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for Ruth Bustos
Antonio
March 9, 2008
Hello Mama Cucu,
I have been asked to write a little something about you, but I haven't been able to find just the right words. Well, today I am home alone and started to think about you. Yes, I do get sad but I know I have to keep going for my family especially my children. I do remember the day you left us. It was the hardest and saddest day of my life. However, I have to admit at times my life is so busy I forget that you are gone. When, I go home though and I pass the cemetery I REMEMBER and its hard, but I know that you are ok. I am grateful that you are watching my family and I from heavan, because at times even at 34 years old, I am still faced with difficult choices in life and I always think my Mama Cuca is watching me so I better be good.
I do want you to know that I do remember a great deal of good times with you, especially the trips to Disneyland and the sleep overs to hang out with my tia. As I got older, I saw what a strong women you were and I am glad you instilled the same values to my mother. Without the both of you and my dad. I could never be where I am today. Well, looking up at you I love you and miss you. Say hello to my Tio.
Antonio C. Navarro
March 5, 2008
Mama Cuca you are always in my prayers and I pray for you every day. Thank you for being the nicest great grandmother. Love A. Cristian Navarro ( Great Grandson )
Marisa Navarro
March 5, 2008
Dear Mama Cuca,
I love you so much and miss you. I remember your kindness. You are always in my heart. You never go out of my memories. I pray for you every day and hope you help me to make good choices.
Love your great granddaughter Marisa Navarro
Jorge Bustos
March 4, 2008
My dear mom, you have always been and will continue to be my angel from heaven. I Love you, I thank you. I miss you. You are always with me. Love your son Jorge. Hugs and kisses.
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nora bustos
March 4, 2008
I miss you - I love you - Thank you for my handsome husband. Thank you for all the wonderful times, your kindness and love. I will remember you forever. With love your daughter in-law NORA.
Shane Alborz
February 29, 2008
Mama Cuca,
I love you and I miss you.
Love, Shane
Sean Alborz
February 29, 2008
There isn't a day that has goes by where i don't think about my Mama Cuca. i love her and miss her, but i know she is always with me.
Ashley Bustos
February 28, 2008
DEAR MAMA CUCA,
I WANTED TO SAY THANK YOU. YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE FOR ME. WHEN I DIDNT WANT TO BE HOME YOU ALWAYS LET ME SLEEP OVER YOUR HOUSE AND I REMEMBER OUR TALKS WE USED TO HAVE..
WOW.! WE USED TO TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING. TO ME MAMA CUCA YOU WEREN'T JUST MY GRANDMOTHER YOU WERE MY BESTFRIENDS. WHEN I WAS SAD AND DOWN YOU WERE ALWAYS THE ONE TO LIFT ME UP.
I REMEMBER WHEN YOU USED TO TAKE CARE OF ME WHEN I WAS LITTLE AND YOU ALWAYS TOOK ME TO THE ZOO TO GO SEE THE ANIMALS.
I COULD NEVER FORGET WHEN YOU USED TO TELL ME THAT WHEN I WAS LITTLE AND YOU USED TO TAKE OUT YOUR TEETH. I USED TO SAY MAMA CUCA YOUR SCARYING ME.!
THANK YOU FOR TAKING ME TO MEXICO WITH YOU THAT ONE YEAR. I HAD SO MUCH FUN.!
EVERYTIME IM ON THE 14 OR THE 49 BUS AND ITS PASSING BY RICHLAND AND MISSION YOU ALWAYS CROSS MY MIND WHEATHER ITS DAY OR NIGHT. SOMETIMES MY EYE START TO GET WATERY BUT I HOLD IT IN.
I WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT IM DOING GOOD. IM GOING TO SKOOL EVERYDAY, MY GRADES ARE NO LOWER THAN A C, AND IM WORKING TO.
I'M ALWAYS GONNA CHERISH OUR MEMORIES TOGETHER. I KNOW THAT YOUR WATCHING OVER ME AND YOUR GUIDEING ME TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE.
I LOVE YOU MAMA CUCA AND I MISS YOU SO MUCH.!
