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Richard Calabrese Obituary
Rochester: May 30, 1934-May 24, 2014. Richard passed away peacefully on Saturday, May 24, 2014, surrounded by his adoring family. He is predeceased by his parents, Anthony and Rose Calabrese. He is survived by his loving wife of 56 years, Marcia (Wesley); children, Richard, Christopher, Michael, Amy, and Anthony; daughters in law, Stella Plutino Calabrese, Mary Stone and son in law, James Metcalfe; grandchildren,Giulia Calabrese, Martina Calabrese, Lucina Calabrese, Ian Metcalfe and Cal Metcalfe; brother, Robert (Janet) Calabrese; sisters, Rosemary (Frank) Cardoni and Betty Ann (Chuck) Smith and many other family members and close friends.
Richard graduated from Aquinas Institute, St. John Fisher College and Syracuse University College of Law. He was a founding partner in the law firm of Elliott, Stern and Calabrese and met his partners while in law school, where they all graduated in 1960. He practiced law in the Rochester community for more than 50 years until the day he passed. He also served as chairman of the board of First National Bank of Rochester in the 1970s, a bank that later merged with M&T Bank in 1998.
Richard was a friend, advisor, and father figure to many people, from all walks of life. He embodied generosity in all he said and did and will be dearly missed.
Friends are invited to meet the family FRIDAY 10:00am at ST. THOMAS MORE CHURCH for his Memorial Mass. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to St. John Fisher College or the School of the Holy Childhood. To share a memory or send the family a condolence, please visit www.harrisfuneralhome.com. Arrangements Entrusted to PHILIP F. PROFETTA
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Michael latragna
May 22, 2023
I think of Richard from time to time he is someone you will never forget he helped me so much. He´s sadly missed
michael latragna
May 22, 2022
Richard was a pillar of strength and wisdom. He was very
good to me in personal and business relations. I think of him often may he rest in peace.
Elaine Hummell
July 12, 2020
Wonderful man, always kind. No question of trust. He was so good to our family. great loss
Richard Morency
July 23, 2014
Dear Marcia and family,
Dick and I offer our sincere condolences. We will remember all of you in our prayers.
Ron von Perlstein
June 25, 2014
Dear Mrs. Calabrese & Family, Please accept my condolences for the loss of your husband / father and Grandfather.Mr (Richard) Calabrese was a great role model to his Children and many in the community.
He was a perfect gentleman, in every way.
I never saw him without a "smile" and a genuine interest in others. So fortunate is our community to have had a role model of his stature.My dad Passed away in 1983 when I was 16 and I use to watch different people in our community to learn from and Mr Calabrese was one of those people who used to patronize our family Restaurant. On occasion they would have a First National bank meeting in the back booth of our Restaurant. We will cherish the memories and may his memories last forever in the heart of his loved ones and many friends,
He will be truly missed....
June 24, 2014
Marcia & Family: Our prayers are with all of you on the loss of Dick. May your cherished memories.. make the time ahead easier to bear. We had many fun times at "the chalet" and at "Castle Rest." Love, Patty & John (Olgeaty, Stuart FL
Rich Calabrese, Jr
June 10, 2014
Thank you all for such wonderful stories and beautiful words for my Dad. We all miss him terribly but we also know that we'll be with him again.
Frank and Donna Underhill Cimino
June 8, 2014
To all the Calabrese family. We are sorry for your loss of such a special man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
JIM MARTYNIAK
June 3, 2014
OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. I GRADUATED WITH DICK IN '57 AND KNEW HIM DURING OUR FOUR YEARS TOGETHER. GREAT GUY.
Dick Kurz
June 3, 2014
Dear Marcia and Family,
My sympathy and prayers for you all on Dick's death. As a Class of '57 St. John Fisher College classmate, I will miss exchanging cheery smiles with him when we noticed one another when our paths crossed!
Joe Madalena
June 3, 2014
Dear Marcia & Family,
My sincerest condolences. I fondly remember all the laughs and funny times we all had in Syracuse.
