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William Arno Werner Jr.

1937 - 2023

William Arno Werner Jr. obituary, 1937-2023, Sausalito, CA

BORN

1937

DIED

2023

William Werner Obituary

William Arno Werner, Jr.
December 11, 1937 - August 21, 2023
For his college class 60th reunion publication, Bill was asked for a short bio. He wrote: "Haight-Ashbury, Mom&Dad, Olympic Club, LowellHS, fly-fishing, Yale, Scully, Albers, NYC, Mary Hamman, '63MArch, Wendy, Peace Corps, 250DodgeRoadster, Hawaii, 59BorgwardCombi, Auckland University NZ, Architectural history, design studio master, Skidmore Owings & Merrill, 68Camaro, Weyerhaeuser, Christa, Werner Architects, 67VWbug, Tiffany&Co., Sausalito, 85Saab900T, Planning Commissioner, 97Saab9000, Patricia, Marin County Civil Grand Juror, 2016BMW428i"
William Arno Werner, Jr., 85, passed away peacefully at his home in Sausalito CA on Monday, August 21, after three years of declining health precipitated by a herniated disc and spinal compression fractures. He is survived by his daughter Christa Nerone (Michael), grandsons Heath Moody (Chandler) and Devin Nerone, great granddaughter Kennedi Moody, ex-wife Wendy Wilson and "significant other" Patricia Zuch.
Bill was born on December 11, 1937 at the Stanford Hospital, San Francisco (now part of CPMC), the only child to William Arno Werner, Sr. and Sophie (Menutis) Werner. In later life, he was pleased to note that 1937 was also one of the best viniculture years across much of the wine cultivating world.
He had the great good fortune, as he put it, to grow up in the Haight-Ashbury of the 40's and early 50's, during a time when adults were distracted, helicopter parents had not been invented, and San Francisco was quirky, diverse and open to the explorations of adventurous youngsters. His father owned an auto repair and restoration business (see focus on cars, above), and was a Freemason: Seeing Bill's potential, when Bill turned 10 a fellow Freemason sponsored him to the San Francisco Olympic Club. Bill retained membership for over 70 years, and the youth programs of the 40's and 50's nurtured general athletic, diving and gymnastic skills that rose to collegiate levels.
Bill attended the Dudley Stone School on Haight Street and Lowell High School. Competitive gymnastics ("Who's the kid?" college scouts asked when, as a high school junior, he out-performed college level competitors), and a perfect fit to the mid-fifties Ivy League Affirmative Action Program (West Coast, inner city, public high school, immigrant working class parents, decent grades and a short police record--sleeping on a beach in Carmel) led to scholarships from MIT, Harvard and Yale. Bill chose Yale, the high bidder by $25.
"I'd never been east of Reno in my life" he said, or been on a plane or in a taxi. But Bill was always "game," and that lifelong sense of adventure took him to Yale for undergraduate and graduate degrees. When asked by Yale to list characteristics he would want in a freshman roommate, he wrote: "I would like someone from a prep school, since I have never met one, with a home in New York City, and a dateable sister." That answer made its way up to the President of Yale, who personally inquired as to how Yale did in filling the bill.
Bill arrived in New Haven with only enough cash to get to the campus from the airport. After seven summers as a graveyard shift journeyman brewer at Lucky Lager's Brewery in San Francisco, scholarships, bursary jobs and other internships at Yale, and skill at the blackjack tables, Bill graduated with a BA of Arts ('59), a Master of Architecture ('63), a new wife (Wendy Wilson), and no debt. In gratitude and with enthusiasm, Bill served as Chair of the Yale Schools Committee, SF ('76-'84), President of the Yale Club, SF ('84-'87), and Member of the Yale Alumni Board of Governors ('88-'91.)
After a 1963 Peace Corps training program, and working briefly in Hawaii, Bill and Wendy moved to New Zealand, where he taught architectural history and design for two years at the Auckland University School of Architecture. He returned to San Francisco to join the internationally recognized architectural firm of Skidmore, Owings and Merrill in 1968. He left Skidmore in 1976 to form his own firm, and in 1980 partnered with Don Sullivan to form Werner & Sullivan Architects, SF. After Don's death in 2000, Bill continued on through 2020 as Werner Associates Architects.
Bill's 57 year career in architecture defied stereotyping, on purpose. "More often than not," he said, "it seems that the first time we undertake any specific type of architectural project is remarkably stimulating. We have avoided becoming 'specialists' for that very reason." Clients ranged from corporate, retail and research entities to government agencies; projects ranged from a 390 acre office campus master plan, the Rincon Center Post Office in SF, Tiffany & Co. outlets and Weyerhaeuser Company's Washington forestry research center, to residential projects (always accompanied by a "Hold-Harmless in Case of Divorce" contract rider.) Several design excellence awards from institutes, magazines and AIA Chapters followed.
A newly minted bachelor, Bill moved to Sausalito in 1983, and, in 2008, moved his practice from San Francisco to a building he had designed in Sausalito. It is fitting that he designed both the then largest commercial project and the smallest, albeit unquestionably the most visited, public facility in Sausalito. Thirty-four years of pretty much constant participation in Sausalito civic affairs, which ended at the end of 2022, began in 1988 when the City Council appointed him to the Sausalito Design Review Board. That was followed by two separate appointments to the Planning Commission, numerous Task Forces, Steering Committees, Commissions and Planning Forums. He was appointed by the Marin Superior Court to the 2015-16 Marin County Civil Grand Jury and, in recognition of talented writing and analytical skills, reappointed to the 2016-17 Marin County Civil Grand Jury.
Participation in Sausalito public affairs led to a relationship with Patricia that spanned 20+ years to date, enriched by a shared appreciation for travel, fine dining, good wine, music, plays, friends, family and each other-- with a hearty dose of laughter thrown in.
Bill was an avid fly-fisherman, a master chef, an event planner par excellence, a well researched travel guide - and always, always "game."

