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Jeffrey Brigham Obituary

Jeffrey Robert Brigham May 6, 1949 - November 14, 2011 Jeff Brigham could light up a room like nobody else. Born in Palo Alto to Betty McNeil and S.T. (Jake) Brigham, Jeff was an ambitious kid, always looking for business opportunities. At 10 he set up a putting green in his mother's yard with starting times and green fees. He loved animals and was thrilled to land a managerial position at Gary's Pet Shop while still in middle school. All went well until Jo-Jo the monkey got loose creating havoc with the reptiles and Jeff was in over his head with a store-wide monkey rebellion. Little did he know how well that experience would serve him later as a parent. All his life Jeff was never without a job, and after graduating Gunn High School and San Jose State University he was anxious to be his own boss. While completing an internship in college, Jeff co-founded Meyer, Holland Brigham Advertising. With disco fever rising and home sounds systems all the rage, Jeff and his partner Paul Meyer recognized an opportunity and launched Stereo West which grew into a 12-store chain throughout the bay area. Ambitious for a new challenge, Jeff became increasingly interested in the bar and nightclub business, opening Boswells in Campbell on his own in 1977. The success of Boswell's quickly led to Bullfarber's, Mountain View; Barrington's Palo Alto; McNeil's in Santa Clara and Khartoum in Campbell. At various times throughout the 80s and 90s he owned Mt, Charley's and Carry Nation's in Los Gatos, Pioneer Saloon in Woodside and British Bankers Club in Menlo Park. At the time of his death Jeff was the sole proprietor of Boswell's and Khartoum, both Campbell. A fun-loving and sentimental man, Jeff never let a birthday or holiday pass without turning it into a party because friends and family meant more to him than anything. Always the generous host, he was also the first to don a crazy party hat or stick French fries up his nose for a laugh. He loved playing golf as much as he loved blackjack and slots, and four nights at Wynn LV was his idea of heaven. Jeff was the beloved husband of Laurie Brigham and devoted father to Beau and Brandon Brigham and Jackson Murphy. His cherished youngest son, Kevin Murphy preceded him in death last year. Jeff is also survived by his sister Bonnie Brigham Gardiner (husband Jeff Gardiner) and brother Jack Brigham (wife Judy Brigham), sister and brother-in-law, Frank and Nina Correa as well as numerous nieces and nephews who loved him dearly. Jeff will be deeply missed by all who knew him and were touched by his charisma and charm. The light has gone out and our world will not be the same without him. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to either of the following charities which were close to Jeff's heart: American Foundation for Suicide Prevention or Blind Babies Foundation. A memorial service is being held at Darling-Fischer Campbell Memorial Chapel, 231 E. Campbell Avenue on Monday, November 21 at 2:00 p.m.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Nov. 17 to Nov. 20, 2011.

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Mike Christine

July 23, 2024

hello, all.........I just found this site and wanted to add my memories of Jeff..
we were friends at Terman Jr Hi and played football together... He was a wide receiver and I was a Q-Back, so we played a lot of catch....miss you, Jeff

Dee Dee Soderstrom

November 12, 2019

It was great working for you. You were a classy man. RIP

Bill Donnelly

November 22, 2011

LBB&J,
It has been an honor to be a part of your lives and to have the opportunity to meet, laugh, spend time with, but most of all, learn from Jeff. His lessons of how not to stress out in the small stuff and always love those around you were profound lessons that I will take with me for the rest of my life. I will always be here for all of you.

Diana Soderstrom

November 21, 2011

So sorry to hear about Jeff's death.. I just heard today.. I now live in Northern California...I had the honor of working for Jeff and many of his Pub's as a Waitress and also a Bartender... He was a very classy person. Went to many fun Christmas parties back in the day..
I will pray for peace for the family. God Bless and may you rest in peace my friend. I am so sorry that your life was way too short....
Diana Margherita aka Dee Dee Soderstrom

November 21, 2011

Dear Laurie,Jack, Brandon, and Beau,
Evan, Bobby and I are so terribly sad to hear of Jeff's death. Jeff was always a man who had a wonderful smile on his face and a warmth that words couldn't even begin to express. All our love goes to each of you at this time and forever.
Love always, Elise, Evan and Bobby Tchelepi

Nanette Davis

November 20, 2011

My sympathy goes out to the family of Jeff Brigham. I was very sad to learn of his passing. He joined our family in 1971 when he married my sister Jill and to all of his little pre-teen and teenage sisters-in-law he was a Rock Star of a brother-in-law! He was so much fun, had an amazing sense of humor and really enriched and expanded our lives during the 70's and early 80's. The world will be a sad place without Jeff Brigham in it. RIP Jeff.

