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Virginia Rezek O'Hagan Herbert

January 3, 1919 - December 4, 2014

Virginia Rezek O'Hagan Herbert, a longtime Palo Alto resident, died suddenly but peacefully at home after a short bout with pneumonia. She would have been 96 years old next month. Teaching and inspiring young people was her passion, and she dedicated her life to communicating her vibrant love of literature, drama, and the arts. Intellectually and emotionally engaged until the very end, Virginia is deeply mourned by many friends and former students for her true gift for friendship, and the delight with which she pursued life.
She was born in Roanoke, Virgina and was primarily raised there as well. In 1938, she and her mother moved to California, and Virginia finished college by graduating with a major in English from the University of California, Berkeley in 1940. She then trained as a teacher, and her first job was teaching English and Drama at Elk Grove High School. About 40% of her students that first year were Nisei whom she sadly watched be forcibly interned after Pearl Harbor. They brought her boxes of wonderful strawberries which had to be harvested early before they left for the camps.
She taught English and Humanities for 38 years at various schools in several states, but primarily in the Sequoia Union High School District, notably Sequoia and Carlmont High Schools, before finishing her career at San Carlos High School, teaching there from 1960 until she retired in June, 1979. Her retirement was reimagined and celebrated with a special "Realivement Occasion" attended by many former students. For her sabbatical year of 1965-1966, she won a John Hay Fellowship in the Humanities and attended Harvard, where she studied poetry with Robert Lowell and Robert Fitzgerald.
Virginia was married three times and had two children. Her first husband, Herschel B. Chipp, was a Lieutenant in the U.S. Navy when they married in 1944, and later became a Professor of Art History at UC Berkeley and specialist in Pablo Picasso. He was the father of her son Dennis. Her second husband, Turlogh O'Hagan, was the father of her daughter Maureen. Both these early marriages ended in divorce after a few years. She married her third husband, LeRoy V. Herbert, in 1988 after being single for many years, and they lived and traveled happily together for ten years until his death in 1998.
Virginia loved to travel, and visited many countries, notably Japan, Mexico, England, Ireland, France, Italy, China, Indonesia, Russia, Kenya, Tanzania, and Tahiti. After retirement she was active in the Peninsula Symphony Association, the Radcliffe Club of the Peninsula, and the First Baptist Church of Palo Alto.
She is survived by her daughter Maureen O'Hagan (Joel) Steed of Ukiah, her nephew Penn (Nancy) Butler of Atherton, and her niece Lynn (Brian) Chichi of San Clemente. Preceding her in death were her sister Anne Butler of Menlo Park, her son Dennis Browning Chipp, and her three husbands.
A memorial service was held on December 13, 2014 at First Baptist Church of Palo Alto, and a Celebration of Life party will be held next Spring. For information on the party contact Maureen at [email protected]. Memorial contributions in Virginia's honor may be made to Defenders of Wildlife or Earthjustice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 13 to Dec. 19, 2014.

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Constance Carpenter(-Bixler)' PhD

January 9, 2015

I continue to quote Mrs. O'Hagen to this day when working with my patients: "Always make a NEW mistake!" She taught me so much about life and opened my eyes to the Humanities via her 11th Grade class in 1975,

Jackie Hawley

December 26, 2014

There are not enough words to convey how much Virginia meant to me. Although I was never in her classroom, I was always in class! In our 28+ year relationship, she enhanced every region in my brain by constantly challenging me. Between her vast literary knowledge and her endless joie de vivre, she was larger than life (as many former students will attest)! It was a true joy to have known her.

Dean Silvers

December 21, 2014

I will always be grateful for having known Virginia, my most memorable teacher (1968-1970 for English and Humanities). She remained my teacher throughout life and became a dear friend, who was supportive of and interested in the lives of so many. Virginia's influence will endure and be passed on to another generation from those of us who had the good fortune to have known her.

E H

December 16, 2014

My sincerest condolences to the friends and family but remember the words of Philippians 4:13 that reminds us that for all things we have the strength through our loving father Jehovah

In Virginia's home, about 2010

Roberta Schlechter

December 14, 2014

To dearest Virginia, an enduring blessing in my life. In class, in my home and yours, your company elevated the moment and the memories. Thank you a thousand times.

George Cumming

December 13, 2014

Warm memories of Mrs. O'Hagan. my Latin teacher at Carlmont High School in 1956-57. She also produced "The Merchant of Venice," employing a few actors from the San Francisco stage to work with the students who played all the supporting roles. Culture comes to Belmont! Way to go, Mrs/ O'H.

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