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John Buffa Obituary

John Buffa Passed July 7, 2011 in San Rafael, California. He leaves behind his beloved son Stan (Carol), his cherished granddaughters Deanna Albini (David), Darlene McDonald (Michael), and four great-grandchildren Danielle, Amanda, James and Jack. John is preceded in death by his brothers Guido, George, Harold, Stanley and his sister Marie Mullen. He will always be remembered dearly by numerous nieces and nephews and friends. John was born in New Orleans, Louisiana August 18, 1913 to his loving parents Sam and Louise, they later moved to San Francisco when John was a small infant. He was proud to be one of the first students of the first graduating class of Balboa High School, San Francisco, in 1931. He also attended USF and then decided to join the Merchant Marines. He served as First Mate during WWII. In 1936 he married the love of his life "Marge". They spent the next fifty-four years together until her passing in 1990. John enjoyed many years as an owner/bartender at the Zanzibar, Big Al's and Capps's Corner in San Francisco. Later moving permanently to his "ranch" in Sebastopol, CA he continued bartending at Negri's in Occidental until the age of ninety-two. The Buffa family wishes to thank the special care given by all of the caregivers at The Rafael, especially Magdalena, Annie, Emma, Bee and Susan. We would also like to thank Tom, with hospice, for always being so attentive at John's side. Dad, we will miss you dearly and will always love you. Services will be private. In remembrance of John, the family requests donations to your favorite charity.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jul. 10 to Jul. 12, 2011.

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Karen Jones

July 4, 2024

My name is Karen Jones. I am the daughter of Hazel and Bill Young. My parents were Balboa high school friends with John. They were all partying together until they were quite old. When I look at my parent´s photo album I see pictures of the Buffas. My mother´s maiden name was Hansen, she went to Balboa, but my father went to Poly. I can still hear them singing the Balboa song at their dinner parties.

Karen jones

July 4, 2023

John was my mothers school mate, they remained friends for the rest of my parents life. They had frequent dinner parties, and always sang the balboa song. My mom was Hazel Hansen and married Bill Young, he went to Poly. They were Bill and Hazel Young

Karen Young Jones

July 4, 2021

I am the daughter of Hazel and Bill Young, John´s classmates of Balboa. Do you remember their frequent get togethers with Ruth and Jerry Stubo, etc. I have a picture of the group in their later years. You can find me on Facebook, or here for a reply

Marta Jamshidi

August 8, 2011

Uncle John was one of the funniest and generous people. He was my father's best friend, all the way back to Balboa High. I loved it when they, and another North Beach old timer, Hank Jackson, got together and told stories about the old days in San Francisco. There just is nobody like them anymore - sad for all of us. My sisters, Mary Consolo and Kristina Memarian, and I will always treasure that we were priviledged to have him as out godfather.

Karen Jones

July 27, 2011

John and Marge Buffa were my parents very dear friends from Balboa Highschool. They had many get togethers throughout the years. My parents were Bill and Hazel Young. I remember the parties well, as you could hear the laughter outside. They all had a wonderful time together. They all sang their Balboa Highschool song at the table. It's sad to think those special people are probably all gone now. Karen Jones

Bob & Jeanne Hanssen

July 14, 2011

We remember the "good old days"

July 12, 2011

Johnny you were a very good person. You put me in my place when it was appropriate. You gave me a free drink whenever you felt like it. But, most importantly, you were my friend. So long pal, I'll see you on the other side.

Bob Hanssen, Jr.

July 12, 2011

I met John when I was very young. My Dad introduced me to him at the Zanzibar. Over the years we would see him at different places and times. Then I didn't see him for more than 15 years. I walked into Negri's with my girlfriend and there was John! I ordered our drinks and when John put the drinks down he said, "So, how's your Dad?" I was floored that he remembered me! There will never be another Johnny Buffa! Rest in peace. John.

Frank & Rosalie Gau

July 12, 2011

John was an all round good guy and the nicest bartender I ever knew. The Zanzibar was my hangout. I met my wife Rosalie (Alexander) Gau there. She was one of his coctail waitresses. We had many memorable experiences there with our friends and buddies. Rest in peace, John.

bobby(rod) rodriguez

July 11, 2011

John-you taught so many of us in north beach how to treat customers and fellow workers-you were a role model for bartenders-you were definitely the nicest bartender that ever lived-thanks for the advice and friendship..your smile and heart will never be forgotten...

Janette Steger-Snell

July 11, 2011

I will never forget how much you improved the lives of so many people by just knowing you. I will miss you very much and I feel so blessed to have been your friend. Thank you for that.

John & Julia Ecker

July 11, 2011

So sorry for your loss. Never met a more gracious man than Johnney, so wonderful and kind. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends who will miss him dearly.

Bill Baber

July 10, 2011

It has been twenty years but it was a pleasure to work with John at Negri's . I was also from San Francisco and loved his stories. He was a class act and a true gentleman... RIP John.

Tim Steger

July 10, 2011

I am glad to have met you, you always made going to work fun with your words of wisdom and the stories from the eventful life you led. you will be missed by all who knew you.

July 10, 2011

I will miss him forever. He was my "Tuesday Night Stop" at Negri's. He opened his home many times to his Occidental family for birthday's, holiday's and parties in general. We loved him! God bless you Johnny. Thank you for all of your kindness and generosity. I will never forget the parade we had for you on your birthday! Priceless! Much love to his family.

Melissa Stubbs

July 10, 2011

I am so glad that I got to work with such a great man, Negri's has never been the same!! Johnny, you will be missed dearly!!

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