June 2, 2014
Marcia and Family, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Richard. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and all your family. Sincerely, Jack & Jackie Harten
Diane Camarella Aselin & Don Aselin
June 2, 2014
To all the Calabrese family, we are saddened to hear of Richard's passing. Our deepest condolences to your family.
You are in our prayers.
Yvonne & Charles Goldsmith
June 1, 2014
To all of the Calabrese family. We never met Richard but knew of him through our friend, Betty Smith, his sister. She shared with us the wonderful times she spent with family in his home. We are sorry for your loss. Yvonne and Charles Goldsmith
June 1, 2014
Dearest Marcia, Robert,Rosemary, Bette Ann and Your Families,
Our prayers go out to each of you for peace and comfort from our Lord and Savior, Jesus, during this time..Love, Kathy (Bell)and Paul Heinrich (David Torpey's Mom)
Bonnie Kieffer
June 1, 2014
To all of the Calabrese family: my heartfelt sympathy on your loss. I remember his caring ways with all his children and when my sister and I "babysat" for Richard, Christopher, and Michael (just before Amy's birth!) Richard would help us at night and just be there for his kids. May he be at peace with the Lord.
Bill Farmer
May 31, 2014
It is an honor and privilege to participate in this… celebration of Richard Calabrese's life.
Love is not an easy feeling to put into words, nor is loyalty, or trust or passion.
He was all of these. He loved life and lived it completely.
He loved his family and friends unconditionally.
He celebrated the purpose of life as exquisitely as one can.
His courage over the last few years was fiercely noble and courageous.
I've known Mr. Calabrese for 34 years.
Life on the river with our families has been the most special time of my life.
I called him the “Commodore”
He was the Commodore of the St Lawrence River, he was a deliberate man, a principled man,… he was the director.
He was our compass,… gently guiding the way.
His knowledge of the islands and his own experiences captivated us all…. No one told it better.
To travel the River with the Commodore was such a special time. (Unless of course you were in the Lyman going down the rapids in Montreal,
Or…. stalled on the river with 6 other folks …. as the Lyman choked on stale gas.
He was at his best in the work boat;…it may have been his favorite,
But he was the Commodore in the Monitor.
El Commodore'
We often joked with each other about having more boats than brains,
I bought an old Century Resorter back in 1986, as I pulled up to the Boat House and The Commodore was there, he said “Farmer the smartest thing you could do is turn around and bring that boat back where you found it”!
He was a right. The boat has sunk at least twice!
He loved entrepreneurs, creative people, fighters and survivors. If you were passionate, and hardworking, he loved it, he wanted to hear about.
“Beautiful” he would say while listening to your story.
He was selfless in conversation he loved our stories.
I've never met a man who was more positive ….. whose energy affected so many people in such a positive way.
Good came to Richard ……..because of his unique charity
He was a worker ……in so many ways …. He spent hours making the lives of others better.
He loved his projects, the deals, he loved his buildings, and he had a remarkable sense of style and design.
Some decisions would take years. The Tower on Castle Rest was 25 years in the making, and finally… it was perfect.
He had a critical eye… (With a twinkle)… He loved Castle Rest.
He was first class … and in his own words we now say … “What a Man”
He was inspired by those who he inspired …
His world of friends and people who loved him was like the universe…,
Ever increasing in size.
There was no end to his genuine interest in people.
As a self-made man who started life simply, he was driven to provide for his family, his success cannot be measured in materials things, but only by those who loved him. And look at this gathering here we are.
He was man larger than life…. thankfully… he had five children…., they each carry the torch of his character…. in their “beautiful” own way.
In all…. the most remarkable achievement of his life…. was his marriage…, he was blessed to have married the most remarkable woman in the world, Marcia …. Whom he loved and cherished as deeply as a man can.
He has been my role model…. my inspiration…. and became one of my best friends.
He was the closet man to a father I‘ve ever had …. I loved Him.
I am eternally grateful to be part of his family in such a special way.
