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James ESSLINGER Obituary

James "Jim" F. Esslinger

SHERMAN - James "Jim" F. Esslinger, 80, of Sherman died at 5:19 p.m., Thursday, Jan. 3, 2013, at Memorial Medical Center.

He was born Aug. 21, 1932, in Springfield, to John James and Sarah Marrin Esslinger. He married Connie Long on June 18, 1955, and she survives.

Also surviving are one son, David J. (Leslie) Esslinger of Alto Pass, Ill.; one daughter, Susan "Sue" (John) Kunz of Springfield; two grandchildren, Sarah (Patrick) Sullivan and Jennifer (Alex) Davenport; three great-grandchildren; one brother, John "Jack" (Pat) Esslinger of Springfield; one sister, Mary Anne (Anthony) Ramos of Gurnee, Ill., and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

His parents preceded him in death.

Jim was a US Navy veteran serving as a Seabee during the Korean War era and helped build Subic Bay Air Field in the Philippine Islands. He was a member of St. Aloysius Church and Knights of Columbus #4175. He enjoyed his family, golf, making raisin pie and caramels. He was an avid Packers and Red Sox fan. He was a graduate of Cathedral Boys High School.

He was co-owner of Esslinger Masonry; was one of the ten original founding owners of King Pin Lanes; was a licensed Real Estate Broker and co-owner of Esslinger Real Estate and worked for the State of Illinois Secretary of State as the head of leasing of Drivers Services Facilities.

Visitation: 4 to 7 p.m., Sunday, Jan. 6, 2013, at Staab Funeral Home with a prayer service at 4 p.m.

Funeral Mass: 10:30 a.m., Monday, Jan. 7, 2013, at St. Aloysius Church with Monsignor Carl Kemme officiating. Burial will follow at Camp Butler National Cemetery.

The family requests that memorial contributions be made to St. Jude Children's Hospital.

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Published by The State Journal-Register from Jan. 5 to Jan. 6, 2013.

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January 12, 2013

Connie- so sorry, Jim was wonderful person--Paula and Tom Denny

January 10, 2013

Dear Connie, I will always remember Jim as a big happy teddy bear that you always want to hug. I will miss him. Irene Pasley

January 7, 2013

Connie so sorry to hear of Jim's passing .You are in my prayers.
Theres Svetlik

tom goldstein

January 7, 2013

Dave and family sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Mike Wagner

January 7, 2013

Connie, Dave and Sue I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing.

Jim Castelletti

January 7, 2013

I'm very sorry for your loss. I had breakfast with him and his brother Jack every tuesday and I've never known a nicer gentleman. I will miss him.

Dick Kuznik

January 6, 2013

Connie, so sorry to hear about Jim's passing. You have my deepest sympathy.

Con & Lenore Rourke

January 6, 2013

We remember him from the last time we saw him over 50 years ago. The hair was dark - the smile - just the same.
Good bye friend.

January 6, 2013

Dave, i'm so sorry for your loss. love marie. my prayers are with you

January 6, 2013

Connie and family so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and yours.
Addie and Mike Copelin

Georgia Hagmann

January 6, 2013

Dave - I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know your dad meant a lot to you. I lost my dad in November, so I know the pain you must be feeling. My prayers are with you.
- Georgia

Pat, Amy, Nick and Emily Capranica

January 6, 2013

What a great, gentle man Jim was - we will never forget him. You know I love you dear Connie...always so positive and upbeat in the most trying situations. Our hearts break for you.

Tracy Houser

January 6, 2013

Connie and Family- I am so sorry for you loss. Jim was a Great Little League Coach,Jim show us how to play baseball and the love for the game as well, teaching us how to do the rite thing in life. THANK YOU COACH, Your CENTERFIELDER of the FLEETWOOD !!

January 6, 2013

Connie, Dave, Sue and family. I am so sorry for your loss. I had only met James a couple of times, but I know how much my dear daughter-in-law, Sarah, loved her Pawpaw. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Ann & Dan Gaston

Larry Bullock

January 6, 2013

Rest in Peace my friend,

Jim was a "one of a kind" friend! I have never met a better man and I love him. We made memories that I will never forget and I will miss him. We haven't been in touch for years, except in my heart, but I knew Jim understood.

Connie, Dave and Susan please know I feel your loss.

Larry Bullock

Greg Boston

January 6, 2013

Sorry for your loss. Jim was a great guy,i worked with him on many construction sites,he will be missed by all who knew him.
Greg and Kathy Boston
Ft.Myers Florida

Yvonne Luong

January 5, 2013

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Mike (Michelle) Kovarik (Buerkett)

January 5, 2013

Connie, Mike and I are so very sorry for your loss we absolutely loved Jim. Please accept our deepest sympathies, our prayers will be with you and your family.

HANK PETRILLI

January 5, 2013

Connie and family -my deepest sympathies to you-you and Jim are in my prayers. He was indeed a gentleman!

Bob Denny

January 5, 2013

Jack and family: We were saddened to hear of Jim's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Bob&Cindy Denny

Kenny Fults

January 5, 2013

Connie, David, Susan, Jack and Family, I give you my sincerest sympathies in Jim's passing. I remember Jim well, and all the good times we had together. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tom Klein

January 5, 2013

Connie & Family-

So sad to hear of Jim's passing. Please accept my deep and sincere sympathy. May many wonderful memories, give you strength in the days ahead.

God Bless,

Margaret (Bracco) Leckrone

January 5, 2013

Connie, my thoughts and prayers are with u and your family at this time. God be with u.

Marjorie (Tapocik) Schwager

January 5, 2013

Connie - We are so sorry to read of the loss of Jim. The brick work on our home will be an everlasting memorial to Jim and his talent. He was such a good person. God bless your family. Sorry we cannot express our sympathies in person. Walt & Marj Schwager

January 5, 2013

Connie; So sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He was a good guy and will be sadly missed.My prayers are with you. Linda Antonacci

January 5, 2013

Connie. So sorry for your loss. Jim was a good guy and will be sadly missed. Your in my prayers. Linda Antonacci

January 5, 2013

Jim was a great guy and good friend to my Dad Bob Groesch. To Connie and family my God confort you during this time.
Sincerely, Rita Hooss

PAUL COX

January 5, 2013

JIM WAS A GREAT GUY AND MY ASSOCIATION WITH HIM AT THE SOS OFFICE IN THE 1980S HAS NEVER BEEN FORGOTTEN.

Patty (Schoeneberg) Peterman

January 5, 2013

Dave and family - so sorry to hear about your loss. You have my sympathy.

Tom and Jan Armstead

January 5, 2013

God Bless you Jim and all your family.

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