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Barbara Blakely Obituary
November 27, 1955 - April 13, 2023
Barbara Blakely passed peacefully from this world on April 13, 2023, at home in the company of her family. A light is gone from many lives.
Barbara was born on November 27, 1955, in Washington, D.C, to Erskine Blakely and Irene Powell, and was raised in Georgetown with her three sisters and two brothers. In November 1973, at age 17, she met Gary Maestas, the love of her life. They married on April 8, 1979, added two wonderful boys to their family, and shared a loving union for life.
During her career as a bookkeeper, Barbara was depended upon for her skillful organization, scrupulous attention to detail, and unshakeable honesty. Her foresight and reliability were instrumental in organizing the family's annual stays in Stinson Beach, camping trips to Big Basin, weekends in Santa Cruz and Bodega Bay, and West Hollywood getaways, as well as frequent visits with extended family.
A gracious person in every sense, Barbara made guests feel at home. She and Gary gave beautiful dinner parties. She was known for her gentle spirit and kind voice of reason, her wry smile and easy laugh, and occasionally, her tart retorts. Her family and friends hold treasured life memories of her company.
Barbara leaves behind her loving husband, Gary, and their two sons, Julian and August Maestas; her sisters Susie and Patricia, many nieces and nephews; and many loving family members throughout the Bay Area.
The family offers their heartfelt thanks to Nora Galarce, a caring friend and a devoted caregiver. Donations in memory of Barbara may be made to the Brain Support Network, PO Box 7264, Menlo Park, CA 94026.
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Kelly Higgs Bright
December 4, 2024
My aunt Barbara was a wonderful woman!
Kathy & Brandon Buckley
June 25, 2023
Dear Gary, Julian & August, Barbara (your Mom) was a beautiful soul, she was always so generous and kind she will be truly missed by all. We shared so many great memories over the years, holiday gatherings, cookie exchanges, dinner parties, camping trips and watching our children grow up. Sending you and the boys my heartfelt condolences, love and hugs as you go through this difficult time. As time passes may the happy memories of your beautiful wife, friend, Mom bring you comfort and fill your hearts with love. Kathy & Brandon
Mario Montoya Jr.
June 25, 2023
To Gary and two sons our deepest condolences for the loss of your wife and mom. Our memories of Barbara will always be seeing you all at our wonderful neighbors Ray and Nora Galarce´s Christmas gatherings at their home. Barbara was always kind and a happy soul to spend time with. May she Rest In Peace.
Mario and Shelly Montoya
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Karen Maestas
June 24, 2023
Dearest Gary, Julian and August, Barbara was very special. She will always and forever be close in our hearts. An amazing aunt to Danielle and Lauren who have many treasured memories of camping and spending great times with their Auntie Barb and Uncle Gary. Having Barb in our lives for over 50 years, we grew up together and spent many hours raising kids, cooking, visiting and laughing together. She was a true creative and clever spirit and she loved sewing and crafting. She was a true gem and her memory will shine within us forever. Lots of love and caring to you. Karen and David
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