So to you my dear Calabrese friends and family, the vision is clear, the deals will be done, the projects will continue, and his spirit will never die.
God Bless Mr. Calabrese and your loving family.
Your Friend Bill Farmer
May 30, 2014
Dear Marcia and Family,
So sorry for your loss, the world is losing a great man. He helped out out Family so much in many ways over the years. My Father and Mother always called him "Dicky Boy" they loved him so much. I was planning on sending him a Happy Birthday Email
today. He always reminded me that my Father passed away on his Birthday. I know words can not take away your pain, but please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marilyn and Lucy Molica
May 30, 2014
WHAT A MAN!!
the Harwoods
May 30, 2014
The St. Lawrence summer community has suffered a terrible loss and Richard Calabrese will long be missed on the River and well beyond. Our sincere condolences to the family who have lost so very much. To us, he was always a most wonderful gentleman.
Laura Friel Haggerty
May 30, 2014
I have many fond memories of the Calabrese family. I am sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
David Rothenberg
May 30, 2014
To the Calabrese family,
Richard was a wonderful man. Althougha terrific lawyer, and a great businessman, he'll be best remembered a real mensch. The kindnesses he performed for countless people will not be forgotten. We send our deepest condolences and sympathies for your untimely loss.
David and Susan Rothenberg
Candace Martino
May 30, 2014
To Marcia and family , sorry I couldn't be there I'm out of town at this time my thoughts and prayers are with u and your family Richard was a wonderful and caring man he was like the monarch of this family every one looked up to him he will be greatly missed . Love to all of You
Van Tamoutselis
May 30, 2014
Dear Mrs. Calabrese & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Dick was a phenomenal man. I am honored to have known him for these last couple years. Whenever I was around him I would always pay attention to not just what he was saying, but how he said it. I never left a conversation with Dick without learning something. May he Rest in Peace.
Bill Pyrczak
May 29, 2014
Mike and family. When I came to town in 1977 I met your dad and Dick Elliott. Over the years your dad became a friend and mentor. He was always willing to offer help and advice when needed. He was just a great, great person and will be missed but never forgotten.
May 29, 2014
So sad for the loss of such a special man. My condolences to all the family. He will be greatly missed. So sad. Respectfully, Debbie Orlando, The Elegant Gent.
May 29, 2014
Mrs. Calabrese, Richard, Chris, Michael, Amy and Anthony, I was so sorry to hear the news of Mr. Calabrese. I spent a lot of time in the past few days remembering all of the time that we all spent together, it seems like so many years ago. I always remember him with a big smile and a twinkle in his eye. He wAs a very special man. I hope your wonderful memories can help you through this difficult time. I am praying for all of you. Paula Farone Peterson.
Mary Farone
May 29, 2014
I remember this great man,Dick Calabrese lovingly as a little girl and now to a grown woman. My son Ryan remembers his kindness and hospitality in the Thousand Islands. We feel your sadness but we were blessed and fortunate in knowing him. Love you, Marcia Mary L. Farone and son Ryan
May 29, 2014
We were all saddened to hear about your loss. My parents and I send our love and prayers.
--Bobbi Tomasino Lonobile
Robert Bass- Rising Pl
May 29, 2014
My condolences to the Calabrese family. Although I only knew Dick for the last year and 3 months, he was so wonderful and helpful to me. I bought my 1st home from him and he could have not been nicer. I feel very lucky to have known Richard Calabrese. And will always remember him fondly.
John Marullo
May 29, 2014
I lost my best friend, my mentor yet acquired many memories along with a great family. there is a great sense of loss for myself, his family and many that knew him. He Had a way of speaking with you and you leaving like whatever problem there was it was resolved. He never forgot anything you ever did, and he was always just a phone call away.the loss of such a person can never be replaced but the memories will live on, his teachings and understanding of life will live on.I used to say when you were with him you were in the calabrese bubble and you were untouchable. May you rest in peace yet never be forgotten. Everyone that knew him will always have a part of him that will stay with you. He not only gave of himself he gave you the ability to believe in yourself. He was a gift to all that knew him and he never gave up on you no matter what was happening in your life... His favorite Quote was " I will defend you to your last dollar" yet your last dollar would come from his last dollar.... " What a Man"
Larry Piccarreto
May 29, 2014
My heart goes out to your family, He was a great man. My life has been blessed and enriched from his presence.