LOVE YOUR GRANDDAUGHTER,
ASHLEY BUSTOS
Pia Navarro
February 27, 2008
Dear Mommy,
It's been a year, yet the pain, the sadness and emptiness in my heart is so present and clear. I think of you everyday and I miss you everyday.
Love your oldest child,
Pia Bustos Navarro (your muneca)
Antonio Navarro
February 27, 2008
Querida Suegra,
Te extranamos mucho. Siempre pensamos en usted. Siempre estas in nuestro corazon.
Su Yerno,
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Ramon Bustos
February 27, 2008
Vieja,
Te extranamos mucho. Todos siempre nos acordamos de ti por tus tamalitos tan sabrosos que hacias y tan buena concinera, buena esposa, buena mama, buena abuelita y bisabuela. Todo la gente te sigue extranando mucho. Sus amigas te extranan mucho tambien. Por alla nos vamos a ver pa juntar nos todos. Que Dios te cuide y te sigue bendiciendo, para que de alla, nos cuides a nosotros. Te extranamos mucho todos nosotros aqui.
Te quiero mucho.
Tu Viejo que te quiso y te quere mucho todavia
Ramon Bustos
JORGE BUSTOS
February 27, 2008
I LOVE YOU MAMA CUCA.I LOVED ALL THE THINGS YOU DID FOR ME.ILL NEVER FORGET YOU I HOPE YOU REST IN PEACE.MAY GOD MAKE SURE YOUR TIME IN HEAVEN IS THE GREATEST TIME YOU'LL EVER HAVE.BEST WISHES FROM YOUR GRANDSON JORGE BUSTOS II.
Veronica Bustos
February 27, 2008
Dear Mommy,
Not a day has passed without thoughts of you. The truth is that there will always be a longing for you no matter how much time passes. There will always be the part of my heart that will feel empty because your not here, but my mind will always be full. It will be full of memories, your smile, your laughter, your comments, your advice, your opinion, your guidance, and your love.
I will take everything you taught me and apply it to my life. I will remember how you lost so much in your life but still managed to find your way to back to joy and happiness. You looked at everything that was in front of you and never took it for granted. You kept going, smiling, laughing, loving and living. I will follow your example. Not one day will be wasted, and I too, will start to find my way back to joy and happiness once again.
The best thing that ever happened to me was having you as my mother. It was as if God was holding a Lottery…you were the grand prize in life..and Everyone who knew you was a grand prize winner! God blessed me with you and I am proud to belong to you.
Mommy, you promised me that you would always be with me and that you would come to me in my dreams. Every night, when I lay my head down, the only thoughts that go through my mind are of you. I look forward to going to sleep each night because it just might be a night when you might decide to pay me a visit. Those are the nights that I sleep the best. My heart, body and mind are rested. Those are the nights that lead to mornings that allow me to begin the day with a full heart, a smile, happiness and hope.
Goodnight Mommy. I love you and I’ll see you in my dreams.
Wait for me among all the flowers.
Your daughter,
Veronica Bustos
Erica Navarro
December 27, 2007
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Mama Cuca,
We all love you and miss you dearly.
Kenneth Arguello
November 19, 2007
Veronica, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow.
chela morales
June 4, 2007
Yes, Alicia, I hear you........we missed tia too. Tia, I missed you Saturday at Sean's graduation. We thought about how much you would have enjoyed it. Happy Birhtday to you tia.
Love, Chela
Alicia Sandoval
June 1, 2007
Today, June 1st, 2007, we remember mi tia Cuca on her Birthday. Our thoughts are with mi tia's family and friends.
Tia Cuca,
On your birthday, I think of you, the way you were, always very caring, thoughtful and thinking de los demas. When I would visit you-- you would always welcome me to your home. Today I went by the house like I usually do once a month. And I felt the brisk of the air calmed me as I visualize your face and all the memories of you-- I thought of you as I walked the bridge to Arlington Street. Your spirit lives on. I still think of you each day and it still seems like a dream. A dream that I cannot wake up from.
Tia Cuca, Happy Birthday!
