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Maureen Conway O'Rourke Surrounded by family and friends, laughter and many tears, Maureen Conway O'Rourke set upon her journey to heaven on May 29th, 2012. By now she has met up with her Dad and they are laughing (and arguing a bit), and we hope praying for the rest of us, who will miss her dearly and cannot imagine life without her. Maureen was a remarkable woman who embodied generosity and had the spirit and heart of your best friend. She created community everywhere she went. She was without question the life of the party. If you didn't have a drink in your hand five minutes after entering her home, you went to the wrong house. Maureen was 57 when she died. She was fearless and lived her life to the fullest every single moment. She embraced every experience, good and bad, with open arms and everything seemed to turn out just right for her. After building a successful career in real estate Maureen followed her passion, put all of her chips on the table and took over Towles restaurant in the heart of downtown Burlingame with her partner and best friend Meg Patt. Towles opened on a Monday and by Wednesday the place was full and rocking - Maureen had created yet another community. Her last career was with Hornblower Cruises where her only job was to ensure that her guests had a good time- her office was the San Francisco Bay. But Maureen's greatest accomplishment was her family. With her former husband Kevin she raised three lovely daughters, Kathleen, Mary and Jeannie. Thoughts of them gave her strength in good times and bad, from the day they were born, to the last moment of her life, when they were right next to her, giving her permission to find peace. Her girls will cherish her memory and live their lives as a tribute to her. On the day that Maureen was diagnosed with Leukemia, a team of family and friends arrived within hours and never left her side for two plus years. "Team Maureen" cared for her through thick and thin - from chemo, to bone marrow transplant. Her Mom Peggy Conway; her girls; her best friend Meg; brother and guardian angel Joey; sister Kathleen and brother Daniel; Cousin Meg; Cousins Cathy and Fred; the Costellos; Jane and Joan; Aunt Nancy; her Cullen, Kelly, Hutton & Bennett cousins; and numerous other friends brightened Maureen's days. Maureen never passed up a chance to take a trip, go out to lunch, give a hug, shed a tear or speak her mind. She didn't save for retirement (good move, Maur). She never tried to keep up with the Joneses and definitely danced to her own drummer. She had courage to change and follow her spirit and it was an inspiration. She was kind to all she met, and helped those in need in small and significant ways. Maureen will always be at the River, Camp Mather, Burbank Ave, and wherever her loved ones are enjoying each other's company and having good times. We love you Mo. We are heartbroken but know we will meet again - until then... Family and friends are invited to attend a Memorial Vigil at 7:00 p.m. on Friday, June 1st at Sneider & Sullivan & O'Connell's Funeral Home, 977 So. El Camino Real in San Mateo. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, June 2nd at St. Matthew Catholic Church, 1 Notre Dame Avenue in San Mateo. Donations may be made to Jill's Legacy at Bonnie J. Addario Lung Cancer Foundation at www.lungcancerfoundation.org

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from May 30 to Jun. 1, 2012.

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August 24, 2013

Maureen, you will always be in my thoughts. Your family misses you very much. They keep your memory alive by talking about all the fun times they had while you were with us. When I hear Barry Manilow sing, I ALWAYS think of you. Love, Loretta

August 24, 2013

.maureen We miss you more than We can ever say.. Our days are sad without you. We in the family carry on and honor your memory. We take care of each other and you will always be with us. We will love you forever. I miss my first daughter so much. Mom, Kathleen,Joey, Daniel, Kathleen, Mary and Jeannie

October 25, 2012

Rest in peace Maureen. Just thankful I can say that we crossed paths. You're an awesome woman! Always loved that raspy voice :)

October 20, 2012

. . rest in peace, sweet Maureen . . . I haven't been able to get you out of my thoughts
~ Will Horsfall, Ã…rhus, Danmark

Scott Christensen

June 4, 2012

Maureen was part of our group starting at Ben Franklin in 8th grade then 4 more years at Westmoor. She used to love to joke around and often I was the butt of her jokes or pranks! Good natured always and all in good fun and love. 57 is much too young to pass. Though I hadn't seen Mo in several years, she has been in my mind and heart these last few days. There is a banquet I'll be attending this coming Saturday and a hearty toast will be made in your honor. God Bless you Maureen!

Mary Fatooh

June 4, 2012

To the Conway/O"Rourke Families
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I first met Maureen when we were caring for her grandmother Florence Conway in our care home. I especially remember Joe Sr. coming to visit everyday as well as regular visits from Maureen and her girls and Joey.
My heart goes out to you Peggy, you will be in my thoughts and prayers
Mary Fatooh

Kevin Hecteman

June 2, 2012

I was a regular at Towle's when Meg and Maureen ran the place. Herb Caen once wrote that the best restaurant is a good one in which you are known to the owner, and that was certainly the case here. Meg and Maureen did indeed create a community. Many a good time was had. The corner of Burlingame and Primrose hasn't been the same since. To the family and friends of Maureen: I was saddened to read that she is no longer with us. Please accept my deepest sympathy. May she live in your hearts forever.

June 2, 2012

DEAR O'ROURKE AND CONWAY FAMILY, I REMEMBER VISITING LYNN ON THE RUSSIAN RIVER,AND MEETING MO,CATHLEEN AND MEG. WE HAD SUCH A GOOD TIME TOGETHER THAT THEY CAME TO VISIT ME AT CAMP MATHER.AND THATS HOW SHE MET KEVIN. I AM SO SORRY FOR UR LOSS. JANET DITTMAN

Joe & Bennie Brand

June 2, 2012

Peggy Conway & Family:
We are deeply sadden to read the passing of your daughter Maureen.
We can remember the good old days at St. Catherine Dr., as our children growing up, and playing together. May she rest in peace. She is with her father, Joe now. God Bless.