Vince Labarbera
May 29, 2014
Dear Marcia and Family,
I offer warmest sympathy and condolences to you and your family. Richard was very influential in my life and a true friend. I will greatly miss him.
Jay Rund
May 29, 2014
I would like to extend my heartfelt sympathy regarding the loss of Richard. He treated everyone who crossed his path with kindness and respect. His loss will be felt across the entire community.
Mark & Linda Decker
May 29, 2014
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Calabrese family. Dick was a wonderful man. He will be missed by many.
Joyce Guadagnino-Schmidt
May 29, 2014
Our hearts go out to everyone. Joyce (Guadagnino) and Mike Schmidt
Chris Barry
May 29, 2014
Mike and Family,
Very sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad, Mike. It seems like a lifetime ago I worked for you in Balsam Market and would see your dad and other family members come into the store from time to time. I could tell how important family was to you. Heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
May 29, 2014
With great sadness, it always seems too soon because we miss such a wonderful, love one. May, you find comfort with family & friends as well as having so many happy memories & prayers to fill your hearts forever. May, it be comforting to remember that we can call on God & he will always give us the needed strength to cope with our sorrows.(Psalms 55:16)
Jeffrey & Amy LaDue
May 29, 2014
Mrs. Calabrese, Chris, Rich, Michael, Amy and Anthony... No words can express how sorry we are for your loss. Your husband/dad was loved by many. Our heartfelt condolences to all of you.
With Love
May 29, 2014
So sad to hear of Richard's passing, he and Dick Elliott and Herb Stern were good friends to my husband Charles Speedy who passed in 1976. My condolences to his family. He will be missed.
Arlene Speedy LaPera
Karen DeFazio
May 29, 2014
Dear Rich & family, please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. It was always a pleasure to see Mr. Calabrese when I worked at the Times Square building, his smile and warm greeting always made my day! You all are in my prayers.
Tom and Maria Basciani
May 29, 2014
On behalf of my family and longtime friends of Richard and Marcia, Frank and Josie Basciani express their heartfelt sympathy to the family. Richard was a gentleman and a true friend.
Tom and Maria Basciani
Charlene Englerth
May 29, 2014
Dear Marcia and family,
I am so saddened to read of Richard's passing.The world is a little sadder for this loss. My sincerest sympathies to you all.
Mary A Hibbard Brennan
May 29, 2014
Dear Marcia and family...I had the good fortune to know both of them much earlier in life .. we attended grade school all together, Marcia and me to Mercy..they were fun years for all of us...RIP.Marcia...I am so sorry for your loss.
Mark Jacobson
May 28, 2014
Mr C was one of the warmest people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. He had a knack of making me feel welcome with a single look and a spectacular smile. I feel lucky for having had the chance to know him and feel his generosity.
Tommy Klein
May 28, 2014
Mr. Calabrese was a true gentleman. It was a privilege to have met him and been able to have many interesting discussions with him at Javas. He loved and cared about Rochester. My condolences to the Calabrese family.
Pamela Gerthoffer
May 28, 2014
What a shock! I had heard so much about him over the years from my Uncle Irv, who sincerely valued their incredible friendship...they are now together again. Sending loving thoughts to the family.
