. The Great Depression and dust bowl conditions were causing many mid-westerners to seek a better living elsewhere, and George and his widowed mother and siblings were part of that exodus in 1930, heading west on Route 66, in a page out of John Steinbeck. They made their way to Seattle, and it was here that George spent most of his life.

He attended Cascade Grade School, in what is now the South Lake Union area, and Lowell Grade School on Capitol Hill. At Broadway High he was the undefeated All City mile champion and was editor of the Whims, the school newspaper. His 4:26 mile in an AAU track meet was a very respectable high school time in those days. As a budding reporter he wrote a by-line column on high school sports for the old Seattle Star. His student days at the University of Washington between 1946 and 1949 were interrupted by an 18-month tour of duty in the Army. While at the University he was a member of Phi Delta Theta fraternity and worked under the venerable golf pro, William Jefferson, Sr., at the then University Golf Course.

Off to Spokane in 1949, he spent four years at Gonzaga Law School, graduating with honors in 1953. He moved to Olympia to clerk for Justice Mallery of the Washington State Supreme Court, but wound up accepting a position with the then Department of Institutions, eventually becoming administrative assistant to the Director. He was instrumental in the founding of the Washington State Employees Credit Union, now one of the largest credit unions in the state.

In 1962-out of law school eight years, married and the father of two children, and 34 years of age-George made the wrenching decision to change careers and to practice law. To gain trial experience he spent two years as an Assistant Attorney General under John O'Connell, trying cases throughout the state. His entry into private practice came with an offer from Culp, Dwyer, Guterson and Edwards, a young and up-coming Seattle firm in the Hoge Building. That was 1964 and the beginning of a long, enjoyable and rewarding practice, primarily in litigation. He retired as a senior partner in Culp, Dwyer, Guterson and Grader.

His work ethic, born of straightened circumstances, was second to few, and despite a busy law practice he was seldom without other business pursuits. At various stages of his career he held interests in a cross-country freight carrier, a wholesale Christmas tree operation, a hotel/restaurant/cocktail lounge, an asparagus farm, an Alaska purse-seiner fishing boat, and warehousing and office leasing enterprises. He never lacked for something to do.

With retirement came time to pursue further interests, mainly in commercial real estate, in which he remained active the rest of his life. And time, too, for world travel. Much of the next 20 years was spent visiting many parts of the world with family and friends, and happily exploring the back roads of Europe. Seldom would he come home without antiquarian books, maps, prints or other collectibles. He became a partner in FleetStreet Ltd., a dealer in antiquarian artifacts.

He enjoyed cooking and spent a lot of time at it over the years, becoming an innovative and competent, if not gourmet, practitioner. His beachfront home in West Seattle was the site of many dinner and beach parties with family and friends, not to mention wedding receptions. It was the site, too, in the 90's of the annual Grader Chili Cook-off, which he won one year, causing a near insurrection.

His was an eclectic lover of music, ranging from Jussi Bjrling to George Jones, and he took pride in his extensive collections. He tried gamely at playing the guitar and piano and singing, but grudgingly conceded that his ambitions far exceeded his talents. He tried his hand, too, at oil painting and left a number of canvasses for posterity to judge. He never lost his enthusiasm for sports and was a loyal fan of Husky football and Gonzaga basketball. At various times in his life he was into tennis and golf, and even archery, long ago in Olympia.

Over the years George held memberships in a number of professional organizations and a variety of social and sports clubs, including the Evergreen Swim Club, the Washington Athletic Club, Glen Acres Golf Club, Palm Desert Tennis Club and Palm Royale Country Club. His book collection leaned heavily to biography, memoirs, and anecdotal history. Gin rummy was his card game of choice, and although not universally feared by opponents, he enjoyed many hours battling it out with good friends.

His first taste of boating came in Olympia, years ago, when he and a good friend purchased a 30 foot surplus lifeboat and a surplus Buda diesel engine, and spent a year building the "Fairweather," which soon became a familiar sight as it chugged up and down the many inlets of southern Puget Sound, looking something akin to the African Queen. He eventually learned that the best boats were those owned by good friends, and he and Kathy were to enjoy numerous boating trips with friends, in the San Juans and north. George loved to hear a good story but could not tell one, a fact he lamented. But he found humor where many failed and he was seldom at a loss for an apt rejoinder, usually dry and not infrequently self-deprecating. George gave generously to others in need, quietly and without fanfare.