Kathy Rogers

June 2, 2012

Maureen was truly the complete package. No challenge was too daunting, and, in her capable hands, ANYTHING seemed possible. The word "can't" was never a part of her vocabulary. Mo, you were always a ray of sunshine even on a cloudy day, and I will miss you more than words can say. RIP my dear friend.

Jenn Starr

June 1, 2012

Dan and the Conway family- my heart goes out to you guys! Maureen was a great lady, smiling every time I saw her... She had a great karaoke voice too! She was taken far too soon but take comfort in knowing she will never leave any of you. Her memory will live on forever. Love from the east coast!!

Nancy Martin

June 1, 2012

The Martin Family send our thoughts out to Kathleen, Mary and Jeannie and to all in the family who are missing Maureen. She was kind, generous, fun loving lady who always opened her home to us. Brian and I enjoyed our times at IHM-dining at Towles with Maureen always at our table. She will always live on in our hearts. With deepest sympathy.

Mitzi Wohlmuth

June 1, 2012

Dear O'Rourke and Conway Family; I can't believe I won't run into to you anymore. You always had such great things to say about the kids, your sister Kathleen. We made such an amazing connection that who would know, Your Dad being my principle, Your sister already a friend and your wonderful daughter especially Jeannie who I watched when she was in kindergartner, and everyday you had a smile on your face no matter what she was going thru. There's just no words, I'm so upset to see her name in the Obits. I will not be able to attend as I'm having some health issues myself. R.I.P. MO. My thoughts, prayers and Love our with all of you.
Love,
Mitzi (Flatow) Wohlmuth

Beth Pawlick

June 1, 2012

I only met Maureen once; but I feel as though I had known her forever. I do not recall how this ever came up in the luncheon conversation; but she and I shared an admiration for Mr Manilow and I subsequently gave her his autobiography, 'Sweet Life'. I think the title pertains to her life as well. The song ' I can't smile without you' is fitting for those of us who will miss her dynamic persona.
Sincere condolences to that amazing Conway family!

Marianne Bachers

May 31, 2012

When Rafael brought me around to meet his Mather and Sacred Heart pals, Maureen embraced me. We were forever Irish cousins after that. Later Maureen took care of me during one of the most heart breaking nights of my life. I will never forget her compassion and caring. Maureen was one of a kind.

Kathy Starr

May 31, 2012

Maureen, I always remember your excitement when you called to tell me that Eileen and Dan had baby Danny. We both laughed and shared the excitement of our new little package. I also remember you coming to Boston too and how much fun you made us all have whenevr we were around you. Your spirit is and was amazing. You are an inspiration to all you came in contact with! I know I feel blessed to have known you. I also know that heaven is a lucky place now that it has such a special person like you there. We will miss you but as my Grandmother always said " Till we meet again". Love to everyone in your family. No words will ever be said to share the sadness in our hearts for everyone left behind.

Suzette Martinez Standring

May 31, 2012

I remember Maureen from high school days. She was a can-do gal who juggled it all, and made it look so easy. I always remember her welcoming smile. She made you feel like you were part of her family, her very big family/community. I was so saddened to hear the news. Love from the Boston area.
Suzette Martinez Standring

Paul Prendiville

May 31, 2012

Maureen,God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be So he put his arms around you an "Whispered come to me".With tearful eyes we watched you and saw you pass away Although we loved you dearly we could not make you stay.A golden heart stopped beating ,hard work hands at rest,God broke our hearts to prove to us He only takes the best.

June Williams

May 31, 2012

This is sad news Mo was a one of a kind,may all her fun memories keep you all strong .. She was a " hoot " :) and my nephew Brendon Mooney jst loved working for you both .From all of us @ Sams Sandwiches our <3 <3 to the family

Sue Garrison

May 31, 2012

My heartfelt condolences to Maureen's family. I feel lucky to have known her and to have gotten to visit with her last month and meet two of her daughters. I will treasure our last conversaton on the 20th and only hope that she could have won her fight!

Lori White Rolovich

May 31, 2012

I am so sorry for the loss of Maureen, and the terrible pain for her loved ones left behind. God heard our prayers for her suffering to end, but now her loved ones hearts are broken and her dear friends weep. May warm memories of Maureen hold her friends and family close, and know the love she has for you can never end. Gob bless you, Maureen, you will be so missed.

Will Horsfall

May 30, 2012

I am very, very saddened to read of Maureen's passing.

We were in 8th-grade together at "Ben" in 1968, and I had a HUGE crush on her . . . and instead of telling her so, I innocently teased her, as immature little boys so often do.

I have often thought of her over the years, and wondered where she was, and what she was doing . . . and that it would be a fun and nice thing to do to contact her again just to say, "sorry for the teasing, it was because I liked you" . . . but not knowing her married name, I couldn't find her.

She was a good and genuine heart, and I am so, so sad to finally find out now, in this way, where she is, and what she had been through with her illness

. . . rest in peace, sweet Maureen

Bill & Juna Carle

May 30, 2012

We were lucky enough to find the right house, the right cabin, and the right spot at the lake where we were always surrounded with her great cheer, hospitality, and kindness. We will miss her terribly. Godspeed Mo. Love, Juna & Bill

Cathy Baylock

May 30, 2012

Our family is so sad to hear about Mo's passing. Towles was our home away from home, and Maureen and Meg always made sure our boys were well fed. Burlingame has truly lost an angel. With love, The Baylocks: Cathy, Joe, AJ and Nick

May 30, 2012

We will never be the same Mo. I miss you 1000 times more than I feared. Say Hi to Dad.

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