May 28, 2014
Dear Dr. Stella Plutino and family, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. God blesss you all. Sincerely Mary Ann Muto
JOE & BETSY FRITSCH
May 28, 2014
BETSY AND I WERE SAD TO SEE THAT DICK HAD PASSED AWAY. HE WAS A FRIEND AND ALWAYS TOOK THE TIME TO STOP AND CHAT. WHEN WE FIRST OPENED OUR OFFICE ON THE NINTH FLOOR OF THE TIMES SQUARE BUILDING WE WERE PRETTY MUCH THE ONLY ONES UP THERE. WE WOULD BE WORKING ON A SATURDAY OR SUNDAY AND THERE WOULD COME A KNOCK ON THE DOOR. OPENING THE DOOR DICK WOULD BE STANDING THERE,SOMETIMES WITH HIS WIFE. HE JUST WANTED TO MAKE SURE EVERYTHING WAS ALRIGHT WITH THE OFFICE. HE REALLY TOOK THE TIME AND IT WAS APPRECIATED. a REALLY GOOD MAN. GOD BLESS.
Michael & Antonietta Nasello
May 28, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. With Our deepest sympathy.
Heather Gazdik
May 28, 2014
Hold on to the fact that he passed on his beloved River. He once stated in a speech that he and his family were faithful custodians of Castle Rest and the River for future generations. He truly was!
JUDIE MCCALLUM
May 28, 2014
Chris & Family,
your dad was one of the nicest man i have had the pleasure to work with. Know that he will be watching over all of you. He taught me a lot about construction law.
Christine, Brittany and Ian Andrews
May 28, 2014
Please accept our sincerest condolences in your time of loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marshall Shannon
May 28, 2014
I was with Domestic Finance in the early 60's when you and your partners Herb Stern and Richard Elliott started your practice.I was told we became your first corporate client.For many years after you and your partners made me feel like a special friend.I would attend your office christmas party and we would exchange small gifts.You were truly wonderful friends inspired me to urge my son to attend law school.He did and is an attorney in Albany now.I recently lost my wife and understand the loss your wife and family are feeling.God bless you all!
christine ronan
May 28, 2014
An incredible man. A loss to his wonderful family & this community. I'm Fortunate to have known him, and will miss his lovely warm smile.
Christine Ronan
Keith & Cecilia & Jeromy Gordon-Smith
May 28, 2014
Our hearts are deeply saddened for your loss. Mr. C was our mentor and like a father to us. We will miss him dearly.
Joseph Grymin
May 28, 2014
I am sorry for the family's loss of a truly great man. My life was enriched working with Dick first in a professional capacity and then later up in the Thousand Islands as he pursued his passion for the River. He truly will be missed.
Donna Lee Pennella
May 28, 2014
Sorry for your loss, Aunt Rosemary and Uncle Frank, cuz Mary Beth and Nancy.
Julie Zahniser
May 28, 2014
He truly was a wonderful, kind, generous man. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you heartfelt hugs and best wishes.
May 28, 2014
Dick was a friend and mentor since I first met him in 1969. I will miss his smiling face and orange cordovan shoes. May he rest in peace. Ron Axelrod
Angela Tripodi
May 28, 2014
Ciao Richard...
Caroline Appleby-Costanza
May 28, 2014
Dear Mrs. Calabrese & Family, Please accept my condolences for the loss of your husband / father. What a perfect gentleman, in every way. I never saw him without a smile and a genuine interest in others. So fortunate is our community to have known him.
My deepest sympathy.
Caroline Appleby-Costanza
Chuck Aulbach
May 28, 2014
Dick was a true friend and a great help to all of our Family. Rest in peace Dick.
Dr. Mary Boname
May 28, 2014
My deepest condolences to the Calabrese family. Although I only met Dick once, it was easy to see how dedicated he was to the law and looking out for the best interest of his clients. I am honored I had the chance to know him.
May 28, 2014
Marcia and Family,
Dick was a Mountain of a man, one to look up to and admire. I never saw him without a big smile and something nice to say. Dick will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
Smythe Family.
Nick Capanna
May 28, 2014
I first met Richard A. Calabrese, Esq. (respectfully also referred to as “Mr. Calabrese”, “Mr. C”, “Richard” and “Dick”) in 2005 when I opened a banking center on the ground floor of the historic Wilder Building (that was partially owned by him). Never would I have imagined that the landlord I was renting space from would become my good friend and mentor as Dick graced me with becoming.
