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MARILYN LEITNER DICKERHOOF

1943 - 2009

MARILYN LEITNER DICKERHOOF obituary, 1943-2009, Mount Vernon, WA

BORN

1943

DIED

2009

MARILYN DICKERHOOF Obituary

Marilyn Leitner Dickerhoof went home to her Lord on August 22, 2009 after a year and a half battle with cancer. As her dearly beloved soul took winged flight home she wanted it to be said, "I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth"- 3 John 1:4.

Marilyn was born on June 8, 1943 in Seattle, Washington, the daughter of George and Mary Leitner. She moved to and was raised in Mount Vernon, later graduating from Mount Vernon High School in 1961. She took some courses at Skagit Valley College, then moved to Seattle and worked for Boeing for about one year. After moving back to Mount Vernon and working at Seafirst Bank, she met Daryl Dickerhoof on a blind date and they married in 1965 while he was working as an engineer for Shell in Anacortes, WA. During the next two years after their marriage, Daryl was in the Army and they were stationed throughout the US and Germany. Afterward, they moved to Martinez, CA for two years and then Daryl was transferred with Shell to Louisiana where they lived for 32 years. They returned to Mount Vernon after Daryl's retirement in 2001 to be near family.

Marilyn was a faithful servant of God, ministering to family and friends wherever she felt needed. In Kenner, Louisiana she attended Faithful Word Assembly Church for about 20 years and then Christ the King Community Church in Mount Vernon, WA. She was a devoted homemaker over the years and dedicated herself to homeschooling most of her children to instill Godly truth and principles. She was especially good at mentoring many individuals throughout her life.

She loved Skagit Valley and enjoyed learning about its history. She had a zest for life and loved gardening, collecting antiques, interior design, garage sales, family genealogy, shopping and searching for bargains. She cultivated many different groups of friends and they were a great source of pleasure for her. She had a love of art and became interested in painting water colors with her "Painted Ladies" friends. She also joined "Curves" and one of her many joys was meeting with her "Curves Chicks", enjoying the exercise and the camaraderie. She loved the Lord and her Bible study group, as well as her "Small Group" friends from church. This cross section of friends became like ministering angels to her, especially through her difficult cancer treatments.

She is survived by her husband Daryl, and their five children: Eric, his wife Julie and their five daughters Rebecca, Mercy, Moriah, Rachel, and Lily; Scott, his wife Michelle and their two children Nathan and Gracie; Andrew and wife Kate; Krista and husband Paul Hernandez, and Joshua Dickerhoof and fiancée Sara Mistretta. She leaves a sister, Donna Larson and husband Glenn, and brother Ronald Leitner and wife Skip, along with numerous nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, George and Mary Leitner and a sister, JoyceAnn Leitner.

A private family burial will be held Saturday, August 29, 2009 at Hawthorne Memorial Park at 11 AM with a memorial celebration service to follow at 1 PM at Christ the King Church in Mount Vernon, 2111 Riverside Drive. Viewing of her body will be restricted to close family members.

In lieu of flowers, Marilyn would prefer a donation in her memory to organizations close to her heart - The Voice of the Martyrs, PO Box 443, Bartlesville, OK, 74005-0443 or the Mt. St. Helens Creation Information Center, 4749 Spirit Lake Hwy, Silverlake, WA 98645.

For the loving care she received during her bout with cancer she would want to especially thank the staffs of Skagit Valley Hospital, Skagit Valley Regional Cancer Care Center, Virginia Mason Hospital, Life Care Center in Mount Vernon and Doctors Jafari, Kantorowitz and Stark. Also she would want to especially recognize all those wonderful friends and family that ministered love to her during this time and for their countless prayers on her behalf. Throughout her trials with cancer, the Lord held her in His loving arms and at 7 AM Saturday, her spirit was mercifully released into His Kingdom. Her family will miss her dearly.

You may share your memories of Marilyn, and sign her online guest register at www.kernfuneralhome.com Arrangements are under the care of Kern Funeral Home.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Skagit Valley Herald on Aug. 26, 2009.

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Carol Sihvonen

August 20, 2019

I will continue my thoughts where I left off, ten years ago to say that, when you all moved back to Washington State, it was as if part of me went back there, too. However, my memories of you all were made in the Jefferson Parish, LA area. Everyday, we are closer to a reunion. We continue in the fields where we have been called as Ambassadors of heaven. Wonderful memories of Marilyn and her family in the meantime. Shalom.

David DeMeyer

August 31, 2009

Marilyn: Although we have only seen each other three times since graduationg from MVHS in 1961, I remember you so well as a good friend and a good dancer. We danced often at The Seven Cedars during those fun Record Hop days. It was great to see you just two years ago at the Bulldog Golf Classic when you were with Joy, Marilee, and Dena.
It sounds like you had a wonderful life and a great family. We will all miss you.