He led a long and productive life, cherished his family and friends, and he will be missed by many.

The family wants to thank the doctors, nurses, caregivers, and the wonderful hospice workers at Kittitas Valley Hospice.

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Published by The Seattle Times from Jul. 27 to Jul. 31, 2016.

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Pascal et Marie Bauer

July 19, 2017

One year passed. We think about you.

Jeff Kennelly

September 16, 2016

So sorry to learn of George's passing. I was fortunate to know him as a young man and later when I practiced law in Seattle. Thinking of you, Julie and Jennifer, and your families.

Pascal and Marie Bauer

September 9, 2016

At this time we are with you.

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Pascal and Marie Bauer

September 9, 2016

kathleen dunn

September 8, 2016

I too admired and respected George. You don't meet many people like George.He was always an excellent chef (and bartender)and we enjoyed many meals at Kathy and George's house. George loved bringing diverse groups of people together and observing the conversations. George was a big reader, he devoured biographies and read historical nonfiction voraciously. As a result he was wonderful to travel with because of his extensive background knowledge. I felt lucky to have learned from George and am celebrating a life well lived.

September 7, 2016

Joe Scudder

September 7, 2016

I have the notion that great friendships always have a long nurturing time as they develop , but that is not always so. Our good friend Jerry McNaul introduced Patti and I to George and Kathy. Since that first meeting 16 or so years ago our relationship has flourished into "Best Friends". George and Kathy have enjoyed many circles of friendship. Our circle of friends with George and Kathy has been Jerry and Darlene McNaul, Plato Mellis and Carolyn Aiken, Mike and Gaye Cason. George and Kathy had many such overlapping circles.

George and Kathy hosted many events in their home...Super Bowls, college bowls, someone's birthday, Husky Football and Gonzaga basketball. When the Zags played George and I would often chat following the final buzzer.

George was the true gentleman in every sense of the word. His word was his bond. If you said "Lord, show me where the high road is." God would light the beacon and you would always see George traveling that road.

In spite of George's deteriorating health he never complained. He went to the office until he simply did not have the strength to do so anymore. When George entered the hospital Kathy was extraordinary in making sure George had the best team available to nurture George back to health. We talked about Suncadia being the perfect place for George"s rehab and promised Kathy we would visit when she said the time was right. That when God intervened and said "No, I want George with me".

Jerry received the call from Kathy early the morning of Tuesday July 19th that George was failing and it was possibly only a matter of hours. Jerry took the call as we waited to board the ferry boat to Sydney, B.C. for the annual fishing trip on Vancouver Island. We had already cleared departure by U.S. Customs. For Jerry it was "How do I get to Eastern Washington ASAP?" We brainstormed and soon had an Anacortes Uber driver coming to the terminal to pick Jerry up to start that journey. Jerry made the trip in time to be with his long time friend. Then God said...."O.K. George, now you can come on home".

George, we will miss you deeply for all the good things in life you represented.

Robert Klein

September 6, 2016

Dear Kathy, Jennifer and Julieanne, I am so sorry for your loss. George was one of a kind. He was a self made man with a deep sense of humility and caring--not to mention a crackling wit and zest for a good time. He was a true friend and I will miss him.

Kindest regards,

Bob Klein

September 4, 2016

Kathy: Our sympathy to you and Stacie, Julianne and Jennifer. We won't forget our wonderful, witty, intelligent and gracious friend, George. But we'll certainly miss him! Love, Jay and Margaret.

Patricia Kilday

August 31, 2016

Dear Kathy,

I was so sad to hear of George's passing. Although we only met two times, I was impressed by his intelligence, zest for life, wit, and thoughtfulness. Reading George's obit, I was amazing at his many accomplishments and adventures--here was a man who lived life to the fullest! You were such an important part of his life, Kathy; you made him so happy and I could see that he loved you very much.

It's so difficult to lose someone you love; I know you will cherish your many wonderful memories of your time together.

