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Robert Deshler Obituary

Quincy Robert C. Deshler, Sr. of Quincy died Feb. 21 at the Quincy Medical Center, he was 84 years old. Robert leaves behind his beloved wife of 63 years, Virginia (Lane) Deshler. He was the loving father of Robert C. Jr. and his wife Kathleen, William P. and his wife Diane, Virginia M. all of Quincy, and the late Donna Frazier of Florida. He was the dear "Papa" of Paul, Christopher, Keith, Ryan, William, Brian, and Brandon Deshler, John and David Frazier, and the late Henry and Robbie Frazier. He is also survived by 6 great grandchildren, He was the devoted brother of the late James, George, and Thomas Deshler, Bertha Lyons and Dorothy Duffy. Mr. Deshler was born in Roslindale and grew up in Mission Hill, Roxbury. He was a World War II Veteran with the US Army Core of Engineers. He was a union bricklayer and member of Local 3 Boston for 61 years. He was an avid sports fan, especially the Red Sox. He enjoyed walks with his dog "Max' and building miniature dollhouses. Relatves and friends are respectfully invited to attend the Funeral Service Tuesday at 7 p.m. in the Lydon Chapel for Funerals, 644 Hancock St., Quincy. Visiting hours prior to the service from 4-7 p.m.. Burial will be private in the Bourne National Cemetery. For more information visit www.lydonfuneralchapel.com In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to the Joslin Diabetes Center, one Joslin Place, Boston MA 02215.

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Published by The Patriot Ledger from Feb. 23 to Feb. 25, 2008.

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Charlie & Kellee Reddy

February 29, 2008

Deac,

Sorry to hear about your fathers passing, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy & Dennis Sullivan

February 27, 2008

Deac,
Sorry to hear about the loss of your father. We will always remember, at family get togethers, how happy he was to be with his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Please give our condolences to your mother.

Nancy & Walter

February 27, 2008

Deac,Billy,Ginny & Mrs. Deshler

We are so sorry for your loss. Your father (& husband) was a wonderful man, he will be missed. Our prayers are with you. May he rest in peace

mark melillo

February 27, 2008

DEAC
I am sorry for the loss of your father. I will pray for him

John J McCarthy

February 27, 2008

Our deepest condolences to all the family, we were very saddened to hear of our good friends passing. May he rest in peace.
Jack & Ted McCarthy

Jamie Webber

February 27, 2008

Mr. and Mrs. Deshler (Kathy):
We are sorry to hear about the loss of your Father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families during this difficult time.
Webber Family

Andrea & Steve Sweet (QFD)

February 27, 2008

Paul & Family
We are so sorry for your loss. May happy memories bring you peace and comfort.

Patrice Whitney

February 26, 2008

The Deshler Family
I'm so sorry on the loss of your dad and papa. He was a wonderful man. May he rest in peace and walk eternally with Max by his side.
My deepest sympathies

Regina Kimmel

February 26, 2008

Aunt Viginia and family I am so sorry for your loss!I remember fondly fighting with Uncle Bobby about sports and about how intelligent my father was!!Love regina deshler Kimmel My thoughts and prayers are with you and my cousins. I know how hard the death of a father is.

Barry Gilfeather

February 26, 2008

Bangla Desh,
So very sorry to her about your dads passing.I am sure he had a great life and he was luck enough to make it to 84.I don't remember meeting your dad but I bet "Popeye" would have a few storys to tell! Hang in there and condolences from the Gilfeather family.

Susan Marple

February 25, 2008

Dear Ginny, I was so sad for you when I heard about the loss of your dad. Everyone knew you were very close. My heart goes out to you as you learn to make adjustments in your life without him. I truly do understand. Blessings on you and allyou hold dear. Sincerely Susan

Susan Ruggiano

February 25, 2008

Dear Ginny, my deepest sympathies are with you and your family. May your Dad rest in peace.

Susan
Human Resources, Quincy Medical Center

Janine McCaffrey

February 25, 2008

Ginny,
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad, my thoughts and players are with you and your family.

Mary Brodeur

February 25, 2008

Bill: Please know you and your family are in our prayers at this difficult time. Janice Erler & Mary Brodeur

Kevin Tape

February 25, 2008

To Paul, Chris and the entire Deshler Family: I am sorry for the loss of your Grandfather. Please accept my families deepest sympathies.

The Tape Family

JANINE McCAFFREY

February 24, 2008

Ginny,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Doreen Deshler

February 24, 2008

Aunt Virginia and all my cousins, I am heartfully sorry for the loss of "Uncle Bun" Robert (Sugar) Deshler. Loosing my mom only 7 months ago I can truly feel your sorrow and pain. Please be comforted in the fact that he is now in a much better place where he feels no sorrow or pain and lives in his own mansion. He can go bowling with my mom. I hope to be able to make the wake but I'm not really sure if I can. Know that even though we saw very little of each other that you are all still and always will be in my heart, prayers, and thoughts every day. I love you all and pray that your love for each other will get you through the next few months.

Love,
Doreen Deshler also Diane and Darlene.

Mike Casey

February 23, 2008

Mr. Deshler,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the U.S. Army during WW II and for being a member of the Greatest Generation. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

kerry mcdonough

February 23, 2008

Ginny, im so sorry for your loss. you are in our thoughts and prayers. love kerry, bruce and caroline

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