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Jonathan Grisham Obituary

GRISHAM, Jonathan Edwin - The world became a darker place on September 16 with the sudden passing of one of its bright stars, Jonathan Edwin Grisham. Jon was born in Long Beach, CA on July 19, 1958. He attended UC Irvine, where he earned a bachelor of arts in 1981. He went on to attain his master of arts in psychology from Pepperdine University in 1982. Jon attended medical school at UC San Francisco, and graduated in 1986. While in San Francisco, he fell in love with the woman he would eventually marry, Andrea Walhof-Grisham. His love for the Bay Area and children led him to a residency in pediatrics at Children's Hospital Oakland from 1986 to 1989. He continued there as a fellow in pediatric emergency medicine from 1989 to 1991. There he was valued for his bright mind, compassion, and sense of humor. He was a favorite teacher among the resident physicians for his warm, engaging personality as well as his ability to teach them the finer points of pediatric emergency medicine. He was an attending physician in the emergency department there until the time of his death. Jon also held a position as Assistant Clinical Professor of Pediatrics at UCSF from 1992 to the time of his death. Jon was published widely on the subjects of pain management and conscious sedation in children. He wrote numerous chapters for pediatric textbooks and is well regarded in the greater pediatric community for his work. Jon loved life and all would agree that he lived it to its fullest. He will be remembered for his sharp wit, his infectious energy and giggle, and his insightful optimism. He was a generous soul who gave of himself in every way, whether that meant helping a friend in need or hosting large fundraisers for Children's Hospital at his home. In 2004, Jon and his family moved from Rockridge to Truckee, where he was able to combine two of his passions: the Sierras and skiing. An avid outdoorsman, Jon truly felt that the Sierras were where he was meant to be. He spent much time this past year hiking and biking in the hills in and around his property. Jon was predeceased by his father, Jack Edwin Grisham. He is survived by his mother, Ruth Wright, of Long Beach; devoted wife, Andrea Walhof-Grisham; loving children, Jonneke and Luke; sister, Julie Grisham and her partner, Kenneth Winters; step-mother, Patty Grisham; mother-in-law, Brigitte van der Meulen, and numerous grieving aunts, uncles, cousins, and in-laws. His death also creates a huge void among his family of friends and colleagues. Donations in Jon's memory can be made to the Truckee Trails Foundation, P.O. Box 1751, Truckee, CA, 96160 or Global Pediatric Alliance, 10 Van Cleave Way, Oakland, CA 94619. A celebration of Jon's life is being planned on October 15th in the Bay Area, location to be announced, and details about it can be obtained by contacting [email protected].

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Sep. 22, 2005.

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David Lewis

October 17, 2005

Jon and I started as Attendings at Oakland Children's Hospital at the same time. I just heard of his death from my brother-in-law who attended the celebration this weekend. He was a take charge man who was at the right place at the right time to make big and necessary changes.My wife (also a physician) and I were shocked and dismayed to hear that such a fit and vibrant person has passed away at such a young age. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

David and Susan (Eisenberg) Lewis

B Zlotnick

October 7, 2005

I only knew Jon by reputation, by his colleagues' admiration, and by his compassionate, expert, professional, collegial telephone consultations when I needed to get children from my ED to his higher level of care at Childrens' Hospital. I'm grateful for the support he offered my patients and can only imagine the loss felt by his family and friends.

Susana Acevedo

October 6, 2005

I trained at Children's Hospital Oakland and when I look back at my residency the person that stands out from all my great teachers is Jon. He will be missed.

Carole and Dick Sukman

September 30, 2005

We have not seen Jon in 35 years. Our memory of him, as our son's close friend, is of a happy and bright boy. We are not surprised to find that he grew into a loving, kind and giving man. Having lost a child ourselves our heart goes out to Ruth and to his wife and children.

Barbara Wright

September 28, 2005

I didn’t know Jon very long or very well. But, I do know that he had dreams and aspirations and worked hard to have them come to fruit. I know he loved children. He had child type qualities of his own even as an adult. He could identify with the young ones. This made him a good father and friend to his own children. It made him a good pediatrician and friend to his patients. From the well deserved bragging his mom has done I’ve learned about his pioneering work with children’s pain. I hope his colleagues and students have learned from his study and research and will carry on his work. It would be a fitting legacy and compliment to his family for them to do so.



Jon will be missed by many, especially by his mom, sister, wife, and children. May the memories of all the good times gradually fill the emptiness you feel now and heal your hearts. Life continues on and must move forward; remember that Jon’s love will always be in your hearts to help you carry on.

Gary Warner

September 23, 2005

The word of Jon's passing is just starting to spread down here. We were grade school friends in Long Beach. We played on the same lousy Kiwanis little league team. He had a great tree house in his backyard where we hid various treasures we'd found in the alleys near our houses. I lost track of Jon after high school, but the obituary in the Chronicle shows he had a wonderful, rich, loving life doing important work. A fantastic trip with a too early ending.

Ross and Bridget Levin

September 22, 2005

Andrea-

You opened your home to us when we visited Michael and Georgeanne. John turned me on to Robert Earl Keen. I think Keen's "Merry Christmas From the Family" will never be the same for me. Keep the flame.

Love,

Ross and Bridget

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