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Thomas McCarthy Obituary

Thomas M. McCarthy Tom McCarthy of Walnut Creek, California, loving husband, father, and brother to his family, and longtime friend and respected colleague to many at Bechtel, passed away on December 11, 2011 at age 54 following complications after surgery. Tom's exemplary Bechtel career spanned nearly 30 years and countless achievements. He worked in construction before joining the company's civil infrastructure business, which took him to assignments in San Francisco, Hong Kong, and London. In Hong Kong, Tom served as project manager for a multi-billion dollar rail project connecting Hong Kong with China. He returned to San Francisco and became president of Bechtel's U.S. infrastructure company. In the UK, Tom led two huge rail projects, including the world's largest, most complex rail program ever undertaken on an operating railway. In 2002, he was elected a senior vice president and went on to head Bechtel's global rail business. The responsibilities with which Tom was entrusted were a testament to his exceptionally sound business judgment and decision-making ability, and his reputation for teamwork and quality. Tom earned a bachelor's degree in accounting at Loyola University, New Orleans and an MBA from the University of South Carolina. Tom's unequivocal sincerity, commitment, and positive contributions will be sorely missed but will live on in everyone he touched. Tom is survived by his wife, Terri, and his daughter, Megan, of Walnut Creek, CA; twin sister Carol McCarthy of Alexandria, VA; brother Kevin McCarthy, of New Market, MD; two additional sisters, Peggy (Tommy) Hayden of Silver Spring, MD and Maureen McCarthy of Deale, MD. He is further survived by many loving nieces, nephews, sisters- and brothers-in-law, and other relatives in MD, VA, and LA and many friends. In addition to his parents, William and Patricia McCarthy, one brother, Bill McCarthy, preceded Tom in death.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 19 to Dec. 20, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas McCarthy

Sponsored by Terri and Megan McCarthy.

18 Entries

Michael Duhe

January 17, 2012

"Tom McCarthy"

Before I married Georgia she told me stories about Tom, Terri and Megan. She insisted I meet them as soon as possible. I met Terri and Megan fairly quick but several years passed before I actually got to meet Tom. I had jokingly mentioned to a few in the family that Tom must be a figment of their imagination. I even had the chance to speak to Tom on the phone and again jokingly mentioned that he must be an imaginary figure in the family because everyone spoke of Tom but I never met him.
It was about five years before I did meet Tom in person. My first impression of Tom was he seemed to be a man who relished family. He seemed to sit back and look out at the family with a great sense of peace and belonging. Tom was easy to talk to and because we were in the same industry we had a lot more in common than I first thought we might. I enjoyed the few moments I had talking to Tom and his memory will stay with me.
I mentioned the “imaginary man” to be able to point out that Tom's presence is closer to a legend than a figment of someone's imagination. Tom has left his mark on all who know him and all who know him love him. As I've said before, “I am a better man today for having known Tom”.
I hope that when my time comes I can be remembered in the same light as Thomas Michael McCarthy.

Georgianne Duhe'

January 9, 2012

Tom,my uncle and my godfather, showed his love to his extended family with so much kindness and so much generosity. He's been responsible for some of the most magnificent and memorable experiences that all of us have had. Thank you, Tom; we will never stop remembering you and never stop loving you.

Sally Montz

January 8, 2012

Thomas McCarthy was a magnificent, kind and outstanding brother-in-law. He was the kind of person who wanted to make sure everyone around him was happy and had everything they needed or wanted. I often referred to him in a joking way as "my fairy god-father". He anticipated all of our needs and acted to solve any problem we thought we had. Tom was a religious man and we often went to church together when I visited. He was a loving and dedicated son-in-law to our mother who lived with them for many years.
I visited the McCarthy's many times in London and also California, Texas, Virginia and New Mexico. Tom was the most gracious of hosts and always made me feel so welcome. I will miss him and will never forget him.

Sally Montz, loving sister-in-law

Jack Lillywhite

January 2, 2012

It was with great saddness to learn of Tom's passing. We worked together in London and although we had little dealings he was always positive and well known for his managerial skill and competence. May God rest his soul and provide comfortt to Terri and Megan.

Bob McDermott

January 1, 2012

It was a huge shock to learn of Tom's tragic passing. I worked directly for Tom in the Bechtel Rail business line for several years before I retired in mid-2007. He was one of the sharpest men I ever met at Bechtel and a tireless worker who led by his own example of dedication and devotion to the company as well as its employees. This is a terrible blow and loss for Bechtel not to mention how hard it is for his family to accept such an untimely passing. My heart goes out to Terri, Megan and all his other family and world wide friends.
With greatest sympathy,

June Marchigiani

December 27, 2011

I knew Tom in high school back in MD. My memories of Tom and the adventures we shared as friends always include a very wide smile and willingness to help, to accommodate, to rescue anyone and everyone. He was the kid your parents were happy you had in your circle of friends. I visited New Orleans the spring he graduated from Loyola and have been several times since. It was NEVER so much fun and laughter as the first visit that included Tom. I've not seen him in many many years, but I know he's smiling down on all of us and giving us guidance. My prayers to those that will miss him daily and were HIS daily support all these years. And I pray Tom sends his sunshine down to me on occasion too.

Nancy Guillot

December 26, 2011

My fondest memory of Tom McCarthy was over 23 years ago. Carroll and Nancy went to South Carolina to visit with Tom and Terri before the baby arrived. By the time we made it to South Carolina, Megan had already been born into this world, so tiny, less than two pounds and 13 inches long.