From my ground floor window office, I had the opportunity to see Dick's daily comings and goings (stopping along the way to talk to thousands of people over the years with a gentility, warmness and charisma that came naturally to him).
I'm glad that I made a point of telling Dick more than once, that he was “one of my favorite people in the world”, because he became just that to me. Over the years, Dick introduced me to many friends and colleagues, including his close friend Don Corletta, who I love dearly. (While I only had the opportunity to rise to the level of vice president of my past employer, Dick with that sparkle in his eyes and smile would playfully introduce me as the president and/or future president.)
As an attorney, Dick touched the lives of many people from all walks in life. As a businessman, he employed uncanny artistry in making deals that led to his becoming a Rochester real estate icon. I loved his stories about how he came to write the chapters of his personal success story in life. And, while we usually spoke about business deals, it was always clear that his greatest source of pride and joy came from his beautiful family who also share his grace, warmth and charisma.
I did not see Dick nearly enough over the last year and will always regret that. But, I am very thankful for the gift of the time that I did spend with the illustrious attorney, business leader, and good friend that we are saying goodbye to now.
My heartfelt condolences to Marcia, Rich, Chris, Mike, Anthony and Amy who knew him the best, loved him the most, and have the richest of memories of their times with a truly wonderful and gentle man.
Steve and Vickie Ouriel
May 28, 2014
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father, may it give you comfort to remember the ways your father's special love and wonderful memories. with deepest Sympathy
May 28, 2014
So sorry for the loss of such a nice man!!He was such a great role model to his children and grandchildren Guido and I were so glad to know him!!!! Your family is in our prayers. Guido and Tracie Cristofori
The Agnello clan (Gary, Gail, Joseph and Janice)
May 28, 2014
To the Calabrese clan ... your loss is truly heartfelt. He touched so many lives in so many ways with love and respect. We have so many fond memories. Please know our two families were and are very blessed to have journeyed through life together. God bless always!! You are in our thoughts and prayers.
May 28, 2014
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Jennifer Wagorn-LaRose
May 28, 2014
Dear Marcia and Family,
Richard was a Great Man. We all feel blessed for having known him. He will be dearly missed. Our sincerest condolences to all of you.
Wayne Pappert
May 28, 2014
In my 76 years ... I don't think I ever
knew a nicer person than DICK CALABRESE. I owe him a bit of gratitude for showing me how to Belly-Whack on a sled in 1942. I had a feeling when he married MARCIA back in the late 50's that this was going to be one of those perfect match-ups...and it turned out that I was right. A match made in heaven for sure. As for myself ... I always loved this guy. God bless MARCIA
and the family. A big...big loss.
May 28, 2014
The Calabrese Family - I am deeply sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful person and good friend. May He rest in peace and may God bless the family in this time of sorrow. Richard Lewis & Family - Dublin Ohio
Nick Capanna
May 28, 2014
I first met Richard A. Calabrese, Esq. (respectfully also referred to as “Mr. Calabrese”, “Mr. C”, “Richard” and “Dick”) in 2005 when I opened a banking center on the ground floor of the historic Wilder Building (that was partially owned by him). Never would I have imagined that the landlord I was renting space from would become my good friend and mentor as Dick graced me with becoming.
From my ground floor window office, I had the opportunity to see Dick's daily comings and goings (stopping along the way to talk to thousands of people over the years with a gentility, warmness and charisma that came naturally to him).
I'm glad that I made a point of telling Dick more than once, that he was “one of my favorite people in the world”, because he became just that to me. Over the years, Dick introduced me to many friends and colleagues, including his close friend Don Corletta, who I love dearly. (While I only had the opportunity to rise to the level of vice president of my past employer, Dick with that sparkle in his eyes and smile would playfully introduce me as the president and/or future president.)
