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Lupe Gutierrez Obituary

Lupe R. Gutierrez 86, died in San Pablo, Tue., Jan. 8, 2008. Mrs. Gutierrez is survived by her daughter Yolanda Escalante; grandchildren, Lupita Gutierrez and Alejandro G. Escalante; great-grandchildren, Monika Gutierrez, Ruby and Olivia Rodriguez; and a host of nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband Charles; and her son Charles Gutierrez, Jr. She had been an 80-year resident of San Francisco before her 2003 move to live with her daughter Yolanda in San Pablo. Mrs. "G," as she was known among the youth baseball players in the Park and Rec. Leagues, PAL, and other city leagues, assisted her husband Charles in managing a number of teams between the late '50s and mid '80s. She was an avid San Francisco Giants fan. Visitation will be from 3-9p.m., Sunday, (today) Jan. 13 at Driscoll's Valencia St. Serra Mortuary, 1465 Valencia St., SF. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Charles Boromeo Church, 18th St. and South Van Ness Ave., SF at 11 a.m., Monday, Jan. 14. Memorial contributions to the American Heart Association have been suggested by the family.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jan. 11 to Jan. 13, 2008.

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Dan Silva

January 12, 2009

Aunt Lupe...
My last Aunt...
Hard to think that I have no more Aunts and Uncles...They were all treasures and I'm sorry I didn't take advantage of spending more time with them. We'll have to catch up in eternity. Aunt Lupe always sent us the first Christmas card of the Christmas season. We could count on that. We were the opposite. We confess to sending ours out late...even after Christmas. I even saw a couple of un-mailed cards on the hutch the other day. Oh well.
The visits of Uncle Charlie and Aunt Lupe were always special. There were so many inside jokes by both of them that we were always laughing. Fun times never to be forgotten. We always appreciated the interest Aunt Lupe showed in our children and grandchildren. AND I could ALWAYS count on her bringing Pan dulce to me.
God Bless you Yolanda. Love Dan & Lynda

Johnnie Johnson

January 12, 2009

Yolanda, I am so sad that your mom is not here with us. I will miss receiving a memorial card from her every May. I miss calling and singing happy birthday to her every year. She is in my heart. She is watching over you.
Your friend, Johnni Johnson

Yolanda Gutierrez-Escalante

January 8, 2009

Things I feel most deeply
Are the hardest things to say,
Dearest Mom, I love you
In a very special way.
If I could have one lifetime wish
One dream that could come true,
I’d pray to God with all my heart,
For yesterday, and you.

Mom, it's been a very rough year without you...for the first time in my life, your arms weren't there to hug me when I lost Alejandro five months after I lost you. And although I tried to be the strong woman you raised me to be...I know you were right beside me to ease my pain, and wipe away the tears.

It's been a year that you've been gone Mom....
It broke my heart to lose you,
But you didn't go alone
For part of me went with you,
The day God took you home.

I love you Mommy!!!
Yo

Lupe Gutierrez

January 8, 2009

A year you have been gone from this earth, but are never far from our hearts.
Thank you Mi Querida Abuelita for always remembering every holiday, milestone and special occassion that happened,not only my life, but also in the lives of your great-grandchildren.
Con mucho cariño - Lupita, Monika, Ruby & Olivia

Tina Picazo

January 7, 2009

Tia Lupe was just one of those people who always had a smile. I remember Sundays at church and afterwards standing by the corner store and talking with her, my uncles and Tia Mary. .The fondest are of course are those wonderful Easters at Stern Grove. ( then going home and watching the Wizard of Oz)! I will never forget them, and thank Tia Lupe and Uncle Charlie for having that family tradition. Often the only time we would see that much of family together. I miss those days so very much and often share my fond memories with my friends. Someone as special as Tia Lupe, can never be forgotten. I will see you again Tia Lupe.
Love,
Tina

Jeanine Mora

February 11, 2008

I have so many great memories of Tia Lupe. Easter Picnics at Stern Grove and the 4th of July parties in the backyard.. I drive by her old house every morning and blow her kiss and think of her fondly. We are all going to miss her so much!!!

Lucille Hanson

February 10, 2008

There are so many fond memories of my Aunt Lupe as I was growing up. The Easter Sunday picnics, with her and Uncle Chuckles always the first one's at the park with breakfast & coffee waiting for everyone. She had such a great sense of humor. She was a caring and loving Aunt. Thank you GOD for letting her be my Aunt, and giving me the chance to know and love her.

Michele White

February 6, 2008

I always looked forward to receiving cards from Tia Lupe whether it was a birthday card, a get well card or a just because card she always used to sign them "I love you forever, Tia Lupe" I'm gonna miss that the most! I'll love her forever too! Michele

Jorge Gutierrez

February 6, 2008

My name is Jorge Gutierrez, I was one of the baseball players for the St. Charles Rebels. I have very fond memories of Charlie and Mrs. G. Wonderful people that brought me wisdom and guidance and in return I gave them the best I could on a baseball field. God love them both. Thank you.

Lupe (Lupita) Gutierrez

February 6, 2008

Dearest Tía,
Abuelita was an amazing woman! She never once forgot any holiday or special occasion. From the time I was a little girl I remember receiving cards and mementos commemorating birthdays, Christmas, etc. And she continued that with her granddaughters. There are no words to describe how special she made us feel and how much I am going to miss her.

yolanda gutierrez-escalante

February 5, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008


Mom, I miss you so, so much! I know you're no longer in pain and you're not suffering any more. I know my Dad & brother welcomed you with open arms but as selfish as I am, I just wasn't ready to let them have you. You'll always be in my heart..and although the tears still fall & my pain is great...I believe with all my heart you are no longer suffering & you are in a better place.

I love you Mommy!!!
yo

Patricia Bobadilla (Dye)

January 14, 2008

Yolanda & Family
I was so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. I remember many memories of Her, your Dad and Brother. My condolences and prayers go to you and to your family. A friend from long ago in San Francisco.

Fran Gutierrez

January 11, 2008

As a child my Aunt was like a second mother to me. I have many memories that I will always cherish. She will be missed. The "OLDER" Gutierrez's are all gone now. I thank God that I knew her and had her in my life for many years.God bless my Auntie Lupe.

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