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James Zupkofska WEYMOUTH James J. Zupkofska, of Weymouth, a Norfolk County Correction Officer, died Saturday, August 22, 2009 at the South Shore Hospital in Weymouth at age 45. Born in Boston, he was raised and educated in Quincy. He worked for 15 years in the Tunnel Workers Union Local 88, operating a tunnel boring machine. In 2004, Jim started his career with the Norfolk County Sheriff's Office where he was a member of the Honor Guard, the elite Sheriff's Response Team and the mountain bike unit. Each year, he was a key participant in the NCSO's Jail & Bail fundraiser for the MDA. In superb physical condition, he competed in triathlons, including one last year to benefit the American Cancer Society and belonged to the Bayshore Athletic Club. A member of the Braintree Yacht Club, he loved boating and was an avid scuba diver, a member of the South Shore Divers and Coast Guard Auxiliary. He and his wife Laurie were volunteers for Meals on Wheels, enjoying his visits and chats with his elderly clients. The beloved husband for 15 years of Laurie C. (Givens), he was the loving son of the late James Zupkofska and Virginia "Ginny" (Callahan) St. Angelo and his step-father Daniel St. Angelo of Quincy. Beloved grandson of Kay Callahan of Quincy. He was the dear brother of Robert Zupkofska of Quincy and Kim Griffin and her husband Brian of Milton, son-in-law of Leila Pratt of East Charleston, VT, brother-in-law of Amy Syiek of Littleton, uncle of Steven and Robert Zupkofska and William Hall-Givens and is also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Visiting hours will be held from 4:00 to 8:00pm on Thursday, August 27 at the Dennis Sweeney Funeral Home, 74 Elm St., Quincy Center. There will be a gathering at the Funeral Home on Friday at 10:00 am, followed by a Funeral Mass at 11:00 am at Holy Trinity Parish, Most Blessed Sacrament Church, 1017 Sea St., Quincy. Cremation will follow. Donations in Jim's memory may be made to Meals on Wheels, 182 Green St., Weymouth MA 02191 or South Shore Habitat for Humanity, 22 River St., Braintree, MA 02184 or sshabitat.org. For directions and online guest book, please visit www.dennissweeney funeralhome.com 617-773-2728

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Published by The Patriot Ledger on Aug. 26, 2009.

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Jim & Donna Norton

September 25, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy goes out to your whole family. May he rest in peace.

Amy Syiek

September 8, 2009

Jim was the light in my sisters eyes, the rock of his family, a positive role model for my son and someone you just knew would have a good tall tale to make you laugh. His ability to stay above the negative influencers and stand strong will never go away. His legacy will live on in all the lives he touched. Amy

Sonya Haggerty

September 2, 2009

Kim and Family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Jimmy always smiling. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sonya (Gruchy) Haggerty

Deb Meenan Picarski

September 1, 2009

Bobby & Kim,

When we (Jay and I) went through the line at the wake both of you were outside and we didn't get to talk to you. I wanted you both to know how deeply sorry I am for the loss of your wonderful brother. As you know, he and I were the Godparents for my nephew, Tim. Jim played a HUGE role in Tim's life and he is the man he is today because of the love he received from Jim. The world has lost a TRUE HERO... He will forever be missed by our family.

With love and sympathy,

Debbie Meenan Picarski

john barry

August 31, 2009

To all of you

Sorry for your loss I worked with Jim in local 88 god bless your family

John Barry
Quincy MA

Steve Roche

August 30, 2009

Keeping you in our prayers, was great seeing Jim at our 25th reunion, he had a way of brightening the room, always a smile, hug or a fun word for everyone. A terrible loss. He will be thought of with great affection for his big heart and selfless contributions to everyone. God bless you all but know he is at home with God.
Steve & Susan (Whitman) Roche,

Connie Orcutt

August 30, 2009

Dear Laurie,

I've been out of town this week, and I was shocked and so saddened to hear about Jim. I hadn't met him but had heard over the years about the wonderful relationship the two of you have. You have been in my thoughts every day since I was informed of the accident. Please let us know at the hospital if there is anything at all we can do for you or your family.

With warm regards,

Nancy MacDonald

August 29, 2009

Laurie,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Jimmy was such a sweet, kind and wonderful man. He always had a smile and kind words for me everytime when I would see him at your old gym (World Gym). It's so very sad that he was taken from us much too early.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

L B

August 29, 2009

To Jimmy's family,

May you know that an angel has been called home. Jimmy will be forever in our hearts. Rest in peace Zup we will miss you.

