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Roslyn Mary Bullas

1961 - 2020

Roslyn Mary Bullas obituary, 1961-2020, Ruakokoputuna New Zealand, AK

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1961

DIED

2020

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Roslyn Bullas Obituary

Roslyn Mary Bullas
Oct 16, 1961 - July 1, 2020
Roslyn Mary Bullas, age 58, born in Montana and raised in California, attended the University of California, Berkeley (class of '84) where she majored in political science. She and fellow student Michael David McKay met on the roof of their student co-op apartment and became partners in love and life for 40 years. Roslyn's mother Rosemary Grace Bullas (neé Ekdahl) grew up on a sheep farm in the remote Taranaki settlement of Okoki, New Zealand which Roslyn visited throughout her life. Roslyn and Michael resided in Berkeley until 2012 when they fulfilled a dream by moving to New Zealand where they built a house on a large plot of native forest in the secluded Ruakokoputuna Valley in rural Wairarapa. With interests in gardening and cooking, she and Michael grew much of their own food on the land, brewed up spectacular kombucha, and made jams and preserves. Roslyn's great-grandfather, George Graham, was a member of the first-ever team to climb Mt. Cook, the tallest mountain in New Zealand in 1894. Roslyn continued his climbing tradition with many backpacking trips and climbs in the mountains of California, New Zealand, and around the world. Her passion for the great outdoors–hiking, scuba diving, and river rafting–was matched by her appreciation for theatre, literature, fine cuisine, and live music. Although Roslyn loved high thread-count bed sheets, she measured her wealth in the number of nights spent in a tent and performances attended. She and Michael were some of the longest serving volunteer ushers at the Berkeley Repertory Theater and were members of the Hillside Club in Berkeley. Soon after moving to New Zealand, Roslyn and Michael joined Tuesday Night Mike, a Wellington based social club. Her career was as an editor and associate publisher, working for book publishers including Wilderness Press, Peach Pit Press, Lonely Planet, and North Atlantic Books. She mentored junior editors, coached authors, and coaxed new writers in finishing their first published books with good humor, a keen eye, and a collaborative and creative spirit. Roslyn was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1998. After initial treatment, she quietly and steadfastly defied cancer by living actively and fully, not letting it define her or prevent her from pursuing her passions. Her love of being active was so great that in spite of the recurrence of the illness in 2014, she continued rigorous hikes and long swims up until the final months of her life. Roslyn died on July 1 at her Ruakokoputuna home surrounded by the beauty of the native New Zealand bush and in the loving care of Michael McKay. She is survived by her brother Graham and his partner, Richard Clegg of London, and her father, Leonard Bullas of Loma Linda. A private memorial will take place in New Zealand on 2 August and US-based memorials are being planned. Donations welcomed in her name to Bay Area Cancer Connections. https://www.bayareacancer.org/give.html.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jul. 18 to Jul. 19, 2020.

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Kathy Morey

April 26, 2022

Dear Mike:
I found out about Roslyn's passing only recently. I am so sorry and so shocked. She was far too young and too good to go so soon. Please accept my condolences!
Kathy Morey
(a former Wilderness Press author and, once upon a time, a house guest of you two in Berkeley)

Miki ILAW

July 23, 2020

Michael: I was your next door neighbor on La Loma Av. in Berkeley. I was deeply saddened by Roslyn’s passing-I just found out yesterday. She was a beautiful soul inside out. She and you are two of the nicest people I have ever met. I also admired your wonderful compatibility-you were perfect with each other-you were like one. Please let me know if you’re ever in SF. I love you guys. Roslyn, you and family are in my thoughts and prayers-Miki ILAW (Previously Mettinger)[email protected]

The monks of Incarnation Monastery, Arthur, Andrew, Ivan, and Bede

July 23, 2020

We are a community of Christian monks that lived in a monastery across the street from Michael and Roslyn during their Berkeley years. They were such great neighbors and often hosted gatherings in their beautiful home that brought people in the neighborhood together. They always did amazing, creative things with food. We were always impressed by Roslyn’s kindness, her warm humanity, and deep spirituality that was so connected to the earth and creation.
We pray in gratitude for the gift of her vibrant life and for the gentle ways that she touched our lives. Our prayers also embrace Michael and all her family in this time of loss.

Peter Stekel

July 20, 2020

Roslyn gave me my first big chance as a book author when she published by book, Final Flight, at Wilderness Press. She was such a pleasure and a joy to work with. This will be a much poorer world without her.

Sharon Solkowitz

July 13, 2020

My beautiful friend for more than 20 years, it was a privilege to be a part of her life, watching her professional achievements, and everything she and Michael did together in their lives. Her friendship is priceless, and always will be. I love you, darling Roslyn.

Sunny and Ian Vince

July 7, 2020

Our much loved niece, Roslyn: a lover of adventure, appreciator of fine wines,my mentor for jam making and baking bread, faithful writer of my blog,patient editor of my book, a voracious reader, a people watcher, enjoying the quirkiness of humankind and a generous hostess. We will miss her so very much.

Arthur Hudson

July 7, 2020

Although a cousin and therefore having some expectation of hospitality (although being related brings no guarantee of pleasure), I was always welcomed very graciously on my erratic visits over the years by Roslyn and of course, you, Michael. I never felt I ever repaid her for this one-sided relationship. Thank you for the memories and for being there. Gone too soon.

Ros and Michael, October 2016

Eva Dienel

July 7, 2020

I was lucky to call Ros a boss, mentor, and friend. She was a lover of great outdoor books and the great outdoors, and shepherded books that invited readers to feel her passion for the wilderness. If you've ever hiked in the Western U.S., chances are you used a book or map that Ros had a hand in creating. In that way, she touched many lives. Sending love to Michael and taking a hike today in her honor.

Trish Wagner

July 6, 2020

It was lovely to talk with Ros one last time during our Sweet Louise zoom meeting just a few weeks ago. I could see how much she was struggling but there was an air of acceptance of her situation. She spoke of you often Michael and appreciated your love and support. We will miss her greatly - Kia Kaha xx

Bret Andrews

July 6, 2020

So sad to hear this news. We send our sincerest condolences to you, Micheal. May Roslyn's spirit soar free and dive deep into a resting peace. Our love to you, Bret and Nancy

Roslyn and Michael with Bret

Bret Andrews

July 6, 2020

Helen Hillman

July 5, 2020

I was so sad to learn from my son Peter Hillman of Rosln's premature death. I met her only once when we went to Zealandia with her and Michael. I was struck by the friendlinessb and kindness of both her and Michael, and the considerate way they included me in the little party. their enthusiasm for nature and wildlife was infectious. Condolences to Michael and the family.

Colleen Sherard

July 4, 2020

We were fortunate to have met Roslyn when we arrived in NZ last year.She welcolmed us into her home with Michael as if we were old friends. She was very sweet and modest and great company. We will remember her smile.Our heartfelt sympathies to Michael and her brother Graham from Colleen and Edgar Sherard.

Ryan Ver Berkmoes

July 4, 2020

My deepest condolences at the loss of Roslyn. I worked with her at Lonely Planet and later at Wilderness Press in the Bay Area in California. She was an amazing colleague and friend.

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