We love you and miss you so much!..
tu sobrina, Alicia Bustos Sandoval
Nicholas Bustos
April 23, 2007
To My Family,
I dont really know what to say. I love you and i know we all share alot of great memories of or beloved grandmother, great grandmother, aunt, mother, and wife. And the only thing that i can really say is that she is at peace, and i know she is watching over us so lets make her proud. I LOVE YOU ALL & SHE WILL BE MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN
Ada Ortega & Family
March 11, 2007
To my Tio Ramon and my cousins Pia, Mon, George, Liz, & Veronica,
Please know that our prayers are with all of you. You did my Tia Cuca proud with the celebration of her life.
My Tia Cuca was a wonderful person who put her family before everything else. I really believe she wanted the best for everyone.
Tio Ramon, lo acompañamos en su dolor. Mi Tia fue una gran mujer y un ejemplo de madre y mujer para todo nosotros.
To my cousins, I know that it is very hard to lose a parent. I admire the fact that you all pulled together during this extremely hard time. Continue to love each other and when you feel like your struggling hold each other closer. Family is everything and it's what gets us through the rough times.
Elizabeth Bustos Alborz
March 4, 2007
My mother was a very compassionate and loving person. She was very devoted to our father and to our family. Everything she did was always to take care of us and make sure we were happy.
About 4 years ago I took my sons to Hawaii on vacation. As I was sitting on the beach instead of sending her a post card I wrote her a letter.
She held that letter very dear and said that the day she passed she wanted it read at her services.
She would be so proud because this is probably one of the few times I actually did what I was told…..and those you who know me would probably agree….
This letter was written on June 28, 2003 in Honolulu, Hawaii
Dear Mom,
I’m writing this letter to you as the boys are playing in the water. They are having a great time. Good memories are what I want to make for them because I have a lot of good memories you made for me. As kids, they just live for the moment but I know they will have many times to remember. I’m trying to do a good job being a mom because I learned from the best. Thank you mom for all the good memories I have. Mexico trips, Disneyland, Lake Thomas Scout, Flood Park and even to Aquatic Park on the bus. I don’t believe I ever thanked you or told you how much I appreciated what you did for us. We never really did without. I learned a lot from you mom. Good from bad, right from wrong. If I ever chose the wrong or bad one, it was on my own doing – just stubborn I guess. I had to learn for myself the hard way, but not because you didn’t teach me. It was just me experiencing life’s hard knocks. Anyway, I know my boys are happy and that’s what matters to me. I just wanted to tell you that if I’m doing things rights it’s because of you and if I do them wrong it’s because of me. But either way it’s ok because as I see it, life if good no matter what. Wish you were here to enjoy it too. We’re having a great time. Have fun on your trip with your sisters too mom. Family is most important.
Love always, your middle daughter, the black sheep,
Elizabeth
Alfredo Camacho
February 28, 2007
To my Tio Mon and my cousins Pia, Mon, Elizabeth, George and Veronica. I'm deeply saddened by the loss of my Tia cuca. I will miss her dearly! I had such wonderful memories of her when I was young and used to visit the house, she used to feed me and veronica salami sandwiches and hawaiian punch! Yummy! till this day I still eat salami, she introduced me to it. So many happy memories visiting over and playing with veronica as kids. we used to get in trouble sometimes and my Tia would catch us but always let us continue playing! God bless you Tia you will always be remembered!
Alfredo Jr
(Alfredito as she called me)
Ramon J. Bustos
February 26, 2007
On behalf of my family, I’d like to thank all of you for coming to celebrate the life of my Mommy, Ruth “Cuca” Bustos. I know that she is looking in on us and is very happy to see you all. Thank you for taking the time out of your schedules, and for many of you, we appreciate you traveling very long distances to be here.
When I was thinking of what I wanted to say here today, I knew that I didn’t want to say anything sad, because that wasn’t my Mom……. and I probably wouldn’t be able to get through it.
Also, I didn’t think it was necessary to tell you how she loved everyone, her family and how proud she was of us. I think everyone knows that – it’s a given.
So what I decided instead, was to tell a few short stories that would provide a glimpse into who my mother was, the little things she did that made her special to us - made her Ruth, made her Cuca, made her Mommy.
So bear with me. I may jump around a little bit, but I promise I will try to stay on track.
