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James Salerno Obituary

James John Salerno
January 2, 1953- September 23, 2020
James John Salerno (Jim) was born January 2, 1953 in Yonkers, New York. He grew up in Wakefield in The Bronx, with his mother Josephine Arcara Salerno, older brothers Nick and Peter, and his sister Gloria. He was very close with his grandfather Pietro Arcara, who visited often.

Jim attended high school at Mount St. Michael Academy, where he was awarded a medal of honor for his contributions to student leadership. When Jim was seventeen, his mother passed away. Jim worked hard to support himself and received a Regent's Scholarship and a grant to attend the State University of New York at New Paltz, where he studied Marine Biology. At New Paltz in Basement West he made a wonderful group of lifelong friends—forty plus years later, these friends still met annually upstate for a reunion they called "the Stomp."

In 1978, Jim and his beloved dog Slush moved to California, where he eventually met his future wife, Karen Kubick, a mechanical engineer, at a work barbeque. They married in 1992.

Jim worked for the City of San Francisco as a biologist in the Water Pollution Control Laboratory, ultimately becoming the Laboratory Manager. There, he initiated a marine monitoring program to evaluate the effects of wastewater discharge, and commissioned a new marine laboratory to support this work. The last years of his career he was the Enviromental Compliance Manager for SFPUC Natural Resources. In January 2013, Jim retired from the City after 32 years of service.

Jim and Karen traveled all over the world and would also often go on trips with family and friends. Jim was an avid diver, abalone hunter, fisherman, coin collector, reader, and wine enthusiast. He was a generous host and fabulous mentor, sharing his love of cooking, scotch, and wine tasting with many. He passed on his passion for diving, backpacking, hiking, and fly fishing to his nephews and nieces. He enjoyed playing poker and invented modified Manhattan's, dubbed "Salerno's." Some of Jim's many adventures included learning to sail, hiking New Zealand, swimming with whales, and biking through wine country in Germany and France. He was also very interested in mid-century modern furniture restoration, which he took up in retirement, and was a gifted orchid gardener.

Throughout Jim's life, the two most important times of year for him were Christmas and the summertime, when he would travel back to the east coast to spend time with family and friends.

Jim was a devoted husband, beloved brother, adored uncle, and an incredible friend. Perhaps what he will be best remembered for is his infectious laugh.

Jim was diagnosed with advanced cancer in June 2019 and passed away on September 23, 2020, surrounded by family.

He is survived by his loving wife of 28.5 years, Karen, who will miss him desperately, and his family: Gloria, Peter John, Lisa, Peyton, Diana, Rich, Nicole, Ryan, Jack, Peter Anthony, Jessica, James, Sophia, Chris, Danielle, Jake, Dylan, Ray, Denise, Ryan, April, Matthew, Danielle, Colin, Mikaela, Nela Faiye, Rob, Vicki, David, Mona, Eva, and Dylan.

Jim was preceded in death by his grandfather, Pietro (September 1968), his mother, Josephine (February 17, 1970), his brother, Peter (October 31, 1965), sister-in-law, Cathy (September 5, 2011), and his brother, Nick (December 24, 2013).

In lieu of flowers, please honor Jim by making a donation in his name to: The Nature Conservancy, Rails to Trails, Wounded Warriors, Habitat for Humanity or the Cancer Support Community.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 27 to Oct. 4, 2020.

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Bernadette Larkin Oliveira

February 16, 2021

Deepest condolences on Jim's passing, he will be missed and always remembered fondly by myself and many of our colleagues here at SFPUC. When someone shares so much knowledge and kindness they are never forgotten by those lives they touched. Early on in my career I was lucky enough to be placed in the lab and work with Jim. He was a great mentor and teacher and much of what I learned in those early days about the big picture and the tiniest of creatures that share the secrets of water quality I learned from him. He was a wonderful teacher that truly cared about his work and shared that with any in need of knowledge and guidance. The news of his passing leaves many hearts heavy. Please know that you, his family and his friends mourning his loss are in our prayers and that we hope that your memories of him bring some comfort, his life was one well lived and his legacy lives on in all those lives he touched.
Sincerest Condolences, Bernadette, Chuck & Family

Kenny Nabal

October 9, 2020

Jim Salerno was my supervisor and Mentor at Ecological Analysts in the early days of their move to California. When I was just 19 yrs old Jim was my boss, but also my friend that that helped me grow into an adult and I will always consider him my big brother. Jim's low key personality and infectious laughter made everyone around him feel better during their day and always looking forward to seeing him next. My last experience with Jim was just a few short years ago backpacking with our friends in the Sierras which of course, he loved. We put out a small tree fire left abandoned, climbed up an uncharted cliff trail, fly fished on a pristine lake, and swam in our base came lake. That was heaven to me and Jim as well. Rest in peace my brother for life....

Katie Miller

October 8, 2020

Dear Karen, and Jim's Large and Loving Family,
I'm so sorry for your incredible loss. Jim was passionate about family, good food and drink, quality living, travel, and most of all Karen. I feel blessed to have spent great times with Jim back in the Water Quality days. He was an empathetic and wise mentor to all his colleagues, and his relationships meant more to him than the work (which he also excelled at). Jim was a great leader who people enjoyed learning from. His calming demeanor, twinkling eyes and wry sense of humor could turn any situation into a tolerable or even hilarious one. We had fun discovering that we both had family in Medford Lakes, NJ. Small world. I am so grateful for the positive influence Jim had on so many people. I'm also grateful for every glass of wine I shared with him; I only wish we had shared more. Karen, I wish you solace and eventually joy through the memories of your partner, love and best friend. May you find some of Jim in every fish, waterway, glass of Cab, bike ride, and Salerno in your future. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you recover in the days ahead. Thank you for taking such great care of your friend and mentor to so many!! -Katie

Rudy DeMay

October 2, 2020

My sincere condolencesRudy

David OBrien

October 2, 2020

I knew James from Toastmasters. One time he took me with him in the EastBay to show me some steelhead habitat he was helping to preserve. It was an awesome stream in an old growth sycamore forest. Great guy, great sense of humor, so much knowledge. My condolences. Rest In Peace Jim

Daniel Ostrye

October 1, 2020

Dear Karen and Family,
I received word of Jim's passing from my friend colleague Mary Alice Koeneke and am so sorry to hear of your loss. Jim was part of our research team at EA and one of my favorite project managers. He was the kindest and most caring managers in my group, a great scientist and just a good person. He made us all better people and researchers.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dan

Mary Alice Koeneke

October 1, 2020

So sorry to hear about his passing. I worked with Jim in CA in 1978-1981. I well remember his infectious laugh and his quiet demeanor...

Ron Jetke

September 30, 2020

Jim was such a great boss with our group at Water Quality. What a good guy. It was so neat to share a glass of vino with Jim at the Monte Cristo Club in San Francisco. "Per semipro amici"

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