Dave Browning

August 31, 2009

Daryl and family,
I will miss Marilyn a lot. I always enjoyed being around her - her directness and her humor. Remember some great conversations we had. One of the "steady" people in life that you come to count on. Can't wait for the reunion with her in heaven.
I love your family and appreciate your friendship over the years. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you,
Dave Browning

August 31, 2009

Daryl, Andrew, Kate and family,
We are so sorry to hear of Marilyn's passing but know she is with her Lord. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sadness.
May your many memories help to comfort you. God Bless you all. Love, Brad & Judy Smart

Carol Sihvonen

August 28, 2009

Dear Daryl, and Eric, Scott, Andrew, Krista, Joshua and your spouses and spouse to be and children,

God truly blessed me with a wonderful friend and Sister-in-the Lord, Marilyn, while our paths crossed during the Jefferson Parish years. Even to have someone who came from the Pacific Northwest, Washington State, was just that extra touch that only our Lord could have thought of.

When you, Daryl and Marilyn made the decision to move back to Washington, I felt a part of my heart being cut off!
A cup of coffee in your cozy kitchen was always a blessing. Ministry of the love of the LORD that was poured out so abundantly.

Now here I sit in Finland and am remembering so many wonderful memories. There are so many years of events that cannot be recorded here.

I was saddened to learn about the cancer and the fight that Marilyn went through. However, thank God for His mercies that are new every morning and HE took her to Himself. And, now may OUR very same loving Father shower you all with HIS PEACE and keep you all until that day when we will have the great reunion. Isaiah 51:11.

Love In Him,

Carol

Dale Anderson

August 27, 2009

Daryl,
Know that our love and caring is here for you. We loved Marilyn dearly and feel blessed that God did mercifully take her home rather than she suffer more pain. God bless you Daryl - we love you and know that we are here for you always. In His name Dale and Gerry Anderson

Donna Kleweno

August 27, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Daryl, and with your loving family at this most difficult time. I will miss Marilyn's uplifting spirit, her joyful laugh, and her subtle sense of humor. It is healing to know that she is in the glory of heaven and no longer in pain and suffering. But, I shall miss her dearly.

Bernadette Davis

August 27, 2009

Heartfelt prayers during this difficult time.

Becky Weston

August 27, 2009

Dear Daryl and family: When I saw Marilyn's obituary in the paper, my first thought was how sad to see she had passed away, quickly followed by the next thought of how she would chide me for being sad instead of rejoicing for her! I haven't talked with her since April when we met for coffee as we did sometimes and discussed what we had been up to and what we needed prayer for. I always looked forward to what I knew would be her honest response to everything I said. I knew that whatever I told her would be handled with discretion and prayer because of what she didn't say about other people! I don't think I have ever met a person who was so objective about her own illness, and had such a matter of fact faith in God about death. At our last trip to Starbucks she was dealing with tumors in her lungs, so I didn't know she had gotten worse. I truly prayed that God would heal her because I couldn't imagine her not being here upholding the Truth.
Daryl - all of her e-mails to me mentioned how patient and caring you were to her through all of her trips to the hospital and everything her illness entailed. Thank you. Please accept my sincere sympathy and know that I will continue to pray for you and your family. Sincerely, Becky Weston

Cathy Estabrook

August 26, 2009

Marilyn was a dear friend. I have many wonderful memories of long coffee chats, crafting days, garage sale trips, recipe swaps, garden tips, grandchildren stories and shopping, with Marilyn always finding the best deals! I'll miss her but am thankful I had her in my life.

August 26, 2009

gordon and I are sorry for your loss. I am glad marilyn was part of my life. I had a wonderful time with her. she was the strongest and bravest person I have known. love carol gordon wiren

Joy Germany

August 26, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathy. Marilyn was a good friend and godly influence on me and my famliy.
Sincerely,
Joy Germany
I would like to share with you something you may not know about Marilyn's love for God and others. Years ago, when my family and I were going through a difficult time, Marilyn fasted and prayed for us for three days. God answered her prayers and had mercy on us. We will always be grateful.

Carmen and Bryan Roe

August 26, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. We will miss Marilyn, but we rejoice with you knowing she is completely happy, healthy and alive in heaven. May our Lord comfort you during this time of separation and sorrow, until the day we all see Marilyn again.

August 26, 2009

My deepest sympathy of all of you. I e-mailed my memories of Marilyn to Daryl. You are in my prayers always. With love, your cousin, Jackie Votapka

Dorothy Prugh

August 26, 2009

My prayers are with you at this time. I am Marilyn's cousin and she was always fun to play with when we visited Washington. I will always remember her energy and laughter. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Dorothy Prugh (Dotty Fleckenstein)

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