Holly Romans Green

1946 - 2024

Holly Romans Green
08/01/1946 - 12/19/2024
Our beautiful Holly Romans Green, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on December 19, 2024. Holly was born on August 1, 1946, in Evanston, Illinois to parents Robert and Virginia Romans. Her father worked in real estate and her mother was secretary to the President of Northwestern University. They instilled in her the importance of hard work, community, and a sense of humor. She was also deeply influenced by her close relationship with her older sister, Robin.
Holly sparkled from the day she was born. She was a darling little girl with bright eyes and positive energy. She especially enjoyed ballet, going to summer camp, watching Shirley Temple movies, and playing with her doll collection. Holly graduated from Evanston Township High School and was (unsurprisingly) very popular. In a class of 1200 students, it was a big deal for her to be a cheerleader where she exemplified school spirit and leadership. In September, Holly attended her 60th high school reunion! Holly had a true gift for making and maintaining friendships-a talent that wove through every stage of her life.
She continued her education at Indiana University and earned her teaching credential in 1968. She was a proud member of Pi Beta Phi sorority and made lifelong friends. During her sophomore year, Holly met the love of her life, medical school student William Louis Green "Bill" on a blind date-one that almost didn't happen! The two were married on December 27, 1967, during Holly's senior year, and celebrated their honeymoon at the Rose Bowl in Pasadena, cheering on Indiana's football team. Over the next 55 years of marriage, they were a shining example of partnership, unconditional love, and commitment.
Holly began her career as a fourth-grade teacher before leaving to start her family and support Bill's orthopedic medical career. Together, they lived in San Francisco, Memphis, and Travis Air Force base. They raised three children-Aimee, Michelle "Mimi," and Scott-nurturing them with love and resilience through their many moves.
In 1977, Holly and Bill settled in Kentfield, Marin County, California. Holly's children attended Ross School, and she quickly became a well-known and beloved figure around town. Known as the "Queen of Trivia," she was famous for her intelligence, playful sense of humor, impeccable style, and perfectly coiffed hair. With a name like "Holly Green," she seemed destined for Christmas magic, and every December, she fully embraced the holiday spirit-decorating her home (and herself) in festive red and green. She was a wonderful mother with a strong moral compass who sought out the best opportunities for her children. She poured her energy and joy into everything she touched, and her children felt her unconditional support every single day of their lives.
In 1998, Holly and Bill fulfilled a dream by purchasing riverfront property in Hamilton, Montana. Holly's creativity shone as she built their home, "Grizzly Green," with themed rooms showcasing Montana's wildlife, especially her favorite-bears. Her grandchildren would spend hours counting the infinite bears. This home became a cherished gathering place for friends and family. Holly would invite friends for extended stays and plan detailed itineraries and elaborate meals. She loved sharing Montana and bringing joy to others. She and Bill were members of the Stockfarm Club where they made new friends from all over the United States.
Holly was energized by her friendships. She was known for her wise counsel, compassion, and ability to bring the fun factor to every situation. Whether arranging an emergency hair appointment for a friend in the hospital or helping select the perfect mother-of-the-bride dress, she simply made life sweeter for those lucky enough to call her a friend. In book club, she was known for her thorough research into authors and historical contexts, always bringing depth to discussions. In her investment club, she was admired for her out-of-the-box thinking, offering fresh perspectives. And in bridge club, she was celebrated for her sharp mind and love of friendly competition, making every game a delight. In her earlier years, she was active in the San Francisco Junior League, Edgewood Auxiliary, and Marin Art and Garden's Pixie Park. Holly was also a member of the Lagunitas Country Club, Town and Country Club, and the San Francisco Golf Club.
She treasured her role as "Noni." Always her grandchildren's biggest cheerleader, she sat front and center at their performances, gifting dolls to represent each character they played. At Christmas, she went all out, surprising them with special and unexpected gifts tailored to their interests-whether it was Mickey Mouse, golf, or even the Titanic. Her generosity and attention to detail made every moment with her feel extraordinary.
In her later years, she provided devoted care for Bill, who passed away from Parkinson's in January 2023. After Bill's passing, Holly embraced a new chapter, filled with travel and connection. In October, she enjoyed a Danube River cruise and a visit with her granddaughter in Barcelona, Spain.
Holly will be remembered for her humor, generosity, intelligence as well as her ability to bring people together. She is survived by her sister, Robin Gold; her children, Aimee Logan (Eric Leaf), Mimi O'Connell (Robin), and Scott Green (Emily); her six beloved grandchildren-Brooke, Briar, and Cole O'Connell, and Lily, Annabelle, and Will Green; and her cherished Bernedoodle, Blue. A celebration of her life will be held in March. Please contact the family directly for details.

In lieu of flowers please consider making a donation in honor of Holly Green to Edgewood Center for Children and Families (https://Edgewood.org) or Dress for Success San Francisco (https://sfdress.org.)