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Sep. 13, 2023.

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Jon Zuch

January 8, 2024

This is beautiful. I wish I got to know your guy a bit more.

Carlito Berg

October 13, 2023

Rest easy Bill, you were always kind and steadfast

Linda Pfeifer

October 9, 2023

Bill was a truly amazing man and a force to be reckoned with; his expert contributions and selfless volunteering in Sausalito were invaluable to our little village community. He designed Sausalito's village restrooms down to every detail, from taxpayer stewardship of its budget to its intricate brick work. Bill spent hundreds of hours volunteering his skills on the Marin Grand Jury, Sausalito's Police and Fire Buildings, and the Sausalito Planning Commission just to name a few. His wit, creative spirit, and belief in the power of community were legend. It is hard to believe he has left us, and he is so missed.

Vaughan Acton

September 19, 2023

I adored Bill and greatly enjoyed serving with him on the Marin County Civil Grand Jury. With a jury full of big egos, Bill stood out as a welcome breath of fresh air as he was sweet, witty, savvy, and gentle, yet still tough. In the car on the way to interview the previous Alameda DA, Nancy O'Malley about Human Sex Trafficking, I didn't know him that well. By the time we made it back to Marin, we were buds, bonding over both of our experiences with breast cancer. He really cracked me up. I always looked forward to his and Patricia's holiday newsletter every year - always hilarious.

Whoever wrote his obituary did a great job portraying him as the witty Renaissance man he was. It's written in a way that makes me wonder whether Bill wrote it himself. What a glorious man - I will miss him.

John Ferrell

September 19, 2023

In one´s pantheon of friends, one would be hard pressed to identify a finer colleague than Bill Werner. He was a man of not only many talents but also a man whose sense of style, grace and humanity so wonderfully characterized his modus operandi in life. Bill had an innate wisdom that I always admired, nay, envied. In community meetings he would often be the last to speak, and with great respect I would await his commentary on the subject at hand. With abiding patience and measured common sense Bill would inevitably provide wise counsel. A trait as rare as the man.
In our circle of friends his quick and suave wit, sharpened no doubt by his broad knowledge stemming from his Ivy League education, was enjoyed by all. For me, his humor evoked the adeptness of Winston Churchill...a high bar, but Bill certainly passed it.
One of Bill´s remarkable skills was his mastery in cooking. I would be gleeful on the occasional Sunday morning when I would get a call from him saying that he was at the farmer´s market and would I be interested in a dinner with him and Pat that evening. Whatever other plans I might have had were quickly put aside. He excelled in the kitchen with the same artistry and careful attention that he displayed in taking on a wide variety of pursuits. Bill was, bar none, the best chef I ever knew.
Naturally I´d never admit it to him but the truth is that I learned a lot from Bill Werner. And, he was charitable in his method for which I am most grateful. He was beloved for his kind and gentle nature and his generosity of spirit and camaraderie.
Thank you, Bill. You have left all of us with great sorrow but also with the enduring satisfaction and joy that we shared some of your extraordinary life with you.
Goodbye my old friend. I miss you.
John Ferrell

Susan Frank

September 16, 2023

Bill's indomitable spirit and quick wit will be missed in Sausalito!

Mary Hudson

September 16, 2023

An encounter with Bill always left me smiling and feeling uplifted by his good will.

Michael Peevey

September 14, 2023

We grew up together, both starting Dudley Stone school in first grade and skipping half of seventh grade, then going to Lowell High School before he went off to Yale and I to UC Berkeley. Always went to high school reunions until this year which he did not attend. A great guy and renaissance man. He will be missed.

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Kate Flavin

September 13, 2023

Bill was a true Renaissance man....

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