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Theodore Zukin Obituary

Theodore (Ted) Martin Zukin August 3, 1949 - July 5, 2011 Resident of El Cerrito Ted passed away peacefully at home on July 5, 2011 at age 61 after waging a long and courageous battle against a complex immune condition. After almost two months in hospital, he chose to be in the home he loved with the family and friends who loved him. An incredible and selfless husband, father, friend, colleague and physician, Ted left us too soon but with many memories of his compassion, sensitivity, gentle spirit, attention to detail and humility. As a neonatologist with The Permanente Medical Group he cared for the most fragile infants in the Newborn Intensive Care Unit, initially at Kaiser in Oakland and later at Kaiser in Walnut Creek. In the early days at Kaiser Walnut Creek he worked to make parenteral nutrition, mechanical ventilation, and other advanced neonatal therapies available to the babies "east of the Tunnel." His dedication to his profession and the passion with which he cared for each individual newborn and her family was evident to all. Ted was born in Los Angeles, and enjoyed a childhood spent climbing through the fruit trees of his grandmother's Fairfax neighborhood backyard. He attended UCLA as an undergraduate, and completed his medical studies at UC Davis, residency in pediatrics at Kaiser Oakland and fellowship in neonatology at Children's Hospital of San Francisco. At UCLA Ted played the saxophone in the basketball band, allowing him to attend and entertain at many games during the years that John Wooden's teams dominated the NCAA basketball tournament. He was passionate about family, baseball, fishing, music and watching the NCAA finals, rooting for his beloved UCLA Bruins and meticulously documenting every outcome. In spite of many medical challenges through the years, Ted rarely complained and refused to let illness define who he was as a person or a professional. He embraced every day with an unbiased openness. His sense of wonder at nature never diminished and his love for his family was evident to all who knew him. He will be forever missed by his wife Noni, daughter Didi, stepdaughters Leah (Goose) and Taryn (Graham), stepson Kevin, and grandson Alton. A celebration of his life was held at the family home and a private burial took place. A special thanks to Dr. Ted Tsukayama for the competence, compassion and excellent care he provided for Ted over the years. Please direct any memorial contributions to Doctors without Borders in Ted's name.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jul. 13 to Jul. 14, 2011.

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Dr. Elliott Haimoff

March 27, 2025

Back in 1958-59, I was a pre-schooler at Teddy's mom's house (ALWAYS remembered her as "Miss Sylvia"...He was a few years older than me but was my sister's age and so I got to know him quite well...Even as a kid he was caring and nice and so soft spoken - no wonder he was destined to become a doctor...I was able to find one photo of the back yard at his mom's place with all the kids she cared for (I'm on the far left with the plaid shirt)...I came and visited her & Teddy with my mom some years later, and knew Sylvia was quite ill for quite some time...They were both a key element in my upbringing...RIP Teddy...

Martha Maxine Minster Brooks

July 7, 2023

we collected butterflies together as children, on the first block north of Melrose, when I lived at 750 N Gardner St. He seemed a happy kind soul even then, but I never knew he would become a doctor.

Martha Maxine Minster Brooks

July 7, 2021

I remember our childhood playtimes, catching butterflies, on Gardner Avenue.

Amanda Nelson

November 26, 2011

Dr. Zukin was my daughter's doctor 22 years ago. I was given the choice of him or two other neonatologists at Walnut Creek Kaiser to be her regular physician and I chose him, for his expertise, and for how he handled me --the overwrought mother of a child born with difficulties. He told me that when my sweet baby looked into my eyes and saw how much she was loved and wanted, she would thrive. It has crossed my mind in the last few years that it would nice to share with him that she is now a 5'10" young woman of 22 with a light in her eyes and that he played an integral part in her life and in mine. I regret I never acted upon that thought -- I think he would have wanted to know how well she is doing and I think he would have remembered her. I am and have always been deeply thankful for Dr. Ted Zukin and humanity has lost an incredible soul with his passing.

David Meryash (Brown)

September 17, 2011

I just learned of Ted's medical challenges and of his passing today when I read the AAP News. We lost track of each other over the years, but we were good friends in high school and next door neighbors for several years. I fondly remember playing electric guitars together and flag football on the front lawn of his home, also his mother's nursery school. We had some great times together. My sincere sympathies to his family.

Ken Meyer

August 18, 2011

To Noni and family,
I was devastated to hear of Ted's passing just yesterday. I knew Ted from Junior High through college/grad school.
I saw him last in 2007 when we had dinner together at your house with my son Danny. Ted and I were great friends and we were roommates for 4 years. We shared many wonderful experiences together. I am so sorry for your (and all who knew him) great loss.
His memory will be with me forever.