We went straight to the hospital when we arrived. There was Tom, with his wife at his side, standing over the incubator with his big wide hands stretched over the baby. Tom told us, "Don't worry, I have your sister and Megan covered." This was a miracle given to our family. Megan is now a beautiful, healthy 23 year old woman.

Tom was always there to cover all of us. He made everyone happy and covered all our wishes, we only had to say the word.

Remember Terri and Megan, finding MawMaw's gloves in the suitcase in the PIT in Walnut Creek.

Tom, we will miss you.

Love, Nancy Guillot

Mike Lynch

December 23, 2011

No matter where we are, no matter what we do, no matter how bleak or frightening our prospects, each and every one of us who believe, each and every day, lies in the same safe and impregnable place, in the hollow of God's hand.The memories of our life long friendship has always been a daily thought, followed by a smile and a shake of the head. May you be resting in the hollow of God's hand.My love to all.

Qaiser Farooq

December 23, 2011

THOMAS MACCARTHY, no more with us, Shah Sahib read the message for us sent by his secretary. The news shocked every one in the office. I gathers all of my memories related to him and and shared with my colleagues. I even can,t remember how many times I picked him up from Airport, home and office as a Civic Chauffeurs driver.I never seen in my professional life such a great person. He was so kind and friendly person who forgave your mistakes quickly.I am always feel comfortable and confident to travelled with him as a driver. My sympathy to his family,friends and colleagues. Rest in peace.

Galen Guidry

December 19, 2011

In the little time we got to spend together, Tom made such a positive influence on me, and my family's lives. He showed us all by example that with hard work there is nothing that you can't achieve. Will be dearly missed and always remembered as always having a warming smile and a huge, very generous heart. I hope you enjoy the cooking from heavens chefs, because I know you have a seat at Gods table. Rest in peace uncle Tom, Your nephew, J. Galen Guidry and family.

Jane Guidry

December 19, 2011

I would like to share a story with ya'll that will forever touch my heart. In Maryland on our family trip, I was began fussing my neice and nephew, Lily and Logan, because they had walked away from everyone else when we were taking our family photo on the beach. I was shaken and couldn't help but go on and on (yes, repeating myself) telling them how important it is to stay together, etc. They were hanging their heads and becoming upset since I was being so serious. Uncle Tom saw what happend and walked up after several minutes, said that he would take them to the beach where everyone else was and gave them a big smile. They instantly perked up and were glad to have Uncle Tom rescue them. At that time, I instantly thought that he was their hero. That's how I will always remember him.
Much love and sympathy to all of the McCarthy's, who are an extremely kind and warm-hearted family. I will continue to pray for each of you.
Aunt Terri and Megan, I love you.

Liz Litten

December 19, 2011

Dear Terri & Megan, we were so sad to hear about Tom. We sends love & prayers. You are in our hearts and thoughts. Love, Charlie, Liz, Elleanor & Evie

MARY MILLER

December 18, 2011

TERRI may this candle guide you and Magen to peace in your heart. Tom will be very missed by all.

mary miller

December 18, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tommy and Jamie Montz

December 18, 2011

Sometimes we take for granted the time that we have here on earth, and we miss that opportunity to tell people how we truly feel. Tom's life, although cut extremely short, was a blessing to each and every person he came in contact with. He will always remain in our hearts and the memories that we hold dear. Call us selfish, but we all wish there was more time to create more memories.

To Aunt Terri and Megan and the entire McCarthy family, we can't imagine the grief you have to be feeling. As hard as it is right now, none of us have the answers to ease your pain, however, we will be here for you every step of the way.

If you need anything, PLEASE do not hesitate to call us.

We love you

Cruz Lizarraga

December 18, 2011

Teresa, Megan and the McCarthy family,

My sincere and most heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this time. My heart is heavy with sadness. I will always remember Tom as a kind and generous man. He will be missed by all whose lives he has touched. Tom, may you now rest in peace in Heaven.

Norma (JEANIE) Prima

December 18, 2011

God in His wisdom has a plan for all of us and that is the only thought
that can begin to give me the courage to face the death of my beloved brother-in-law, Tom.

I first met Tom as a recent graduate of Loyola University in New Orleans. Tom, Terri and I worked together in Norco, Louisiana. We were all so young then, so fresh and new.

I was very impressed by Tom as a co-worker, but that only takes a back seat to Tom as my brother-in-law. Tom never complained. He took things in stride, always having a positive attitude and a very generous, loving and encouraging spirit. Tom was a man of integrity;he commanded respect, only because he respected all people, and respect was returned to him as a given. It is sad to think his life on earth has been so short.

My sister, Terri, Tom and their daughter, Megan have had a very interesting life together. Megan is such a reminder of her father, Tom. He has taught her so many wonderful things about life and Tom has always been such a good example to her and all of our young people.

There are no words to express my heartfelt sorrow for all of us who had Thomas McCarthy in our lives and now suffer his loss.

Tom, you will be missed.

May his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace.

John K

December 18, 2011

My condolences to the McCarthy family. This has been a very sad week as Tom is the scecond childhood friend whose life was ended prematurely. I have many fond memories of Tom and over the years had wondered where he landed since he went to undergraduate school out of town and had lost touch with him. After having read his obituary it is apparent that he was a very successful businessman as well as a husband and father.

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