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Samuel Oliner

1930 - 2021

Samuel Oliner obituary, 1930-2021, Walnut Creek, CA

Samuel Oliner Obituary

Samuel P. Oliner
March 10, 1930 - November 17, 2021
Samuel P. Oliner passed away on November 17th, 2021. He was born in Zyndranowa, Poland, in 1930. Zyndranowa was a farming village in southern Poland near the Czech border in the Carpathian Mountains. He lived on the small farm belonging to his grandparents Isak and Reisel Polster, together with his parents and siblings. Sam was left orphaned by the barbarity of Nazi-occupation during World War II, aided in his survival by a Polish family who risked their lives to rescue him.

After the war, Sam immigrated to England where he began his formal education at Bunce Court School in Kent in 1946. In 1950, he made his way to New York City with the help of relatives. Shortly after his arrival in America, Sam was drafted into the U.S. Army and served in the Korean War (Bronze Service Star, National Defense Medal, Presidential Unit Citation). While attending Brooklyn College on the G.I. Bill upon his return from Korea, Sam met Pearl Merkur on a blind date arranged by his best pal Fred Knauer. Sam and Pearl were married in 1956 and for 65 years before she passed earlier this year.

In 1957, Pearl and Sam packed their U-Haul truck and headed for California. They each received a PhD from the University of California at Berkeley, and together they became professors at Humboldt State University. Sam was chair of the Sociology Department, and by all accounts much beloved by students, staff, and colleagues during his 30 years as a professor. In 1973, he founded the Humboldt Journal of Social Relations, which remains in publication to this day. Sam and Pearl founded the Altruistic Personality and Prosocial Behavior Institute at HSU. Together, they were awarded HSU's Scholar of the Year prize in 1990. Sam has authored nine books and numerous other publications focusing on the subject of altruism and why some people risk their lives to help others. He published his most recent literary work this year, at age 91. A central theme that runs throughout his scholarship is the importance of kindness and courageousness, even in the darkest times. He was, at his core, an optimist. Sam was humble, caring, generous and always inquisitive.

Sam is survived by his three sons and their families: Ron and Kristen, and their sons Evan and Daniel; David and Liz, their daughter Lauren and sons William and Harrison; and Ian and Valerie, and their sons Adam and Jason. He is survived also by his cousin Martin, whose parents were instrumental in making Sam's arrival in the United States possible. Most recently, he had the unrelenting support of his sons following the heartbreaking loss of his beloved wife Pearl only nine months ago. He leaves behind close friends and colleagues too numerous to mention, among them Arthur Rose, his childhood friend from Bunce Court.

He will be in our hearts for eternity. May his memory be a blessing.

There will be a small private ceremony. The family intends to hold a celebration of life in early 2022.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Nov. 20 to Nov. 28, 2021.

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Joan Burger nee Oliner

November 14, 2024

Sam, was one in a millipn, full of kindness and love.I
Joan and Mike Burger

Joan and Mike Burger

February 26, 2024

The most caring ki nd and caring couple. May your names always be a blessing

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Phillip Lazzar

December 13, 2021

Sam was instrumental in our shul, Temple Beth El, acquiring a rabbi. It was his belief that it would be a value to the community in general and the Jewish community in particular for Humboldt to have a rabbi, a Jewish scholar.

He worked things out with both the temple and HSU that they would share a rabbi and the rabbi would serve TBE as well as teach at HSU/

Pearl was very involved in our synagogue´s religious school. Serving on the school board as chair and then coming back years later to consult for another school board.

She was highly skilled at disagreeing without being disagreeable.

Sam and Pearl were part of the foundation of our Jewish community. They set examples for how to live meaningful lives by how they treated people with great respect.

Lisa Shochat

November 28, 2021

Sam was my professor and served on my Sociology MA Thesis cmte. His story and Sam and Pearl's life work was deeply inspiring to me and others working in international peacebuilding. I'll never forget the day when Sam and Pearl introduced to me and other students the Rosh Hashanah tradition of sharing apples and honey- for a sweet year. I am so very grateful for having known both Sam and Pearl.

Caroline Isaacs

November 24, 2021

Sam was one of the most inspiring people I have ever known. I feel privileged to have served Temple Beth Ell, Eureka, with him. There is no doubt I am a better person for having been influenced by him. I miss him sorely. His memory is such a blessing.

Isha Mayim

November 24, 2021

My deep condolences to family and friends. Sam was a true Mensch.

Rabbi Naomi Steinberg

November 23, 2021

Sam and Pearl were pillars of Temple Beth El in Eureka, supporting and enriching our lives in so many ways for so many years. We miss them dearly. We hope to have a memorial event sometime in the spring for all their friends, colleagues and students here in Humboldt County.

Both Sam and Pearl were tremendously kind to me. It was a great privilege to be their rabbi. Their wisdom and vision have shaped the course of my life.

May their memories be a blessing.

Scott williams

November 23, 2021

I knew of Dr. Oliver only as a professor at HSU. He left an impression on me through his stories of life and the the idea of altruism. He was a good man, remembered often.

Bruce Shaffer

November 22, 2021

Ron, David, and Ian- I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom and dad. They always made me feel welcome when I came over to your house as a kid to play ping pong. I also have fond memories of visiting you guys in Piedmont. And, as I'm sure you know, my parents and your parents had a special friendship. I still have an autographed copy of your dad's book, Restless Memories, that he gave me back in 1981. It will serve as a reminder of his extraordinary life.

Donna Marvel

November 22, 2021

I´m so sorry for your loss. Not just one of my favorite professors at HSU, one of the most influential as well.

Daniel Faulk

November 22, 2021

This man changed my life, inspired my mind, cultivated my heart.

Joyce Curry

November 22, 2021

Sam was able to tell the truth & just keep on loving. He is an inspiration for my life. So much courage!

Kevin Kilpatrick

November 22, 2021

Dr. Oliner was a kind, caring, and selfless man at HSU. I spent two years in the sociology grad program and spoke with him sparingly. I wish I'd spent more time with him. His altruism project left quite an impression on me.

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Rob Hepburn

November 21, 2021

A beautiful tribute to your father, Sam Oliner.
Sam's life was a great light for our humanity,
that keeps shining out in everyone he touched
with his compassion and wisdom.
May Sam's love of humanity nourish our souls
and keep us strong. In deepest sympathy. Rob.

Pam Mendelsohn

November 21, 2021

I will never forget Sam and Pearl. They are forever etched in my heart. Both were such loving people I am proud to have called my friends.

Bel-Ami Margoles (Temple Beth El, Eureka)

November 21, 2021

Every year we heard Sam "gather the memories" of all of the community's ancestors and beloved dead on Yom Kippur. Now, after a long, good life, he has been gathered into those ancestors and family that he mourned with us every year. We always say, "May their memory be for a blessing". In Sam's case, there is no "may"- his memory, IS a blessing.

Rita Wafler

November 21, 2021

Deepest sympathies for your family. Prayers sent for your crossing

Jeanette Jungers

November 21, 2021

One of the most compassionate professors I ever had. Rest in Power Sam.

Chip Sharpe

November 21, 2021

Sam deeply impressed me with his quiet fortitude, active faith, and persistent service to helping us discover and preserve our best selves.
His blessings will sustain people through generations yet unknown.

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