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Kurt Simon Obituary

Sept. 22, 1913 - Jan. 8, 2013
SOUTH BEND - Kurt Simon, 99, passed away peacefully in his home January 8, 2013. Kurt was born September 22, 1913, in Enkirch, Germany, to the late Gottfried and Johanna (Herrmann) Simon. In 1930, at the age of 16, he made the difficult decision to leave a near war-struck Germany to start a future in the United States. He arrived in South Bend on a Friday afternoon, registered for classes at Central High School on Saturday, and started school Monday morning. He graduated from Central in 1931 and then became the first Jewish student to enroll at the University of Notre Dame, where he graduated in 1935 with a Bachelor's of Science in Commerce. He was the director of sales at Simon Brothers, and then became president and chairman of the board. Under his leadership, Simon Brothers became one of the largest wholesale foods and industrial supplies distributors in the area. During WW II Kurt worked at the Bendix Corporation in the packing and shipping department, helping the war effort. Kurt kept an eye on his family overseas, and as conditions became worse for German Jews, Kurt urged his parents to leave Germany. It took him nearly two years to convince them to come to America. On July 4, 1937, his parents, his sister and a blind uncle arrived in South Bend, Indiana. Kurt provided a home for them all. On March 12, 1942, Kurt married Tessye Dounn. They were married for 59 years before her passing in 2001. They had one son, Robert, who passed away in 1990. Kurt is survived by his companion, Mary Lou Gordon. She was his loyal partner and caregiver for over 10 years. Together they enjoyed family, the community, faith and traveled to the home of Kurt's birth in Enkirch, Germany, where they visited Kurt's family home. Also surviving are nieces, Carol (David) Cohen, Marge (Harold) Steinberg, and Gertrude "Shish" Rubin; and grandnieces and grandnephews, Jeffery (Aime) Cohen, Michael (Leah) Cohen, Eric Steinberg, Jennifer (Grant) Conroy, Terry Rubin, Wendy (Rob) Johnson, Laurie Rubin (Nick Carlos), and David (Carol) Rubin. Surviving cousins include Charles "Chuck" (Linda) Simon, Lucy Simon Rakov, and second cousins, Susan (Vince) Semosen, Victoria "Vicky" (Kathy Sennell) Rakov, Simon (Suzanne) Rakov, Ellyn Ray (Mark) McCaffry, and Karyn Jaye (Shane) Galloway. Kurt also has many great-grandnieces and great-grandnephews who mourn his passing. He is also mourned by many loving members of the Gordon family and the entire Jewish community. As a tireless community leader, humanitarian and philanthropist, Kurt leaves a legacy with his gifts, stories, humor, and his great desire to help as many people as he could - often identifying the need on his own, not needing to be asked. He and Tessye's personal commitment and philanthropic contributions have been a beacon of light in the Jewish Community, as well as South Bend as a whole. During his lifetime, Kurt and Tessye established numerous initiatives in the community including: In 1998, Kurt and Tessye's leadership and vision inspired them to make the long-held dream of the entire Jewish community a reality by enabling the Jewish Federation of St. Joseph Valley to begin construction of the Kurt and Tessye Simon Community Building on the Jewish Federation campus. This center for the Jewish community remained a source of pride and inspiration for Kurt during the last decade of his life as it has flourished into a place where Jews and non-Jews come together to learn, celebrate, and grow. The Kurt and Tessye Simon Education Center, Temple Beth-El, built in 1993, provided a large and modern classroom space for Temple's educational programs. This gift provides a warm and nurturing environment for everyone who walks through Temple's doors and is a part of providing Temple's children a place to develop a love and enthusiasm for Judaism. The Kurt and Tessye Simon Fund for Holocaust Remembrance at Temple Beth-El in the hope that people can learn to protect one another from prejudice, hate and violence. The Kurt and Tessye Simon Foundation was established in 1975 to strengthen the ties between the Jewish population and the greater Michiana Community, by sponsoring an Annual Institute on Judaism for area clergy and educators at Temple Beth-El. In addition, the Foundation underwrites all Adult education programs at the Temple and often provides grants for educational programs broadcast on public radio and television. The Robert Simon Leadership Development Award was established at the Jewish Federation of St. Joseph Valley in 1990, in memory of Kurt and Tessye's beloved son Robert, and a similar fund at Temple Beth-El was designed to develop future leaders in the Temple community. Well-known for their strong interest in Jewish Studies, particularly studies that relate to the Holocaust, Kurt and Tessye created the Kurt and Tessye Simon Endowment for Excellence in Jewish Studies at Notre Dame University which has supported a number of Jewish Studies initiatives for the Notre Dame community including Holocaust related projects on campus. In the South Bend community, Kurt served on numerous boards, including at the age of 95, serving on the Foundation Board Memorial Hospital. Kurt was one of the original visionaries, champions, and first contributors for the new home for the Memorial Children's Hospital. Both he and Mary Lou were loyal supporters of the local Ronald McDonald Family Room. Kurt was a longtime, generous supporter of WNIT; his contributions made many programs available to the Michiana community. WNIT produced a documentary on his life this past fall, 2012 and it will be aired again this weekend in his memory. His other passions and contributions to the community include the Indiana University Foundation, the Scholarship Foundation of Saint Joseph County, the Boys and Girls Club of Saint Joseph County and Hospice of Saint Joseph County. Kurt supported many international initiatives, including B'nai B'rith International. One of his passions close to his heart was the Kurt and Tessye Simon Fund for Temple Beth-El Seniors to live with dignity. Kurt also was a strong supporter of the arts, symphony, and healthcare throughout the community. He lived by the motto, "Do your giving while you're living." May his memory be a blessing and his actions an example to us all. Funeral services will be held on Friday, January 11, at 11:00 AM at Temple Beth-El, 305 West Madison Street, South Bend, IN 46601. Burial will be at Hebrew Orthodox Cemetery, Mishawaka, IN. In lieu of flowers, please make memorial donations to Temple Beth-El, The Jewish Federation of St. Joseph Valley, or Memorial Health Foundation. To send condolences to the family, please visit www.McGannHay.com.

