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Patrick Carlin Obituary

Patrick Joseph Carlin (Bud)

Patrick Joseph Carlin (Bud) Predeceased by his wife of 58 years Patricia, and his parents Patrick Joseph Sr. and Helen Carlin.
Devoted father to Jerilyn Carlin-Mobley and Fred Mobley, James Carlin (deceased), Helen and Ron Dumont, Kelley and Chris Ravanal, Ann Margaret Rohrs, Patrick and Maureen Carlin, and Jeffrey and Lisa Carlin.
He was the loving Papa to Amy and Jeff Gherardi, Joseph and Nicole Aceto, Jamie and Jory Sandeen, Fred Mobley (Janida Penn), Dewey Dumont (Katie Kobayashi), Meaghan Carlin (Zach Malloy), Catie Dumont, Bridget Carlin (Tyler Shaver), James Ravanal, Buddy Carlin, Charlie Rohrs, Elizabeth Ravanal, Rori and Delaney Carlin; and great-grandson's Will, Jack, and Tony Gherardi.
Loving and supportive brother to Charles (deceased). Survived by Dennis Carlin and family, Sean Carlin (nephew) and loving cousins too numerous to name.
He is also survived by his sister in law LaVerne (Frank, deceased) Stahlnecker and family as well as Fran (Pete, deceased) Lawrence and many nieces, nephews and loving friends.
Bud was a native San Franciscan; attended St. Cecilia's School, received his driver's license at age 14, graduated from Sacred Heart and was a veteran of the Korean War. He was active in St Cecilia's Men's Club and Sacred Heart High School Alumni. He was a 48 year member of Operating Engineers Local 3 and was active in their retiree's group.
He had a lifelong love of the Russian River and swam every chance he got. He loved his Irish roots, the San Francisco 49ers and all the boys from Fahey's who went to games together at Candlestick.
Above all else he loved his family. Whether it was dinners on Vicente Street or sitting on Johnsons Beach, nothing made him happier than when we were all together. His quiet strength will be greatly missed.
Friends and family may call Wednesday July 29, 2015 after 6:30PM at St. Cecilia's Church, where a vigil will be offered at 7:30 PM and are invited to the Funeral Mass on Thursday at 11:00AM. Committal at Holy Cross Cemetary.
Donations in his name may be made to Sacred Heart Cathedral Development Fund.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jul. 23 to Jul. 28, 2015.

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Mary Martin

August 3, 2015

Dearest Carlin Clan and extended family members:

I am so sorry to read of the passing of this Fine Irish man - husband, son, father, uncle, grandfather, uncle and all around great man. May you all find solace in the love he had for all of you in the days, weeks and months to come.

With sincerest sympathy,

July 30, 2015

Everybody calls you Bud now, but "Scratchy" will always be how I remember you, from that moment you literally "fell" into my life 70 years ago on our ski trip. Our families have retained our friendship and it is wonderful how life goes on. Johnson's Beach and Surrey Inn are a nice part of our memories. Happy you and Pat are together again. Love to the Carlin Family.

Jack and Joan Goodwin
Napa

Joe Kelleher

July 29, 2015

May St. Patrick guard you
wherever you go,
and guide you in whatever you do
and may his loving protection
be a blessing to you always.

The Donohoe Family

July 28, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Duncan Sinclair

July 28, 2015

Sending sympathies and prayers for the Carlin Family for their loss of Bub. We'll all miss his sense of humor and his caring ways with the kids. Bub was always generous with my family and he will be missed.
Duncan Sinclair Family

Sheila Goulding McShane

July 28, 2015

RIP Bud Carlin. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. While we will miss you in the sunset you will be in good company with all the other sunsetters who are already in heaven.

July 27, 2015

Dear Carlin Family, sending loving thoughts to all of you..Vicente street will not be the same..take care..love Kathy and Kevin and all of the Callaghan family

July 26, 2015

Sending our prayers and good thoughts to the entire Carlin Family. Love, The Merrion Clan

July 26, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Carlin Family. All of the kids have a special place in our hearts.

The Pengel Family

July 25, 2015

RIP Bud well like man The Dunleavys Dixon Calif

July 24, 2015

Dear Buddy may you Rest in Peace. We are so happy to have been part of your extended Irish Family and that we got to spend happy times with you in Ireland and San Francisco.
Our deepest sympathies to all the family x
'Go raibh Dia Leat' ....'May God be with you'
The Carlins (Denis and Margaret RIP) and Family Castlederg

July 24, 2015

May you Rest in Peace Buddy, proud to be related to such a gentle Gentleman. From your Castlederg Family X
'Go raibh Dia Leat' ....'May God be with you'
The Carlins (Denis and Margaret RIP and Family)

July 24, 2015

very sorry for your love, may the family be comforted.

July 24, 2015

THE STAHLNECKER'S/DEMSHARS SEND THERE THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.

July 24, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Carlin family.

Joe and Nicole Engler

Feeney Family

July 23, 2015

Dear Carlin Family,
We will miss seeing Bud at all the events. He was so involved and proud of all of you. We feel lucky to have known him for the past 14 years. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this time. Love, Rosie, Terry, Megan & Jack

July 23, 2015

Sending sympathy to the Carlin family at this sad time.

Mary Landers

Joe Hession

July 23, 2015

Our prayers and thoughts go out to the Carlin family for the loss of Bud. He will be remembered for his hearty laugh, contagious smile and everlasting kindness. He touched us all and leaves us with great memories of a life that was well lived. Cheers, my friend.
The Hession family

Maria Barberini

July 23, 2015

Pat, Maureen and Carlin Family. Sending my condolences and prayers for the loss of your father. I am so sorry.

Sheila Armstrong

July 23, 2015

So sorry to hear of Bud's passing. I have endless fun loving memories of "the Rooster" and "She-Pat". Now they are together again! Love and peace to you all

Julie O'Brien

July 23, 2015

The O'Brien/Bruneman/Flannery Families send our deepest sympathy for the loss of your father. May he forever be at peace !

Michele McCurdy

July 23, 2015

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Michele Kirchen McCurdy
Joe and Virginia Kirchen's daughter.

July 23, 2015

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Bud. We have great memories of him at Fahey's and at the 49er games. He was an icon in the Sunset and he will be missed. Our prayers are with the family.
With love,
Carol Rickert, Cathy Eandi and Kevin Duffy

Nancy Polen

July 23, 2015

Kelley and family, I am so saddened to hear of your dad"s passing. I know how much you loved him and how much you did for him. My prayers and thoughts are always with you.

Dick Dumont

July 23, 2015

Who loves you, Bud? We all do!! We will miss you, Rooster!!

The Dumont Family

Shawn Singleton

July 23, 2015

Anne Marget, Jeff, Pat...my prayers are with you guys. He was a good man.

Ann Corkery

July 23, 2015

Our thourghts and prayers are with you all. The Corkery Family

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