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Thomas Strickler Obituary

Thomas F. Strickler

Sept. 26, 1950 - June 22, 2019

GRANGER, IN - Thomas F. Strickler peacefully and painlessly passed away Saturday afternoon, June 22, at his sister Martha's home in Granger, Indiana. He succumbed to a very brief battle with pancreatic cancer, of which he was diagnosed just eight weeks prior.

Tom was one in a million.

Anyone who ever had the good fortune to share a few moments with Tom would quickly realize that he was a great guy. He had an uncommon knack for making folks feel at ease, was always comfortable sharing a laugh, and capable of chatting about all things. Tom was the guy you wanted sitting next to you on the bar stool.

Tom possessed a wonderful kindness of heart, and yet at the same time carried a strength not many could imagine. Tom and his former loving wife, Jan, endured the loss of their only child, Katheryn June, at the far too young and innocent age of 16 as a result of juvenile diabetes. Kate was forever in Tom's heart.

Tom's accomplishments were many. He graduated from the Recruit Training Command, Great Lakes and served in the U.S. Navy both in active and reserve duties. Before and following this accomplishment, Tom pursued several academic paths leading him to advanced degrees from prestigious universities both in the U.S., and Ireland, where he studied Anglo-Irish Literature at Trinity College in Dublin. Tom achieved degrees in Classics, Theology, and ultimately, his law degree from Indiana University, Bloomington, Indiana.

Tom began his own law practice in 1987 and grew the business into a successful practice specializing in criminal defense. Tom believed every person is entitled to the help of someone who will pursue fair justice on their behalf and work so that the penalty matches the crime...no more...no less.

As one of Tom's closest friends recently said, “Please put your arms around him and give him a big hug. Give him our love and tell him he will be remembered as the ancient Greeks remembered their heroes”.

Tom was a humble man and would agree his greatest life accomplishments may best be reflected by a Buddha quote:

“In the end, only three

things matter:

how much you loved,

how gently you lived,

and how gracefully you let

go of things not meant for

you.”

Tom will be dearly missed by his sister Martha of Granger, brother Pat of Wisconsin, brother Dave of Massachusetts, and niece Elizabeth of Denver, the daughter of the family's deceased sister Sarah. Tom is also survived by a large number of nephews, nieces, and cousins, and many many others who hold his memory close and forever in their hearts. Tom was preceded in death by his mother, June Cawley Strickler, his father, Robert Strickler, and his sisters, Sarah and Ellen Strickler.

At Tom's request, there will be no memorial and we ask that those who wish to honor him do so among themselves over their favorite beverage, remembering him with a smile on their face and a laugh in their heart.

The family requests that any donations in Tom's memory be made on Katheryn June's behalf to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation International at www.jdrf.org. Family and friends may leave e-mail condolences at www.welsheimer.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by South Bend Tribune on Jun. 30, 2019.

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Dave Strickler

June 22, 2025

Six years have passed. Many many happy, loving, memories help, but man what we wouldn't give to have with us. Love ya Tom ❤

Dave Strickler

June 22, 2025

Six years ago today we lost a brother, an uncle, but most of all ... a true FRIEND. Many many happy memories help ease the pain -- but man, what we wouldn't give to have you here. Love ya Tom ❤

Charles Holmes

February 7, 2024

I'm just not finding out that you passed You was a great man and you would always be missed.

Kitty Grupp

August 23, 2021

The Strickler's were family friends growing up. I always liked Tommy. He was just easy to be with and fun. I saw him a couple of times over the years in Boulder and again in Seattle. My sister's Judy and Terry also remember him with love. Tommy you lived a genuine life and affected so many with your kindness and compassion. Thanks for the memory of you,

Mike Posey

October 23, 2019

John 11:35

Jesus wept for the loss of His friend Lazarus. We weep for our the loss of our friend, Thomas Strickler.

Mike Posey

October 23, 2019

https://youtu.be/RM5aW83L_DE

Mike Posey

October 23, 2019

Thank you for being you, thank GOD..!! As it goes the good pass on young, you are one of the good ones. I just found out yesterday, never seen it coming I apologize. THANK YOU for ALL the good you did while here, thank GOD. We're eternal spiritual creatures having a temporary human experience passing on to the next, where ever or what ever that might be. Tom Strickler compassionate caring GREAT guy, with a smile for all..!! :} IF their's anything I can do to help 508-251-9052, thank you.

