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Patricia Firenze Obituary
1955 - 2020
Patty passed away at the age of 64, early Monday morning, April 13th. Patty is survived by her loving husband of 42 years Steve; daughters Katrina Firenze (Doug Cox), Kristen (Kevin) Searles and Amanda (Travis) Hastings – whom she affectionately referred to as Katie, Krissy and Mandy; brother Rick (Debi) Justice, sister Ann Gear, sister in law Kathryn (Ray) Fragulia; 2 rambunctious, adorable grandsons – Jack and Matt Hastings – who were her daily dose of sunshine; 8 nephews and 3 nieces. She is preceded in death by parents Edna and Joe Justice, her husband's parents George and Helene Firenze, and her brother in laws George (Rusty) Jr (CeCe), and Gary Gear.Patty, a long- time resident of Belmont and San Mateo, was a devout Catholic and a member of the Nocturnal Adoration Society in St. Matthew's parish. She was also a dedicated and caring nurse for over 30 years. As she and Steve were raising their three girls, she worked while going back to school to obtain her Nursing Degree from College of San Mateo and a bachelor's degree from the University of Phoenix. After the passing of her mother, she went back to school again to obtain her Master's Degree in Gerontology from Notre Dame de Namur University. Her father always told her that education was something that could never be taken away, so she worked hard for her accomplishments and her family was very proud. Her whole life she used her gentle, kind soul to help others. People would use words like, "gift, light, funny, one of a kind, eternal optimist, and kid at heart" to describe her.
Patty could often be seen holding a martini with extra olives. That's how she liked to live life. Not only to its fullest, but with a little extra love given to everyone that came across her.
She loved to laugh and dance. Rest in peace, Beloved Wife, Mom, Nonie, Aunty, and Friend. If everyone could live a little bit more like Patty Firenze, the world would be a kinder, more fun-loving place. We will miss you forever and although you were taken too soon, we will try to live our lives with a little extra… and know in our hearts that you are looking down at us – smiling, dancing and sipping that martini in heaven. God won't forget the extra olives.
There will be a small and private ceremony as she's laid to rest at Gate of Heaven Cemetery. Following (at a later date be determined), there will be a celebration Mass in her honor.
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Memories and Condolences
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Lacreta Cox
September 3, 2020
I only met Patty twice, a few weeks before her daughter, Katrina, and my son, Doug were married and again at the wedding. I was so pleased to find such an outgoing and engaging woman. She immediately came and sat next to me and shared her experiences caring for elderly patients. She obviously loved her family and was so entertaining at the wedding with stories and had the audience singing with her the theme song from the Mary Tyler Show. I know her family misses her warm, loving presence that can never be replaced.
Yvonne
April 25, 2020
Patricia always brought her smile and humor to cheer those around her. She constantly prioritized others needs above her own. She took much pride in being a nurse and demonstrated utmost compassion and caring to those in her care. We will miss Patricia. May God comfort your family at this time.
Virginia (McIlmoil)
April 23, 2020
Im saddened to hear of Pattys passing. Patty and I were friends in our teens and early twenties when my sister, Nancy and Rick were together. We had sleep overs and even went to Disneyland together with Edna and Joe. I remember her kindness and smile. My deepest sympathies to her family. With love, Ginny Nimmo (Mcilmoil). so
Gail Peterson
April 23, 2020
I had the privilege of working with Patty in the Circle of Care Program at Mills Peninsula Hospital. Patty was a joy to work with. She cared deeply for her patients and brought a wealth of experience and tender care to all her met her. She always was a delight in bright colors and pretty outfits. Gail
Mike, Staci, Nicole, Stephanie, JB Harrell/Firenze
April 20, 2020
We are so incredibly sad of the passing of Patty. Her warm, positive, fun loving personality will always be remembered by Mike, the girls and I. She had the best laugh and laughed often. It was quite obvious how much she loved her family and vice versa. Sending healing hugs to all, especially Uncle Steve, Katie, Krissy, Mandy and her shining stars Jack and Matt. Our hearts are truly broken for you.
Hilda Mazza
April 20, 2020
Saddened by the sudden passing of my dear friend Patty. I have know Patty for over 20 years when we met at University. Both being nurses a wonderful friendship grew. A lovely soul, kind and full of humor. Also always seeing the best and the bright side of life. I will cherish the times we were together and miss her deeply. Patty you will be always in my thoughts and prayers.
bernard corry
April 20, 2020
May Patty Rest in Peace. She was always such a happy soul. She will be truly missed in the Firenze family. Patty and Steve raised three wonderfull girls. Prayers for Patty from all the Corry's
April 19, 2020
I'm so sad about Patti's passing, but so glad I saw her at the latest family reunion. She was a sweet, friendly, caring person. Prayers and love to all her family. Jean Michel
Bret Michel
April 18, 2020
So very sad to hear of Patty's passing. We will remember her fondly from the Waldemar picnics, always with good cheer, and a smile on her face. Our love to all the family, from me and Matilda Michel.
Vicki Baker
April 16, 2020
Patty was a friendly, fun, kind & caring person. She was the perfect wife to my cousin Steve, a wonderful mother, and a very hard worker. I know she will be missed by all who knew her. Patty, I hope you are enjoying your martinis with extra olives as much as I'm enjoying them right here.
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