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Robert McElaney Obituary

Robert McElaney of Brookline, formerly of Quincy, died October 12, 2020, at age 54. Beloved son of Daniel W. McElaney of Fla., and the late Elizabeth (McDermott) McElaney. Also survived by Gillian Stuart Hamer, his father's wife. Devoted brother of Lisa McElaney and her husband Abe Morell of Newton, Kevin McElaney and his wife Nancy Kirk of Milton, Jack McElaney of Turners Falls, Anne McElaney and her husband Phil Rogers of Eden, Utah. Uncle of Brady Morell of Newton, Laura Morell of Raleigh, NC, Joanna McElaney of Poughkeepsie, NY, Kyle McElaney and Samantha McElaney both of Brooklyn, NY. Mentor of Mauro Serrano of Irvine, Calif., and Alicia Lima of Chicago, Ill. Funeral services and interment is private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Rob's memory may be sent to McElaney Family Fund, Nativity Preparatory School, 39 Lamartine St., Jamaica Plain, MA 02130. For further information and to share a note of sympathy with the McElaney family, please visit www.dolanfuneral.com.

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Published by The Patriot Ledger on Oct. 17, 2020.

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Kerry Martin

July 19, 2021

I was so sad to hear this news today - you always were able to bring a smile to my face and cheer me up. Your energy could brighten up any room and everyone wanted to be your friend. You will be missed friend, and not forgotten. Cabbage.

Nunzio Carbone

October 26, 2020

I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Rob, at such a young age, such a great lose.
Rob left me so many childhood memories. He was so different, so cool, so unique. His family was so caring and kind. They welcomed me into their beautiful, warm home, and offered me so many memories of growing up as a kid.
We'd play stick ball in the neighborhood streets but Rob never tired. So we'd end up playing basketball in his driveway for hours. We'd hang out at his (wicked cool) house, fishing through baseball cards and listening to The Clash. Rob was a great kid to hang out with way back in the day, and he grew up to be a successful person to many people! May he rest in peace.

Ellen Burke

October 18, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. Robbie was a great person. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Ellen Corrigan Burke

October 18, 2020

So sorry to hear about Rob's passing. My thoughts are with you all.

Deirdre (Corrigan) Fleming

Cheryl McElman

October 18, 2020

So saddened to hear of the untimely passing of Rob Mac. Great person and friend. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones at this difficult time. RIP Rob.
Cheryl McElman

Jim Kenney

October 16, 2020

We remain shocked and profoundly saddened at the sudden departure of beloved close friend Rob.So many happy memories of times spent with "Brookline Bobby" be it Quincy, Chatham or Hanover. Rob was family, and we cannot remember celebrating a Christmas Eve without Rob in our home. In disbelief we mourn the loss of our friend. We extend sincere condolences to Dan, Lisa, Kevin, Jack and Anne.
RIP Rob
Jim, Ange, Niamh and Gillian Kenney

Fran & Joe Ryan

October 16, 2020

Dear Dan and family, we are very sorry to hear of Robert’s passing. Many fond memories of Rob at our home having breakfast with the boys. We kidded him that that he held the record for pancakes at one sitting. Rob and Paul were good friends and it was always a pleasure to have them together. We pray that your family will find comfort in knowing that Rob was a fine man and that your pain will lessen with the coming days. We will miss him. God bless you and your family.

Billy McCarthy

October 14, 2020

We reconnected after many years, we were doubles partners in tennis at Quincy Tennis Club when we were kids in the seventies. We supported each other on LinkedIn. He started it by liking and sharing anything I posted. I was happy to return the favor. We talked about playing tennis again. The last message I got from him was very typical of Rob. A congratulations and a kind compliment. He sent it to me Friday last week. My condolences to the family, Rob was a real good friend and I am truly saddened at his passing.

Cousin MaryBeth McDermott

October 14, 2020

He was a wonderful man, funny and thoughtful. We were lucky to have him in our family. He will be missed.

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