All my love and sympathy,
Pat O'Connell Kilday

Kathleen & Robert Byrne

August 13, 2016

George will always be a part of our lives, he will be remembered as a gentleman, traveler, scholar, friend. George loved his family, friends, his ancestry, and ascendance from the dust bowl era in a bright lively & inspiring way. George was a friend who brought people together so they made new friends, learned new things, and got more out of life as a result. We all are saddened by his departure but better for knowing him.

Sara Cahill

August 6, 2016

Dear George,
Looking back at all the years we have known each other, we have had so many good times; travel, wine tasting, and great dinners with Kathy and friends.
Thanks to you and Kathy for being true friends.
Peace and Love,
-Sara

Val & Jeff Ohlstrom

August 2, 2016

We met Kathy and George only several years ago, and enjoyed gatherings for Gonzaga basketball (Jeff and I are both Zags), and Seahawks, and they welcomed us to their beautiful new home in Suncadia twice a few months before George passed. These were wonderful times, and we look forward to continuing to see you, Kathy. We are so sorry for your loss and cherish the time we had. love, Val & Jeff

July 31, 2016

Kathy, I'm so very sorry for your loss. You've told me what a wonderful life you have had with George and I'm sure you'll miss him dearly. The upside is that you DID have a wonderful life with him.

I left you my contact info. on FB message. Please do contact me when you are up to it.

Love to you, old friend, Rose Marie

Judy & Don Wilson

July 31, 2016

Don and I met George after meeting Kathy eight years ago. Always a gentleman, he made made us feel so welcomed into his life and interested in ours. He loved to share his interest in books, travel and music, especially country music. We loved watching the Seahawks games and especially, Gonzaga basketball with George...GO ZAGS!

We will miss George and his lifetime of history but know for certain, his was a life well-lived.

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Todd Fitzgerald

July 30, 2016

George, you were truly a gentleman and a scholar. So sorry about your passing. I will miss you at the Christmas party. My heartfelt condolences to you, Kathy. Stay strong and keep the faith. He is at peace, now. What a wonderful life George had.
Love,
Todd

Julieanne Grader

July 30, 2016

I love you Daddy! Dewdrop xo

La saveur de la vie

Pascal and Marie Bauer

July 29, 2016

Thank you George for the wonderful time you offered to us in Seattle from the very first day of our true friendship. Once meeting you and Kathy, Seattle has become our second home in the world, and, even more, your house has been our home during so many summers. We remember you cooking at your home with your book of recipes from the Paris bistros. You were our hero, our American family and we now feel orphan without you. The clam chowder will never ever taste the same. You were a wonderful person together with a fine gentleman with such a high sense of humor. We appreciated your kindness and your generosity. You made us meet many friends and relatives and you were so much open to friendship. We always admired your curiosity and your desire to discover new things. You traveled with us in Europe and it often happened that you knew the places better than we did. Paris had no secret for you and " Que la vie était belle" as we were traveling and exploring France with you. We had the favorite joke having you greeted by the chef of the restaurants and cafes, in Paris or in small villages, saying, "Hi George, how are you doing?" We'd spoken so much about you to our neighbor in Paris that, meeting you upon a morning walk, he told you: "You're George, I presume". You were our dear George, a very unique person and we loved you so much. You'll be in our heart and our mind forever.

Pascal & Marie

Jill Bloom

July 29, 2016

Rest in peace, George. You were such a kind man. I miss you and our conversations in the office at McNaul.

My condolences to his family.

Malaika Eaton

July 29, 2016

All of us at McNaul will miss seeing George in the hall and visiting with him. Our thoughts are with George family.

Katie Walker

July 29, 2016

Rest in peace, George. You are dearly missed.

Good times, singing and strumming!

Gary

July 29, 2016

Susan Burker

July 29, 2016

I will always remember George as a wonderful conversationalist at numerous parties at the Lamp residence. My thoughts are with you Kathy and your family during this sad time. He leaves a marvelous legacy and many friends and acquaintances that will miss his warmth and smile.