Pat Clements-Cilley

August 29, 2009

To Jimmy's Family,
I had the pleasure of meeting and working with Jimmy about tweny five years ago at a distribution center in Randolph, MA. He was a great kid and like a little brother to me.He had a heart of gold,great enthusiasm and an infectious smile.I was very sad to read about his death but at the same time I am so happy to see how much he was loved and how he passionately he embraced life!
Good for you Jimmy!

August 28, 2009

To the family,

I did not know Jim well but he was a person that you knew was genuine and sincere the first time you met him. Truly a rare human being.He had a gracious spirit and a kind heart. He touched so many lives and all will remember him with love.

May the family and friends honor beautiful memories, celebrate his gracious spirit and grive this painful loss while remembering a wonderful life.

Michele Mantia and Family

August 28, 2009

To Kim and Family,

My thoughts are with you during the loss of your brother. Words can not describe the grief your feeling,especially a sudden loss. Love and prayers.

August 28, 2009

Laurie,

Words alone, no matter how thoughtful, no matter how deeply felt, no matter how well intentioned will ever be able to assuage the grief and shock that you and the rest of Jim's family is feeling right now. But know that our love and hearts go out to you in your time of need and you and Jim are in our thoughts and prayers.

Laurie you have been our friend, our sister, our family and our blood for over 25 years. When you brought Jim into our lives we knew instantly that he was the greatest of men and that he too would become our friend and family. Our world is a less happy place without Jim smiling and joking in it and making us all better for sharing our time with him.

Rest in peace your dear, dear friend. You will be missed.

Love Nick and Gladys Agneta

Steve Sylva

August 28, 2009

Jimmy was a truly a good man and the world is a sadder place when a man like him is taken .

Kevin Riggs

August 28, 2009

To Bobby Zupkofska and family,
My heart goes out to you in this time of great loss... You are in my Prayers.
Kevin Riggs

August 27, 2009

To the Zupkofska Family,
I had the pleasure of working a few times with Jim at Gillette Stadium for events. He was a good officer and a credit to the law enforcement field. He was the type that I can say I was proud to serve with. I wish I could have gotten to know him better because from everything I have been told he was a truly good man. To Jim, Rest in Peace my brother.

Kevin Fuoco
Attleboro Police

Carolyn Pecevich

August 27, 2009

To the Zupkofska Family,

Words cannot express how truly sorry I am for your loss! Zuppa was a kindhearted person and friend. He always had a smile on his face and something nice to say! Know that he loved you all so much and that his family meant the world to him. He lived life to the fullest. He will remembered for so many wonderful things. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Try to find comfort in knowing that you all have a guardian angel to watch over you! R.I.P Zuppa!

Chrissy Damata

August 27, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to Jimmy's wife, family and all who feel this tragic loss. You all have a wonderful angel looking over you now.

August 27, 2009

Kim,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother. Its sounds like he was truly living a life that most people only dream about. Please know his awesome spirit will always be somewhere.

I wish you peace during this difficult time. Always remember that you have friends and we are here for you, so if there is anything you need, please don't hesitate to ask.

We love you and miss you! Love always, Karen,Denise, Christine, Tommy, Sean & Anita Curran

Kathie Wescott

August 27, 2009

Hi Kim I havent seen you in awhile but my deepest condolences to you Ginny and Bobby and Jimmys family my thoughts and prayers are with you always lots of love.

Pam Norton

August 27, 2009

Kim, Bobby and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your familie during this difficult time. Know that you have a Guardian Angel above watching over all of you.

TM

August 27, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Zupkofska family. While I did not know Jim, I too am a runner and was so saddened by his untimely death while doing something he loved and felt safe doing. May your memories bring you comfort in this time of unimaginable sorrow.

Tm

August 27, 2009

My thought's and prayers are with Jim's family at this most difficult time, I didn't know him well but we would shoot the breeze at bayshore gym from time to time, I will miss seeing him.

M K

August 27, 2009

I did not know this man but my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We owe this young man a debt of gratitude for his service to our country and to our community.

As a family member of a law enforcement officer, I will pray that you will find comfort in the memories of the wonderful times and strength in the prayers and good thoughts being offered for you today and the many days to come.

