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Barbara MacMillan Obituary

Barbara "Babs" (Kane) MacMillan Passed away peacefully at her home in San Rafael, January 15, 2011 at the age of 87. Barbara was born in San Francisco to Mary Haley and George Kane. Babs was a loving and devoted wife, mother and grandmother. She is survived by her husband John and children Mark of San Rafael, Susan of Kentfield, Patricia (Steven) Vanni of Fairfax, Jeffrey (Heather) of Florida, and Terrence (Courtney) of Bend, OR. She is the cherished and beloved nana of Rachael and Gina Vanni, Will, Connor and Grady of Bend, OR and Lauren, John, Patrick, Kelly and Sean of Florida. She was predeceased by her sister Bernadette Dorn. She is survived by numerous nieces and nephews. A memorial Mass celebrating Barbara's life will be held at St. Isabella's Church, Terra Linda, on January 29, 2011, at 11:00 AM. In lieu of flowers, donations in Barbara's memory may be made to Hospice by the Bay, The St. Vincent de Paul Society of Marin or to your favorite charity.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jan. 25 to Jan. 26, 2011.

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Lynn Rode

February 2, 2011

Dear Jack and family: I just learned of Barbara's passing. I am so sorry. She was such a wonderful part of my life, and my mom's best friend from 1st grade at St. Cecilias. I have so many old pictures of her and my mom at Tahoe. The last time I saw her was my mom's funeral in 2001. So so sorry and wish I'd known sooner. Lynn (Regalia) Rode

Jack McKeon

February 2, 2011

Dear Jack and Family,
Our condolences for your loss. We have fond memories of the times we spent together on 36th Avenue with Johnny and Dorothy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bill Mckeon

January 31, 2011

Sorry, I meant to address my earlier entry to the MacMillan Family.
Bill

Bill McKeon

January 30, 2011

Dear MacDonald Family,
It was with sadness that we found out about the passing of Babs. I was away this last week or I would have been to the services for sure.
The McKeons have great memories with your family through our uncle and aunt, John and Dorothy McDonald.
You are in our thoughts.
Bill and Sharon McKeon

Kathy McKeon

January 30, 2011

Jack & family,
My brother, Bill, just sent me Bab's Notice. Had I known sooner, I would have attended yesterday to offer my sympathy. Know that I think of Babs & you all so often as I have a painting she did in '71 for my Uncle Johnny & Aunt Dorothy McDonald. It is a special treasure to remind me of her. I believe we will all be reunited some day. You are all in my prayers during this difficult time.

Viki, Kathryn and Ernest Ezeoha

January 27, 2011

We are saddened by the death of our dear friend and neighbor, Barbara.  She was a force of personality and she left a deep void.  We will sorely miss her happy, funny and bubbly presence.  We have had the great fortune to be Barbara and Jack's neighbors for the past eleven years and it has been a very enjoyable and rewarding experience in every sense. They have lived in the neighborhood from its inception and we’ll miss the interesting stories she enjoyed telling us about the neighborhood. We have lost a great friend and vibrant personality.  Her sweet memories will always stay with us.  May her soul rest in perfect peace!

Carolyn Clary-Macy

January 26, 2011

I'm so sorry to hear of Babs' death. She was such a great lady and I enjoyed visiting wtih her at St. Isabella's when I was in high school. She always brought a smile to my face! I am so sorry I cannot make it to the funeral, as I will be out of town. I'll be there in spirit. Sending Mr. MacMillan and all the family my sincerest sympathy.

Rena Bottarini

January 26, 2011

Dear Jack,Pat &Jeff &Family,We are so sorry to hear of the death of Babs.She was a great lady &surely will be missed.My mom Rena Bottarini took care of her grandchildren.love Rena Bottarini,Chris Reavis &Family

January 25, 2011

Dear Jack, Mark, Sus, Patty, Jeff and Terry: There will NEVER be another Aunt Babs! Our Matriarch was the funniest woman who loved a good laugh and a great story. We were so lucky to have had such a treasure in our family. I hope she and Bern are marching to "The Yellow Rose of Texas" with smiles on their faces. Love, Michele

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