Mike Posey

October 22, 2019

You ARE missed Chancellor..!! SF

Mike Posey

October 22, 2019

Doug LiBassi

October 18, 2019

Such sad news. I was friends with Tom while at St. Bonaventure when he was studying theology. Tom's wisdom, grace and laughter are qualities I remember well. He was an amazing man and I will always cherish my memories of him. Rest in peace, my friend.

Susan Ferrell

October 12, 2019

We loved you and will miss you. You are family even as time has passed. Mom was there with Aunt June when you entered this world. May your family find peace in God's love. Thinking of all our Strickler family. With love and deepest sympathy. The Hardy family-Your Aunt Faye, Susan, Eileen, Bill, and Bob , your cousins and our entire family.

September 26, 2019

Happy Birthday Bro. You are missed more than anyone could ever imagine. We keep you in our hearts, our dreams and our laughter. Just not the same without you buddy. Love you bushels and bushels,
Brother Dave

Christian Sofhauser

September 17, 2019

Tom was a father to me. His daughter and I were the best of friends since we were children. Tom will be deeply missed. We spoke briefly years after Kate's death but he said it was too difficult because I reminded him of Kate.

Tom you will be deeply missed.

Patricia Smith/Jesensky

August 7, 2019

Tom was an amazing person ❤ he would also make people laugh even if they didn't want to he touched a lot of people's hearts and was good at his work.... I'm so sorry for the families lost may be rest in peace and forever be in our hearts.... You'res truly the jesenskys and averys

Rose Mary Town

July 18, 2019

Tom was a beautiful person inside and out. He was married to my niece Jan. I was blessed and fortunate to have knowing Tom. To all of his family I am so sorry for your loss. Rose Mary(Rosie) Town

Doug Winslow-Nason

July 13, 2019

Tom and I went to law school together. He was one of the most interesting and funny and caring people I ever met, and we became fast friends. He came out to California after I graduated and lived with us for a few months in the Lake Tahoe area. He worked at a brewery and pizza parlor which seemed to suit him just fine. He had the ability to fit in anywhere and was accepting of (almost) anybody. The world is a lesser place without Tommy . A much lesser place.

July 4, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for the family.

Larry Frazin

July 2, 2019

My sincere condolences to the family and friends. Larry Frazin Central High School Class of 1969

Lisa Patrick

July 2, 2019

Our condolences to the family. Mr Strickler was our attorney. Always had a minute to help someone. I'm grateful to have known him. RIP

Dorcas Eaton

July 1, 2019

Tom tou were more than my lawyer you were my friend i will always remember all the good things you have done for the people of southbend

Chiante' Taylor

July 1, 2019

Tom I'll miss you and forever grateful for believing in people who make stupid decisions but you put your heart into their cases to prevent prison time ik you dancing with your daughter.

Love Chiante'Taylor

Pam Shabazz

July 1, 2019

OMG. Rest in Heaven Tom. Such a nice man.

Harold Brueseke

July 1, 2019

My sincere sympathy and concern to the entire Strickler family. Tom was a dedicated, well prepared, and articulate advocate for his clients as well as the rule of law. When he apppeared before me it was clear that his client was being well served. May you all be supported by the care and comfort of friends as well as by the many memories you share together.

Harold E. Brueseke
Retired Magistrate, St. Joseph Probate Court

Ken Harkins

June 30, 2019

I had Tom for atty back in late 80's, and right there when I met him for the first time I knew he was the right attorney for me he made me feel comfortable I didn't have all the money and he said don't worry about it just get what you can in we'll get this thing squashed!! And he did I was telling me about what happened I'll never forget that smile that laugh man he was a very good guy very good guy you will be missed mr. Strickler God bless you brother

Jamie Winston

June 30, 2019

You will forever be missed. Thank you for everything. I KNOW you and my Gammie will be there watching over us all together now!! Rest in Paradise!! ❤❤❤

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