Paul Brady
May 18, 1948 - January 18, 2023
Our beloved brother Paul Brady passed away from complications of diabetes at his home by Ocean Beach on January 18, 2023 at the age of 74. He was born on May 18, 1948, the oldest child of the late Charles A. Brady and Louise M. Brady He was a San Francisco native, born and raised in the Outer Richmond District, attending St. Thomas the Apostle Grammar School, Presidio Middle School and George Washington High School. He worked in restaurants at the beach during high school and afterwards prior to serving two years in the US Army. After returning home, he worked at restaurants in Ghirardelli Square. In his mid twenties he began his career at CalTrans working on highway maintenance in various Bay Area districts until he retired. He was a devoted and hard working crew leader.
Paul had a competitive spirit, zest for life and an often somewhat dare-devil attitude. A gifted athlete, he started golfing when he was young and continued until his passing. He was a longtime member of The Lincoln Park Golf Club and a more recent member of the Shamrock Gold Club. He was an "Old Timer" with the Dolphin Club, swimming in the Bay at Aquatic Park and playing handball. He made so many lifelong friendships with these groups. He was "up" for almost anything, sailing with his brother Jim, zip-lining through the forests in Costa Rica and making long distance motorcycle trips. He was a proud veteran and volunteered for many years after his retirement at Fort Miley VA Hospital.
Paul truly loved and valued his friends. He was kind, generous and never spoke badly about anyone. He will be missed by all who knew him. He is survived by his brother James Brady, sister Jean McDonagh (husband Steve McDonagh) as well as a niece, six nephews and numerous cousins. Special thanks to all who kept an eye out for Paul, especially his nephew and downstairs neighbor, Owen. All are invited to join the Family in a gathering to remember Paul at 11:00 AM on Thursday, February 2, 2023, at McAvoy O'Hara Evergreen Mortuary, 4545 Geary Boulevard, San Francisco.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jan. 27, 2023.

Memories and Condolences
for Paul Brady

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31 Entries

Jackie McEvoy

February 2, 2023

Like many Dolphin Club members, I can say that Paul Brady was one of my first friends I met at the club. He was so welcoming and generous. He almost had me playing handball -- but I had just gotten serious about playing the piano again, and stretching for the Moonlight Sonata had been hurting, and Paul said, yes, you should not play handball, it will hurt my hands too much. Paul also gave me some great advice as a fellow motorcyclist, not to mention as a bay swimmer. But I will always remember how often when I would be playing the piano at the Dolphin Club on a random afternoon, and upon finishing a piece, I would realize that Paul was standing, listening, at the bottom of the stairs from the men's locker room. I don't think I ever thanked Paul enough for his kind encouragement, and telling me that he truly enjoyed how members playing the piano enhanced the atmosphere of the Dolphin Club. I have never had a better response or reason for continuing to play piano than Paul's argument that it was contributing to the Dolphin Club soul. As our Handball Commissioner and friend, his judgment counts. I will feel Paul standing back, suited up, goggles and cap in hand, listening to me doing my best with Bach, Beethoven, or Pachelbel, and then hearing Paul telling me "thanks," and that he liked starting a swim listening: that will stick with me always, and I am grateful for Paul's spirit! He taught me a lot about how little things each of us do contribute greatly to community!

Peter Neubauer

February 2, 2023

Paul was a very decent human being, with a wonderful and unique sense of humor. He was
always upbeat and interesting,
even when not feeling that great.
I will miss his kind presence at the
Dolphin Club, where we shared the same locker space for many years.

Peter Neubauer

Peter Neubauer

February 2, 2023

Paul was a very decent human being with a wonderful sense of
humor. I always enjoyed hearing about some of his interesting
exploits. I'll miss seeing his kind presence in areas of the Dolphin Club. We shared the same locker space, there, for many years.

Peter Neubauer

Bob Ream,Barbara Ream, B.Fiege

Planted Trees

Barbara Ream

February 1, 2023

`There is always a time... never a good time´.

The water was a little wetter, the sun a little brighter and the laughter more sincere, when Paul was around and he will always be around for those who knew and loved him.

Robert Ream
Barbara Ream
Bill Fiege

Fred M. Starr

February 1, 2023

Paul Brady was a man who enjoyed the fellowship of many friends based on common interests and surely these friends enjoyed his kind, thoughtful, and generous spirit. Our common interest for over four decades was golf and membership in Lincoln Park Golf Club, San Francisco. I'm so grateful Paul was my friend for all these years.

Robin Rome

February 1, 2023

What a dear and humble man, with great athletic skills, loyalty to friends, a volunteer for all seasons. I miss seeing him at the beach and the dock at the Dolphin Club.

kent myers

January 31, 2023

So sorry to hear this. Paul was my locker neighbor at the Dolphin Club and was very kind & friendly. I always looked forward to seeing him on my visits. I will miss him.

Alan Alves

January 31, 2023

I knew Paul from Caltrans we worked together on a lot of different projects! He was the best , we became good friends and always got along and talked frequently of all the hobbies Paul had ! We always connected about riding motorcycles . Although Paul and I didn´t do much outside of the job he was just a great person, there wasn´t a bad bone in his body! You will be sorely missed by All of Us Rest In Peace my Friend

Dan Carwin

January 31, 2023

I knew Paul from the Lincoln Park Golf Club. He would come visit sometimes even when he wasn't playing that day. I remember when the big tree landed on his new Audi - he took it in stride. Paul was always great to talk to and really a nice person. I will miss him.