JUDY VAN HOUSEN

July 29, 2016

HOW TO THINK OF THE WORDS WHEN THEY ARE NEEDED TOO SOON! LET'S SEE: THANKS FOR THE DIVORCE, MINE NOT YOURS. THANKS FOR BEING MY ESCORT TO MY COMPANY FUNCTIONS SO I LOOKED LIKE I HAD SOME CLASS! THAKS TO BOTH OF US FOR BUYING BEACH HOUSES, EVEN THOUGH I HAD TO CONVINCE YOU THAT IF I COULD AFFORD MINE, YOU SURE AS H--L COULD AFFORD YOURS!!! PLUS, THANKS FOR THE INVESTMENT TIPS!!! MY POCKETBOOK MAY BE HEAVY, BUT MY HEART IS BROKE!! I WILL MISS YOU, GEORGE!

Bruce Howard

July 28, 2016

Wish I'd met George longer ago than the few short months after we became neighbors.
So sorry for your loss.

JUDY VAN HOUSEN

July 28, 2016

HOW DO YOU FIND THE WORDS WHEN THEY HAVE TO BE WRITTEN TOO SOON! THANKS FOR THE DIVORCE (MINE, NOT YOURS), THANKS FOR THE TIME WHEN WE BOTH GOT A HOUSE ON THE BEACH
(EVEN THOUGH I HAD TO CONVINCE YOU THAT IF I COULD AFFORD MINE, YOU SURE AS H--L COULD AFFORD YOURS!!! PLUS YOUR INVESTMENT TIPS!!! MY POCKETBOOK MAY BE OKAY, BUT MY HEART IS SURELY BROKEN!!!

Micki Fitzgerald

July 28, 2016

I knew George as a brother in law, and a gentleman. He was a man of many accomplishments, but what I treasure most was the love and companionship he and Kathy shared. His wit was dry but frequent, his word was his honor, and his drinks strong. He gave our family class and he will not be forgotten.

July 28, 2016

So sorry what a remarkable man. Sending hugs to you all. I have known the Graders for most of my life!
Sincerely,
Rose Slavsky

Stacie Sena

July 28, 2016

George was more than a stepfather.. He was in my life for 40 years and shared all the major milestones, events and memories I have had from 8 years old on. His encouragement with my education, as well as professional advice with my career was that of a father. He was always interested in my work at Boeing, and I will always remember when I took him to the 787 Rollout event as my guest. He gave me much direction, and advice with my personal life in travel, real estate, relationships, and my children throughout the years. My son Anthony will carry his passion for music and guitar, and they had a ball playing together. I cherish that even when feeling ill, he flew to Hawaii with all of us last year (per my husband's request to be there), when Greg proposed. Family was important to him. I am especially grateful for the companionship, love and friendship he had with mom all these years, and I pray he is up there watching down, taking care of her. George has touched us all, and will forever be in our hearts..

Guido driving Mr. George!

Judy & Don Wilson

July 28, 2016

July 28, 2016

George was always the gentleman. As a brother in law, I saw how he shared his love of travel with Kathy. His wit was dry but frequent. He had many accomplishments, but the one I appreciated the most was that of an amazing husband and partner to my sister. His legacy will live on in all of the many lives that he touched.
Micki Fitzgerald

George and Kathy

July 28, 2016

Bill Leaming Jr.

July 28, 2016

My condolences to all who loved George. Although we weren't close I always felt a special kinship toward him. The hardest part of loving someone is saying goodbye.

Love you always and forever

Alexandra Harris

July 28, 2016

Pat O'Connell

July 27, 2016

I always enjoyed meeting up with George when he and my sister went to Palm Desert. Rest is peace brother.

Julieanne Grader

July 27, 2016

No child could ever ask for a better Father! My Father always has, and forever will be my bright shining light, my eternal friend & confidant, my superhero, my everything!!!
He was always there for me, and my son, his cherished grandson Cameron, and for many, many others....because that's the kind of genuine and kind Soul he was, and forever is. He cared so much for others, and always was there to simply lend a listening ear, share his incredible wit, his sage wisdom, or simply be... He taught me so much of life and what love means. Because of him, I share with him a love of music, art, history, words (make a vocabulary list, what's your word of the week? ...he would gently prompt me ;) ) , cooking, the placement of things in decor, nature....the list goes on. Most importantly, my Daddy instilled in me the value of kindness, to be gentle and humble, to love unconditionally, to seize the day, to love & embrace this precious life we are each blessed with, and to share it with all...to simply and wholeheartedly LOVE. His gentle grace, dignity, beauty, wisdom and love will be with me throughout eternity, I see him & his light reflected in his grandsons beautiful blue eyes....I feel his presence, hear his gentle voice, and see his handsome, kind face. My heart, soulmate, my Daddy!!!
I love you my blessed Father
Forever his little "Dewdrop", Julieanne xo