Maryellen Dillon

August 27, 2009

Dear Laurie and the Zupkosfska family,
Jim was truly a great and caring man. The first time I met him was at a horrific car crash on Summer Street in 07/02. He stayed with the woman, even while her car caught fire, keeping her calm until the paramedics showed up. He stayed the whole night until 7a. I really got to know him that night and saw what a brave and kind hearted person he was. I will never forget that about him. I saw him jogging all the time and he would come over and talk to my son and his friends while they sat on my front steps. He was such an outgoing and friendly guy. Our neighborhood has indeed lost a great hero and outstanding man. Laurie, so you know, you do have neighbors that are here for you. Your family is in my prayers.

Ann Marie Grant-Cowing

August 27, 2009

Kim & Bobby & Family,
My heart aches for you all. So many of us have lossed a sibling at such a young and vibrant age. You don't get over it, you just get through it. Your don't get by it, because you can't get around it. It doesn't 'get better'; it just gets different. Everyday... Grief puts on a new face....I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love. If the future seems overwhelming, remember that it comes one moment at a time.
With love and sympathy

Delia & Wayne Strohm

August 27, 2009

Dearest Laurie & family, we were so shocked to hear of Jimmy's passing. Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to you all on your tragic loss. Laurie, we have the most wonderful memories of Jimmy and will always remember the fun times we had together...I don't think I ever saw him without a smile on his face. He was a great guy with a heart of gold...a true inspiration to us all, he'll be missed terribly and never be forgotten. May God bless you all and give you strength to get through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. all our love and sympathy, Delia & Wayne Strohm

Paul Zupofska and Family

August 26, 2009

God Bless Jimmy and family~ Paul Zupofska "Jokey's Son" of Brockton (Formerly South Boston).

781-771-3053

Colleen Donnellan

August 26, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Mike Casey

August 26, 2009

Mr. Zupkska,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for the citizens of Norfolk County. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Lori Warren-Marini

August 26, 2009

To all of Jimmy's friends and family-- You are in are prayers. I grew up accross the the Zupkofska's down the "neck" and friends with Kim when we were just kids. Jimmy was a great guy, evertime my husband and I would bump into him somewhere he was just so happy and talking about his scuba trips- My husband went to school with Jimmy and worked with him at DiBona's and we both agree that just the happiest, friendliest guy around-
My thoughts are with all of you..
Lori Warren-Marini & Paul Marini
He will be missed..

Rob Powers

August 26, 2009

My deepest sympathies go out to the Zupkofska family and everyone who knew Jimmy.

Joe Monahan

August 26, 2009

To the Zupkofska family,

Know that in the coming days and weeks that pass, as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Very rarely in life do you have the opportunity and pleasure of knowing someone who is held in such high regard and loved by so many.

I will miss you Jim!

kim zupkofska

August 26, 2009

thank you all for your kind words, thoughts, and prayers. my brother was a good man. and jimmy is an angel, he is my hero, always... i will live in memory of him and try to do good to all people. when ever you walk away or hang up the phone from someone you love always tell them you love them. my last words were "i love you bro, see ya sunday at ma's"

Sue Beale

August 26, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Chuck Creighton

August 26, 2009

Such a good person taken from us too early. I send my sincere condolences along with thoughts and prayers to the entire family.

Chuck Creighton

August 26, 2009

So sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.

John and Lori Leonard

Anne Hallisey

August 26, 2009

To Jimmy's Family;

You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May fond memories of Jimmy bring you comfort in the days ahead. God has a new angel to look over all of you. God Bless.

Debe Padula

August 26, 2009

Ginny, Bobby, Kim, and Laurie
Jimmy was a great person, he will be missed by many. Please accept my deepest sympathies in your time of sorrow.

Donna & Howie Chadbourne

August 26, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Joe and Gayle Richardson

August 26, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers and Jimmy will be sadly missed.

A K

August 26, 2009

My prayers to you and your family during this difficult time !!
God Bless Jimmy and God Bless his Family !! You will be missed !!

A.K.

Rose Kelley

August 26, 2009

The world has lost a true man. There are way to few men in this world built with character,compassion,friendship and the zest for life and family like Jimmy had. Our hearts go out to you Laurie your family and the Zupkofska family....Be strong and "God Bless" you all....Jimmy will truly be missed.

Rose, Scott, Shannon & Dylan

August 26, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. Jim always had a smile on his face and adored his wife and family. He will be sadly missed.

Maryellen and Scott Anson

Maureen Duffy

August 26, 2009

So very sorry for the loss of your Husband, Son, Brother, Nephew, Uncle, Cousin and Friend.

Sincerely,
Maureen Duffy
****Mackenzie(Callahan)Jernstedt's
****Mother In-Law

Stacey Sylvester

August 26, 2009

Ms. Zupkofska & Family: "Zuppa" was a wonderful man. He was admired, respected and liked by everyone. He will be missed. I will continue to pray for each of you. He will always be your guardian Angel watching over you. My deepest sympathy.

