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PACO FERNANDEZ Obituary
1956 - 2014
Peacefully left us on April 22, 2014. A 4th generation San Franciscan and employee of SF Water Department for over 20 years. Known for his big personality, even bigger heart, unwavering loyalty, great stories and a smile that lit up even the darkest of rooms. He will live in our hearts forever.
Devoted husband of 22 years to Bonnie Fernandez, he is also survived by daughter Maxine McCann (Jeff), grand-daughters Shayla Rae and Mia Rose as well as many dear friends, particularly Rick Ramos and Johnny Casolla, who were with him when he passed.
Friends are welcome to join the luncheon celebrating his life on Thursday, May 8, 2014 at 11:00 a.m. at the Basque Cultural Center, 599 Railroad Ave, South San Francisco 94080.
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Memories and Condolences
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Mike and Joanna Whitaker
April 27, 2025
We were just talking about Paco and you Bonnie yesterday! Thoughts and prayers.
Nick Triantos
April 27, 2025
Losing Paco has been a wound that never heals.
Hope to see him again when the time comes.
Love you so much Paco
Bonnie Fernandez
April 22, 2024
It´s been 10 years. I miss you today and everyday. I Love You Paco.
Joanna Whitaker
April 27, 2021
Bonnie .... ❤
Rene den Boer
April 27, 2020
Dear Paco, no week will pass that I don't think about you and every time it makes me smile. Friens forever, even with more than 6000 miles in between.
Tommie Ferrin
April 27, 2019
Yo Paco!Luv ya brother.I keep a pic of you on my phone that ALWAYS makes me smile.My Man!!It still sucks ur gone (from this side)...but I know You would want me to keep on keeping it on..Thanks for your memory Man!
Joanna Whitaker
October 11, 2015
Dear Bonnie- I'm so sorry to hear about paco's passing... We just came across this today! Please call me... 5026194163. We will let Cody know. He is currently stationed in Alaska. Paco was a great friend to us. We are so sorry for your loss.
Bonnie❤❤❤❤❤
February 17, 2015
My Sweet Husband.
Bonie
February 17, 2015
Well My sweet, one year is nearing. Seems like yesterday. The other morning the alarm was sounding and I said "Paco please turn that off", thought you were right next to me. I hear you telling Diego to be quiet, even the puppy misses you.
Bonnie Fernandez
September 23, 2014
Thank you all for such kind words about Paco. He was bigger than life. I talk to him everyday,from morning till night. The worst part of his death is being alone without him. Our home is too quite! Miss you my sweet. ??
July 15, 2014
I met Paco at about 10am on a regular workday in the Isis Street neighborhood of San Francisco. By 1 pm I felt like he was one of my old friends from the east Bronx. This was about 25 years ago. I was in NYC with my wife when I heard of his passing. As a machinist I enjoyed manufacturing things for him for his many projects. He used to bring me toys for my kids. A kind and gentle person who reached a high level of humanity. Bob O
Carmen Marron
May 31, 2014
Like Liz and Lyne below, Paco an old friend will be missed. A bigger than life personality with a real heart!
May 27, 2014
I just found out that Paco has passed. I am very sad. I first met Paco when I was 16. He was the life of the party. Everyone who met him ended up loving him! He was in my wedding, always with us on vacations, up at different lakes, boating. Even though it has been years since I have seen you, you have always held a special place in my heart, and always will. xoxoxo
May 27, 2014
Wow its hard to know what to say. It's been 30yrs ago or more. What do you say when someone you grew up with passes on. My condolences to the family. I didn't know you but I go way back with Paco and the old gang Ronnie, Liz, and the rest of our old group. I will always, remember his smile and big heart. And how he cared for others. Rest in peace my friend.
Lyne Chappell Karadimos
May 17, 2014
I miss you everyday. I love you with all my heart, now and forever.
