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Alan Bonapart Obituary

Alan David Bonapart

1930-2019

Alan was a man who lived a full life and was loved by many. He was a gentle man of keen intellect and a beautiful temperament. He was a man of great kindness and extraordinary sweetness.
Alan was cherished by his wife of 63 years, Helen Bonapart, who survives him. He was a loving father to Paul, and to Andy who predeceased him. He was adored by grandchildren Adin and Mayana and will be missed by Barri Bonapart, Mitch Stein, and many wonderful friends.
Alan was born in San Francisco to Rose and Ben Bonapart. Alan graduated from UC Berkeley in Political Science and Boalt Hall Law School. He enjoyed a long, distinguished career as an estate and trust attorney at Bancroft, Avery and McAlister. Alan took great pleasure and pride in his work and he helped many people.
Please contact Sinai Memorial Chapel at 925-962-3636 for funeral information.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Feb. 26 to Feb. 27, 2019.

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Augusta Rosenthal Estate Family Member Mgr - Francesca Jacobs

February 20, 2024

A beautiful kind soul, are my words of Alan, who always had kind words and cared about all of his clients like family. He was my grandmother's trust and business attorney & we managed the environmental care improvements of estate properties. Alan also gave SF memories of his frequent humor & kindness in his shared communications. He inspired my legal studies and our 501.c3 advocacy & he lives on as an Angel just like my grandmother Augusta with God.

Drew Porter

September 16, 2019

May his memory always be a blessing to you.

The Porters; Jerry, Dorothy, Drew, Scott, Keith & Nancy

March 1, 2019

The Brownsteins, Carol, Joan and Hal, send their thoughts and love to Helen and Paul, and the rest of the family. Alan did not deserve his long illness, we hope he found peace. Please let us know about any service, or memorial, which we can attend. 415 796 3288, [email protected]

Merv, Gail and Angela Giacomini

February 28, 2019

Our condolences, Helen and family.

tony saunders

February 28, 2019

I am a kinder man after my talks with Alan. He told me things that made me love my wife even more. I will always remember and cherish his smile. Thank you for the words of wisdom that I will carry in my heart forever.. You will remain in my heart forever......

February 27, 2019

Condolences to the family. May he be in God's memory as he is in yours.

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