April 23, 1942 - October 9, 2016
Jon William Paulson passed away after a full, productive life on Sunday, October 9, 2016 at the San Francisco V.A. Hospice facility. He had been suffering for seven years with multiple myeloma which he contracted from constant exposure to Agent Orange in Vietnam. Jon was an infantry platoon commander in Vietnam in the second wave of Marines deployed 1965-1966. Regrettably, his incurable blood cancer treatment caused an inoperable glioblastoma brain tumor diagnosed in early August. He received the best of care at our outstanding V.A. Medical Center at Fort Miley with his superb team of medical doctors and nurses.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
James Lansing
May 5, 2023
I was born in the same year as Jon, six months younger, and also served in Vietnam at about the same time (1965-67). Being in the U.S. Navy, I may have taken him into the beach on one of the landings in which I was involved as I was in charge of one of the landing craft doing so. I have had MGUS for years hoping it doesn't progress into Multiple Myleoma. So far, so good. Although a member of the Marines' Memorial Club, I never knew him there, unfortunately.
Charles and Nazan
May 4, 2023
Jon was a man with class and integrity, and generous in the donation of his time to veteran's causes.
We need more people like him in our lives.
We miss him and think of him often.
Marcela Evans
October 22, 2022
We still miss Jon, so much as if he was here yesterday.
The best friend, the most wonderful gentleman, a big loss in our lives.
For ever will remember you my dear friend.
Stan Atkinson
October 20, 2021
Gone..but never..ever forgotten..Dianne!! His presence on this Earth was such a gift to all of us who were fortunate enough to know him. A jar head true..but the BEST kind! Love from Stan and Kristen
Marcela Evans
October 20, 2021
Dearest Jon, our wonderful friend, always a Gentleman, we carry you in our hearts
We always have wonderful memories of you.
Marcela Evans
October 20, 2020
Just looking at Jonsito dear face, brings back so many memories, of so many years, that we were blessed with his friendship. Love you dear friend ❤
Missing you very much.
Marcela Evans
October 20, 2019
Dearest Jon- We miss you all the time, there are few people in our lives, that touched our hearts the way you did. An example of love, dedication and friendship.
We Love you and keep you in our hearts
Rob Rosso
February 10, 2018
Blessed that we had time to spend together over the many years. No greater love ❤ than what they gave each other. Dianne was and will always be Jon's BRIDE. As the globe keeps turning Jon's bright star will keep shining brightly with all whose lives he touched.
Bill Elmiger
March 17, 2017
Jon was as good a man as I ever knew in my life. I never heard him speak ill of anyone, and he was always willing to help anyone who needed it. His leadership capabilities were very evident at Tenafly High School. I had the privilege of being a basketball team-mate of his in a church league in HS. His superb talent as a basketball player were largely unknown outside our league--in fact, even he had forgotten about playing basketball when I last communicated with him in 2010. He changed our team from losers to winners with his unselfish play and leadership. As kind and gentle a man as he was, he was a fierce competitor, but always the epitome of true sportsmanship. I regret not having kept in touch all these years, but he will leave a large void in our lives nonetheless. RIP, Jon--you did all of us THS alums proud.
Anne Archer
February 11, 2017
John was a class act always caring and asking how one is doing. He was a handsome and intelligent man and a loving husband to his beautiful wife Diane. He was American hero and even in the end while suffering with his illness he always care about others. He will always be remember and live in our memories and hearts forever.
Stan Atkinson
January 18, 2017
Jon was as solid and good a guy as I've ever known. He left that impression with everyone he ever met. I saw that closeup over the years..introducing him to friends here in Sacramento. Knowing Jon was a meaningful experience whether for a brief time or over the years. i'm sad to miss the Celebration of his life tomorrow..but my own health issues won't make that possible. So i'll add a comment that I know will be expressed often..Semper Fi..Jon.
Mark Meyer
November 26, 2016
Jon was a mentor and a friend. He was a phenomenal man. My entire family is saddened by this news. Dianne and JP always lit up a room - such a lovely couple. Our deepest condolences.
Jon & Dianne at 2015 One Lap of Marin Party
November 24, 2016
November 4, 2016
Dear Dianne,
I am so sorry for your deep loss. You and John were the ideal couple and I feel fortunate to have seen you together fairly recently. John was happy and in good health and enjoying his night out with you. What a wonderful man he was who bore the debilitating effects of his time at war with so much strength and courage, never complaining or feeling sorry for himself. May he rest in peace and I hope you can find comfort here on Earth now that he is gone.
My best to you,
Molly Gleason-Kodama
BK Masterson
November 4, 2016
I wish now I could remember more of my conversation with Jon Paulson and his wife Dianne, a matched set as ever there was. But I do remember this truth I have observed over a lifetime, best expressed by Maya Angelou: I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Jon and Dianne Paulson were friends of the parents of my work friend, a man about 40 years my junior. His young family and his parents both lived within walking distance of my apartment in SF. I always thought he invited me knowing I would not feel odd (wo)man out' since his dad has served in the post-war occupation Army in Italy and his dad's good friend was a Devil Dog, having served in Vietnam. I knew that, but I didn't direct the conversation over pre-buffet imbibing. I was just trying not to put my foot in my mouth or bump into anything in that wonderful old Edwardian home filled with all sorts of marvelous artifacts from all over the place.
