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Francis Charlton Obituary

Francis Joseph Charlton, M.D. April 19, 1921 - Dec. 6, 2009 Dr. Charlton, Sr. died peacefully at home. He is survived by his devoted wife, Phyllis, the love of his life. He was the proud and inspirational father of Carolyn Squeri, Dr. Francis J. Charlton, Jr., Andrea Feeney and Corinne Charlton Barbour; the caring and much loved father-in-law of James Squeri, Kathleen Charlton and Thomas Feeney; and the loving grandfather of Matthew, Peter and Michael Squeri; Natalie, Monica and Michaela Charlton; Joseph and Claire Feeney; and Jack and Renee Barbour, all of whom adored him. He was predeceased by his parents Mary and Harry Charlton, his siblings Fr. Daniel Charlton, SJ, Henry Charlton, Sr. Frances Charlton, SNDdeN, and his children Adrienne and John. Born in Massachusetts, Frank grew up in Santa Barbara. He graduated from UC Berkeley and UCSF Medical School, and served on the staff of St. Francis Memorial Hospital for 60 years. He was a dedicated family physician, beloved by generations of patients. Frank was an old-fashioned country doctor in the big city, routinely making house calls every day of the year. He was a pillar of his profession and took pride in serving on the San Francisco Medical Society Ethics Committee for decades. He was also a member of the Catholic Physicians Guild and the Knights of St. Cecilia. Dr. Charlton was a Fellow of the American Academy of Family Physicians and former President of the San Francisco Chapter. He also served as Medical Advisor to the Medical Assisting Program at City College of San Francisco for many years. Frank traveled with Phyllis to five continents where he employed his winning smile, generous spirit, intellectual curiosity and gift of gab. Frank's Catholic faith sustained him throughout his life, and he looked forward to being reunited in heaven with his loved ones. Friends are invited to a Vigil Service on Friday, December 11 at 7:30 p.m. at St. Cecilia Church, 17th and Vicente in San Francisco. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, December 12 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Cecilia. The family wishes to express its deepest gratitude to Daisy Rivera for taking wonderful care of Dr. Charlton. Donations may be made to St. Francis Memorial Hospital Foundation, 900 Hyde Street, San Francisco, CA 94109 or St. Mary's Medical Center Foundation, 450 Stanyan Street, San Francisco, CA 94117.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 9 to Dec. 11, 2009.

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December 17, 2009

To the Charlton Family and especially classmate Frank, Jr.

Frank,
You carry on your dad's good work. My condolences to you and your family, never met your dad but sure am happy he left us you, his son and great 1969 classmate. After reading the obit, you really are like him. Thanks for making it to our annual luncheon under the circumstances you were facing. May you and your family all have a wonderful long life as he did!

Sincerely,
gene boscacci, si 1969

December 16, 2009

Dear Carolyn,

I was trying to look up your contact information to let you know that Pat Ryan's husband is dying, and only today (December 16) heard of your father's death. My heart reaches out to you and your family. I am so very sorry. My warmest thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Cindy Ewing

Jenifer Moscone

December 16, 2009

Darling Corrinne: I am so sorry for your loss. Though I met your dad a handful of times, he left a lasting impression of a warm and generous soul. It is hard to lose a dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. To you, especially, I send tons of love. Take care, my friend. Jenifer

December 11, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Connie and Marc

December 11, 2009

Frank was a wonderfully decent man who never wore his talents on his sleeve. He was interested in the total health of people he knew--physical, moral, and spiritual--and he knew the role relaxation played in all that. My parents looked forward to New Year's Eve bridge with Phyllis and Frank--laugh therapy. I found his remarks about my own life well-informed and demonstrative of genuine curiosity--the curiosity that keeps one young. My prayers go to all the family.

Rev. Robert Christian, O.P.

Vicki Vidmar Abrahamsohn and Dolores Vidmar

December 10, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

kathy mino

December 10, 2009

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

December 10, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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