You Better Study
I found my mother to be very wise. I remember that my father was always trying to show me how to fix things, but I wasn’t having it. I would be there with a ball under my arm - uh huh, yeah, can I go now?
Finally, one day my mother said to me, “You better study hard, because you’re going to have to pay people to do things for you.”
Who knew she could also tell the future.
Tono Aguilar
For many years, my parents would take us to Antonio Aguilar’s rodeo at the Cow Palace. Afterwards, my dad would go to the back and talk to the charros, the cowboys.
Well, one year, somehow, my mom made her way into Antonio Aguilar’s trailer. She struck up a conversation with the baby sitter of Antonio Aguilar’s children. They exchanged addresses and she told my Mom, if you are ever in Zacatecas come on by.
Well, of course my Mom thought she really meant it. So one summer, on our memorable 8 day scenic drive to San Nicolas -- yes, it took us 8 days to get to San Nicolas -- we stopped by the woman’s home in Zacatecas – surprise!
Hey, but you know what? It got us a personalized tour of Antonio Aguilar’s home. My mom was good.
TV Sleep
I remember as kids we used to laugh at how my mom would sit down to watch TV and within 5 minutes she would be asleep, sometimes making the funny little noises some people call snoring.
This was just one of the many little traits inherited by at least one of her children.
Love To Talk – Too Much Information
My Mom used to strike up conversations with anybody who would listen. We would be in line at Safeway or some store and before we were out of the store, our business was known to all.
My mom loved to talk and tell stories. In later years when she would start to tell our life story to strangers, we would simply tell her, Mom too much information.
If you ask my wife, this is also hereditary - she will tell you that this is a trait that was also DEFINITELY passed along to her children. So Yasuko, what are you trying to say?
Hot Dog Day
When my Mom was the president of the St Peter’s Women’s Club, she introduced to St Peters, Hot Dog Day. Once a week you could order a Hot Dog lunch - a hot dog, Sun Valley Drink, and Cup Cake or chips.
Believe it or not, this was actually pretty innovative back then
So all of you from the old St Peter’s days who chowed down on Hot Dog Day, you can thank my Mom.
Musicals and Movies with Religious Overtones
The types of movies my mother took us to see were movies like Dr Doolittle, Thoroughly Modern Millie, The Sound of Music, The Bible, and The Greatest Story Ever Told.
I remember once when I was 12 yrs old, I was sitting on the sofa with her one night watching the King and I. She was pregnant at the time with my sister Veronica. Anyway, I was sitting there and she picks up the phone and calls some one. All I heard of the conversation was -- uh huh, pretty close, ok, soon, I’m going to finish watching the King and I.
Well, what had happened was that she had gone into labor and was talking to the doctor……..but there was no way she was going to the hospital until Yul Brynner, the King of Siam, danced, sang, and uttered those magical words -- etc etc
Sports Fan
My Mom was a major sports fan – she love to watch football and baseball on TV. Since she couldn’t eat junk food, she set up her TV tray with a vegetable platter and some dip and sit there and watch the games. Word went out – don’t you dare call her or visit her while she was watching her games -- because she wasn’t letting us in nor was she taking our calls.
If there were two games on simultaneously, she employed the great innovation that is the remote control. She would sit there and flip back and forth between games.
But she had her priorities. She went to Mass every weekend. So if there was a game on Sunday that was scheduled at the same time she normally went to mass …. Well……She would go to mass on SATURDAY. Mom, go niners.
Domingo
My Mom and Dad also introduced their grandkids to a favorite Mexican tradition – my kids may not be able to speak Spanish, but they knew what getting their “Domingo” meant.
GodMother
There was one thing my mother took very seriously – that was being a godmother. She loved all her god children – and there were many – probably more than 20 or so. I remember as kids, around Christmas we would spend an entire day driving around delivering Christmas presents to the god children.
One day I asked her – mom, what’s a godmother? What do God parents do?
She told me that if a god child lost their parents that it was up to the god parents to help raise the child. She really took this responsibility seriously. This actually was scary to me, because my interpretation of that was -- awe, you mean all these kids are going to come live with us?