Sue Walsh

November 20, 2011

Dear Laurie, Brandon and Beau
We have only fond, happy memories of Jeff! He was so funny and always made us laugh. If the saying "The good die young", that is Jeff. He left us too soon! He was such a good person and will be missed so much. God bless you and your family and may you find confort in knowing he touched our hearts!! Love and Hugs Sue and Bill Walsh

Karen Murphy

November 20, 2011

Dear Laurie, Jack, Brandon and Beau ...
My most fervent and deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved Jeff. Sadly, he left this life much, much too soon. In keeping with Jeff's generous way, he left you with numerous unforgettable, happy memories. Bless his heart.
I am so very sorry.
With so much love, (Aunt) Karen

Jill Brigham

November 19, 2011

Jeff was a such a special person, whose zest for life and sense of humor affected everyone around him. We met in college when he was at SJS and I was a nursing student. After dating for a year, we were married in 1971. He was loved by my family and will never be forgotten. Jeff was so ambitious, and so creative, it was an amazing, exciting, and ever changing ten years, with so many memories. He was always positive and always so funny! After our marriage ended we kept in touch thru out the years. He was so happy when he became a father and enjoyed all aspects of parenthood. When he met Laurie, he found his life partner and added 2 more boys to his heart. Jeff had found his true happiness in life
To Laurie, Beau, Brandon, Jack, and Kevin, you are all in Jeff's heart forever. May his love give you all strength in this time of loss.

sincerely,

Gary Barbin

November 19, 2011

So sorry for your lose.......

Lisa Hauck-Alvarez

November 19, 2011

Wine Cellar is very saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Laurie, Beau and family during this very difficult time. Rest in Peace, Jeff. - The Hauck Family, Wine Cellar Restaurant

Julianna Lange

November 19, 2011

My deepest condolences, may God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Jeff was one of a kind, he will truly be missed.

TJ Westphal

November 19, 2011

Our thoughts are with you Laurie, Beau, Brandon, and Jack...with love,

TJ & Nicole

Read Zaro

November 19, 2011

I am currently out of town and heard of Jeff's passing. I wanted to take a moment to express say how sorry I am for your loss. I had the pleasure of booking entertainment for Jeff over the years, and he was truly one of the good guys. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Read Zaro / TEC Productions

Bill Sellier

November 18, 2011

To Jeff's Family,
I was so shocked and saddened to learn of Jeff's passing. Jeff and I were best of friends starting in elementary school, through high school and into college. While we had not stayed in touch in recent years, I thought of him often as one of my closest friends growing up. I am so sorry for your loss and I wish you solice and peace at this extermely sad time.
Jeff was truly one of the greatest guys I have had the privilege to know.

Respectfully,

Lisa Rhorer

November 18, 2011

Laurie and family, our deepest sympathy - Don Durante and Lisa Rhorer, Cin-Cin, Los Gatos

Stephan Shelton

November 18, 2011

Laurie and Family,
Sending my most heart-felt condolences. A wonderful and warm human being. I will miss his smiling face and charm
My deepest Sympathies.

Brian and Sarah Murphy

November 17, 2011

Our thoughts and condolences are with you and we hope you find solace in all of your cherished memories of Jeff

colienne Auxier-Brennan

November 17, 2011

Laurie and children,
I am so deeply saddened by the news of Jeff's passing. He will always have a dear spot in the hearts of all his high school friends. He was such a delightful man to have known. My heart goes out to you at this sad time.
With deepest sympathy.
Colienne Auxier-Brennan

Darling Fischer Memorial Chapel

November 16, 2011

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