Borre den Boer
May 8, 2014
Paco and I met for several years asgo on my first SF-tour. Since then he owned a place in my heart. Peace and respect to you, Paco. I will smoke one of your Cohibo's for the "good old times". I will never forget you, and will keep the Paco-legend" alive here in the Netherlands.
Danielle Kehr
May 7, 2014
Dear Bonnie, We are sorry to hear of the passing of Paco. He was a great man, and we enjoyed our many conversations with him, especially at our block parties. We know that this is a difficult time, but you are blessed with many family members and friends who love you dearly and will help you along. With Love, The Kehr Family
Pamela Lopez-Lewis
May 7, 2014
Dear Bonnie, Maxine & Family,
So sorry to hear we have lost Paco. He had a huge heart and was always willing to help others. He will be missed!
May your memories of him carry you through this difficult time!
God Bless you all!
JAMES TONER
May 6, 2014
BONNIE
my sincere condolences to you and family during this most difficult time. I HOPE and Pray that your family and friendships support and faith and LOVE is enough for you to help get through tough times and sorrow you must be experiencing .
PACO AS I sit and reminisce of great memories of time we've shared, the sessions at Jacks, at work or should i say" at jacks while at work" or on your rooftop or just kickin in the catmans van in the parking lot AT SFWD. I WANT TO THANK YOU for the endless laughter the classic stories and experiences we shared for the advice and the lessons in life and most of all the great friends I've made through you and family . YOUR Heart was bigger than you were ALways there when so may of us needed your loyalty unmatched and your smile well priceless You will surely be missed but my friend NEVER ever forgotten. thanks for the smiles you spread to so many around you. I feel extremely blessed to have had been your friend .UNTIL we meet again
keep em smiling Paco and thank you for you
Tommie Ferrin
May 6, 2014
Paco,
I can't believe you are gone..Thanks for being such a great friend to us all and making me feel that you really cared about me and mine,because Helen and I always loved you a lot my brother.Godspeed Paco!Thanks for the great memories!
Paco and the boys...
Kelly Burton
May 6, 2014
Biggest heart that I have met! There was nothing that he wouldn't have done for any of us! Nick, and the boys and I lost a good friend and confidant. I'm glad Gino & Tony had the last few years to come over after school and get taken care of an fed! We have so many great memories and heaven gained a spirited, fun and caring man that i'm so honored that I got to know...
Tanya Valdez (nee Moore)
May 5, 2014
Bonnie, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Dominic Castellon
May 5, 2014
Uncle Paco,
I am so sorry that you are gone. I am honored that I got to be one of your "nephews". You are one of the best persons I have ever met. I appreciate your love and kindness, to me, my brothers and family. Thank you Uncle Pac!
Stella Castellon
May 5, 2014
Paco,
What can I say, God got another good person, a person that was the very best, you will always be remembered and loved by my family. I am so sorry you didn't get to see Madison when she was born, but I will carry on your stories and what a great and kind person you were. Nick is right, God and Heaven watch out Paco has arrived to make everyone up there laugh and enjoy life, the way he did.
Love and miss you Pac!
Frank Marovich
May 5, 2014
Paco you are a true and loyal friend ! You will be missed! Lots of great memories much love
Nick Triantos
May 5, 2014
All I know is that Heaven just got alot louder and a whole lot funner place to be.Buckle up God Paco has arrived!Paco my friend you will be missed deeply my so many people who loved you so much because you brought so much happiness to everyone around you.It was your personal mission in life to bring joy to people and there was no one better at it...Love You My Brother and Thank You for Everything
Angela Lopez Montemayor
May 4, 2014
Paco your light will shine on in our hearts.
May 4, 2014
Paco was a caring soul. He will be missed. He would always watch our backs when were teenagers going to all the latin dances and winterland...He was like a big brother I never had....Him and Ricky always there if you needed them. Peace be with all of us...it is hard to lose a person who you know was a part of your life and so many others.
May 4, 2014
Bonnie,
There were so many good times. Thinking of you in this time of loss.
Hilda
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