Hearing Aid
Before my mom got her hearing aid I always felt bad when I spoke to her because we had to speak loudly and I felt always felt like I was yelling at her.
She finally got her hearing aid and said that things were so loud and clear now, but that at least now she could control the volume. Somehow, hmm, we got on the subject of how “strong” Elizabeth’s voice was. I asked my mom if Elizabeth was too loud when she spoke. She said, oh no. When she starts talking I just turn the hearing aid off.
Bus Flipped Over
One year we were driving to Mexico and it was very early in the Morning, still dark There was an accident where a passenger bus, greyhound type bus, had flipped over,
We came up upon the accident, but rather than rubberneck and drive away, my parents pulled over to help. There were many injuries. My mom and dad told us to stay in the car as they went to help the injured.
My mom grabbed the small first add kit she had and went to help. I’m sure some of the injured appreciated it later, but at the time, I’m sure some of them wished that my mom didn’t have a full bottle of Bactine.
All of us remember Bactine – if its got that sting, you know its Bactine. We ended up going out of our way to drive a young mother and her baby home.
55 and Still In Love
My mother loved to be serenaded by my dad. If there were mariachis around, my dad was singing, and if my mom was there he was singing to her. After 55 years not only did my parents still love each other……they were still IN love with each other.
Another lesson to be learned.
Cob Webs and Memories
My mother was a very happy and up beat person. There was nothing down about her. She made everyone around her better.
Over the last days, I have been knocking down the cobwebs of my memory, trying to remember everything I can about my mom -- things that I had forgotten or taken for granted. Some memories, I decided, are just for me, but I did want to share some funny, sweet, glimpses of her personality with you.
I hope you enjoyed them.
When I saw all the people last night I thought of a popular saying that when used, generally has a negative connotation attached. However, if you think about it, it can also be used to refer to something positive as well.
The saying --- What Goes Around, Comes Around.
I saw on the faces of those last night what I see on the faces today….. the joy, friendship, happiness and love my mother spread.
Thank you all for bringing it back around.
I hope that you will take time to think about my Mommy often, keep her in your thoughts, prayers, and heart.
On behalf of my family, thank you all for coming to celebrate and honor:
. Ramon’s beloved Vieja
. Our Mommy
. Mama Cuca
. Yasuko and Kyle’s mother-in-law, Tono and Nora’s suegra,
. Your sister and sister-in-law
. Your cousin, Tu Prima,
. Your aunt, Tu Tia,
. Tu comadre, your god mother,
. And…. your Friend, y Tu Amiga.
Mommy, look – for you. Thank you.
Fernando Ruelas
February 10, 2007
To my Tio Mon and my cousins Pia, Mon, Elizabeth, George and Veronica. I'm deeply saddened by the loss of my Tia and Godmother Cuca. I'll always have fond memories of her as she was always a happy soul. I rememebr we always ate good when we were visiting. She will certainly be missed.
Alicia B. Sandoval
February 5, 2007
Tio Mon, Veronica, George, Elizabeth, Pia and Ramon
There are no words to describe on how I feel... hearing that mi Tia Cuca has passed. I am so saddened to hear.. it's very unbelievable.. it feels like a dream, a dream we will wake up soon. It hurts knowing she won't be there... She was always there, someone to talk to.
Growing up I remember all the good times, the get togethers with Mama Juanita and the family, my high school graduation, seeing her at the UFW festivals, and others. And recently coming over to visit her, she would ask me if I wanted to stay for dinner and we would talk about anything. She cared so much for her family. She would "ask me how I was, and tell me be careful in crossing the street". So many memories..
Tia Cuca, I will miss you dearly.
Your spirit lives on in each one of us.