Lynne Maze

August 26, 2009

Sis, Bobby, Kim & Laurie,

Jimmy was one in a million. He always made me smile, no matter how I was feeling. "Death is something that no one can heal, Love is something that no one can steal" and Jimmy shared his love with everyone he met. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lynne

Elizabeth (Betsy) Comproni

August 26, 2009

You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I ony had the good fortune of meeting Jimmy at Kim's wedding shower and then her wedding. It was obvious from those two meetings that he was a dynamic and energetic individual that loved his sister and family very much. God bless you all.

Tricia Fox

August 26, 2009

I am so sorry to hear the news about Jimmy. He was a very special person and always had a smile on his face. He left a lasting impression with everybody he has ever had contact with and will always be remembered dearly. God Bless. Tricia (Monahan) Fox and Family.

Mattie McDonald

August 26, 2009

To Jimmy's Family,

Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. Jimmy was one of a kind - his smile was like none other. His love of life touched all who knew him. Jimmy you will be missed by all who knew you, many hearts ache now and will for a longtime. We will never forget you & that smile. Love Mattie & Linda.

Cheryl McCall Eliason

August 26, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the
Zupkofska/Callahan family. Jimmy was a great guy and a true friend to anyone he met. He will sadly be missed.

Cheryl McCall Eliason

M K

August 26, 2009

Thinking of you and your family during these difficult days. Thank you for your service to our country and to our community.

Melisa Russell

August 26, 2009

I will remember Jimmy as always having a giant smile and a possitive attitude in everything he did. Flexing his muscles and telling us to always stay in good health. He was a gentle Giant and a wonderful man.
Ginny,Bobby,Kimmy. My prayers are with you and your entire family. Much Much love.oxox
Melisa Russell Goodchild.

MIKE MOLISSE

August 26, 2009

Laurie, I am so sorry to hear of this tragic accident, I always enjoyed talking to you and Jim, he was such a Great Guy and will be missed by so many.
My sincere condolences to you at this very difficult time.
Sincerely Mike Molisse

Peter Davey

August 26, 2009

Zuppa, I am glad to have known you and you will be in my thoughts and prayers. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and God will watch over them as will you.

Melisa Russell

August 26, 2009

How I will remember My friend Jimmy.
Always with a possitive attitude. Giant smile. flexing his muscles for us and making us laugh, always telling us to stay healthy make some thing of your lives. Do good in the world. He set a great example.He will be missed. Ginny,Bobby, Kim & Family
Much love oxox
Melisa Russell Goodchild

A Neighbor

August 26, 2009

I did not know James personally, but I live in the neighborhood. Just want to express my deepest sympathy to his friends and family, what a tragic loss. I am keeping his family in my prayers. May God Bless him and his family during this sad time.

Michele Gott

August 26, 2009

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. There are no words, only love for you all....

Michele Holbrook-Gott

Christine Quinlan

August 26, 2009

Dear Bobby, Kim, Mama Zup & Laurie
There are no words to ease your pain right now, so I wont even try. I am just so very sorry. May you find comfort in knowing that you all have friends and family that love and care about you all, hopefully you will find strength in that to get thru this horrible time.
If you need anything - I'm here.
-Christine Quinlan

Donald Noll

August 26, 2009

Jim,
You will be sadly missed may god bless you. I will cherish all our memories.

August 26, 2009

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Donna Berg Strangis

August 26, 2009

Kim and Bobby,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Jimmy was a great guy. He was always so friendly whenever we bumped into eachother. Whether I saw him a week before or a year before, he was always so friendly. My prayers are with you two, as well as his wife. Losing Wayne was so hard, I will pray for your heart to heal soon. God Bless, and lots of love! Donna (Berg)

Kathy Spencer

August 26, 2009

I always said you were an Angel on earth!!! Now it is time to spread your wings!! May God bless your family and give them the strength to go on. You will be in our hearts untill we meet again!! all our Love Kathy, John Tim,your Loving God Son and Casey

GEORGE BOUCHARD

August 26, 2009

jimmmy was one of the very few good one's... a person that would give you the shirt off his back... i will miss you my friend from the days in g-town during our youth... you will truly be missed in many ways...

August 26, 2009

Our prayers are with your whole family. Jim was a great man with a hugh heart. Only positive things out of his mouth. We will miss him dearly. LOL The Concannons

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