Dad & I

Julieanne Grader

July 27, 2016

July 27, 2016

I will always miss you from now on. You were my father when I needed one, and helped me through some rough bumps. You were the greatest man alive, generous, caring, and just a good man. I hope your legacy will guide me through my life. Not only did you offer me alot of knowledge on life as a full but you introduced me to my passion, and supported me. I had so much to say to you before you passed, but I'm grateful for all the great memories you gave me.

You will be missed by all.

Leah Bullchidl

July 27, 2016

I will always remember Uncle George, in the kitchen making something delicious. He had so many stories and knowledge on all topics, he was a joy to chat with. You will be missed Uncle. Love you, Leah

July 27, 2016

So sorry to hear of George's passing. I had the pleasure of knowing George while working at his law firm in the late 70's, early '80's and remember him for his generosity, sense of humor and poetic soul. My condolences and prayers for his family and friends.

Carol (Martin) Hartung, Seattle, WA

Russell Murphy

July 27, 2016

I met George when I was a teenager. I remember him as a warm and understanding person who treated me respectfully and kindly, in spite of our teenaged hijinks.

A decade later, when I was nervously weighing a decision to attend the UW Law School, he agreed to meet me for lunch in downtown Seattle near his office. This was not a world I was familiar with, and I had great apprehension about my ability to fit in. George shared with me some stories of his early life, and his encouragement that I would, indeed, be able to succeed gave me the confidence to proceed with my pursuit. That lunch with George was a turning point for me and my life, and for which I will always remember him as a personal hero.

July 27, 2016

What a wonderful life your father had on this earth and what a wonderful legacy he leaves behind.
All my best to you and your family - hold your memories near and know that your father is watching over all of you.

Penny Schneringer

Greg Sena

July 27, 2016

I knew from the moment I shook George's hand for the first time (5 years ago), that he was a Kind, Generous and Loving man. I will always remember the times with George spent watching Gonzaga basketball, Seahawks, listening to his albums, or just hanging out...always while partaking in the house drink. Friends and family have always been George's priority and Personally I will always appreciate everything he has done for all of us. George will hold a very special place in the hearts of everyone that has known him. I feel blessed to be able to call him Friend and Father (in-law). He will be greatly missed.

Greg Sena

July 27, 2016

From the moment I shook George's hand for the first time (5 years ago), I knew that he was a kind, generous and loving man. I will never forget the time we spent watching Gonzaga Basketball, listening to his Albums, always while partaking in his house drink. I feel fortunate to have known George, and to be able to call him both friend and father (in-law).

George you will always be missed...

Gary Deglow

July 27, 2016

George was not only gracious, humble, and had a great sense of humor, but was overall a great guy. We had many great experiences, both here and abroad. We shared many interests, and I really treasured our time together. He was always there to hear and to solve any problems you might have. I couldn't ask for a finer father-in-law.
I will truly miss this man.

Gary Deglow

K

July 27, 2016

My best friend and lover has left us.
He will be missed.
"Grief is the last gift we can give a love one"

Jennifer Grader

July 25, 2016

Dearest Dad, You have always been my rock... You've guided me, advised me, listened to me and loved me. Gary and I are so glad we were able to spend a few days with you before you closed your eyes and went to sleep. I will forever cherish you taking my hand, squeezing it with all your might, looking me in the eyes and saying how proud you were of me. I love you, your Jennifer Lynn xoxo

July 25, 2016

The Light and Hero of my life!!!! How blessed I am to have the most beautiful and wonderful Daddy ever!

Melinda Lamp

July 21, 2016

Thinking of you, Kathy, at this difficult time of loss. Sending love and prayers to you and your family. What a great guy you married! Keep the memories close in your heart.

Kristin Jonson

July 21, 2016

It has been my pleasure knowing George. Please accept my sincerest condolences. I know he will be missed by many.

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