As an attorney, Dick touched the lives of many people from all walks in life. As a businessman, he employed uncanny artistry in making deals that led to his becoming a Rochester real estate icon. I loved his stories about how he came to write the chapters of his personal success story in life. And, while we usually spoke about business deals, it was always clear that his greatest source of pride and joy came from his beautiful family who also share his grace, warmth and charisma.
I did not see Dick nearly enough over the last year and will always regret that. But, I am very thankful for the gift of the time that I did spend with the illustrious attorney, business leader, and good friend that we are saying goodbye to now.
My heartfelt condolences to Marcia, Rich, Chris, Mike, Anthony and Amy who knew him the best, loved him the most, and have the richest of memories of their times with a truly wonderful and gentle man.
Cesira Guiler
May 28, 2014
To the family and friends of a great man! I am sadden by the lose of who I called "the big guy" because to me he was on top of the world. I met Mr. Calabrese in 1988 at my first job with his law firm. He was a true and genuine man with a big heart. I looked up to him as a father figure, because he was always looking out for me. You are going to be missed tremendously! May you rest in peace and give your family the strength you had to remember all the good things in life. Love Cesira Iulianella Guiler
John Boeheim
May 28, 2014
My heart aches for the Calabrese family at this time, but I hope that they can all take comfort in knowing that he truly led a wonderful life and he left it exactly as he would've wanted; surrounded by loved ones in a place he already considered Heaven.
I always looked to Mr. Calabrese like a second father. The kindness, wisdom, concern, and guidance (and, on more than one occasion, the patience and understanding) he showed me over the years has meant more to me than I could ever adequately express in words. He always made me feel welcome, like a member of the family, and I wish I could hear him say, just once more "Boeheim, baby, you're the best!" No, Mr. Calabrese, you were the best! And I am a better man for having known you. RIP.
Tim Tompkins
May 28, 2014
Dick Calabrese was a highly charismatic natural-born leader. He was my first attorney, and as a young man, he definitely placed confidence in me, and in turn I had more confidence in myself when I was just starting out in business. He will always be remembered as a truly inspiring individual.
Jeff and Jan Morris
May 28, 2014
Marcia and family
Please accept our condolences. We remember Dick as a friend , mentor and ultimate gentleman.
Bob and Joanie Weinberger
May 28, 2014
To Betty and all her wonderful family.
You are in our hearts and we hope that you find comfort having all the love and memories around you.
Chris & Amy Lopez
May 28, 2014
Dear Michael and Family,
Amy and I are saddened by your loss. Dick was a true gentleman and will be missed.
May 28, 2014
Dear Calabrese Family,
I was so sad to hear of your loss. I will always rememeber Mr. Calabrese as a great man that I respected tremendously. His kind heart will be missed. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Mark Passamonte
Candace Martino
May 28, 2014
Dear Marcia and Family , so very very sorry for your loss Richard was a wonderful and caring man . Love Candy
Micahel latragna
May 28, 2014
Dear Marcia & Family
The world and Rochester has lost a beautiful man. Richard was one of a kind my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marc and Bernadette Lodico
May 28, 2014
We are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you always cherish the memories of time spent together.
CarmenMarie Mangiola (Plutino )
May 28, 2014
Dear Marcia and family I am in France and read the news just now, very very sorry to hear of your loss, I count myself among the many fortunate ones to have been blessed with your kindness and very sad for cousins Chris and Stella and children and Amy and family, Mike and family and Rich and Anthony , you are in my heart and prayers, and thank you also for coming to the calling hours for my brother in February.
David and Kathleen Militello
May 28, 2014
Our sincere condolences to the Calabrese Family. Dick was kind in word and deed. He was a Friend to all and changed the life of many. Fortunate to know someone like Dick once in a lifetime. A Great Man!
bob brown
May 28, 2014
Dick, thanks for initiating the "5 for 5" campaign in celebration of our 50th from St. John Fisher ....May you rest in peace....bob brown
May 27, 2014
May God's peace be with you all during this very difficult time. You are in our prayers. Lou & Ethel Di Gregorio
Bill and Ann Higgins
May 27, 2014
A wonderful man! He will be greatly missed!
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