Dan Navarro

August 17, 2011

Our mutual college roommate Ken Meyer told me only today of Ted's passing. I am deeply saddened by the loss of such a wonderful guy. He was one of my roommates in my first apartment ever, when I was 19. We were housemates at the UCLA Band House, where I landed at 17 as a UCLA freshman, fresh off the bus from my hometown of Calexico CA. I knew he had been struggling with this affliction for a great long time, but had thought it was under control. It had been a few years since I had talked to him, so I had been unaware of any new developments. But was hoping to see him in a couple of weeks when I play Berkeley. Not to be. Fare well, TZ. Your memory will stay with me always.

Sharon (Chazen) Dancygier

August 15, 2011

I knew Ted at UCLA, during those fun days when he was in the UCLA marching band.. So sad to learn of his untimely death, yet so glad to learn about his wonderful accomplishments in life. He always wanted to be a doctor.. Rest in peace, Ted.

Sharon Miret

July 21, 2011

I knew Ted in junior and senior high school. He was always such a lovely person and I am saddened to know that his candle went out much too early. All my best to his family. Peace and wonderful memories to all of you.

Cassie Gonzales

July 20, 2011

Noni and family: I am saddened to hear of your loss. Dr. Zukin was one of my favorites at KWC: always there immediately to respond to a delivery and it was always reassuring when he was present. He had a wonderful bedside manner and always reassured new parents in a way that only someone with his skill and compassion could provide. He will be missed by all whom had the pleasure of knowing your wonderful husband, father, and grandfather. May God bring you strength during your difficult time.

Barbara Honig

July 20, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of Ted's passing. We were childhood friends and it is so wonderful to hear all that he's done for others. He's gone way to soon. All my love to the family.

Lyndia (Rubenstein) Lowy

July 18, 2011

How ironic that a man who devoted his life to the miracle of creating and preserving life would be taken by a medical mystery.

Ted was a childhood acquaintance, whose gentle humor I always appreciated. I'm grateful that he had a full life with a devoted family, and hope that his memory will always be a blessing to them.

Martha maxine Minster brooks

July 18, 2011

We were childhood playmates. He brought over 2 nets so that we could catch, feed & admire butterflies.

July 18, 2011

Ted was a good guy. He was smart and had a good sense of humor. The best to all his family and friends.
My condolences,
Howard Rosen
Sherman Oaks, CA

July 18, 2011

To Noni and family,
I am shocked and heartbroken for you and your family.

Ted was a very special, extraordinary person. I remember him this way all the way back at Bancroft Junior High School and Fairfax High School. I'm just sorry that we did not keep in touch at UCLA (which I attended along with him) and in the years that followed.

I AM grateful for our being in touch over more recent years. Many of us were thrilled that he flew to LA special (in June, 2009, for just a few hours!)) for a "mini reunion" with some of his ol' friends.
He was always such a mensch in every way, the type of person that we are each blessed to have ever encountered. I feel doubly blessed to be able to call him FRIEND.

May you and your children and grandchildren gain much strength from the love and support of so many family and friends who truly adored this man. He has left a legacy for you all that you will surely treasure
forever.

G-d bless . . .
With much love,
Betsy (Kamornick) Silver

Cindy Munn

July 17, 2011

No words can express my sadness at the loss of Ted. Although we lived miles apart, he was an important part of our lives. From being the best man at our wedding to playing the piano with his nose at our son's Bar Mitzvah to visiting with him in California not so long ago, the memories are special and wonderful. My heart aches knowing that he will no longer be there for his family or for my husband who considered Ted a dear, dear friend since high school and those glorious UCLA days!

Ulrike Lang

July 16, 2011

I has been an Honor to have met and care for Ted. You are in my thoughts.

Penny Roberts

July 15, 2011

I cannot find the words to express my sadness. Dr. Zukin was my daughter's doctor when she was born 21 years ago. She was in and out of the hospital the first three years of her life, I could not have survived these years without Ted. He treated not only the child, but the whole family! Kaiser was very lucky to have him on staff. He will always be apart of my daughter's life story.
Rest in peace Dr. Zukin, you will always be in our hearts.

Greg Paroff

July 15, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of Ted's passing. I have some wonderful memories of him and his family. A truely compassionate person who always cared. We shall not see his like again.

Amy Robbins

July 14, 2011

Among my greatest pleasures in life was observing Ted as a husband, father, and neonatologist. His slow smile and genuine warmth lit up a room. He possessed a deep sense of compassion, more than anyone I have ever known. He was, truly, a beautiful man. I loved him like a brother, and greatly miss him.

Leah Berkowitz-Gosselin

July 14, 2011

You will be forever loved and missed, SDT… Whose name – and zest for all things nature, musical and adventurous - shall always be carried forward, through the life of his grandson, Alton Theodore, who at 2-years-old adored his Papi.
What a beautifully accurate tribute published here. And Thank You to all friends and family who have shared your lives with us and tributes to Ted in the last several weeks; it has been immeasurably sad to lose someone I love so much, and it has been incredibly meaningful to witness story-sharing with those I have only recently met to those I knew as a little girl, more than 25 years ago.
Always Yours, LeLe

Kathi White

July 13, 2011

Ted was one of the good guys. I am shocked and so so sad that he has died. The world was a better place because he was here.

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