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James Duryea Obituary

James J. Duryea The renowned California trial attorney, who set legal precedents in multiple cases argued in front of the California Supreme Court, has died of complications from a five-year struggle with Alzheimer's disease. Widely considered among the elite trial attorneys of his generation that included peers like Melvin Belli, Joseph Alioto, James McManus, and Bruce Walkup, Duryea practiced law over four decades. Over those years Duryea, who specialized in personal injury, tried over 700 jury trial cases with a record of success that earned him the accolades from clients and often, begrudgingly, high respect from opposing counsel. When he retired in the 1990s, Duryea had tried more cases, in more California counties than any other attorney. After finishing law school in 1949, Duryea went to work for the law firm of Remington Low, where he eventually became a partner in what then became Low & Duryea, and then later Low, Duryea & Ball. In 1955 with two young children and a third one on the way, and against the sage advice of his wife Dorothy, Duryea, eminently confident, took a risk and went out on his own to start his own firm, the Law Offices of James J. Duryea, located in the Mills Tower building in San Francisco. At its height the Law Offices of James J. Duryea had 40 attorneys in San Francisco, Los Angeles and Sacramento. Considered one of the great teachers of his profession, Duryea trained literally hundreds of lawyers, both in his own practice, as well as in his role as law professor at Golden Gate College in the '50s and '60s. Some of his more notable clients included State Farm Insurance, Lockheed, Harbor Insurance, the Los Angeles Dodgers, Santa Cruz Boardwalk, Thrifty Stores, Vons Stores, Payless, as well as many county governments in CA. A deeply intellectual mind, forever curious, he was always keenly aware of the latest pursuits, challenges and triumphs of his family and friends. Formidable to some, he was known to those closest to him as a man of unbounded confidence matched only by the love of his family and closest friends. A fair-minded individual who demanded excellence of himself and others, Duryea was an early sponsor of merit-based equal opportunity in business and society as an early hirer of women attorneys and as the first person in the early '60s to sponsor a person of color for membership in the Olympic Club. A fourth-generation Californian, Duryea was born and reared in San Francisco, where he attended St. Anne of the Sunset Grammar School; St. Ignatius High School (Class of 1940); the University of California, Berkeley (Class of 1946), College of the Pacific (Class of 1946), and the University of San Francisco School of Law (Class of 1949). Duryea also attended CCSF, where he met his future wife and the mother of his five children, Dorothy Dean. Following CCSF he attended University of Oregon on a track scholarship in the javelin, where he eventually became the third ranked thrower in the US. In 1942 following the outbreak of World War II, Duryea entered the Marine Corps Officer Training Program. Eventually earning the rank of captain, Duryea fought in the Asian Theater in Guam. Duryea was preceded in death by his parents, Julia (1968) and Jack (1969) Duryea; former wife, Dorothy Dean Duryea (1981); son, James Duryea Jr. (1994); sisters, Mary Alice Gilmore (1980) and Patricia Boone (1999). Duryea is survived by the pride of his life, his loving children: Dean Duryea (Libby) of Moraga; Susan Duryea of St. Helena; Thomas Duryea (Lisa) of Kenwood; and Carolyn Smith (Jeff) of St. Helena. He is also survived by his adoring grandchildren, James Duryea III of San Francisco, Kathryn Duryea of Stanford and George Duryea of Washington DC; Dean Duryea Jr. of Chicago, IL, and Julia Duryea of Boulder, CO; Jack Duryea and Liam Duryea of Kenwood; and Isabelle Smith and Holland Smith of St. Helena. Duryea also is also survived by his former wife, and much loved family member, Joan Shaw Shalley of Atherton, CA. Also survived by trusted longtime business associate and longtime friend of 49 years, Lorraine Vidal. The Funeral Mass will be celebrated Wednesday, September 19, 2007 at 10:00 am at St. Ignatius Church, Fulton St. and Parker Ave., SF. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Alzheimer's Research, UCSF Box 1207, 350 Parnassus Ave, Ste 706, SF CA. McAvoy-O'Hara Co. (415) 668-0077

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 16 to Sep. 18, 2007.

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Dinah Roberts

September 26, 2007

I worked for Mr. Duryea many years ago and I have always cherished my employment there. I offer my deepest sympathy. He was a man of wonderful character; and he had a very kind heart.

Sue Orebaugh

September 18, 2007

Dear Sue, Carolyn, Tom, and Dean,

It is with great sadness I heard of Uncle Jim's passing. Not only was he a man of integrity, he was a very kind and generous man. Our family celebrations with all the cousins will be remembered with fondness. Wish we could be there to pay our respects. Hope it somehow helps you to know others share your sorrow.