Rebecca Strouse

January 31, 2023

Working with Paul was wonderful! He was always patient, kind and very knowledgeable..... he will be so missed

Rebecca Strouse

Angie Milon( Tradr'r Sam)

January 30, 2023

If anyone deserves a beautiful send off it would be Paul! I am so heart broken over this! He was a beautiful man! He left a hole in my heart & I will miss seeing him! Condolences to all that knew & loved him! Fly high my daredevil friend & I will look for you on the other side! I Will Miss You!! Love Forever & Always

Fr. Michael Rocha

January 30, 2023

Rest in peace Paul!

(Parish priest at St. Monica/St. Thomas the Apostle)

Peter Devine

January 30, 2023

Prayers for Paul, and for his sister Jean and brother James. Wonderful memories of our childhood on 42nd Avenue and at St Thomas Apostle school. Peter Devine

Wayne Knack

January 30, 2023

Paul and I worked together for many years. He was very dependable and trust worthy. He was my neighbor for a short time after selling the house he grew up in. After he moved into the house near the Lower Great Highway he would give me fishing reports.
When Paul promoted to supervisor in Foster City he was a very good supervisor of a landscape crew. Paul was also on the list to become a Bridge Mainenance Supervisor. He promoted to that position in Walnut Creek not long after his promotion to Landscape Supervisor
After his retirement manybyears later Paul would help organize get together lunches with other retired Caltrans Workers where he will be greatly missed.
Paul was a good friend and a great guy. I am forever grateful to have known him and to call him my friend. Rest in Peace my Friend, I will.miss you!!

Bob Meschi

January 30, 2023

I met Paul at Harding Park in 1984. Became good friends and played many rounds together and always a pleasure to be with. R.I.P. my friend.

Bob Meschi

January 30, 2023

I met Paul at HardingPark in 1984. Became good friends and played many rounds of golf together. Always a pleasure to be with. Great guy,very good golfer. Will be missed by all. R.I.P. My friend.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Linda and Jackson Smith

Sent Flowers

Dianne Simionato Balze

January 29, 2023

Paul was part of our class, 1962 from St. Thomas the Apostle school. One of the best athletes in our class, Paul attended all of our class reunions. I'm so glad we had such a wonderful visit just this last fall at our 60th reunion. How fortunate we were that he was part of our class. My condolences to all his family.

Bobby Sanchez

January 28, 2023

Paul was a great mild mannered classmate. I never remember him being angry at anyone. Not tall in stature, towered over us when playing basketball. His daredevil spirit was shown when he would ride skateboard down the road from the Legion of Honor. I feel fortunate that I was able to visit with him at the last reunion.

Monterey Morrissey

January 28, 2023

I will always remember Paul as a great loyal friend and a good, kind, generous, loving person and member of his community. My deepest condolences to his family and friends, he leaves a hole in our hearts and a vaccum in our world. I'm so grateful for knowing him.

Barbara Payne Wood

January 28, 2023

One of the nicest guys in our St. Thomas Class of `62. I am so glad we had the chance to visit at our reunion in 2022. My condolences to the family, whom I also remember fondly.

Dave Aro

January 28, 2023

It is with great sadness I hear of Paul´s passing. Having worked with him for many years I can only say that he was not only a co-worker but a friend. Paul was always there for his working group when we were in a pinch. Paul would always jump in to help at all times of need despite his assigned job duties not requiring he do so. Always there! I admired that.

Paul was an athlete, organizer, sportsman and all around good guy and he will not be forgotten. His friendship and our get togethers will never be the same. RIP friend. I´ll miss you greatly.

Ed Ruppenstein

January 28, 2023

A great man I was lucky enough to spend time with the last few years. Miss ya buddy.

Bob Rowland

January 28, 2023

A fellow classmate and graduate from St. Thomas Apostle class of 1962- Paul was a good athlete- great golfer even way back when- Got to share some time and stories with him at our 50th Class reunion- sorry I missed the 60th which Paul attended. A couple of times he brought his Butterfly collection to our class for display. Gone but not forgotten! RIP Paul!

Joe Mannion

January 28, 2023

When I first joined the Club many years ago and didn´t know anyone I can count on one hand the people who welcomed me with a big smile and bigger heart. Paul was one of them. Once when I mentioned that the water was particularly cold Paul said that he swam out to the first buoy and then realized he couldn´t breathe!

Pete Perez

January 28, 2023

I miss this kind and friendly man who was great company at the Dolphin Club. He was part of the magic that lets us forget the daily grind and just be kids playing and having adventures in the water. I hope you are having new adventures in a brand new body Paul!

Wayne Knack

January 27, 2023

Paul and I worked together for many years. He would organise periodic get togethers with the people he worked with. He was a great guy and I will miss him. Rest In Peace my friend. See you in the after life!

Neal Powers

January 27, 2023

I cherish Paul´s friendship at the Dolphin Club. Soft spoken, witty, and with an open heart greeted members often with a smile and a chuckle.
He is loved and always appreciated.

-Neal and Daragh Powers

Stu Gannes

January 27, 2023

Paul was always happy to see somebody he knew

Suzie D

January 27, 2023

Paul was ALWAYS saying´hello, how are you ` to me, greeting me by name at the Dolphin Club.
As a younger member, back in the day, I was sooo appreciative and impressed by that.
He will be missed.

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