Tu sobrina, Con amor siempre
Alicia Bustos Sandoval
david uribe jr
February 5, 2007
Tia cuca was always my favorite out of my grandma mamapinas sisters and i know that they are happier now..im sorry i couldnt make it please forgive me..i miss them dearly and miss all of my family that i havent seen in years..im lost without you all i remember the child hood times at tio mons
DANIEL CAMACHO
February 4, 2007
HELLO TO THE FAMILIA BUSTOS, I WAS SADDENED BY THE DEMISE OF MY TIA CUCA AND WISH TO SEND MY CONDOLENCES TO ALL. I LOVED MY TIA AND SHE WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME AT THE BANK AND MADE MY LIFE EASIER WHEN IT CAME TO GIVING ME ADVICE. SHE DID CARE FOR ALL OF US AND I ALWAYS RESPECTED HER. SHE WILL BE MISSED. LOVE ALWAYS DANIEL CAMACHO & MERCEDES MONTECINOS
saraceli uribe
February 4, 2007
hi liz i am sorry that my tia died but now she is in a better place with my grandma mama pina
love
saraceli uribe
Rhana Freyman
February 4, 2007
Proverbs 31:10-31 The Wife of Noble Character Who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her sevant girls She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable and her lamp does not go out at night. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet...She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instructionin is on her tonue. She watched over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also... MANY WOMEN DO NOBLE THINGS BUT YOU SURPASS THEM ALL. Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her the reward she has earned and let her works bring her praise a the CITY GATE.
Ruth was a living example of this Proverb. She was Truly a Woman of Noble Character. We love you Auntie Ruthie
DANIEL CAMACHO
February 4, 2007
DANIEL CAMACHO & MERCEDES MONTECINOS
Emma Alicia Bustos
February 3, 2007
Hugs and Kisses and my sincere condolences to my cousins in this time of grief and sadness. I will miss my tia Cuca very much. Please take care and God Bless you all! Love, Goweena Bustos
Chela Morales
February 3, 2007
Dear Tio Mon, Pia, Mon, Jorge, Liz and Veronica:
I can't even begin to tell you guys how special your mom was to me, and my sister Lily, growing up. We often talk about all the memories we have of our childhood and your mom is in most of them because she was so kind, generous and caring to us. Always inviting our family over. She was also very special to my mom and dad. They always loved going over to your house to visit the "compa Mon and comadre Cuca" and so did we. Now as adults, I know that her influences have made me a better mom to my kids. The memories of traditional "American" holidays would not have been there if it were not for my tia. Since my mom was not raised in the US we would not have had the "easter" and "thanksgiving" feasts that we had at your house. God Bless my tia. I am sure she has reunited with my mom and our other tias, tios and grandparents. They will always watch over us.
God Bless your family, thank you for being such wonderful cousins and tio.
Tio, esta en el cielo su "vieja" con mi mami y nos estan cuidando. Cuidese usted tambien.
Lo quiero mucho,
Chela y John (the "white mexican", my tia Cuca knows who this is)
Valerie Ibarra
February 2, 2007
I only have fond memories of my Auntie Cuca ~ always kind, funny, and insightful. I know her presence will continue to show to those who were so close to her. I hope that she is enjoying her rewarding reunions up above, or wherever it may be.
All of the services felt so good because of all the love in the room(s). She would have loved it... Much peace to you all.
JoAnne Hughes
February 1, 2007
Dear Ramon and Family,
My deepest sympathy for the loss of your precious mother.
May your memories of her always put a smile on your face and warmth in you're hearts.
What a beautiful tribute to your mother. It is a reflection of the loving impact she had on you're lives and everyone she touched.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Richard Bravo
February 1, 2007
Dear Ruth, we may be gone, but never forgotten.Whether they be family or friends. With fondest memories of your mom,please accept my sincerest sympathies to you and your family.
Your friend always,
Richard Bravo & Family
Gary & Rafie Hughes
January 31, 2007
Dear Bustos Family,
We had the pleasure of knowing Ruthie, when we met at St.Peter's school, what we had in common we had our children attending school as well and all the work we did for the Mothers club, and many other activities, for the school, she was always smiling and finding the good in people. We the Hughes Family pray for her may the perpetual light shine upon her. And hope that all of you know that she will always be in your hearts,We will keep you too in our prayers as well.
Gary & Rafie
Joanne, Jerry, Al,Rich Hughes
Carolyn Garrick
January 31, 2007
Ruth, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Liza Aguilar-Artola
January 31, 2007
Veronica,
My dearest sympathy for the lost of your mother. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless
Zoe Hearns
January 31, 2007
Dear Ruth:
I am so sorry to hear about your mom's passing and my sincere condolences to you and your entire family.