With heartfelt sympathies and love,
Sue (Will) and Glenn Orebaugh

Deborah Ruiz

September 18, 2007

Carolyn and Family,

Your father and family are in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers. Cherish the memories, the strength and the blessings he gave you all.

with love,

Deb

Holly Hubbard Preston

September 18, 2007

To Carolyn, Sue and family,

Though never acquainted with your father, the Preston family is nonetheless grateful to James Duryea, as well as your mother Dorothy, for bringing into this world such true-hearted people as yourselves.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,

Holly & John Preston

Nadine Condon-Parsons

September 18, 2007

Susan, Tom, Carolyn and Dean,

Your Dad always seemed larger than life. Despite disease and age, it is still a great shock to know he's gone.

May each of you by comforted by your favorite memories of your Dad, and may he rest in peace.

Your obit did him fine justice.

Love,
Nadine and Mark

Julia Winston

September 18, 2007

Dear Susan and the entire Duryea family,

My deepest condolences on your father's passing. He was a formidable man, and I have always cherished my years at LOJJD. He epitomized the old time SF attorney in the mahogany office. He could be very formal and stern but he did show a heart of gold, and I will forever be grateful for his help in my time of need. I pray he is at peace, and you all are in my prayers. Sincerely,

Pamela Friedrich

September 17, 2007

Dear Dean, Susan, Tom, and Carolyn,
All my love to everyone in your hour of need. I enjoyed our family get together's. I will miss Uncle Jim. He was a great and important man. He was also a loving father to all of you.
Thinking of you.
Love Pam

Arlene Joyce

September 17, 2007

I, too, have fond memories of JJD. I worked for him as a law clerk while I went to law school, and became an associate in 1982 upon passing the bar. Law school gave me the ticket to getting a license; JJD gave me the ticket to becoming a good lawyer.

Attorneys and law clerks handled all trial preparation for JJD, including interrogatories, depositions, trial MPAs and jury instructions. Being responsible for the preparation of a case for trial is a great learning experience. JJD rarely read the voluminous materials on a case until just before trial. One of my most memorable experiences was being at the office on a school day in jeans and sneakers and receiving a call from JJD at 11AM telling me to report to the Marin County Superior Court at 1PM to argue the jury instructions I had specially prepared for the case. I had to buy suitable clothes, borrow a car, race to the courthouse and arrive composed enough to warrant the special dispensation required for a law clerk to argue jury instructions.

JJD always had schedule conflicts because he had set up his office so that he was the primary trial attorney on most every case. I'll never forget my first court appearance when I was sent to appear for JJD on the first day of trial to ask for a continuance because JJD was in trial in another county. The judge was livid but granted a short continuance and spared me the terror of commencing the trial when I was unprepared.

JJD was skilled in hiring; he found smart personnel with a great work ethic which made working for him especially rewarding. We often formed bonds that lasted long after leaving his office. JJD was a treasure and I am lucky to have worked for him.

Mary Martin

September 17, 2007

Susan, my thoughts and prayers and heart are with you and yours...

Fran Sinobio

September 16, 2007

I remember visiting Jim with Tom years ago and how interested he was in NY and students with disabilities. We will all miss his wit and smile.

Angela Wilkinson

September 16, 2007

I have many wonderful memories of "JJD." As his secretary for many years, I remember how wise he was and how much he has influenced my life. He used to dictate "memos" to his wife (Joan) and was always a very formal person.

I remember whenever he had a lunch meeting at the "Bankers' Club," he would put the napkin around his neck so his tie would not get dirty. He was immaculate. Also, he drove a "Cornishe" Rolls Royce and was quite the stylish man.

He loved his children and was very good to them. He treated his employees like his children, as well.

Everyone respected him, even though he was feared as he was tough. He used to hold depositions on Saturdays because he felt that in order to be a good lawyer you needed to work about 60 hours per week, which is what he DID.

Angela Fontana Wilkinson

1973-1984, or thereabouts...

Geri Rohlff

September 16, 2007

Mr. Duryea gave me my first job at LOJJD many years ago and I have always had total admiration for this fine man. I will never forget the time he sprinted by me in the Bay to Breakers race and suggested I stick to water! He encouraged me to swim and stay in shape. When I told him I was going to become a teacher, he lowered his glasses on his nose and said ARE YOU SURE? I will always cherish my memories of JJD and his integrity, humor, and work ethic. God took a good one this week. Much love to the Duryea family and to LBV.

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