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Published by South Bend Tribune from Jan. 9 to Jan. 11, 2013.

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January 15, 2013

My name is Jim Thomas. I live now in McAllen,tx. I have known Kurt all of my life. The Simons helped my parents thru the depression and been friends all of their lives.I went to work when they opened their new warehouse. In 1968,I moved to Texas,but stayed in contack with them for many years later. I am sorry to hear about Kurt on his passing.Every time I come to town He was always on my mind. Jim Thomas

Valerie Beshea ( Barna)

January 14, 2013

We will miss you, Kurt. Thank you for being a dear friend to my sweet Aunt Mary Lou.

Jon Barna

January 11, 2013

We will all miss ya Uncle Kurt! Thanks for being a part of our family and for blessing us with your kindness and uplifting spirit.

James Weaver

January 11, 2013

I cannot imagine what the kingdom of heaven must have in store for you Reb Simon. Not so much for the works you have done in your lifetime but for the humility and zest for all life you exhibited in bestowing your wisdom and generosity upon all whom you have touched. I did not get to meet you until a few years ago but that short meeting left me with no doubt that I had been given the privilege of meeting one of the greatest and most humble people in my lifetime. May you rest in peace and glory forever.

Barbara Goraczewski

January 10, 2013

My Deepest Sympathy to Kurts family! He will be missed! RIP

Dave and Vicki Barna

January 9, 2013

We will miss you, Kurt. You were a blessing to our family.

Aimee Cohen

January 9, 2013

I am married to one of Kurt's great nephews, and was lucky to get to know him well over the past 13 years. Uncle Kurt more like a grandfather than an uncle to us both, and we will miss this funny, gentle, and kind man terribly. On a personal note, I am forever thankful that he was able to bring his sister and parents over from Germany; my husband and our two children would not be here today without that accomplishment.

Rest in peace, Uncle Kurt. You led an amazing life and helped so many people with your generosity. We love you and miss you already.

January 9, 2013

A life we respected..........fond memories of you, Mr. Simon.

Linnie Hilde

Chip Healy

January 9, 2013

In the local food service business he was a well liked and respected giant amongst men.

The man was a credit to his family, community and God. The world needs more men like him. Rest in peace Mr. Simon.

Barbara Klingbeil

January 9, 2013

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Kim Bowman

January 9, 2013

Ahh that laugh, that big smile and laugh. Safe travels to the next world Kurt. Thank you for all you have done for mankind. You will be missed.

Kim B.

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