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Brian Gower Obituary
Brian drifted off to heaven in his sleep peacefully on Sunday, January 15, 2023.
Brian was born in San Mateo, CA to Dan and Agnes Gower on March 28, 1967, their fifth child, where he lived his whole life. He was a graduate of Hillsdale High School and a student of the College of San Mateo.
Brian was an exceptional craftsman and carpenter, serving as a journeyman in the Carpenters Union #217 for over 25 years. When Brian retired, he was vice-president of the family business, Gowers Pacific Insulation and Acoustic Co., Inc.
Anyone who knew Brian knew he was passionate about music, cars and firearms (although not a hunter). He loved nothing more than a fun day at the track or a rock concert. Brian looked forward to his annual four-wheeling trips with his buddies. There were too many to name here. We would like to thank all his friends who loved and looked after him through the years, you know who you are. Brian was a good and kind man, loved by all who knew him.
He will be especially missed by his cat, "Spike," his brother Bruce and sister-in-law Sarah, the older and always protective sister for 45 years.
A special thanks to John Cobble for always looking out for Brian's best interests.
He is preceded in death by his parents, older sister Deborah and brothers Dan and Dave.
He is survived by Bruce and Sarah and her loving extended family (and "Spike," too).
He was the best friend a brother could ever ask for.
Rest in Peace, Brother Brian.
Service set for Wednesday January 25, 2023 at Sneider & Sullivan, in San Mateo.
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Frank Croaro
March 2, 2025
My heart goes out to the Gower family especially Bruce about the passing of his younger brother Brian.
I grew up in Fiesta Gardens on Salisbury Street and knew the whole family. Dave and I were good friends as kids along with his older brother Dan. It was heartbreaking when Dan passed due to a motorcycle accident and soon after my childhood good friend Dave, Dan´s younger brother passed as well due to a motorcycle accident. I knew how Dan and Dave´s death deeply affected Bruce, but Brian was an inspiration to Bruce. God bless the Gower family
Steve Benner
January 6, 2025
Truly sorry to learn of Brian´s passing. I always appreciated Brian and his love for cars, rock music, killer stereo systems, and was just a really cool guy. Bruce and Sarah, I hope this note finds you both well. I think of you both often. Love to you both.... Steve
Russell E Cunningham
January 20, 2023
I knew Brain most of my life, we had good times & we had sad times. I'll away's remember going with brian & bruce in bruces 1979 convertable trans am my first concert to my favorite band journey. See you on the other side
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