Even though I never had the pleasure of meeting her, it seems like I have always known her. We always use to talk about our moms because they were so much alike and even share the same birth month. Remember, mines is June 7. After reading the beautiful tribute to her done by the family I understand why. She was a beautiful person and I know she will be missed.
I know there is not much I can say today to make things better but put your faith in God and he will see you through these difficult times.
Ruth, I am here if you need me and I will be in contact soon.
Roberto Santana Jr.
January 31, 2007
Ruth "Cuca" Bustos was una "santa" ; which mean a "saint." I had respect for her as a mother figure & a best friend. The Santana family & Bustos ever since I was born 41 years ago. My heart is sad to her passing. With heavy heart paid my respect to the family Bustos
Margie Ryan Baldwin
January 31, 2007
Dear Ruth,
I am so sorry to hear about the death of your mom. The obitiary is a wonderful tribute to her life and your family. I will always remember her and how she would help us with our savings books when we started them at St. Peters. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the memories help you through the difficult times.
Jodi DeFonzo
January 31, 2007
Very beautiful write up Ramon. She sounds like a special lady. You and your family should be proud to have had her in your life and now in your memories.
Kara Phillips
January 31, 2007
To My Uncle and Sweet Cousins,
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could be there with you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so lucky to have had such a wonderful aunt whom I never heard say a harsh word. I know she loved you all very much. I love you.
Sonia Downing Silva
January 31, 2007
Dear Ruth:
To those of us who attended St. Peter's and whose families did business at Bank of America in the old neighborhood, your mom's warm and pleasant smile will always remain a part of the memories of those days. My deepest sympathies to you and your entire family during this very difficult time.
lily montes
January 30, 2007
QUERIDO TIO MON Y PRIMOS PIA, RAMON, LIZ, GEORGE Y VERONICA,
A EDDIE Y A MI NOS HA DADO MUCHA TRISTEZA SABER QUE MI TIA CUCA YA FALLECIO.
TIA CUCA O SEA MI MADRINA CUCA, SIEMPRE SERA RECORDADA POR SER TAN BUENA PERSONA, SIEMPRE CONTENTA Y TAN LLENA DE ENERGIA. TIA CUCA SIEMPRE SUPO DAR DE SI MISMA..AYUDANDO A CUANTA PERSONA PUDIERA, AMISTADES O FAMILIA. Y LO CURIOSO ES QUE MI TIA NUNCA ESPERABA NADA A CAMBIO.
TENGO MUCHOS RECUERDOS BONITOS DE MI NINEZ Y LA MAYORIA ESTAN RELACIONADOS CON MI TIA CUCA, LOS FRECUENTES FESTEJOS Y VISITAS A SU CASA EN DONDE LA MAYORIA DE NUESTRAS REUNIONES FAMILIARES SE HACIAN. SU CASA SIEMPRE LLENA DE CALOR DE HOGAR Y CLARO MUCHISIMA COMIDA, PUES SIEMPRE LA RECORDARE COMO UNA EXCELLENTE COCINERA. ESTOS RECUERDOS QUE SOLO EN MI MENTE Y CORAZON ESTARAN...HASTA QUE NOS TOQUE REUNIRNOS DE NUEVO.
ME DUELE MUCHO NO PODER ESTAR AQUI CON USTEDES EN ESTA ULTIMA DESPEDIDA DE MI TIA.
TIO MON, LE MANDAMOS UN FUERTE ABRAZO Y LE PEDIMOS A DIOS QUE LE DE MUCHAS FUERZAS PARA SOBRELLEVAR ESOS MOMENTOS TAN DIFICILES.
FOR MY COUSINS PIA, RAMON, LIZ, GEORGE, AND VERONICA
I FEEL YOUR PAIN. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND GIVE EACH ONE OF YOU COMFORT EACH DAY THAT PASSES. WE SOON REALIZE THAT DEATH IS PART OF LIFE AND OUR PAIN SLOWLY TURNS INTO THAT HOPE OF SOMEDAY MEETING UP WITH OUR LOVED ONES.