I can't even remember how it started; I think my young friend mentioned my interest in military history. All I remember is that the conversation flowed from that with Jon immediately putting me at ease and we chat about the subject I knew well. I wish now we had spent some time on his war, but I've also learned that bloodied war vets do not share those conversations with women as a rule.
It breaks my heart that chunks of time and memories go missing from times like that when I'm so nervous or feeling so out of my depth. But I absolutely remember how Jon and Dianne Paulson made me feel that evening.
Rest in Peace, Devil Dog.
November 2, 2016
Dear Dianne, Tom and I are so sorry to hear of Jon's death. We remember many years long ago sharing fun and good times with the two of you and Bob and Joanne. In reading the above article about his life all I can say is WOW what an incredible man you spent your life with and we are so sorry this wonderful guy, your husband of so many years, has left all way too soon especially you. Our deepest sympathy, Dianne. Cherish the good memories of love and good times shared. Tom and Regina Hudson
Roy Curry
November 1, 2016
Jon was always upbeat determined and a true gentlemen. he will be remembered
Chuck Mayer
November 1, 2016
Dear Jon and Dianne Paulson,
I'm writing to you both because I've always seen you as the ideal couple who shared a full and loving life together, one that we should all aspire to.
Jon, I will miss you in ways that will stay with me all my life. Dianne, you are a friend, and as your friend, I am here for you among your many friends who love you, especially at this time.
Chuck
Tom and Sondra Meehan
November 1, 2016
Dear Dianne,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We both remember this part of Martin Luther King Jr's speech in 1963.
"I have a dream my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin
but by the content of their character."
If by the content of our character is the measure by which we will be judged, Jon certainly stood as a gentle giant among all of us.
With deepest sympathy,
kathleen cannon
November 1, 2016
Jon will always be remembered. He made the world a better place for U.S. Veterans. My deepest sympathy to Dianne.
patricia cannon
November 1, 2016
Jon will be remembered for making the world a better place for U.S. veterans.
Steve & Anne Schmadl
November 1, 2016
Diane,
I did not realize the life that Jon led. What a great life and amazing adventures he had, the things he did and the people he met along the way! His biggest accomplishment of course meeting you and the life you shared together with the memories you created! Our deepest condolences to you!
Love,
October 31, 2016
My Dear Dianita....
We were , all soooooo lucky , to have the privilege of have known Jon!
He was allways such a gentleman!!
I know tha we will allways miss our dear Juanito....
But I am sure that he is taking care of you every day .
And he will live on our harts forever!!!
I love you very much.
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Catharina's friend Gunilla
October 29, 2016
Dear Dianne,
You were most fortunate to have had Jon in your life for so long. He was wonderful, uniquely handsome and full of zest for life.
I shall remember him always.
Love from Sweden,
Al MacLeod
October 28, 2016
A heck of a guy and gone way to soon. May he RIP. All the best to you Dianne. Jon will be missed.
Bill Wheeler
October 28, 2016
Jon, you were a great fellow. I wish we had spent more time together. Our thoughts are with you. Bill Wheeler
Lawson Steele
October 27, 2016
John was an incredible friend to my mother, Alice. Every time I met him was a privilege and a joy. A true gentleman.
Diana Lyster
October 27, 2016
I am honored to have known Jon. He was a gentleman, a scholar and a true patriot, as well as a kind person and loving husband to Dianne.
His footprints will not easily be filled. May he rest in peace.
October 27, 2016
John and I are deeply sorry to hear of the loss of one Americas finest Jon, and a wonderful person in his community and this world.....We to share the vietnam era with my sick brother,a sad one,we have lost so many...our prayers and love go out to you Diane and your family...A huge loss to anyone who had the privilege to know such a fine gentleman and hero....gone to soon.
John
October 27, 2016
Jon is, and was a true American hero.
Thanksgiving at The Paulson's
Marcela Evans
October 27, 2016
We lost a Friend, a Hero indeed..
Jon was an amazing friend, listener, gentelman... I prayed that my daughters find someone like him for a husband.
I told Dianne that she was very lucky to have shared her life with such a rare gem of a man. This makes it the harder to let him go.. But he is in a better place now.
We will always miss him,
Wayne and Marcela Evans
Marce and Mariana
Shariq Yosufzai
October 27, 2016
The world has lost a great man and we have lost a great friend. May he rest in peace. Dianne, you re in our thoughts and prayers.
Brian and Shariq
Mark Davenport
October 27, 2016
Semper Fi Devil Dog. You set a high bar for all Marines to follow.
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