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Arlan Cohn

1930 - 2021

Arlan Cohn obituary, 1930-2021, Oakland, CA

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1930

DIED

2021

Arlan Cohn Obituary

Arlan Price Cohn
September 14, 1930 - January 15, 2021
Our dear father, Arlan Price Cohn, died peacefully in his sleep on January 15, 2021. He was ninety years old. In the past few years his health had declined, but he never lost his grace, humor, and kindness. He was lucky because he truly enjoyed the little things in life: a good book, movies of all genres, the New York Times and New Yorker magazine, music, delicious food, and conversation.

A retired physician, he continued to help others late in life, even as he lost some of his mobility, by talking to and comforting other residents of his assisted living facility about their health concerns and end-of-life issues. He had a gift for making people feel special.

He was also hilarious and an author of several published books under the pen name Oscar London, including "Kill As Few Patients as Possible," "Take One as Needed," and "Dr. Generic Will See You Now." Among the nuggets of wit and wisdom in these books are: "If you think you're indispensable check your appointment book a week after you die," and "Death is very still, so keep moving." He also advised, "Stay away from restaurants with skinny chefs."

Arlan's parents were Harold Cohn and Lillian DeWoskin Cohn. They raised him in St. Louis, Missouri, where he loved looking after his brother, Bob, who was nine years younger. He and Bob shared the same sense of humor. Bob could make him laugh like no one else could.

Arlan graduated from University High School. He was a 1952 pre-med graduate of Washington University. In 1955, he married our mother, Joan Treiman, who helped keep his office in ship shape and edited several of his books to polished perfection. She passed away in March 2008.

Arlan began his medical education at the University of Missouri Medical School and went on to earn his doctor of medicine degree from the University of Iowa Medical School in 1956. Arlan served as an Army Captain in Okinawa. Afterwards, he and Joan moved to El Cerrito, California in the San Francisco Bay Area. Arlan practiced medicine as an internist in Berkeley for over 50 years. He was beloved by his patients.

Arlan continued writing into his late eighties. About five years ago, after surviving a life-threatening health crisis in the ICU, he wrote a fictional piece where, upon returning from the hospital, he found himself "transmogrified" into a small fish in the aquarium in the lobby of his assisted living facility (The Point at Rockridge). In the piece, he was given a second chance at life on "terra firma" after asking to return to his "simple three-numbered room (at The Point)" and shedding his "tiny, shiny blue and red scales."

In real life, he made the most of that second chance. He ordered up a walker in shiny blue and wrote a regular column for The Point. In 2019, he married Rohilah Guy who he met playing Bingo. They bonded over their mutual love of music and appreciation of art.

Arlan is survived by Rohilah, his two children (Ted Cohn and Jennifer Cohn), grandchildren (Haley and Sydney Cohn and Brandon and Ryan Dicke), and his brother (Robert Cohn). We will miss him and love him forever.

A private service is planned. Contributions in Arlan Cohn's memory may be made to Congregation Shaare Emeth, the St. Louis Holocaust Museum and Learning Center, the Anti-Defamation League, or the charity of the donor's choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jan. 22 to Jan. 24, 2021.

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Cat Gaffield

April 27, 2022

I worked with my dear Arlan in Berkeley the last several years of his practice before closing. He taught me more than I could tell u and I still use his genius life and medical lessons in my daily life. He was amazing; I only wished I had been allowed to spend his last precious years continuing to know and enjoy his `full of life´ ways. I also ended my medical career when Arlan Retired. How could I ever work for anyone else. They would have not been able to hold a candle to Arlan. What an amazing man, Dr, friend, teacher. Rest In Peace and I´ll see u up there- not too soon I hope. Jenny and Mike and Ted and family- I´m so sorry and I´ve been so deeply moved by ur father I couldn´t thank any of u enuf, ever. (Also- I´m happy he found another to love after losing Joan; I´m sure she and her family all miss him too)
Cheers to u, Handsome.
To all the patients still reading this: I´m in San Jose if u want to find me pls do at Cgaffield at yahoo. I miss you ALL.

Cat Gaffield

Dan Grassetti

March 21, 2021

Arlan Cohn was truly the world's best MD. It was truly divine intervention that caused me to wandered into his office with pneumonia that day. He turned out to be a really significant person in my life. I think about him often and only wish that I could find the next Arlan Cohn. Sadly, I don't think there is another one. I guess I will have to just be happy for all the years that he took such good care of me. Would be great to make contact with Ted or Jennifer.

Christopher Grubbs

February 14, 2021

Arlan was the best doctor I ever had or ever will have.
To say he was not your dispassionate out-of-
Central Casting conventional physician is more than an understatement.
He was intuitive. He was empathetic. He made me feel that I was his only patient. Funny he was and someone I really looked forward to meeting the next time.
He was one of the most delightful people I ever met.
And I'll never forget him

Bernie Bergesen

January 29, 2021

Am using this space in attempt to reach Ted or Jennifer. Was a 30 year patient of Arlan's until the day he retired. Wrote some stuff for him back then which I'd like to share with T & J, as well as my own appreciation which is too lengthy for this format. Not seeking personal data like residence address or home phone. But would appreciate an email telling me how to proceed.

Ellen Gale

January 24, 2021

I had the honor and privilege of working with Arlan for 3 years in Berkeley. He saved my father’s life and helped save my sanity when I lost our first child.

Robert Golomb

January 23, 2021

I am an emergency room physician who has worked at Alta Bates for 30 years. I had the pleasure of working with Dr.Cohn for many of those years. May his memory be a blessing.

Sydney

January 23, 2021

I loved my grandpa!!! He was an awesome awesome human being. Incredible, unbreakable spirit, and so kind and helpful with others. He will be missed and his presence while here made the world a better place.

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