WE ARE VERY SORRY WE COULD NOT BE HERE WITH YOU PERSONALLY, BUT YOU ALL KNOW OUR HEARTS, HUGS, AND TEARS ARE WITH YOU AND WITH ALL OF THE FAMILIA.
WE LOVE YOU ALL.....LILY, EDDIE, AND CORINNE
Robert Moser
January 30, 2007
To my second family!
Your mother was the best Aunt/God Mother a guy could ever have. She took care of me, she feed me, provided first aid all the time in my youth and she took me in it seemed like every summer. She even attempted to provide direction! She tolerated my salty language as a Sailor and body art which I knew bugged her.
My thoughts go out to the family, wish I could be with you.
Robert (aka: Bobby, aka: Pretty Boy) Moser.
Cheryl Brennan
January 30, 2007
Dear Ruth and family,
I understand what it means to lose a mother. I lost mine at a very young age but I am told that it doesn't matter what your age, losing a mother is always difficult for a daughter. By the sound of this obituary, she was special. You are all in my prayers.
Your old friend from St. Peter's,
Cheryl Cordova-Brennan
Richard Terragno
January 30, 2007
Dear Bustos Family:
I would like to offer my deepest sympathy in the loss of your Mom. I remember her fondly while growing up in the neighborhood. I also remember seeing her at the Bank of America since she and my mom worked there together. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Christina Downard
January 30, 2007
My dearest childhood friend, Pia-I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. She is a big part of my childhood memories growing up on Florida Street. I can still see her smiling at me and including me as well as my sister and brothers as part of her own family. I also remember her always buying my mom a cream puff on her birthday. May she rest in peace.
Love,
Christina Alvardo-Downard and family
Claudia Bodmer
January 30, 2007
Ruth, when I read the beautifully written announcement in the paper today, I wondered whether this Ruth were your mother. I lost my mom almost a year ago but, I confess, I still hear her talking to me. You may have the same experience. You and your family are in my prayers. Claudia (your 8th grade teacher)
Your Family in WA
January 30, 2007
The Bustos Family and our beloved extended family, we are truly sad to loose someone so special. She was Auntie Cuca, Sister, and God Mother to us. We will miss her calls and visits to Washington State. We love you so very much.
Christine Tolentino
January 30, 2007
Dear Bustos Family:
I went to school with her daughter, Ruth, at St. Peter's. Many condolences to the entire family for the loss of a wonderful woman. I did not know her, but after reading her obituary, I can see why she will be missed. From what I read I wouldn't be surprised if she'll be watching over all of her family and friends.
Ted Zuend
January 30, 2007
I've had the pleasure of knowing Auntie Cuca for the past fifteen years as her niece Luci's boyfriend and husband. Although my visits to San Francisco were not frequent, she was always friendly and welcoming to me. She will be missed by everyone whose lives she touched.
Lukas Becker
January 30, 2007
In the past year and a half, I have grown to love Lisa Navarro very much. I've dreamed about meeting her family, and getting to know them. I'm sorry that I have, missed the chance to meet her grandmother. I would have loved to know her, and see how she effect Lisa's life. I give my deepest sympathy to the family, and I hope I will not again miss the chance to meet all of you.
Andi Ibarra
January 30, 2007
My dear sister-in-law, As you are reunited with your mother, brothers and sister, know that you have left an indelible memory on those left behind. I will miss your bright smile, wonderful stories and of course, delicious tamales! God bless you! Love, Andi
Olivia Lopez
January 30, 2007
Bustos Family,
I am sorry for the loss of your mother. I worked with Veronica and I know the love and respectd she has for her mother.
Karen Smith- Malliaras
January 30, 2007
Dear Bustos Family,
I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. She was a wonderful person.
May God Bless your family,
Kim Murcia
January 30, 2007
Dear Bustos Family,
What a beautifully written obituary for Mama Cuca. She was a very special lady and the best tamale maker in the world. My love and prayers are with your whole family. During this sad time lets remember her smile and the love she had for her family and friends. God Bless Mama Cuca.
Sharon Church
January 30, 2007
Liz, your mother was obviously a wonderful woman who created a wonderful daughter. I know you will enjoy many fine memories which will help dull the pain of her loss.
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